How long do I wait for a Capricorn man?

Hi,

I started talking to a Capricorn man. He is in his mid 30s, wants to settle down and have a family, successful, ambitious, very down to earth and sweet and has a definite playful side. He is very focused on work, which is totally fine in my book. Everything was going amazing, he felt a connection, as did I. Our last conversation was great, with no sign that he wasn't interested anymore, but poof! He disappeared! I wasn't being clingy or smothering or anything, I sent him snaps in the morning wishing him a good day, but didn't get bothered if he didn't open it or respond, which I made clear, and also made clear that I wasn't dating around, and that when I have a connection with someone, that man is the only one, which was him. He appreciated that and said the same and we talked quite a bit since then, even talked about starting a family, and how he was going to try to get me pregnant right away haha, which i was totally ok with, so I'm not sure why he would just all of a sudden disappear off the face of the Earth! I'm a Taurus woman in my 30s as well, and I'm ridiculously patient and loyal, but I don't want to get played either. He took his dating profile down, and hasn't been active on Snapchat since we last talked (he hasn't opened the very few messages I've sent since then), so I assume he is just busy and will come around, and I'm willing to wait and give him time and space to figure things out, but how much time is too much time for these men?

You don't wait at all......why would you? 😕

Idk years are like minutes to a taurus.

You best not wait a single second for this guy.

Men, people, can tell us ANYTHING. Especially the words that we WANT to hear. But we still have to use our INTUITION. We still have to SEE if their ACTION LINES UP with THEIR WORDS.

This man DISAPPEARED 🤦 That is the action that SPOKE LOUDER than his words.

Patience is a virtue and you have it. You're wondering if he's playing you. Exercising too much patience where there should be a cut off is playing oneself. Don't do that. When people SHOW YOU who they are, BELIEVE them.

Lastly, don't put your eggs in one basket. You're telling this man that he would be the only one you'd date. Why? Why Rob yourself of the opportunity to see other people and truly WEIGH your OPTIONS? If you think for one minute, that he wasn't weighing his 🙄 you better THINK again. Don't be so trusting and open with potentials. Keep some info to yourself and don't be naive. Move on.

Posted by Amour

Wait for food, not men.

Say it again..

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So nobody thinks he might be sick or something bad happened? 🤷‍♀️

OP. You think you weren't being clingy, but from a guy who is in high demand I would like to know how long you 2 have been exclusive. Us guys say stupid butter when were treetrunking especially before the act and about an hour after the deed. You hounding him put you on the backburner because he knows your an easy victory. Just because you think he's 30 and ready to settle dosen't specifically pertains to you. He may like you but I see you as the aggressor and him using you when it's convenient for him.

Posted by LibraSupreme

OP. You think you weren't being clingy, but from a guy who is in high demand I would like to know how long you 2 have been exclusive. Us guys say stupid butter when were treetrunking especially before the act and about an hour after the deed. You hounding him put you on the backburner because he knows your an easy victory. Just because you think he's 30 and ready to settle dosen't specifically pertains to you. He may like you but I see you as the aggressor and him using you when it's convenient for him.

Last paragraph pulled out of ass!

How is she an agressir?

And he seemed been dating her.

Where did she say he was using her when he thought convenient?

Btw I’ve heard that about Libra men.

So it’s what you would do right?

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Posted by Gemitatti

So nobody thinks he might be sick or something bad happened? 🤷‍♀️

He better be dead, in a coma or in the emergency room.

Sick ppl are capable of using their phones.

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I was speaking hypothetically...

I just can’t bieve men dissapear next day after nothing happenned day before...

Posted by Beautifulbadass

Hi,

I started talking to a Capricorn man. He is in his mid 30s, wants to settle down and have a family, successful, ambitious, very down to earth and sweet and has a definite playful side. He is very focused on work, which is totally fine in my book. Everything was going amazing, he felt a connection, as did I. Our last conversation was great, with no sign that he wasn't interested anymore, but poof! He disappeared! I wasn't being clingy or smothering or anything, I sent him snaps in the morning wishing him a good day, but didn't get bothered if he didn't open it or respond, which I made clear, and also made clear that I wasn't dating around, and that when I have a connection with someone, that man is the only one, which was him. He appreciated that and said the same and we talked quite a bit since then, even talked about starting a family, and how he was going to try to get me pregnant right away haha, which i was totally ok with, so I'm not sure why he would just all of a sudden disappear off the face of the Earth! I'm a Taurus woman in my 30s as well, and I'm ridiculously patient and loyal, but I don't want to get played either. He took his dating profile down, and hasn't been active on Snapchat since we last talked (he hasn't opened the very few messages I've sent since then), so I assume he is just busy and will come around, and I'm willing to wait and give him time and space to figure things out, but how much time is too much time for these men?

He gone girl.

Ain't nothin to wait for.

lol same with the cap I'm dating

I gave up already but will just see what excuse he's got this time. If he wants to play, I play along anyway, he'll reach a limit in the end. I don't plan to wait for him anymore, decided I'll take it as it comes. Cause waiting makes you sick and in my case, paralyzed. Maybe I am not so patient as the rest of Taureans. I am just glad my heart is not invested into it this time.

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Posted by LibraSupreme

OP. You think you weren't being clingy, but from a guy who is in high demand I would like to know how long you 2 have been exclusive. Us guys say stupid butter when were treetrunking especially before the act and about an hour after the deed. You hounding him put you on the backburner because he knows your an easy victory. Just because you think he's 30 and ready to settle dosen't specifically pertains to you. He may like you but I see you as the aggressor and him using you when it's convenient for him.

Last paragraph pulled out of ass!

How is she an agressir?

And he seemed been dating her.

Where did she say he was using her when he thought convenient?

Btw I’ve heard that about Libra men.

So it’s what you would do right?

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She says he busy with work but she finds time to send messages and be there for him. AGGRESSOR.

Dating women or just her is the question. Busy with work is my #2 goto when I'm juggling.

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Posted by Gemitatti

Posted by LibraSupreme

OP. You think you weren't being clingy, but from a guy who is in high demand I would like to know how long you 2 have been exclusive. Us guys say stupid butter when were treetrunking especially before the act and about an hour after the deed. You hounding him put you on the backburner because he knows your an easy victory. Just because you think he's 30 and ready to settle dosen't specifically pertains to you. He may like you but I see you as the aggressor and him using you when it's convenient for him.

Last paragraph pulled out of ass!

How is she an agressir?

And he seemed been dating her.

Where did she say he was using her when he thought convenient?

Btw I’ve heard that about Libra men.

So it’s what you would do right?

She says he busy with work but she finds time to send messages and be there for him. AGGRESSOR.

Dating women or just her is the question. Busy with work is my #2 goto when I'm juggling.

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what's your no.1 then? *just wondering*

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Posted by LibraSupreme

Posted by Gemitatti

Posted by LibraSupreme

OP. You think you weren't being clingy, but from a guy who is in high demand I would like to know how long you 2 have been exclusive. Us guys say stupid butter when were treetrunking especially before the act and about an hour after the deed. You hounding him put you on the backburner because he knows your an easy victory. Just because you think he's 30 and ready to settle dosen't specifically pertains to you. He may like you but I see you as the aggressor and him using you when it's convenient for him.

Last paragraph pulled out of ass!

How is she an agressir?

And he seemed been dating her.

Where did she say he was using her when he thought convenient?

Btw I’ve heard that about Libra men.

So it’s what you would do right?

She says he busy with work but she finds time to send messages and be there for him. AGGRESSOR.

Dating women or just her is the question. Busy with work is my #2 goto when I'm juggling.

what's your no.1 then? *just wondering*

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I can't say sorry. But my 3rd best excuse is that I have to help a single parent move. That works well and never questioned because I will generally do that anyway so its par for the course.