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yellowsaggitarius
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Posted by lnana04
You are so afraid of him being manipulative and taking the kids from you, but you are setting the situation up by using them to get back at him.

damn u typical cap

sorry u sound so like him its amazing

ive blocked him and chose to have the ball in my hand only because im afraid he will take advantage

his overseas if he was here he could come see them or pick them up for visits as he usually did

and take away my kids thats alll

seriously am not using the kids to get him

i know it looks like that but am not

another thingis when he use to be a here he use to say ill pick them upjusy for 2 days then he only brought them back after a week

like i like he keeps saying this and changes it later

as a sag i hate this

we can have peace just keep your word

dont play with me just to benefit yourself

lets be civilised adults
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Posted by Vulcansfire
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capricorn are the father of zodiac.so the main reason he still care about you is purely for the children. no lies no games.
again double standards here

if you say father it means somebody who is there no matter what guiding you

or just a father biologically

this cap chose to be himself instead of changing simple things to remain in his kids lives

he chose freedom over responsibility

so i disagree

maybe he is the father of himself
As a Sagittarius myself I can't believe you can be this stupid. Sagittarius are about freedom. He accepted you as you are but you can't handle the fact that he is being himself. It shouldn't deter him from seeing his kid. You're only creating baby momma drama.
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o my word i never saw it this way i was so busy thinking about my feelings i forgot his

thanks for being so honest

i have been stupid

i dont know why

maybe i was too insecure thats why?
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Posted by Vulcansfire
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Posted by magikarp
capricorn are the father of zodiac.so the main reason he still care about you is purely for the children. no lies no games.
again double standards here

if you say father it means somebody who is there no matter what guiding you

or just a father biologically

this cap chose to be himself instead of changing simple things to remain in his kids lives

he chose freedom over responsibility

so i disagree

maybe he is the father of himself
As a Sagittarius myself I can't believe you can be this stupid. Sagittarius are about freedom. He accepted you as you are but you can't handle the fact that he is being himself. It shouldn't deter him from seeing his kid. You're only creating baby momma drama.
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so this story is turning to a completely different path which i never knew was there right infront of my eyes

how do i make things right now if i was the wrong one?

ok i know we are over

i just mean how do i mend my heartlessness and how can i be more kind to him

for peace sake
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damn u typical cap

sorry u sound so like him its amazing

ive blocked him and chose to have the ball in my hand only because im afraid he will take advantage

his overseas if he was here he could come see them or pick them up for visits as he usually did

and take away my kids thats alll

seriously am not using the kids to get him

i know it looks like that but am not

another thingis when he use to be a here he use to say ill pick them upjusy for 2 days then he only brought them back after a week

like i like he keeps saying this and changes it later

as a sag i hate this

we can have peace just keep your word

dont play with me just to benefit yourself

lets be civilised adults



You know you can report that to authorities right? I'm just saying there's ways around everything you're saying.

You have to do what is best for yourself & your kids

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yes your right

if something goes wrong i can report him

but see he said they must visit for a month

what if he makes them stay for a year

like he said he will pick them up for 2 days then 2 days became a week

and i dont have energy to run to authorities and i dont have energy to stress and cry for my kids

u understand my side?

i also love them ill also miss them

i dont mind a month

i dont mind being understanding

but what guarantees that he will be?

will i really put my happiness aside for him?

just to be told no just wait ill keep the kids for a year —

how do i make things right without hurting anybody
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Stop using the kid to poke holes in their daddy and gain leeway with him. More you deny his rights to his kids, the more likely he'll fight you just to see them. Last thing a kid wants to see is their mother or father fighting. Just because he has a bad attitude with you, doesn't mean the same for them. You can try to make peace with the dude for the kids alone. Their relationship with their father is more important then your relationship with your ex.
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Posted by Vulcansfire
Stop using the kid to poke holes in their daddy and gain leeway with him. More you deny his rights to his kids, the more likely he'll fight you just to see them. Last thing a kid wants to see is their mother or father fighting. Just because he has a bad attitude with you, doesn't mean the same for them. You can try to make peace with the dude for the kids alone. Their relationship with their father is more important then your relationship with your ex.
u dont get it

i said im not using the kids to get my way

im a sag and we are all about truth and honesty

am not lying or manipulating

at the end of the day they are my kids too

and i wana be apart of their lives too

anyside they go they will be without one parent

his side

my side

whats important for me now is my relationshio with my kids im keeping it

i feel he must make his own way to keep his relationship with the kids

he must get off his ass

and come all the way to their country and visit them

not ask me to send them away

if its not about me then dont involve me

dont ask me to do u favours

to get ur kids to u

be a man and do the things urself

dont take them away from me

simply call them visit them

i dont see any better way
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lnana04
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You are being really difficult Ms lady. Not really sure why, but you are. We've given you a ton of suggestions, even said reporting him if he tries to keep them longer, and you make up an excuse of having no energy to go to the authorities. Like wth.

I'm convinced it's all excuses. You seem to want to keep some kind of power over him, and yes...you are using your kids. This is a crazy situation for someone that got what they wanted. Divorce. Like what are you still bitter or upset about?
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yellowsaggitarius
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Posted by lnana04
You are being really difficult Ms lady. Not really sure why, but you are. We've given you a ton of suggestions, even said reporting him if he tries to keep them longer, and you make up an excuse of having no energy to go to the authorities. Like wth.

I'm convinced it's all excuses. You seem to want to keep some kind of power over him, and yes...you are using your kids. This is a crazy situation for someone that got what they wanted. Divorce. Like what are you still bitter or upset about?
i dont know any other way to convince urll that its nothing personal

i just wont run around for him

im sorry if he wants something he must get it

the book on the desk aint gonna fly to him

he must go fetch it

am not going to send my kids all alone with his pal to a country thats 10 hours away by different aeroplanes

anything bad can happen

and then i have to cry for something he requested

no no no
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Posted by yellowsaggitarius
damn u typical cap

sorry u sound so like him its amazing

ive blocked him and chose to have the ball in my hand only because im afraid he will take advantage

his overseas if he was here he could come see them or pick them up for visits as he usually did

and take away my kids thats alll

seriously am not using the kids to get him

i know it looks like that but am not

another thingis when he use to be a here he use to say ill pick them upjusy for 2 days then he only brought them back after a week

like i like he keeps saying this and changes it later

as a sag i hate this

we can have peace just keep your word

dont play with me just to benefit yourself

lets be civilised adults



You know you can report that to authorities right? I'm just saying there's ways around everything you're saying.

You have to do what is best for yourself & your kids


yes your right

if something goes wrong i can report him

but see he said they must visit for a month

what if he makes them stay for a year

like he said he will pick them up for 2 days then 2 days became a week

and i dont have energy to run to authorities and i dont have energy to stress and cry for my kids

u understand my side?

i also love them ill also miss them

i dont mind a month

i dont mind being understanding

but what guarantees that he will be?

will i really put my happiness aside for him?

just to be told no just wait ill keep the kids for a year —

how do i make things right without hurting anybody



From my understanding if you purchase a round trip airline ticket, your kids will need to be on their return flight the day of, otherwise call authorities and report him.

When he was here, after 2 days why didn't you drive to get your kids & pick them up? At what point do you take action?

All I'm saying is make a decision (which you already have) and stop complaining and making excuses.

If you don't want to take the risk of your child visiting his father, stop complaining about the father not being in their life simply because the 2 of you are no longer together.

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i wont take the risk i will keep him blocked

i wont complain im not

im just here to see if i made the right decision blocking him

based on his demands and requests

am i good person

mom

his side matters but mine does too

where is the solution that benefits us both here

thats the whole point here
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yellowsaggitarius
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Posted by yellowsaggitarius
damn u typical cap

sorry u sound so like him its amazing

ive blocked him and chose to have the ball in my hand only because im afraid he will take advantage

his overseas if he was here he could come see them or pick them up for visits as he usually did

and take away my kids thats alll

seriously am not using the kids to get him

i know it looks like that but am not

another thingis when he use to be a here he use to say ill pick them upjusy for 2 days then he only brought them back after a week

like i like he keeps saying this and changes it later

as a sag i hate this

we can have peace just keep your word

dont play with me just to benefit yourself

lets be civilised adults



You know you can report that to authorities right? I'm just saying there's ways around everything you're saying.

You have to do what is best for yourself & your kids


yes your right

if something goes wrong i can report him

but see he said they must visit for a month

what if he makes them stay for a year

like he said he will pick them up for 2 days then 2 days became a week

and i dont have energy to run to authorities and i dont have energy to stress and cry for my kids

u understand my side?

i also love them ill also miss them

i dont mind a month

i dont mind being understanding

but what guarantees that he will be?

will i really put my happiness aside for him?

just to be told no just wait ill keep the kids for a year —

how do i make things right without hurting anybody



From my understanding if you purchase a round trip airline ticket, your kids will need to be on their return flight the day of, otherwise call authorities and report him.

When he was here, after 2 days why didn't you drive to get your kids & pick them up? At what point do you take action?

All I'm saying is make a decision (which you already have) and stop complaining and making excuses.

If you don't want to take the risk of your child visiting his father, stop complaining about the father not being in their life simply because the 2 of you are no longer together.

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i didnt drive and pick them up because i didnt wana seem crazy it was just a week

i let it pass

and i made new rules no more taking the kids away just coming to see them where they are

i made it clear to him that i wont allow him to play with the situation according to his benefit
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Posted by lnana04
Tell him that they can come for a month if he picks them up because you don't want them traveling alone. Let him know that's the only way.
ok this is one way to compromise

i swear i wana do it

but later my fear hits in

like hell say im crazy they better off with him

this scary fear

that just wants me to stay away from him
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Just do it. I'm not sure what fear you are talking about. You will not be around him to have to stay away. Only your kids are leaving. You had your kids by this man, and married him. YOUR decisions. Don't have fear now. Let him be a parent.

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yellowsaggitarius
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Posted by lnana04
Tell him that they can come for a month if he picks them up because you don't want them traveling alone. Let him know that's the only way.
ok this is one way to compromise

i swear i wana do it

but later my fear hits in

like hell say im crazy they better off with him

this scary fear

that just wants me to stay away from him
Just do it. I'm not sure what fear you are talking about. You will not be around him to have to stay away. Only your kids are leaving. You had your kids by this man, and married him. YOUR decisions. Don't have fear now. Let him be a parent.

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this wasnt my decision

to send my kids overseas oneday

to be apart from them

i didnt ask for a cold man

he could have just been honest about how cold he would soon be

instead of faking being sweet

and as soon as i got pregnant he suddenly becomes cold.

this wasnt my choices.

my choice if ever there be a divorce my kids stay with me thats me
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yellowsaggitarius
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Posted by Capri-sun
Posted by yellowsaggitarius
Posted by Vulcansfire
Stop using the kid to poke holes in their daddy and gain leeway with him. More you deny his rights to his kids, the more likely he'll fight you just to see them. Last thing a kid wants to see is their mother or father fighting. Just because he has a bad attitude with you, doesn't mean the same for them. You can try to make peace with the dude for the kids alone. Their relationship with their father is more important then your relationship with your ex.
u dont get it

i said im not using the kids to get my way

im a sag and we are all about truth and honesty

am not lying or manipulating

at the end of the day they are my kids too

and i wana be apart of their lives too

anyside they go they will be without one parent

his side

my side

whats important for me now is my relationshio with my kids im keeping it

i feel he must make his own way to keep his relationship with the kids

he must get off his ass

and come all the way to their country and visit them

not ask me to send them away

if its not about me then dont involve me

dont ask me to do u favours

to get ur kids to u

be a man and do the things urself

dont take them away from me

simply call them visit them

i dont see any better way
Tell him this then
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i did

i said the 8 year cycle has to end

a new system has to come in action

where we both will benefit

i said get up and come see your kids

dont come push me around

and then i blocked him
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yellowsaggitarius
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he has double standards

so thats why i ask

one moment he tells me he cares

the next he curses me and says ill be alone forever

sometimes he texts me and asks why am i still awake i must go sleep

and sometimes he tells me i should take him with to where i travel

and later he shouts me and says i must go live my life

i feel confused

does this man have mental issues
Sounds bipolar.
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if i dare to say that

all caps will attack me

apparently im the crazy one

selfish one

one who thinks with the heart and not brain

one who is manipulating

im miss difficult and evil

why cant he just remarry make new kids and put stress on new wife

why ask ex wife to run around to make a way for u to see kids

come see kids urself

leave ex wife alone
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lnana04
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They still will be staying with you. A month is not forever.
where is my guarantee?

how do i know things will go as i thought?

he wasnt mr perfect so i know why i cant trust his word
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You have to trust he will do the right thing. If not, make energy to contact the authorities. You can't have all this fear in you with solutions that you say you won't have any energy for.

Just get all the information you will need...every number, address, etc. Call your kids everyday. You can even let him know of your fears, but let him spend time with his kids. A month seems like a long-time but its not.

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Posted by lnana04
They still will be staying with you. A month is not forever.
where is my guarantee?

how do i know things will go as i thought?

he wasnt mr perfect so i know why i cant trust his word
You have to trust he will do the right thing. If not, make energy to contact the authorities. You can't have all this fear in you with solutions that you say you won't have any energy for.

Just get all the information you will need...every number, address, etc. Call your kids everyday. You can even let him know of your fears, but let him spend time with his kids. A month seems like a long-time but its not.

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trusting is not an option

been there done that

with him

i will keep him blocked

ill invite him to the kids weddings oneday

i just hope he can move on with his life and stop blaming me

or using me to see his kids

he made a choice to make kids with a chic in a country far away

he made the final choice on divorce

he knew oneday he would have to leave

if he was so smart as he claimed why did he marry and make a chic pregnant thats so far away

something is contradicting here
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Posted by lnana04
Posted by yellowsaggitarius
Posted by lnana04
Tell him that they can come for a month if he picks them up because you don't want them traveling alone. Let him know that's the only way.
ok this is one way to compromise

i swear i wana do it

but later my fear hits in

like hell say im crazy they better off with him

this scary fear

that just wants me to stay away from him
Just do it. I'm not sure what fear you are talking about. You will not be around him to have to stay away. Only your kids are leaving. You had your kids by this man, and married him. YOUR decisions. Don't have fear now. Let him be a parent.


this wasnt my decision

to send my kids overseas oneday

to be apart from them

i didnt ask for a cold man

he could have just been honest about how cold he would soon be

instead of faking being sweet

and as soon as i got pregnant he suddenly becomes cold.

this wasnt my choices.

my choice if ever there be a divorce my kids stay with me thats me

Did he want a kid?

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how would i know

we were busy i said i might get pregnant

he no listen he did the deed

some months later am pregnant

mr cap dont wana talk to me

im apparently different to him

so he decides to be cold and distant

dont know what he wanted

what he wants

what he will want

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yellowsaggitarius
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Posted by yellowsaggitarius
Posted by lnana04
Posted by yellowsaggitarius
Posted by lnana04
Tell him that they can come for a month if he picks them up because you don't want them traveling alone. Let him know that's the only way.
ok this is one way to compromise

i swear i wana do it

but later my fear hits in

like hell say im crazy they better off with him

this scary fear

that just wants me to stay away from him
Just do it. I'm not sure what fear you are talking about. You will not be around him to have to stay away. Only your kids are leaving. You had your kids by this man, and married him. YOUR decisions. Don't have fear now. Let him be a parent.


this wasnt my decision

to send my kids overseas oneday

to be apart from them

i didnt ask for a cold man

he could have just been honest about how cold he would soon be

instead of faking being sweet

and as soon as i got pregnant he suddenly becomes cold.

this wasnt my choices.

my choice if ever there be a divorce my kids stay with me thats me

Did he want a kid?



how would i know

we were busy i said i might get pregnant

he no listen he did the deed

some months later am pregnant

mr cap dont wana talk to me

im apparently different to him

so he decides to be cold and distant

dont know what he wanted

what he wants

what he will want



Those are usually questions discussed during the dating period smh

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after marriage i wouldnt know if he wanted

ppl keep changing the minds

so if u ask me if he wanted idnever really know

but he said before marriage he wants kids
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yellowsaggitarius
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Posted by Vulcansfire
You keep changing situation. At this point I think all this is BS.
i was to the point

some caps asked me to elaborate more and give more details

i said long ago its along story

thats why i gave peace by peace

i said its a contradicting and double standard situation on his side

thats why i myself asked if its something mental

just coz he keeps changing his words and mind doesnt make me bs.
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yellowsaggitarius
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Posted by Capri-sun
This is why it is best to have court ordered visitation rights.

If he really wanted to keep your kid he would've took your butt to court and fought for custody of them. Same way you could've took him to court and fought for custody and a visitation schedule if you really had all this fear you speak of.

It wasn't your decision to send your kida overseas? Excuse me, once you say you want a divorce you no longer have any say so in where a grown man chooses to live...you wanted a divorce, everything happening afterwards is a byproduct of the divorce...get over it.

You have your kids all year, what is a month?

I understand you wanting him to come to your country to visit them. Everything else is irrelevant and totally off topic from your originally post, so idk why you didn't just lead with "my ex husband lives in a different country and wants to see the kids, any suggestions"

As far as did you do the right thing? None of us can tell you that. If you feel you did the right thing then that is all that matters.
ok i feel now i done the right thing by blocking him

i will not run around for anybody

except for those who ran around for me.
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Posted by Aquistorm
You should work something out with him. Like let him have the kids over the summer and then returned before school starts. Kids will have a full summer, you'd get a break and he spends time with the kids. It's a triple win in my book.
easy to say stuff

u dont know the cap i lived with

when he wants his way he wants it even if he has to lie to benefit

would be cool having a sane ex
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Calm before the storm
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Posted by yellowsaggitarius
Posted by Aquistorm
You should work something out with him. Like let him have the kids over the summer and then returned before school starts. Kids will have a full summer, you'd get a break and he spends time with the kids. It's a triple win in my book.
easy to say stuff

u dont know the cap i lived with

when he wants his way he wants it even if he has to lie to benefit

would be cool having a sane ex
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By your paranoid logic I am surprised your Aqua hasn't hit the hills.

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So the real issue is you don't want your kid around the new chick & her kids
theres no new chic

his single after 4 freaking years troubling me

about his kids

but lemme not play innocent

i wouldnt want a situation where my kid faaar away by a chic i never even met or a country i never even visited

So why are you posting about him choosing to get a chick pregnant in a far away country?

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im the chic in the far away country

that got pregnant
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Posted by lnana04
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Posted by lnana04
They still will be staying with you. A month is not forever.
where is my guarantee?

how do i know things will go as i thought?

he wasnt mr perfect so i know why i cant trust his word
You have to trust he will do the right thing. If not, make energy to contact the authorities. You can't have all this fear in you with solutions that you say you won't have any energy for.

Just get all the information you will need...every number, address, etc. Call your kids everyday. You can even let him know of your fears, but let him spend time with his kids. A month seems like a long-time but its not.


trusting is not an option

been there done that

with him

i will keep him blocked

ill invite him to the kids weddings oneday

i just hope he can move on with his life and stop blaming me

or using me to see his kids

he made a choice to make kids with a chic in a country far away

he made the final choice on divorce

he knew oneday he would have to leave

if he was so smart as he claimed why did he marry and make a chic pregnant thats so far away

something is contradicting here

Are you referring to yourself? Is he originally not from where you currently live?

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yes he is not originally from where me and the kids are at

me and the kids are from here thou

he was only here on business

he met me gave me the looks

banged all his desires out on me

and bang i got pregnant and bang he got cold
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yellowsaggitarius
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Posted by Aquistorm
You should work something out with him. Like let him have the kids over the summer and then returned before school starts. Kids will have a full summer, you'd get a break and he spends time with the kids. It's a triple win in my book.
easy to say stuff

u dont know the cap i lived with

when he wants his way he wants it even if he has to lie to benefit

would be cool having a sane ex
By your paranoid logic I am surprised your Aqua hasn't hit the hills.

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my aqua said i got issues

but he said my good is more than my bad so his ok with me
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Posted by lnana04
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Posted by lnana04
They still will be staying with you. A month is not forever.
where is my guarantee?

how do i know things will go as i thought?

he wasnt mr perfect so i know why i cant trust his word
You have to trust he will do the right thing. If not, make energy to contact the authorities. You can't have all this fear in you with solutions that you say you won't have any energy for.

Just get all the information you will need...every number, address, etc. Call your kids everyday. You can even let him know of your fears, but let him spend time with his kids. A month seems like a long-time but its not.


trusting is not an option

been there done that

with him

i will keep him blocked

ill invite him to the kids weddings oneday

i just hope he can move on with his life and stop blaming me

or using me to see his kids

he made a choice to make kids with a chic in a country far away

he made the final choice on divorce

he knew oneday he would have to leave

if he was so smart as he claimed why did he marry and make a chic pregnant thats so far away

something is contradicting here

Are you referring to yourself? Is he originally not from where you currently live?


yes he is not originally from where me and the kids are at

me and the kids are from here thou

he was only here on business

he met me gave me the looks

banged all his desires out on me

and bang i got pregnant and bang he got cold

& at what point in this story was there a marriage?

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You should work something out with him. Like let him have the kids over the summer and then returned before school starts. Kids will have a full summer, you'd get a break and he spends time with the kids. It's a triple win in my book.
easy to say stuff

u dont know the cap i lived with

when he wants his way he wants it even if he has to lie to benefit

would be cool having a sane ex
By your paranoid logic I am surprised your Aqua hasn't hit the hills.

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Give it some time and she'd be at the Aqua doorstep saying that he disappeared.
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They still will be staying with you. A month is not forever.
where is my guarantee?

how do i know things will go as i thought?

he wasnt mr perfect so i know why i cant trust his word
You have to trust he will do the right thing. If not, make energy to contact the authorities. You can't have all this fear in you with solutions that you say you won't have any energy for.

Just get all the information you will need...every number, address, etc. Call your kids everyday. You can even let him know of your fears, but let him spend time with his kids. A month seems like a long-time but its not.


trusting is not an option

been there done that

with him

i will keep him blocked

ill invite him to the kids weddings oneday

i just hope he can move on with his life and stop blaming me

or using me to see his kids

he made a choice to make kids with a chic in a country far away

he made the final choice on divorce

he knew oneday he would have to leave

if he was so smart as he claimed why did he marry and make a chic pregnant thats so far away

something is contradicting here

Are you referring to yourself? Is he originally not from where you currently live?


yes he is not originally from where me and the kids are at

me and the kids are from here thou

he was only here on business

he met me gave me the looks

banged all his desires out on me

and bang i got pregnant and bang he got cold

& at what point in this story was there a marriage?


4 years ago

I meant before you got pregnant? After? Did you know him while he was in his home country beforehand or you met him while he was where you are on business?

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i met him in my country

when he was on business he was here on business

3 years before i met him
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What sign is it on?
this is what i saw

This date's ephemeris

ephemeris coordinates are:

Sidereal time: 04:20:41 UTC

Sun in Sagittarius at 03° 59'.

Moon was in Sagittarius at 23° 44'.

Mercury in Scorpio at 24° 51'.

Venus was in Capricorn at 14° 55'.

Mars in Cancer at 27° 34'.

Jupiter was in Libra at 08° 55'.

Saturn in Aquarius at 13° 12'.

Uranus was in Capricorn at 15° 42'.

Neptun in Capricorn at 17° 07'.

Pluto was in Scorpio at 23° 18'.
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So the real issue is you don't want your kid around the new chick & her kids
theres no new chic

his single after 4 freaking years troubling me

about his kids

but lemme not play innocent

i wouldnt want a situation where my kid faaar away by a chic i never even met or a country i never even visited

So why are you posting about him choosing to get a chick pregnant in a far away country?


im the chic in the far away country

that got pregnant

So if you knew that....where did you see this going— Either you knew he'd have to leave at some point or he knew he'd have to leave at some point.

Last I checked it takes 2 to make a baby...& if for some reason things didn't work out one of you should've had some sort of plan in place....

You knew this fact going in that he was from a far away country...at no point did you factor that bit of information in to the decisions you were making?

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i had a plan when i started to feel he was going to leave

i knew i wouldnt loose the kids would be with me

thats when i gave him an ultimatum to see if my feelings were wrong

i didnt wana waste anymore time

when i brought out the topic he denied it

and said i either accept him how he is or leaves

he never tried asking me why whats wrong

how can i fix it never
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So here's the thing, you say you got married 4 years ago. You also say he's been troubling you about your kids for 4 years.

This is why people are saying the story keeps changing...you guys weren't married long?

Then you say he worked in your country 3 years prior to you meeting him...3+4=7....yet he's been telling you what to do & wanting things his way for 8 years....

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no here it is

he was here 3-4 years prior to meeting him

married 2 years

div 4 years

say he was here in 2006

been 10 years

his been here all together before he finally left