TaurusBull1977
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Libra Female and Capricorn Male
Posted by TaurusBull1977
My sister is a Libra. She was involved with a Capricorn man. She was ending her relationship with her ex husband (Cancer), when she became involved with this Cappie. Things moved real slow, she dealt with his disappearing acts, no-call, no shows, need for solitude, non verbal communication, and etc...But as he began to open up, my sister and this Cappie were pretty hot and heavy. He shared things, personal stories, history, past...that he hasn't shared with anyone else.
The dilemma?
Her ex kept showing up unannounced wanting to reconcile. Her Cappy man begin to feel real uncomfortable. He never verbalized this. He began to 'ween' her off. There was also a lot of turmoil in his life, the death of his sister, other issues, etc.
Two weeks later, she found out that he became serious about someone else. She found this out through FaceBook. He met this woman at his sister's wake. This woman moved in with him 1 month later, and they were engaged 11 months later.
She was shocked and hurt by this. Isn't this unusual for a slow-moving Capricorn.
Humm... It is possible. I can relate this to something what happened to me; If you find it helpful.
When I broke up with my ex capricorn, people told me he laid many girls, he even confessed that to me, as I also found out and i was surprised too. After several months of our brake up, he dumped all of the girls as he said they dont make him happy and I was the only person who was 'shining' his days and nights, and he asked me to go back to him. He regretted the brake up many times, as he still does tho...
Weird anyways...
They are hard to handle.
Posted by libra22
Humm... It is possible. I can relate this to something what happened to me; If you find it helpful.
When I broke up with my ex capricorn, people told me he laid many girls, he even confessed that to me, as I also found out and i was surprised too. After several months of our brake up, he dumped all of the girls as he said they dont make him happy and I was the only person who was 'shining' his days and nights, and he asked me to go back to him. He regretted the brake up many times, as he still does tho...
Weird anyways...
They are hard to handle.
The craziest thing?
She never sensed a 'cheating' vibe from him.
My sister stated that he was quite predictable and faithful, which was why she was so surprised at his sudden movements.
Posted by LIBRA1234
@libra22 - Ahhh men (not only caps) can be so stupid sometimes *shrugs*
Lib, your right, but Caps tend to be very insecure. Mine was very insecure and once he admitted that I was making him be stronger, as I was always pushing him to do more and go further. When I told him I am not going back to him and we can be just friends, he told me he wants to visit me 'as a friend', It was indeed very strange but I agreed, I was absolutely fine with his visit. One night he called me at 4am telling me things that I will never love somebody the way I loved him, nobody can make me more happy than he can...and all this butter, so I told him he is wrong because I am seeing someone who is making me very happy and I am falling in love (wasnt true at all, i lied). He hanged up the phone and after several days he sent me a photo of him and some Brazilian chick that is like 10 years older than he is, saying he is doing her.. i mean, WTF? this is something that kids at age 15 do.
... and he still talks to me. Go understand him!!!
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by libra22
Humm... It is possible. I can relate this to something what happened to me; If you find it helpful.
When I broke up with my ex capricorn, people told me he laid many girls, he even confessed that to me, as I also found out and i was surprised too. After several months of our brake up, he dumped all of the girls as he said they dont make him happy and I was the only person who was 'shining' his days and nights, and he asked me to go back to him. He regretted the brake up many times, as he still does tho...
Weird anyways...
They are hard to handle.
The craziest thing?
She never sensed a 'cheating' vibe from him.
My sister stated that he was quite predictable and faithful, which was why she was so surprised at his sudden movements.click to expand
There must be a reason, a very good reason why he did what he did. Overall, they dont commit so easy. My brother is Capricorn and before he officially told his girlfriend that they are a couple, omg, she did really have hard times with him.
One thing.... they dont cheat when they are in relationship. . . Honesty is no.one!
I do really wonder what might the reason be behind this scene.
I convinced my sister to join DXPNET, she just created an account. She will be able to give you more to this story. She may create a new thread....
I don't know too much about Capricorn men...
But I do know they're still earth signs.
I know I'm a Taurus (Earth Sign)...and we're slow moving as hell 😛...
I don't know too much about Capricorn men...
But I do know they're still earth signs.
I know I'm a Taurus (Earth Sign)...and we're slow moving as hell 😛...
Posted by TaurusBull1977
I convinced my sister to join DXPNET, she just created an account. She will be able to give you more to this story. She may create a new thread....
I don't know too much about Capricorn men...
But I do know they're still earth signs.
I know I'm a Taurus (Earth Sign)...and we're slow moving as hell 😛...
–_–?–?y, cool... I will check her thread and see if I can help out.
🙂
The things stupid idiots do for attention or revenge... SMH!!!
Hi all, I just became a member. My sister posted this thread on my behalf, I just opened up my on thread called fast moving capricorn
No necessarily, Caps want drama free lives. Which is why many Caps are loners or wanderers. People (mainly females) love drama because it's a rush of all the emotions at once. Cap men do not want to waste energy on unstable emotions. They want a positive outcome. And no, make up sex in not positive for us! If it's done it's to please you...
@sure shot cap and cow puncher why do you think he moved so quickly with someone he just met. I know its natural for caps to move at a slow pace. I understand why he pulled away from me, what I don't understand is how he met, moved in and engaged a woman in such a short period of time. I read all about it through face book. I know him to be private, so I found it strange that I was able to read all about his relationship on a social website. He even went as for to tell me that it was all for my benefit. Im really confused here.
The crazy thing is, in the 11 months shes been there he has already put her out twice already. The girl is pro drama as well. She is always posting on his wall, all kinds of pictures of herself. I could read every single aspect of there relationship on news feed. I have to admit, I do feel slighted.
last time I spoke to him was back in Oct, and I have to admit, I miss our friendship
Posted by cowpuncher
He is probably in for a nasty surprise in the long run.
This ^^^^^^^
I strongly agree.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by cowpuncher
He is probably in for a nasty surprise in the long run.
click to expand
This ^^^^^^^
I strongly agree.
Shoooot, my sister Taurus did this. Met up with his high school ex in December, got engaged to her two months later, and moved to Florida to be with her 2weeks ago. He is 27yrs old, so the girl is from waayy back...like when he was 13/14, and there's no telling what shes like now. All this movement within 3months.
11 months seem fast, but even earth signs put a little pep to their step when they spot "the one." He was definitely going thru a hard time. The only odd thing is him meeting her at the wake and moving her in so quickly. The engagement is not odd. He clearly clinged on to whoever could give him emotional support at that time.
Posted by lnana04
11 months seem fast, but even earth signs put a little pep to their step when they spot "the one." He was definitely going thru a hard time.
11 months is nothing....
You're right....
Earth signs do put a little 'pep' in our step even if we spotted "The One"
We can just as slow moving!...Whether we're feeling you or not.
Posted by lnana04Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by cowpuncher
He is probably in for a nasty surprise in the long run.
This ^^^^^^^
I strongly agree.
Shoooot, my sister Taurus did this. Met up with his high school ex in December, got engaged to her two months later, and moved to Florida to be with her 2weeks ago. He is 27yrs old, so the girl is from waayy back...like when he was 13/14, and there's no telling what shes like now. All this movement within 3months.
11 months seem fast, but even earth signs put a little pep to their step when they spot "the one." He was definitely going thru a hard time. The only odd thing is him meeting her at the wake and moving her in so quickly. The engagement is not odd. He clearly clinged on to whoever could give him emotional support at that time.click to expand
He doesn't speak to me at all anymore, but constantly post things on facebook for me to read. I know he's doing it all on purpose because he's not one to share his personal life so freely. I'm just going to move on, delete him so he don't feel the need to show me how happy he's pretending to be with girl, because he knows I feel about him
Posted by librascale75
@sure shot cap and cow puncher why do you think he moved so quickly with someone he just met. I know its natural for caps to move at a slow pace. I understand why he pulled away from me, what I don't understand is how he met, moved in and engaged a woman in such a short period of time. I read all about it through face book. I know him to be private, so I found it strange that I was able to read all about his relationship on a social website. He even went as for to tell me that it was all for my benefit. Im really confused here.
Honestly, I believe in easy come, easy go. Unless this Cap is stupid and desperate, which I doubt, he found himself a good player. She properly asked what he wants and she knows how to give it to him in doses. She must of painted the perfect picture of the future for him. Then she started to take action so that she looks like she is working towards the goal with him. A perfect deception!
The perfect deception indeed. I know people who know her, and have told me stories about her. Apparently that's how she moves. Heard she's a full blown nut, and a full blown fraud who uses people for her own benefit. He's very generation and she's milking it for all its worth. She's 10 yrs his junior and is running straight game.
I meant to say generous, darn spell check...smh
At this point I'm just going to accept it for what it is. I've wasted enough mental energy thinking about this. Time will tell how all this play out, in the mean time I'm just going to fall back.
Yes it is a great observation, and it makes perfect sense. Thank you :-)
Okay people...
Sometimes it doesnt take a lot of time to fall in love. I am not defending the Capricorn guy for doing what he did without telling or being honest to this Libra Lady, but sometimes things happen very fast. In fact, if he didnt feel the way he wanted to feel with this Lady Libra, the connection wasnt very deep, of course he would look for another woman that will fulfill him in the true sense of the word.
CAPRICORN do not play games of the style chase me please. They are so honest and straight forward. They ask for a lot in a woman.
The girl may be a drama, but shes the one being with him right now and discussing the possible ways of what the reason might be is wasting of time.
I suggest to this Libra lady to move on and forget on the Capricorn guy. If he needs you, he will come back to you. Do not push him, call him or whatever him.
~Libra
Sometimes it doesnt take a lot of time to fall in love. I am not defending the Capricorn guy for doing what he did without telling or being honest to this Libra Lady, but sometimes things happen very fast. In fact, if he didnt feel the way he wanted to feel with this Lady Libra, the connection wasnt very deep, of course he would look for another woman that will fulfill him in the true sense of the word.
CAPRICORN do not play games of the style chase me please. They are so honest and straight forward. They ask for a lot in a woman.
The girl may be a drama, but shes the one being with him right now and discussing the possible ways of what the reason might be is wasting of time.
I suggest to this Libra lady to move on and forget on the Capricorn guy. If he needs you, he will come back to you. Do not push him, call him or whatever him.
~Libra
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Her ex kept showing up unannounced wanting to reconcile. Her Cappy man begin to feel real uncomfortable. He never verbalized this. He began to 'ween' her off. There was also a lot of turmoil in his life, the death of his sister, other issues, etc.
Two weeks later, she found out that he became serious about someone else. She found this out through FaceBook. He met this woman at his sister's wake. This woman moved in with him 1 month later, and they were engaged 11 months later.
She was shocked and hurt by this. Isn't this unusual for a slow-moving Capricorn.