I feel like I am doing to myself the worst ever (Page 2)

Wow, so the little girl got a spanking?! He sounds like my Cap friend when it comes to discipline lol.

There are some Cap males that can be extremely moody. He's one of them, clearly, and he was not having a good day/night. That could have been him at his worst, or him near his worst. Whatever the case, its good you witnessed it and you are now clear on your decision.

Pathfinder, I may have misunderstood you then. I read your words as saying he could be "handled" it`s just I don`t have the necessery skills.

Posted by asha
Pathfinder, I may have misunderstood you then. I read your words as saying he could be "handled" it`s just I don`t have the necessery skills.

LoL! Some of us cardinals, particularly some Aries and Caps can be uber sensitive to people implying we are not capable of something despite how true it may be lol.

What's so bad about not being able to handle him? He literally freaked you out yesterday, til the point where you nearly panicked and left. The only thing that would have made me look at him crazy was throwing whatever he dropped, and that even depends on how hard he threw it.

Maybe its more about not being able to handle his ways at this point.

Quick story, I was watching "Watch what happens live" the other night with Tyrese(Capricorn) and singer Kandi(Taurus) on there. She gave Andy(the host) and Tyrese a gift bag of vibrators. As soon as she gave Tyrese his he was like "No, No! I don't want it!" and she still handed it to him and he slid the gift bag towards the audience saying one of them could have it. I was on another messageboard and some of those ladies thought that was the rudest thing someone could have ever done on televison, and I could see where most women would have been sensitive about that. What did Kandi do? Laughed a bit and shrugged it off and she kept it moving. She wasn't sensitive to his actions, possibly because the compatibility, who knows.

My point is, since the two of you are not as compatible it seems like the both of you are sensitive to the other and what you don't understand in the other. He really was being a bit crazy yesterday, but I can interpret it as being moody and possibly being pressed to have a good night and watching things fall apart. The whole day yesterday seemed out of his control and he freaked. Ah well...

Yes, I am sensitive and judgmental and touchy, same as he. But I also try to see other people`s positions and not jump into conclusions before get things clear.

He freaks every time things get out of his control or when plans change a little. Life is all about changes though, hence he will be freaked out all the time?

He loses temper too quickly and this is immature no matter what astrological sign you are. At 50 people should have learned to controll their emotions. He was close to losing temper yesterday morning too cuz there were some obstacle for watching a clip he was interested in. There are obstacles, people around have demands so he freaks. I see this and I do not dare say anything not to piss him off more.

Caps, Aries, whatever, middle aged people should know better and should be able to handle life situations better. If they cannot, they should at least be able to say sorry to people they love.

Posted by asha
Yes, I am sensitive and judgmental and touchy, same as he. But I also try to see other people`s positions and not jump into conclusions before get things clear.

He freaks every time things get out of his control or when plans change a little. Life is all about changes though, hence he will be freaked out all the time?

He loses temper too quickly and this is immature no matter what astrological sign you are. At 50 people should have learned to controll their emotions. He was close to losing temper yesterday morning too cuz there were some obstacle for watching a clip he was interested in. There are obstacles, people around have demands so he freaks. I see this and I do not dare say anything not to piss him off more.

Caps, Aries, whatever, middle aged people should know better and should be able to handle life situations better. If they cannot, they should at least be able to say sorry to people they love.

You have a point, but resisting change is a Capricorn trait. My mothers Capricorn ex is around 50 and he wouldn't technically throw a tantrum or lose his temper at change of plans/obstacles but his mood would go sour and he'd brood and be silently pissed for the rest of the day. It would be impossible for my mother to lighten him up again. Its just some of them though and how they've operated for years, so it could very well be more of a compatibility thing. You don't seem to let a lot of things affect your mood where as he does. That will only become extremely draining for you. Most Aries women I know are happy upbeat people.

A compatibility thing? I will tell you who can be compatible with this type of behaviour: a VICTIM who will take anything in exchange of the reward to be left around.

I may have been a victim material and probably he has sensed it. But I am not now.

ilyb, obviously it cannot be generalised like this and people from one sign may be very different and should not be put under a common denominator. Atrological traits are one thing but then many others come like upbringing, values, how evolved the person is, etc. Probably you are not like my Cap (ex) and I am not like your Aries lady. Although it did not work for me with this Cap man I will not avoid Caps in that future just because one of that.

If you want a piece of advice on your Aries lady go tell her you love her 🙂. I don`t know how soft inside you Caps are but Aries women are extremely soft and devoted if felt loved and appreciated. If hurt we suffer a lot and hate is just a tool to try and stop the pain. It only shows she is not over you cos you don`t hate people who are not important for you. Hate in this case means hurt love but it is still love.

Well perfect then. You dont love her, she hates you, where is the problem?

You cannot stand her but want to treetrunk her.. You hurt her bad but she asked for it... You lost me. It sounds like you are talking feelings here.

Everything`s so pre-determined? No room for human`s will?