Hot and Cold Capricorn

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TauruSweetheart
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9 Years

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Very new to this hot and cold thing and trying to get some understanding so thank you fellow dxp cappies. My capricorn and I hit it off three months ago, which is also when we met at his godparents. It was fireworks and everything has moved a lot faster than what I am used to. In about two weeks I'll be visiting, we haven't seen eachother in two months as it's long distance, and I'll be meeting his family. Up to now, we have talked and texted daily.

About two weeks ago I started going out a little bit for my birthday and a week ago my phone died and for a few days had to get wifi from a local coffee shop. Made the mistake of not calling one day from a borrowed phone and while he reached me and commented on it that night, I realized later when he bailed on a phone (or fell asleep) that maybe he was upset. I apologized, thought he wanted space, it was a sincere misunderstanding. However, I've been back up and running for just a couple days and have noticed a change. He is a little more critical, which can be helpful, and yesterday rude, dismissive, hung up on me and won't call back. It was a frustration over something he wanted me to ask my mother. He didn't want to call her, but needed some information. He texted that I don't let him explain himself. Later that night she called him, no response. I texted good night and that I hoped he felt better to which he responded, "Night, tell your mom I figured it out. Thanks." To me I'm lost because I think that is so rude. Not sure how to proceed. I have no doubts about our relationship, but behavior from left field like this makes me cautious. A part of me feels he would apreciate a straight up conversation, but I would prefer it in person after bonding over something else and only chance for that would be two weeks away. Two days ago he was telling me something intimate about his past hadships. Is this a test to see if I'll confront him, him closing off over something else? Thank you dxp community, I appreciate all of your insights.
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TauruSweetheart
@FineStone25
9 Years

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Capricorn men feel unappreciated by fixed sign women. It's common problem, thats why this pairing never last.


Really?? But I'm almost tired of hearing about Taurus/Capricorn success stories. I've had a harder time finding about hiccups, issues (or maybe problems) and how they solved them. I can very much relate to all the stories, the stability, chemistry, and connection are unreal. However, unlike Taurus, cappies can be uncommunicative and unforgiving. All the more reason to be seek deeper insights in times of turmoil on fresher soil.
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TauruSweetheart
@FineStone25
9 Years

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Posted by kitten_
Capricorn men feel unappreciated by fixed sign women. It's common problem, thats why this pairing never last.





And when you appreciate them, they feel overappreciated lol. Then they start doubting you and run back into their holes... no kidding. -- this is about Capricorn women. click to expand

Capricorn women are too cold for Libra man. But you can teach them to take it easy, they are eager to learn 😝. click to expand
Is mirroring their actions good enough? click to expand
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Mirroring bad behavior doesn't sound sound. We are fortyish, games are for kids.
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TauruSweetheart
@FineStone25
9 Years

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Posted by Awesomeyoo
Posted by FineStone25
Posted by Awesomeyoo
Posted by kitten_
Posted by Awesomeyoo
Posted by kitten_
Capricorn men feel unappreciated by fixed sign women. It's common problem, thats why this pairing never last.





And when you appreciate them, they feel overappreciated lol. Then they start doubting you and run back into their holes... no kidding. -- this is about Capricorn women. click to expand

Capricorn women are too cold for Libra man. But you can teach them to take it easy, they are eager to learn 😝. click to expand


Is mirroring their actions good enough? click to expand



Mirroring bad behavior doesn't sound sound. We are fortyish, games are for kids. click to expand
Oh believe me, this capricorn is all about games. She likes it sooo very much. She is crazy about the Sherlock Holmes. But she fails to think about the other side of the coin lol... I trap her in her own moves. click to expand
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Is this a Cap/Cap relationship? You guys playing a consensual cat and mouse game?
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TauruSweetheart
@FineStone25
9 Years

Comments: 4 · Posts: 18 · Topics: 1
Posted by Awesomeyoo
Posted by kitten_
Posted by Awesomeyoo
Posted by kitten_
Posted by Awesomeyoo
Posted by kitten_
Capricorn men feel unappreciated by fixed sign women. It's common problem, thats why this pairing never last.





And when you appreciate them, they feel overappreciated lol. Then they start doubting you and run back into their holes... no kidding. -- this is about Capricorn women. click to expand



Capricorn women are too cold for Libra man. But you can teach them to take it easy, they are eager to learn 😝. click to expand


Is mirroring their actions good enough? click to expand

no, Capricorn women are stubborn when challenged. click to expand
Then I simply go off lol... and she really enjoys that chase. click to expand
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How are you so sure about this? I can appreciate a little playful game here and there as part of prolonged foreplay, but you disappear for 60 days, esp. as some manipulative horseplay and your ass in grass...on the sidewalk. Nobody's got time for that.