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how to tell if a capricorn man still loves you after a divorce (Page 2)
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Posted by magikarp
capricorn are the father of zodiac.so the main reason he still care about you is purely for the children. no lies no games.again double standards here
if you say father it means somebody who is there no matter what guiding you
or just a father biologically
this cap chose to be himself instead of changing simple things to remain in his kids lives
he chose freedom over responsibility
so i disagree
maybe he is the father of himself
As a Sagittarius myself I can't believe you can be this stupid. Sagittarius are about freedom. He accepted you as you are but you can't handle the fact that he is being himself. It shouldn't deter him from seeing his kid. You're only creating baby momma drama.
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o my word i never saw it this way i was so busy thinking about my feelings i forgot his
thanks for being so honest
i have been stupid
i dont know why
maybe i was too insecure thats why?
Posted by magikarp
capricorn are the father of zodiac.so the main reason he still care about you is purely for the children. no lies no games.again double standards here
if you say father it means somebody who is there no matter what guiding you
or just a father biologically
this cap chose to be himself instead of changing simple things to remain in his kids lives
he chose freedom over responsibility
so i disagree
maybe he is the father of himself
As a Sagittarius myself I can't believe you can be this stupid. Sagittarius are about freedom. He accepted you as you are but you can't handle the fact that he is being himself. It shouldn't deter him from seeing his kid. You're only creating baby momma drama.
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so this story is turning to a completely different path which i never knew was there right infront of my eyes
how do i make things right now if i was the wrong one?
ok i know we are over
i just mean how do i mend my heartlessness and how can i be more kind to him
for peace sake
Posted by yellowsaggitarius
damn u typical capsorry u sound so like him its amazing
ive blocked him and chose to have the ball in my hand only because im afraid he will take advantage
his overseas if he was here he could come see them or pick them up for visits as he usually did
and take away my kids thats alll
seriously am not using the kids to get him
i know it looks like that but am not
another thingis when he use to be a here he use to say ill pick them upjusy for 2 days then he only brought them back after a week
like i like he keeps saying this and changes it later
as a sag i hate this
we can have peace just keep your word
dont play with me just to benefit yourself
lets be civilised adults
You know you can report that to authorities right? I'm just saying there's ways around everything you're saying.
You have to do what is best for yourself & your kids
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yes your right
if something goes wrong i can report him
but see he said they must visit for a month
what if he makes them stay for a year
like he said he will pick them up for 2 days then 2 days became a week
and i dont have energy to run to authorities and i dont have energy to stress and cry for my kids
u understand my side?
i also love them ill also miss them
i dont mind a month
i dont mind being understanding
but what guarantees that he will be?
will i really put my happiness aside for him?
just to be told no just wait ill keep the kids for a year —
how do i make things right without hurting anybody
Stop using the kid to poke holes in their daddy and gain leeway with him. More you deny his rights to his kids, the more likely he'll fight you just to see them. Last thing a kid wants to see is their mother or father fighting. Just because he has a bad attitude with you, doesn't mean the same for them. You can try to make peace with the dude for the kids alone. Their relationship with their father is more important then your relationship with your ex.
Posted by Vulcansfire
Stop using the kid to poke holes in their daddy and gain leeway with him. More you deny his rights to his kids, the more likely he'll fight you just to see them. Last thing a kid wants to see is their mother or father fighting. Just because he has a bad attitude with you, doesn't mean the same for them. You can try to make peace with the dude for the kids alone. Their relationship with their father is more important then your relationship with your ex.
u dont get it
i said im not using the kids to get my way
im a sag and we are all about truth and honesty
am not lying or manipulating
at the end of the day they are my kids too
and i wana be apart of their lives too
anyside they go they will be without one parent
his side
my side
whats important for me now is my relationshio with my kids im keeping it
i feel he must make his own way to keep his relationship with the kids
he must get off his ass
and come all the way to their country and visit them
not ask me to send them away
if its not about me then dont involve me
dont ask me to do u favours
to get ur kids to u
be a man and do the things urself
dont take them away from me
simply call them visit them
i dont see any better way
You are being really difficult Ms lady. Not really sure why, but you are. We've given you a ton of suggestions, even said reporting him if he tries to keep them longer, and you make up an excuse of having no energy to go to the authorities. Like wth.
I'm convinced it's all excuses. You seem to want to keep some kind of power over him, and yes...you are using your kids. This is a crazy situation for someone that got what they wanted. Divorce. Like what are you still bitter or upset about?
Posted by lnana04
You are being really difficult Ms lady. Not really sure why, but you are. We've given you a ton of suggestions, even said reporting him if he tries to keep them longer, and you make up an excuse of having no energy to go to the authorities. Like wth.I'm convinced it's all excuses. You seem to want to keep some kind of power over him, and yes...you are using your kids. This is a crazy situation for someone that got what they wanted. Divorce. Like what are you still bitter or upset about?
i dont know any other way to convince urll that its nothing personal
i just wont run around for him
im sorry if he wants something he must get it
the book on the desk aint gonna fly to him
he must go fetch it
am not going to send my kids all alone with his pal to a country thats 10 hours away by different aeroplanes
anything bad can happen
and then i have to cry for something he requested
no no no
Tell him that they can come for a month if he picks them up because you don't want them traveling alone. Let him know that's the only way.
Posted by yellowsaggitarius
damn u typical capsorry u sound so like him its amazing
ive blocked him and chose to have the ball in my hand only because im afraid he will take advantage
his overseas if he was here he could come see them or pick them up for visits as he usually did
and take away my kids thats alll
seriously am not using the kids to get him
i know it looks like that but am not
another thingis when he use to be a here he use to say ill pick them upjusy for 2 days then he only brought them back after a week
like i like he keeps saying this and changes it later
as a sag i hate this
we can have peace just keep your word
dont play with me just to benefit yourself
lets be civilised adults
You know you can report that to authorities right? I'm just saying there's ways around everything you're saying.
You have to do what is best for yourself & your kids
yes your right
if something goes wrong i can report him
but see he said they must visit for a month
what if he makes them stay for a year
like he said he will pick them up for 2 days then 2 days became a week
and i dont have energy to run to authorities and i dont have energy to stress and cry for my kids
u understand my side?
i also love them ill also miss them
i dont mind a month
i dont mind being understanding
but what guarantees that he will be?
will i really put my happiness aside for him?
just to be told no just wait ill keep the kids for a year —
how do i make things right without hurting anybody
From my understanding if you purchase a round trip airline ticket, your kids will need to be on their return flight the day of, otherwise call authorities and report him.
When he was here, after 2 days why didn't you drive to get your kids & pick them up? At what point do you take action?
All I'm saying is make a decision (which you already have) and stop complaining and making excuses.
If you don't want to take the risk of your child visiting his father, stop complaining about the father not being in their life simply because the 2 of you are no longer together.
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i wont take the risk i will keep him blocked
i wont complain im not
im just here to see if i made the right decision blocking him
based on his demands and requests
am i good person
mom
his side matters but mine does too
where is the solution that benefits us both here
thats the whole point here
Posted by lnana04
Tell him that they can come for a month if he picks them up because you don't want them traveling alone. Let him know that's the only way.
ok this is one way to compromise
i swear i wana do it
but later my fear hits in
like hell say im crazy they better off with him
this scary fear
that just wants me to stay away from him
Posted by yellowsaggitarius
damn u typical capsorry u sound so like him its amazing
ive blocked him and chose to have the ball in my hand only because im afraid he will take advantage
his overseas if he was here he could come see them or pick them up for visits as he usually did
and take away my kids thats alll
seriously am not using the kids to get him
i know it looks like that but am not
another thingis when he use to be a here he use to say ill pick them upjusy for 2 days then he only brought them back after a week
like i like he keeps saying this and changes it later
as a sag i hate this
we can have peace just keep your word
dont play with me just to benefit yourself
lets be civilised adults
You know you can report that to authorities right? I'm just saying there's ways around everything you're saying.
You have to do what is best for yourself & your kids
yes your right
if something goes wrong i can report him
but see he said they must visit for a month
what if he makes them stay for a year
like he said he will pick them up for 2 days then 2 days became a week
and i dont have energy to run to authorities and i dont have energy to stress and cry for my kids
u understand my side?
i also love them ill also miss them
i dont mind a month
i dont mind being understanding
but what guarantees that he will be?
will i really put my happiness aside for him?
just to be told no just wait ill keep the kids for a year —
how do i make things right without hurting anybody
From my understanding if you purchase a round trip airline ticket, your kids will need to be on their return flight the day of, otherwise call authorities and report him.
When he was here, after 2 days why didn't you drive to get your kids & pick them up? At what point do you take action?
All I'm saying is make a decision (which you already have) and stop complaining and making excuses.
If you don't want to take the risk of your child visiting his father, stop complaining about the father not being in their life simply because the 2 of you are no longer together.
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i didnt drive and pick them up because i didnt wana seem crazy it was just a week
i let it pass
and i made new rules no more taking the kids away just coming to see them where they are
i made it clear to him that i wont allow him to play with the situation according to his benefit
Posted by lnana04
Tell him that they can come for a month if he picks them up because you don't want them traveling alone. Let him know that's the only way.ok this is one way to compromise
i swear i wana do it
but later my fear hits in
like hell say im crazy they better off with him
this scary fear
that just wants me to stay away from him
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Just do it. I'm not sure what fear you are talking about. You will not be around him to have to stay away. Only your kids are leaving. You had your kids by this man, and married him. YOUR decisions. Don't have fear now. Let him be a parent.
Posted by lnana04
Tell him that they can come for a month if he picks them up because you don't want them traveling alone. Let him know that's the only way.ok this is one way to compromise
i swear i wana do it
but later my fear hits in
like hell say im crazy they better off with him
this scary fear
that just wants me to stay away from him
Just do it. I'm not sure what fear you are talking about. You will not be around him to have to stay away. Only your kids are leaving. You had your kids by this man, and married him. YOUR decisions. Don't have fear now. Let him be a parent.
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this wasnt my decision
to send my kids overseas oneday
to be apart from them
i didnt ask for a cold man
he could have just been honest about how cold he would soon be
instead of faking being sweet
and as soon as i got pregnant he suddenly becomes cold.
this wasnt my choices.
my choice if ever there be a divorce my kids stay with me thats me
Posted by Vulcansfire
Stop using the kid to poke holes in their daddy and gain leeway with him. More you deny his rights to his kids, the more likely he'll fight you just to see them. Last thing a kid wants to see is their mother or father fighting. Just because he has a bad attitude with you, doesn't mean the same for them. You can try to make peace with the dude for the kids alone. Their relationship with their father is more important then your relationship with your ex.u dont get it
i said im not using the kids to get my way
im a sag and we are all about truth and honesty
am not lying or manipulating
at the end of the day they are my kids too
and i wana be apart of their lives too
anyside they go they will be without one parent
his side
my side
whats important for me now is my relationshio with my kids im keeping it
i feel he must make his own way to keep his relationship with the kids
he must get off his ass
and come all the way to their country and visit them
not ask me to send them away
if its not about me then dont involve me
dont ask me to do u favours
to get ur kids to u
be a man and do the things urself
dont take them away from me
simply call them visit them
i dont see any better way
Tell him this then
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i did
i said the 8 year cycle has to end
a new system has to come in action
where we both will benefit
i said get up and come see your kids
dont come push me around
and then i blocked him
They still will be staying with you. A month is not forever.
Posted by lnana04
They still will be staying with you. A month is not forever.
where is my guarantee?
how do i know things will go as i thought?
he wasnt mr perfect so i know why i cant trust his word
Posted by yellowsaggitarius
he has double standardsso thats why i ask
one moment he tells me he cares
the next he curses me and says ill be alone forever
sometimes he texts me and asks why am i still awake i must go sleep
and sometimes he tells me i should take him with to where i travel
and later he shouts me and says i must go live my life
i feel confused
does this man have mental issues
Sounds bipolar.
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if i dare to say that
all caps will attack me
apparently im the crazy one
selfish one
one who thinks with the heart and not brain
one who is manipulating
im miss difficult and evil
why cant he just remarry make new kids and put stress on new wife
why ask ex wife to run around to make a way for u to see kids
come see kids urself
leave ex wife alone
Posted by lnana04
They still will be staying with you. A month is not forever.where is my guarantee?
how do i know things will go as i thought?
he wasnt mr perfect so i know why i cant trust his word
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You have to trust he will do the right thing. If not, make energy to contact the authorities. You can't have all this fear in you with solutions that you say you won't have any energy for.
Just get all the information you will need...every number, address, etc. Call your kids everyday. You can even let him know of your fears, but let him spend time with his kids. A month seems like a long-time but its not.
The OP is bi-polar. Why are you so scared to let them go with him? Is he a bad person to the kids? Like being abusive or a druggie? Those would been legit concerns. But as I said before if he is a good dad he would try to work things out with you, however you are being stubborn and creating baby momma drama.
Posted by lnana04
They still will be staying with you. A month is not forever.where is my guarantee?
how do i know things will go as i thought?
he wasnt mr perfect so i know why i cant trust his word
You have to trust he will do the right thing. If not, make energy to contact the authorities. You can't have all this fear in you with solutions that you say you won't have any energy for.
Just get all the information you will need...every number, address, etc. Call your kids everyday. You can even let him know of your fears, but let him spend time with his kids. A month seems like a long-time but its not.
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trusting is not an option
been there done that
with him
i will keep him blocked
ill invite him to the kids weddings oneday
i just hope he can move on with his life and stop blaming me
or using me to see his kids
he made a choice to make kids with a chic in a country far away
he made the final choice on divorce
he knew oneday he would have to leave
if he was so smart as he claimed why did he marry and make a chic pregnant thats so far away
something is contradicting here
Posted by lnana04
Tell him that they can come for a month if he picks them up because you don't want them traveling alone. Let him know that's the only way.ok this is one way to compromise
i swear i wana do it
but later my fear hits in
like hell say im crazy they better off with him
this scary fear
that just wants me to stay away from him
Just do it. I'm not sure what fear you are talking about. You will not be around him to have to stay away. Only your kids are leaving. You had your kids by this man, and married him. YOUR decisions. Don't have fear now. Let him be a parent.
this wasnt my decision
to send my kids overseas oneday
to be apart from them
i didnt ask for a cold man
he could have just been honest about how cold he would soon be
instead of faking being sweet
and as soon as i got pregnant he suddenly becomes cold.
this wasnt my choices.
my choice if ever there be a divorce my kids stay with me thats me
Did he want a kid?
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how would i know
we were busy i said i might get pregnant
he no listen he did the deed
some months later am pregnant
mr cap dont wana talk to me
im apparently different to him
so he decides to be cold and distant
dont know what he wanted
what he wants
what he will want
You keep changing situation. At this point I think all this is BS.
Posted by Capri-sun
Caps are bipolar. Surprised you didn't recognize that before getting married and pregnant.
i told u mr cap had double standards
he showed the first standard before marriage
the second standard after marriage
how was i to know
he never told me
Posted by Vulcansfire
You keep changing situation. At this point I think all this is BS.
Yeah, she's still hurt.
Posted by lnana04
Tell him that they can come for a month if he picks them up because you don't want them traveling alone. Let him know that's the only way.ok this is one way to compromise
i swear i wana do it
but later my fear hits in
like hell say im crazy they better off with him
this scary fear
that just wants me to stay away from him
Just do it. I'm not sure what fear you are talking about. You will not be around him to have to stay away. Only your kids are leaving. You had your kids by this man, and married him. YOUR decisions. Don't have fear now. Let him be a parent.
this wasnt my decision
to send my kids overseas oneday
to be apart from them
i didnt ask for a cold man
he could have just been honest about how cold he would soon be
instead of faking being sweet
and as soon as i got pregnant he suddenly becomes cold.
this wasnt my choices.
my choice if ever there be a divorce my kids stay with me thats me
Did he want a kid?
how would i know
we were busy i said i might get pregnant
he no listen he did the deed
some months later am pregnant
mr cap dont wana talk to me
im apparently different to him
so he decides to be cold and distant
dont know what he wanted
what he wants
what he will want
Those are usually questions discussed during the dating period smh
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after marriage i wouldnt know if he wanted
ppl keep changing the minds
so if u ask me if he wanted idnever really know
but he said before marriage he wants kids
Posted by Vulcansfire
You keep changing situation. At this point I think all this is BS.
i was to the point
some caps asked me to elaborate more and give more details
i said long ago its along story
thats why i gave peace by peace
i said its a contradicting and double standard situation on his side
thats why i myself asked if its something mental
just coz he keeps changing his words and mind doesnt make me bs.
Posted by Capri-sun
This is why it is best to have court ordered visitation rights.If he really wanted to keep your kid he would've took your butt to court and fought for custody of them. Same way you could've took him to court and fought for custody and a visitation schedule if you really had all this fear you speak of.
It wasn't your decision to send your kida overseas? Excuse me, once you say you want a divorce you no longer have any say so in where a grown man chooses to live...you wanted a divorce, everything happening afterwards is a byproduct of the divorce...get over it.
You have your kids all year, what is a month?
I understand you wanting him to come to your country to visit them. Everything else is irrelevant and totally off topic from your originally post, so idk why you didn't just lead with "my ex husband lives in a different country and wants to see the kids, any suggestions"
As far as did you do the right thing? None of us can tell you that. If you feel you did the right thing then that is all that matters.
ok i feel now i done the right thing by blocking him
i will not run around for anybody
except for those who ran around for me.
You should work something out with him. Like let him have the kids over the summer and then returned before school starts. Kids will have a full summer, you'd get a break and he spends time with the kids. It's a triple win in my book.
Posted by Capri-sun
So the real issue is you don't want your kid around the new chick & her kids
theres no new chic
his single after 4 freaking years troubling me
about his kids
but lemme not play innocent
i wouldnt want a situation where my kid faaar away by a chic i never even met or a country i never even visited
Posted by Aquistorm
You should work something out with him. Like let him have the kids over the summer and then returned before school starts. Kids will have a full summer, you'd get a break and he spends time with the kids. It's a triple win in my book.
easy to say stuff
u dont know the cap i lived with
when he wants his way he wants it even if he has to lie to benefit
would be cool having a sane ex
Posted by Aquistorm
You should work something out with him. Like let him have the kids over the summer and then returned before school starts. Kids will have a full summer, you'd get a break and he spends time with the kids. It's a triple win in my book.easy to say stuff
u dont know the cap i lived with
when he wants his way he wants it even if he has to lie to benefit
would be cool having a sane ex
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By your paranoid logic I am surprised your Aqua hasn't hit the hills.
Posted by Capri-sun
So the real issue is you don't want your kid around the new chick & her kidstheres no new chic
his single after 4 freaking years troubling me
about his kids
but lemme not play innocent
i wouldnt want a situation where my kid faaar away by a chic i never even met or a country i never even visited
So why are you posting about him choosing to get a chick pregnant in a far away country?
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im the chic in the far away country
that got pregnant
Posted by lnana04
They still will be staying with you. A month is not forever.where is my guarantee?
how do i know things will go as i thought?
he wasnt mr perfect so i know why i cant trust his word
You have to trust he will do the right thing. If not, make energy to contact the authorities. You can't have all this fear in you with solutions that you say you won't have any energy for.
Just get all the information you will need...every number, address, etc. Call your kids everyday. You can even let him know of your fears, but let him spend time with his kids. A month seems like a long-time but its not.
trusting is not an option
been there done that
with him
i will keep him blocked
ill invite him to the kids weddings oneday
i just hope he can move on with his life and stop blaming me
or using me to see his kids
he made a choice to make kids with a chic in a country far away
he made the final choice on divorce
he knew oneday he would have to leave
if he was so smart as he claimed why did he marry and make a chic pregnant thats so far away
something is contradicting here
Are you referring to yourself? Is he originally not from where you currently live?
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yes he is not originally from where me and the kids are at
me and the kids are from here thou
he was only here on business
he met me gave me the looks
banged all his desires out on me
and bang i got pregnant and bang he got cold
Posted by Aquistorm
You should work something out with him. Like let him have the kids over the summer and then returned before school starts. Kids will have a full summer, you'd get a break and he spends time with the kids. It's a triple win in my book.easy to say stuff
u dont know the cap i lived with
when he wants his way he wants it even if he has to lie to benefit
would be cool having a sane ex
By your paranoid logic I am surprised your Aqua hasn't hit the hills.
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my aqua said i got issues
but he said my good is more than my bad so his ok with me
Posted by lnana04
They still will be staying with you. A month is not forever.where is my guarantee?
how do i know things will go as i thought?
he wasnt mr perfect so i know why i cant trust his word
You have to trust he will do the right thing. If not, make energy to contact the authorities. You can't have all this fear in you with solutions that you say you won't have any energy for.
Just get all the information you will need...every number, address, etc. Call your kids everyday. You can even let him know of your fears, but let him spend time with his kids. A month seems like a long-time but its not.
trusting is not an option
been there done that
with him
i will keep him blocked
ill invite him to the kids weddings oneday
i just hope he can move on with his life and stop blaming me
or using me to see his kids
he made a choice to make kids with a chic in a country far away
he made the final choice on divorce
he knew oneday he would have to leave
if he was so smart as he claimed why did he marry and make a chic pregnant thats so far away
something is contradicting here
Are you referring to yourself? Is he originally not from where you currently live?
yes he is not originally from where me and the kids are at
me and the kids are from here thou
he was only here on business
he met me gave me the looks
banged all his desires out on me
and bang i got pregnant and bang he got cold
& at what point in this story was there a marriage?
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4 years ago
Posted by Aquistorm
You should work something out with him. Like let him have the kids over the summer and then returned before school starts. Kids will have a full summer, you'd get a break and he spends time with the kids. It's a triple win in my book.easy to say stuff
u dont know the cap i lived with
when he wants his way he wants it even if he has to lie to benefit
would be cool having a sane ex
By your paranoid logic I am surprised your Aqua hasn't hit the hills.
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Give it some time and she'd be at the Aqua doorstep saying that he disappeared.
Posted by lnana04
They still will be staying with you. A month is not forever.where is my guarantee?
how do i know things will go as i thought?
he wasnt mr perfect so i know why i cant trust his word
You have to trust he will do the right thing. If not, make energy to contact the authorities. You can't have all this fear in you with solutions that you say you won't have any energy for.
Just get all the information you will need...every number, address, etc. Call your kids everyday. You can even let him know of your fears, but let him spend time with his kids. A month seems like a long-time but its not.
trusting is not an option
been there done that
with him
i will keep him blocked
ill invite him to the kids weddings oneday
i just hope he can move on with his life and stop blaming me
or using me to see his kids
he made a choice to make kids with a chic in a country far away
he made the final choice on divorce
he knew oneday he would have to leave
if he was so smart as he claimed why did he marry and make a chic pregnant thats so far away
something is contradicting here
Are you referring to yourself? Is he originally not from where you currently live?
yes he is not originally from where me and the kids are at
me and the kids are from here thou
he was only here on business
he met me gave me the looks
banged all his desires out on me
and bang i got pregnant and bang he got cold
& at what point in this story was there a marriage?
4 years ago
I meant before you got pregnant? After? Did you know him while he was in his home country beforehand or you met him while he was where you are on business?
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i met him in my country
when he was on business he was here on business
3 years before i met him
What is your moon sign? If you don't know.
Astrotheme.com or astro.com make up a chart and come back to us.
Posted by Vulcansfire
What is your moon sign? If you don't know.Astrotheme.com or astro.com make up a chart and come back to us.
Im leaning on that she has ether a water moon or air moon. Most likely Scorp or cancer moon.
it says waxing moon at 24°
What sign is it on?
Posted by Wynter
Spousal support? Child support?Those are sure signs.
Isnt that more fulfilling a legal requirement?
Posted by Vulcansfire
What sign is it on?
this is what i saw
This date's ephemeris
ephemeris coordinates are:
Sidereal time: 04:20:41 UTC
Sun in Sagittarius at 03° 59'.
Moon was in Sagittarius at 23° 44'.
Mercury in Scorpio at 24° 51'.
Venus was in Capricorn at 14° 55'.
Mars in Cancer at 27° 34'.
Jupiter was in Libra at 08° 55'.
Saturn in Aquarius at 13° 12'.
Uranus was in Capricorn at 15° 42'.
Neptun in Capricorn at 17° 07'.
Pluto was in Scorpio at 23° 18'.
Posted by Vulcansfire
What sign is it on?
i dont know how to search for what u are asking am not so deep in astrology
Posted by Capri-sun
So the real issue is you don't want your kid around the new chick & her kidstheres no new chic
his single after 4 freaking years troubling me
about his kids
but lemme not play innocent
i wouldnt want a situation where my kid faaar away by a chic i never even met or a country i never even visited
So why are you posting about him choosing to get a chick pregnant in a far away country?
im the chic in the far away country
that got pregnant
So if you knew that....where did you see this going— Either you knew he'd have to leave at some point or he knew he'd have to leave at some point.
Last I checked it takes 2 to make a baby...& if for some reason things didn't work out one of you should've had some sort of plan in place....
You knew this fact going in that he was from a far away country...at no point did you factor that bit of information in to the decisions you were making?
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i had a plan when i started to feel he was going to leave
i knew i wouldnt loose the kids would be with me
thats when i gave him an ultimatum to see if my feelings were wrong
i didnt wana waste anymore time
when i brought out the topic he denied it
and said i either accept him how he is or leaves
he never tried asking me why whats wrong
how can i fix it never
Her Mars in Cancer explains her defensiveness.
Posted by Capri-sun
So here's the thing, you say you got married 4 years ago. You also say he's been troubling you about your kids for 4 years.This is why people are saying the story keeps changing...you guys weren't married long?
Then you say he worked in your country 3 years prior to you meeting him...3+4=7....yet he's been telling you what to do & wanting things his way for 8 years....
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no here it is
he was here 3-4 years prior to meeting him
married 2 years
div 4 years
say he was here in 2006
been 10 years
his been here all together before he finally left
Posted by Vulcansfire
Her Mars in Cancer explains her defensiveness.
ok can urll check his issue and tell me
what explains what
his born 19 january 1983
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damn u typical cap
sorry u sound so like him its amazing
ive blocked him and chose to have the ball in my hand only because im afraid he will take advantage
his overseas if he was here he could come see them or pick them up for visits as he usually did
and take away my kids thats alll
seriously am not using the kids to get him
i know it looks like that but am not
another thingis when he use to be a here he use to say ill pick them upjusy for 2 days then he only brought them back after a week
like i like he keeps saying this and changes it later
as a sag i hate this
we can have peace just keep your word
dont play with me just to benefit yourself
lets be civilised adults