I am a bit apprehensive about posting this, but this site seems pretty judgement free... I met a Capricorn man about 2 weeks ago when I stopped into his place of employment. I had no real reason to be there and he wasn't really on the clock. He did end up being the one who helped me though. It was obvious that we were both attracted to one another and I gave him my number before I left. We made plans to go out at the end of that week, but he wanted to see me immediately so we went on our first date the following day. Everything went GREAT! The next day, we went out again. He let me know that he really liked me and something inside of me was telling me that he was my soulmate...still is actually. The day that we met, we both let each other know that we were recently coming out of something and still trying to figure out where we were with things. He hadn't heard from the female that he was dating for about a month because she was upset with him for not having time for her. Surprisingly enough, she popped back up after our second date and he let me know that he was considering giving it a second chance because he knew her. I understood. They got into an argument that very night though...about the same thing. Time. I appreciated his honesty and I knew what I felt, so I had no problem continuing getting to know him. We've been out 4 times in the last 2 weeks, and we'll be going out again today. When he is working, he likes for me to come and visit him and sometimes I'll go and sit with him for hours until he gets off. We both like each other a LOT, and according to him, he's falling for me even though he doesn't want to. Says that he can't afford to slow down and he feels like I'm softening him up. Lol. I'm a Scorpio by the way. Scorpio Sun (house 5)/ Leo Moon (house 3)/ Scorpio Mercury (house 5)/ Scorpio Venus (house 5)/ Gemini Mars (house 12)... One of the nights that I stayed with him at his job, things got a little hot and heavy. We stayed there long after the place had been closed and we went in the back and kind of lost control. He prides himself on having a lot of control... He performed oral sex on me and started to penetrate me, but after about 4 strokes he just stopped. Went back to kissing and touching me and we left shortly after. I was confused and a little offended... That had never happened before. He did let me know that I was about to make him "let it go". We sat in his car and talked for a long time after that. He keeps saying that he really wants to get to know me and that he doesn't want to jump into anything. I know that he's been hurt before...a few times. I'm naturally impatient, but I seem to have all of the patience in the world when it comes to him. He says that we are not ready for sex. That the emotional pull that comes along with great sex will be too much and that it'll be harder to make logical decisions with all of the emotions that will be involved. He feels like it will be too intense and that things will change...
