Here we go again

Hi all Cappy, this is my first time posting on your board. Well I dated a cappy about three years ago and we dated for about 2yr it was a good relationship he was just a flirt and he liked to go out a lot which is in the end what cause our breakup. well I have since had a baby she is a year and everything, I am not still with the guy but I told the cappy we can be friends I just don't understand why every other month he get the feeling to text me like today an hour age he text "hey" I reply "whats up" he replies "I want you".

I think he thinks I am single cause we don't talk that often so he doesn't really know what's happening in my life but I don't know if we could ever be, but Cappy men why do you feel the need to keep contact?

I see your point M, he just replied that "he wants me back" and I replied "So what what are you do about it" he replied "get u back", I just want to see what his intentions are and maybe he has change.

your pretty. just sayin...

Thanks Happy Cappy 🙂

Posted by scorpdiva
Hi all Cappy, this is my first time posting on your board. Well I dated a cappy about three years ago and we dated for about 2yr it was a good relationship he was just a flirt and he liked to go out a lot which is in the end what cause our breakup. well I have since had a baby she is a year and everything, I am not still with the guy but I told the cappy we can be friends I just don't understand why every other month he get the feeling to text me like today an hour age he text "hey" I reply "whats up" he replies "I want you".

I think he thinks I am single cause we don't talk that often so he doesn't really know what's happening in my life but I don't know if we could ever be, but Cappy men why do you feel the need to keep contact?

They can be sentimental.

very sentimental. trust me on this. we love our relationships we make and its hard to let go for some of us...because we feel we put alot of effort in maintaining it. just how we are i guess.

*thumps up and nod*

i need more cap friends. we understand each other even if we have diffrent placements. the ones i know at work, we feel connected lol. always joking with each other. even the young female work mate i have. barely know her but were like family lol. were all diffrent yet the same in a way. my bosses are aquarians and a leo lol. other ork mates are tauruses and a scorp dude. only sign im lacking in is pisces. wish i knew more of this sign...

So the cappy last night at around midnight sent me a pic of his winky, I see him is not going to give up so I will see what other tricks he has up his sleeve, I just feell like if you are serious about getting back together why are trying to be sexual instead of being like let's go out to dinner and talk and see what happens.

Posted by scorpdiva
So the cappy last night at around midnight sent me a pic of his winky, I see him is not going to give up so I will see what other tricks he has up his sleeve, I just feell like if you are serious about getting back together why are trying to be sexual instead of being like let's go out to dinner and talk and see what happens.

Are you single? If not, you should tell him to stop sending you personal pics since you are with someone.

If you are single, and interested, you should ask him why he's being sexual if he wants something serious, just how you said here. You should bring that to his attention.

If you are single, and not interested, then again tell him to cut it out LoL.

Posted by HappyCappy
very sentimental. trust me on this. we love our relationships we make and its hard to let go for some of us...because we feel we put alot of effort in maintaining it. just how we are i guess.

This is so true.

Posted by scorpdiva
So the cappy last night at around midnight sent me a pic of his winky, I see him is not going to give up so I will see what other tricks he has up his sleeve, I just feell like if you are serious about getting back together why are trying to be sexual instead of being like let's go out to dinner and talk and see what happens.

Ehheeh, horny git, lol.

When he says he wants you, he wants you sexually. I'm sure he would have made it clear if he wanted a relationship with you again.

If you don't tell him you don't like what's he doing right now, he'd carry on 'testing' ya. If you want him back or want to have another try with him, tell him. If you ain't interested, please let him know. You can go like 'mmm, baby I missed the look of that rod.. NOT! And oh yeah, fuck off already!' or go like '*chuckle* damn! Really forgotten how it used to look like.Doesn't really do anything for me anymore, sorry. I've got a better one rubing me as we speak..'

Lol, you'd enrage him...

TRY IT if you really want him to back off.

Scorpdiva - A Cap recently tried to talk about sexual attraction with me last week. I put him in his place. I didn't put him down, however, I did let him know what type of behavior I find to be appropriate out of guys that I take seriously and give the time of day to. I kept what I said short sweet and specific to my standards opposed to a judgement call on him. He quickly began to apologize and explain that he did not mean to offend me.

QS - Better that than him not respecting you.

That'd great! Hopefully this Cap follows suit. If not, on to the next! Lol.

*that's

We shall see. But as far as Scorpdiva, she should snap his little cappie butt back to reality not in a bitchy way. With just enough force that says I don't fuck around. Ha!

ScorpDiva
haven't read the rest of your and others' comments, but what I will suggest you... DO NOT give up on your SAG man for Capricorn man. You will regret.

FUM advice!

@FUM I dont plan on giving up on the Sagg men I am really content where we are right now and I want to see it through. Thanks everyone for your advice the Cappy is being sexual I think, we meet back in 2006 and dated for almost 2yrs and when I broke up with him he still didn't let it go I had to tell him I was screwing someone else for him to really leave me alone so it did end abruptly and I dont think he really got over me I guess. After he sent that pic he said something about me riding him I just ignore him, I got on FB last night we chatting a little about the bears loosing I said goodnight and he said goodnight and I love you, I just ignore him again. That could be the problem I keep ignoring him and he thinks that there could be a chance so maybe I should just break it down for him instead of turning the check and ignoring him thinking he will get the hint and beg off.

Also the reason I broke things off with him the first place was he was immature, he was a momma's boy, he hung with his friends too much he love to go out a lot and when I would go out to the same spot he did things that I didn't agree with, we had many of fights at clubs and him getting cuss out Gve him like two chances he mess up everytime and he thought I would just take that bullsh_t so I had to show him better then I could tell him. We broke up in 2008 and that same year and in 2009, 2010, and now 2011 he always says he still love me and wants to come back but I think I am done with it.

@LS that would be a good idea, I always attract those Cappy men one that I have kids with and the other that I am speaking about in this thread.

The first one whom I have kids with I must admit it took me a while to get over him, but when he wanted me back I was like F_ck you and I am end up making him cry, I might have to do the same with this one.

They are hard to get over but once you do it ALL GOOD....., they always come running back

exactly the same thing happened to me...after 2 years with cappy guy, he cheated on me this spring...we separate and after xmas he started messaging and saying he wants me back...he even said that he adores me and that i'm the only woman in his life...

well...i moved on...i feel nothing 4 him...but i still remember the pain
my advice...ignore him...

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Posted by ScorpieLove25
We shall see. But as far as Scorpdiva, she should snap his little cappie butt back to reality not in a bitchy way. With just enough force that says I don't fuck around. Ha!

True but since they were already involved once before, they may have done stuff like that when they were together to keep things fresh. He may just be trying to bring the spark back. But if she lets him know she was offended, he will definitely stop.

@FUM SAG over cap—— Eh——— lol

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True! Maybe, they do have a history and both feel comfy exchanging those types of pics, which is cool. As long as she feels comfy with it.

I KNOW. I was going to say something too. Sag over Cap!?!? Lol. Every romantic experience that I have had with Sags has been terrible. They are serious players!

I have heard the same things about Saggy, this is the first one I have so far no problem with him cheating or anything but we do have problems with control like who is going to have it....

I thought that too Sagg over Cappy(yeah right) but right now I think this is true for me Sagg over Cappy this particular Cappy anyway.

My thing is, why don't you just tell him you are in a relationship? Then you say you want to wait and see where he goes with this, but why if you are with somebody?

This guy could have stopped a while ago but you like his attention LOL! I can't believe he doesn't know you are with your Sag.

@inana04 Me and the Sagg are dating, nobody has put a ring on it yet so I can really do as I please, with the cappy I wanted to see what and how he would try to get me back his antics are not working as you can see. He wouldn't know I am dating the sagg cause my business is my business and nobody really know too much about my personal life plus he lives like 45 min from me and I never see him, I haven't seen him in a couple of months. Last time I seen him he invited me to a party and I went with my sis and he acted friendly nothing more. The attention is not it, I get that anyway from other men if that is what I was really after, me and the cappy have been through this before he will go away and if he tries to really be serious I will let him know but right now I don't owe him any explanation or have to let him know who I am dating.

Posted by scorpdiva
@inana04 Me and the Sagg are dating, nobody has put a ring on it yet so I can really do as I please, with the cappy I wanted to see what and how he would try to get me back his antics are not working as you can see. He wouldn't know I am dating the sagg cause my business is my business and nobody really know too much about my personal life plus he lives like 45 min from me and I never see him, I haven't seen him in a couple of months. Last time I seen him he invited me to a party and I went with my sis and he acted friendly nothing more. The attention is not it, I get that anyway from other men if that is what I was really after, me and the cappy have been through this before he will go away and if he tries to really be serious I will let him know but right now I don't owe him any explanation or have to let him know who I am dating.

Sounds spot on to me. It is your business, and you dont have to explain yourself to anyone. However, if you want the Cap to be gone, then maybe you should let him know you are seeing someone else and leave it at that. If you kind of want theap to continue to spin hiseels to see if it goes somewhere then, yup, keep who you are dating to yourself.

Posted by ellessque
wow. someday soon I'm going to be in her shoes. that's fricken awesome.

almost there 😉

You and me both!

Posted by scorpdiva
@inana04 Me and the Sagg are dating, nobody has put a ring on it yet so I can really do as I please, with the cappy I wanted to see what and how he would try to get me back his antics are not working as you can see. He wouldn't know I am dating the sagg cause my business is my business and nobody really know too much about my personal life plus he lives like 45 min from me and I never see him, I haven't seen him in a couple of months. Last time I seen him he invited me to a party and I went with my sis and he acted friendly nothing more. The attention is not it, I get that anyway from other men if that is what I was really after, me and the cappy have been through this before he will go away and if he tries to really be serious I will let him know but right now I don't owe him any explanation or have to let him know who I am dating.

Of course you can do as you please but you are asking why he's still contacting you, and basically asking how to get rid of him. You don't have to tell him the name and address of who are are dating, but if you want him to stop just say "I'm seeing someone." Then in your original post you ask "I think he thinks I'm single" well Of course he thinks you are single because you haven't told him you are not. Its like his antics aren't working, but what if they were lol?

I just think this could be deaded. I agree that Caps will contact you if they feel sentimental, plus months and years of not hearing from someone means nothing because we can call all of a sudden and pick up, or try to, where we left off.

I dated a cap about 4 years ago....I am now married and he still calls me.Just to say hi and see how my marriage is going. Saying it shouldve been him. I couldnt be with him because he was too much of a flirt. and being a Aries you know we are not going to have that shitttt! Anyway he has not changed and never will. He was a very sweet guy, hardworking, and very handsome. Would do anything for me but give me my respect. He was so freaky it was unbelievable. LOL

dward your old cappy sounds like my ex- he even text me early this morning at 2a.m saying "I Love You", I think I will be married and he will be trying the same thing but we can only be friends.....

scorp I know..we can only be friends and you really have to put some limits on that too...