I'm about to go crazy from this Cap man!! (Page 4)

What do you mean the guy in question?

I only read the 1st 2 post]. Trying to make a Capricorn man jealous will only backfire on you! They already take a long time to trust women naturally so that stunt you pulled... it will take him even longer. Its normal for them to pull away. I been seeing my Capricorn friend for 3 years and he still pull away. They like to stay in control of their emotion. Be patient and honest with him.

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Posted by Sag89
And their favorite thing to do is get people to freak out so they can call you crazy. They call it "crazy making" they get their needs met that way.


If they can get you to behave out of control or a overreaction than it makes them look better and they can cover their tracks of being a complete unfeeling prick cause all the attention falls on you.


They start off with the nice guy act so you think thats who they are so whenever they feel like starting drama ( they do this in the most sutle way ) it doesn't look like they caused it because how could " nice guy " start drama? It's gotta be YOUR FAULT. Ppl like this never take responsibility for anything and kiss a lot of ass to be able to get away with it.

This sounds awfully familiar.

My question tho...by making others crazy, what needs do they get met. I've been trying to understand this for a long time but it's just not making any sense to me

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Sure, I'll explain.


So okay ppl like this cap look for women like this scorpio that seem like they need to be rescued or taken care of cause they are unstable. By doing this he takes the focus off himself and his issues by trying to fix her. She also takes the focus off herself by being fixed on him. It both feeds them that way. But for him It feeds the need of making him look like the dependable super hero he wants to seen as.

avpd ppl's intimacy issue is also abondment and being dependent on others. So they always try to never and always be in control.

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Posted by Sag89
What do you mean the guy in question?

Ohh ups??_my bad I should??ve elaborated. I was meant to say, I don't believe it is so much his fault per se for she is back, repeating the same behavior once again! If anyone has read the this thread form the beginning, one may notice she has been advised to seek professional help. As matter a fact she admitted of failing to go through with it.

Been traumatized as a child allegedly. Very intelligent young woman !!!
Lord timing sucks on dxp

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Well yea of course she does. She needs to find some coping skills. He does as well as you can see he does not know how to deal with conflict and avoids it. I'm sure he repeats that as well. It takes too.

I guess I don't get your point?

Posted by R24
She sounds like a typical young female scorp who hasn't learned put that stinger away yet. Its self destructive. And the vibes attract others that feed off emotional butter. I still think unevolved scorpio thinking patterns (particularly female scorps) is strikingly similar to BPD in many aspects. She will likely transform in time.

Haha......whatever you wanna believe......

Posted by R24
Been there. done that. lot of t-shirts...

Yea.....

Posted by EusiveSoulll
Ohhh no. I thought she was ALL OVER the place this time arround. btw, she (OP) is on the pisces board this time LOL
ahhh yeahhh....*smh*

Has P-Angel got ahold of her yet? That ought to be interesting... 😉

harry99 why did you recently feel the need to end your friendship with your Cap?

R24, thats true cause she's definitely moved on.

idk. Living with an Aqua mom that dated a Cap made this story familiar. Id actually told my mother about this and we laughed because she said thats how them Caps make you act. Some of the craziness she displayed makes Mermaid story not that bad at all smh.

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Posted by lnana04
harry99 why did you recently feel the need to end your friendship with your Cap?

R24, thats true cause she's definitely moved on.

idk. Living with an Aqua mom that dated a Cap made this story familiar. Id actually told my mother about this and we laughed because she said thats how them Caps make you act. Some of the craziness she displayed makes Mermaid story not that bad at all smh.

Cuz he hardly called and only spoke to me when I contacted him. Also he and I no longer have any friends cuz they all hate us for cheating on his supposedly "innocent" crazy a&& gf. Also it was just getting old that every time I saw him he would get all horny and want to have sex with me. I mean dude you broke my heart, treated me like dirt, still stayed with your gf and straight up told me that you used me and yet you still want to try and have sex with me. Haahaaahaa. With me once a person screws me over (literally) or is my ex I can never get sexually aroused by them enough to have consensual sex with them. It's psychological cuz I don't trust people and never had not even as a kid cuz of all the shnit people did to me so once someone hurts me and I let go then I'm just done with them forever.

So yeah now we're truly done with. His gf hates me and I hate her more. She pretends to be my friend when she sees me but I don't pretend I just straight up act like I don't like her. Anywho whatever lol

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Dont blame you for cutting contact.

Posted by IntriguedScorp

Nah, she's been hunting fish but he got the hell out of Dodge, like quick!

Yeah, the Fish bailed, and can't say I blame him ... this Scorpio woman is coo-coo .. something very very wrong up in her head.

What a worhless piece of sh-i-t you are! You're delusional and whiny. No wonder he ran away from your crazy ass. You're unbearable to be with.

Hello and Question:

So recently my now ex-boyfriend took a two week road trip with guy friends en-route to a wedding.. Things with us were fine just days before. During his trip he would text me all day and night, sharing pictures and text of his current location. His trip seemed so much fun and I was missing him like crazy. He kept telling me that he loved me and that he couldn't wait to get back. Then out of the blue, three days out of his trip he started acting distant, not writing or calling as much.. I started to sense that something was off with us, as just a day before he was so loving and telling me that had gifts to bring back from each city.. I found myself calling and texting, only to get short answers. I know that most of the trip was spent touring cities, eating out at Restaurants, and bars and clubs. Bars and clubs I was not a fan of, but anyway, he would even text me while he was out at night. As I said everything seemed great but all of a sudden he became uninterested in speaking to me. He texted me finally on his last day away saying we he would be landing back home. Then he was still distant, he had lost all the lovie dovie attitude in exchange for pure coldness. We never got to speak that night, when I asked what was wrong via text, he just said that he was sad, confused, upset but that it wasnt my fault. Next day we speak and he says he wanted to be single and that this trip made him realize this and that he had such a great time and would enjoy being solo and hanging out with friends.And in his cold words, "I don't know what to tell you, it's a feeling I can't control". Utter coldness and annoyance in his voice. He said that on the last days of the trip he just completely forgot about me and that it was a bad feeling.. And that when it was time to come home the day of he had no sense to rush back to see me. No I'm sorry or anything. This has happened two weeks before our 2nd anniversary. We've had our share of ups and downs. I tried calling him again last night to see if we could talk peacefully and nicely. He proceeded to be really nasty, expressing that he wants to find other girls to date and that he is too young to be with one person and that it's gotten old to him. He now wants to be with friends and "sample more girls" so that he knows exactly what he wants. He said I remind him of things that he hates and that there is a lot that he doesnt like about me. He even admitted that he's given away something that he bought me but is