I'm a Cap Virgin!

Hello all,

In trying find some information on this intriguing man I met, I stumbled across this site which sort of terrified me! Needless to say...I am new to this board, and just met my first Cap Man!

My story: I'm a 32-year-old Cancer, met the 27-year-old Cap on a serious online site, emailed for over a month before we met in person. When we did (just a week ago), instant and amazing connection, which he has admitted to. Spent hours together. Next day, lots of messages. Then asked me out again, to which I said yes, and another amazing date for hours and hours. No physical contact whatsoever, not even hand holding. He asked me out again, to which I said no...it has been a week, and he constantly e-mails and seems to want to talk all the time. See! Just now, he's on a business trip, on a Friday night, and he's telling me he is going to have dinner with his colleagues?! Do you all come on this strong? Is showering women with attention a normal trait?

For now, I have the upper hand...and I weary on how to proceed. I feel like he is the guy I have been waiting for, and would hate to lose him. These boards kind of freaked me out.

And yes, I am a Cancer, but a very rational and reserved one. I am very independent and lead a busy life.

I'd really, really appreciate any input...thanks a million in advance!

don't show interest, not even a little or he'll back off. Trust me, I was with one and I was also giving me LOT of attention until I confessed that I liked him too . Only show interest when says he wants to be with you for sure.

I meant "he was giving me a lot of attention...."

Thanks, capris! I am a bit confused, though. I want to spend time with him and it seems he does, too...he has asked me out multiple times, the last being this morning to meet this weekend. He also asked me to go away with him for a weekend and I haven't even laid a hand on him yet. I said I couldn't on the weekend date--family obligations. What warning signs should I look out for?
I'm terrified he's going to rip my heart out. I'm a cancer...so even when I move slow I get attached, somehow. Do they ALWAYS come on strong? And when do you know you're the "chosen one"?!

I too have just become interested in a capricorn male. Being a scorpio, we have an ideal match. These men are rarely understood. Guarded and resticted, time and trust are what make things work. Being a cancer, and being his opposite, things could go either way. you both share the need to trust and get to know people before entering into anything serious. keep things slow and steady, in otherwords just be your self.
good luck!

he isn't a real cap we never show affection even after marrage,

LMAO@Old Jake