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He talks about different stages in life but he dates younger? Ah I think you are better off, he wasn't in it & went running for whatever reason. Sometimes guys make us question ourselves when our intuition is right on & explains our reactions & behavior. Believe in yourself!!
Yup he is now following younger flatchest girls. one of them looks like a teenager...
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He talks about different stages in life but he dates younger? Ah I think you are better off, he wasn't in it & went running for whatever reason. Sometimes guys make us question ourselves when our intuition is right on & explains our reactions & behavior. Believe in yourself!!
Yup he is now following younger flatchest girls. one of them looks like a teenager...
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@whatthehell

HAVE someone mentioned butt hole? ?
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He talks about different stages in life but he dates younger? Ah I think you are better off, he wasn't in it & went running for whatever reason. Sometimes guys make us question ourselves when our intuition is right on & explains our reactions & behavior. Believe in yourself!!
Yup he is now following younger flatchest girls. one of them looks like a teenager...
@whatthehell

HAVE someone mentioned butt hole? ?
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The other 2 looks older than I probably in early 30s. He said I look early 20/ but one of them looks really young
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As a Capricorn female who dated and ended a relationship with a Capricorn male... I think your message to him was a good move. I would have appreciated your acknowledgement and break down of how things happened on your end. Capricorn men take a lot of time they don't get pinned down too easy even once they are interested. They have to make sure you're worth their time. They have to feel like it's their move to become involved and feel safe so the message you sent was a nice appreciation of the time you shared but not a begging/desperate attempt to get him back which he may have been expecting. I'm sure he'll have a response once he's had some time and space. You're smart to play it cool no matter what happens. We can be very forgiving if we feel we have been understood and apologized to maturely. Emotional and public displays are a huge turn off and can make us uncomfortable. We do have a "last straw" and there's no bringing us back once our mind has been made up. I have cut off several exes with no interest at point of break up. I don't hold grudges for long but once I lose interest it's over. People think we are cold but we are actually very sensitive and try to preserve our emotions at all cost as it isn't very becoming on us. We give the classic cold shoulder when we feel slighted and but are actually somewhat miserable all the while if we actually care. A good discussion and feeling understood does wonders to bring us back around. I hope you are able to get somethings straightened out I know we all can be better. Good luck! ??
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As a Capricorn female who dated and ended a relationship with a Capricorn male... I think your message to him was a good move. I would have appreciated your acknowledgement and break down of how things happened on your end. Capricorn men take a lot of time they don't get pinned down too easy even once they are interested. They have to make sure you're worth their time. They have to feel like it's their move to become involved and feel safe so the message you sent was a nice appreciation of the time you shared but not a begging/desperate attempt to get him back which he may have been expecting. I'm sure he'll have a response once he's had some time and space. You're smart to play it cool no matter what happens. We can be very forgiving if we feel we have been understood and apologized to maturely. Emotional and public displays are a huge turn off and can make us uncomfortable. We do have a "last straw" and there's no bringing us back once our mind has been made up. I have cut off several exes with no interest at point of break up. I don't hold grudges for long but once I lose interest it's over. People think we are cold but we are actually very sensitive and try to preserve our emotions at all cost as it isn't very becoming on us. We give the classic cold shoulder when we feel slighted and but are actually somewhat miserable all the while if we actually care. A good discussion and feeling understood does wonders to bring us back around. I hope you are able to get somethings straightened out I know we all can be better. Good luck! ??
He did respond but is not to get back together. He said he likes me and my company and we could have stay together for a few more months but deep down he knows it's not forever as he hasn't developed the deep feelings he knows he is capable of. He apologized for things not working out and he is glad he gotten to build those beautiful moments with me.

I know that while we were together he often say he feels like he is not good enough and he was very conscious of his appearance and tried to bulk up for me even I never asked him to.

He also said we are at different stage of our life where I'm still exploring my emotions, feelings and connections with other ppl and how I react to the world around me.

He also said I'm a attractive beautiful young woman full of energy, drive, passion and integrity. He will cherish the memory of our time together.

Regarding the energy part Im like an energizer bunny and he is really low on energy. He did make many jokes to tell me that he is old and can't keep up with me. He even joked about may be I need a younger guy. I reauuresn him I only like him.

Anyway I responded to his email to thank him for his honesty and asked him to stop apologizing. He already restored my faith in men, positive changes win a gift to take to he future. I agree that the journey is exciting and I hope the day I run into him I would have become the person he helped me to grow into. Then I wished him happy Easter.

He hasn't cut me off. He is still my number one fan on my Instagram viewing and liking eveything.
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
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Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
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I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
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Stories girl. You can see who viewed your stories
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
Stories girl. You can see who viewed your stories
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Ohh yea ?
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
Stories girl. You can see who viewed your stories
Ohh yea ?
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It's just damn weird for him to get his friend to view my stories. He hasn't log back into dating site yet. He now uses Instagram. He followed many girls and he never used to like strangers photo but now he is doing that for all of these girls. None of them followed or liked back.

I don't get it these girls are not eye candy either. Very small follower pool. May be he thinks he has a better chance with these girls? I don't get why he is trying to get something that are several steps down from me. Not being conceited I'm just curious
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
Stories girl. You can see who viewed your stories
Ohh yea ?
It's just damn weird for him to get his friend to view my stories. He hasn't log back into dating site yet. He now uses Instagram. He followed many girls and he never used to like strangers photo but now he is doing that for all of these girls. None of them followed or liked back.

I don't get it these girls are not eye candy either. Very small follower pool. May be he thinks he has a better chance with these girls? I don't get why he is trying to get something that are several steps down from me. Not being conceited I'm just curious
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My opinion is that men suck. Online dating sucks. Guys has tooooo many options. I keep meeting new ones, but none want to settle down. I wish I knew how to lock one down instead of second guessing every move I make. Sorry for the tangent. Basically I think he likes keeping his options open until he's either ready to settle down or finds exactly what he's looking for. I think Capricorns are picky.
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
Stories girl. You can see who viewed your stories
Ohh yea ?
It's just damn weird for him to get his friend to view my stories. He hasn't log back into dating site yet. He now uses Instagram. He followed many girls and he never used to like strangers photo but now he is doing that for all of these girls. None of them followed or liked back.

I don't get it these girls are not eye candy either. Very small follower pool. May be he thinks he has a better chance with these girls? I don't get why he is trying to get something that are several steps down from me. Not being conceited I'm just curious
My opinion is that men suck. Online dating sucks. Guys has tooooo many options. I keep meeting new ones, but none want to settle down. I wish I knew how to lock one down instead of second guessing every move I make. Sorry for the tangent. Basically I think he likes keeping his options open until he's either ready to settle down or finds exactly what he's looking for. I think Capricorns are picky.
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Yea I get that. I was just curious cos he is not going back to dating site. He is just targeting these girls who are not pretty or have high pay jobs on social media.

I thought capricorn are picky with looks and the girls career. That's why I was confused I thought his next chase will be prettier and richer lol
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
Stories girl. You can see who viewed your stories
Ohh yea ?
It's just damn weird for him to get his friend to view my stories. He hasn't log back into dating site yet. He now uses Instagram. He followed many girls and he never used to like strangers photo but now he is doing that for all of these girls. None of them followed or liked back.

I don't get it these girls are not eye candy either. Very small follower pool. May be he thinks he has a better chance with these girls? I don't get why he is trying to get something that are several steps down from me. Not being conceited I'm just curious
My opinion is that men suck. Online dating sucks. Guys has tooooo many options. I keep meeting new ones, but none want to settle down. I wish I knew how to lock one down instead of second guessing every move I make. Sorry for the tangent. Basically I think he likes keeping his options open until he's either ready to settle down or finds exactly what he's looking for. I think Capricorns are picky.
Yea I get that. I was just curious cos he is not going back to dating site. He is just targeting these girls who are not pretty or have high pay jobs on social media.

I thought capricorn are picky with looks and the girls career. That's why I was confused I thought his next chase will be prettier and richer lol
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I've always believed that caps want to be the providers and be able to take care of the girl financially or at least to some degree.

I think they just need to be attracted to a girl. They care more about finding someone who's personally matched theirs and they feel very happy with.
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
Stories girl. You can see who viewed your stories
Ohh yea ?
It's just damn weird for him to get his friend to view my stories. He hasn't log back into dating site yet. He now uses Instagram. He followed many girls and he never used to like strangers photo but now he is doing that for all of these girls. None of them followed or liked back.

I don't get it these girls are not eye candy either. Very small follower pool. May be he thinks he has a better chance with these girls? I don't get why he is trying to get something that are several steps down from me. Not being conceited I'm just curious
My opinion is that men suck. Online dating sucks. Guys has tooooo many options. I keep meeting new ones, but none want to settle down. I wish I knew how to lock one down instead of second guessing every move I make. Sorry for the tangent. Basically I think he likes keeping his options open until he's either ready to settle down or finds exactly what he's looking for. I think Capricorns are picky.
Yea I get that. I was just curious cos he is not going back to dating site. He is just targeting these girls who are not pretty or have high pay jobs on social media.

I thought capricorn are picky with looks and the girls career. That's why I was confused I thought his next chase will be prettier and richer lol
I've always believed that caps want to be the providers and be able to take care of the girl financially or at least to some degree.

I think they just need to be attracted to a girl. They care more about finding someone who's personally matched theirs and they feel very happy with.

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Yup he pays for eveything. He definitely want to be provider. He still likes and view eveythiny but I messed up.. I unfollowed by accident then followed >
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
Stories girl. You can see who viewed your stories
Ohh yea ?
It's just damn weird for him to get his friend to view my stories. He hasn't log back into dating site yet. He now uses Instagram. He followed many girls and he never used to like strangers photo but now he is doing that for all of these girls. None of them followed or liked back.

I don't get it these girls are not eye candy either. Very small follower pool. May be he thinks he has a better chance with these girls? I don't get why he is trying to get something that are several steps down from me. Not being conceited I'm just curious
My opinion is that men suck. Online dating sucks. Guys has tooooo many options. I keep meeting new ones, but none want to settle down. I wish I knew how to lock one down instead of second guessing every move I make. Sorry for the tangent. Basically I think he likes keeping his options open until he's either ready to settle down or finds exactly what he's looking for. I think Capricorns are picky.
Yea I get that. I was just curious cos he is not going back to dating site. He is just targeting these girls who are not pretty or have high pay jobs on social media.

I thought capricorn are picky with looks and the girls career. That's why I was confused I thought his next chase will be prettier and richer lol
I've always believed that caps want to be the providers and be able to take care of the girl financially or at least to some degree.

I think they just need to be attracted to a girl. They care more about finding someone who's personally matched theirs and they feel very happy with.

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Yup he pays for eveything. He definitely want to be provider. He still likes and view eveythiny but I messed up.. I unfollowed by accident then followed >
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
Stories girl. You can see who viewed your stories
Ohh yea ?
It's just damn weird for him to get his friend to view my stories. He hasn't log back into dating site yet. He now uses Instagram. He followed many girls and he never used to like strangers photo but now he is doing that for all of these girls. None of them followed or liked back.

I don't get it these girls are not eye candy either. Very small follower pool. May be he thinks he has a better chance with these girls? I don't get why he is trying to get something that are several steps down from me. Not being conceited I'm just curious
My opinion is that men suck. Online dating sucks. Guys has tooooo many options. I keep meeting new ones, but none want to settle down. I wish I knew how to lock one down instead of second guessing every move I make. Sorry for the tangent. Basically I think he likes keeping his options open until he's either ready to settle down or finds exactly what he's looking for. I think Capricorns are picky.
Yea I get that. I was just curious cos he is not going back to dating site. He is just targeting these girls who are not pretty or have high pay jobs on social media.

I thought capricorn are picky with looks and the girls career. That's why I was confused I thought his next chase will be prettier and richer lol
I've always believed that caps want to be the providers and be able to take care of the girl financially or at least to some degree.

I think they just need to be attracted to a girl. They care more about finding someone who's personally matched theirs and they feel very happy with.

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Yup he pays for eveything. He definitely want to be provider. He still likes and view eveythiny but I messed up.. I unfollowed by accident then followed >
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
Stories girl. You can see who viewed your stories
Ohh yea ?
It's just damn weird for him to get his friend to view my stories. He hasn't log back into dating site yet. He now uses Instagram. He followed many girls and he never used to like strangers photo but now he is doing that for all of these girls. None of them followed or liked back.

I don't get it these girls are not eye candy either. Very small follower pool. May be he thinks he has a better chance with these girls? I don't get why he is trying to get something that are several steps down from me. Not being conceited I'm just curious
My opinion is that men suck. Online dating sucks. Guys has tooooo many options. I keep meeting new ones, but none want to settle down. I wish I knew how to lock one down instead of second guessing every move I make. Sorry for the tangent. Basically I think he likes keeping his options open until he's either ready to settle down or finds exactly what he's looking for. I think Capricorns are picky.
Yea I get that. I was just curious cos he is not going back to dating site. He is just targeting these girls who are not pretty or have high pay jobs on social media.

I thought capricorn are picky with looks and the girls career. That's why I was confused I thought his next chase will be prettier and richer lol
I've always believed that caps want to be the providers and be able to take care of the girl financially or at least to some degree.

I think they just need to be attracted to a girl. They care more about finding someone who's personally matched theirs and they feel very happy with.

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Yup he pays for eveything. He definitely want to be provider. He still likes and view eveythiny but I messed up.. I unfollowed by accident then followed >
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
Stories girl. You can see who viewed your stories
Ohh yea ?
It's just damn weird for him to get his friend to view my stories. He hasn't log back into dating site yet. He now uses Instagram. He followed many girls and he never used to like strangers photo but now he is doing that for all of these girls. None of them followed or liked back.

I don't get it these girls are not eye candy either. Very small follower pool. May be he thinks he has a better chance with these girls? I don't get why he is trying to get something that are several steps down from me. Not being conceited I'm just curious
My opinion is that men suck. Online dating sucks. Guys has tooooo many options. I keep meeting new ones, but none want to settle down. I wish I knew how to lock one down instead of second guessing every move I make. Sorry for the tangent. Basically I think he likes keeping his options open until he's either ready to settle down or finds exactly what he's looking for. I think Capricorns are picky.
Yea I get that. I was just curious cos he is not going back to dating site. He is just targeting these girls who are not pretty or have high pay jobs on social media.

I thought capricorn are picky with looks and the girls career. That's why I was confused I thought his next chase will be prettier and richer lol
I've always believed that caps want to be the providers and be able to take care of the girl financially or at least to some degree.

I think they just need to be attracted to a girl. They care more about finding someone who's personally matched theirs and they feel very happy with.

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Yup he pays for eveything. He definitely want to be provider. He still likes and view eveythiny but I messed up.. I unfollowed by accident then followed >
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He is still viewing all stories and liking all post. What more weird is he gothis best friend to view my stories too. Those stories were my traveling photos (I'm not in them)

His best friend knows about me, but we never met and he's not my follower... wonder if they were talking about me or some sort of games?
How do u know his friend is looking at your stuff? Maybe he wanted to set his friend up with u.
Haha no this fiend is married. He is friends with both him and his wife.

How do I know? I'm guessing you don't have Instagram?
I do have Instagram. Unless he is liking your things, I don't know how else you could know he's looking at your pictures
Stories girl. You can see who viewed your stories
Ohh yea ?
It's just damn weird for him to get his friend to view my stories. He hasn't log back into dating site yet. He now uses Instagram. He followed many girls and he never used to like strangers photo but now he is doing that for all of these girls. None of them followed or liked back.

I don't get it these girls are not eye candy either. Very small follower pool. May be he thinks he has a better chance with these girls? I don't get why he is trying to get something that are several steps down from me. Not being conceited I'm just curious
My opinion is that men suck. Online dating sucks. Guys has tooooo many options. I keep meeting new ones, but none want to settle down. I wish I knew how to lock one down instead of second guessing every move I make. Sorry for the tangent. Basically I think he likes keeping his options open until he's either ready to settle down or finds exactly what he's looking for. I think Capricorns are picky.
Yea I get that. I was just curious cos he is not going back to dating site. He is just targeting these girls who are not pretty or have high pay jobs on social media.

I thought capricorn are picky with looks and the girls career. That's why I was confused I thought his next chase will be prettier and richer lol
I've always believed that caps want to be the providers and be able to take care of the girl financially or at least to some degree.

I think they just need to be attracted to a girl. They care more about finding someone who's personally matched theirs and they feel very happy with.

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Yup he pays for eveything. He definitely want to be provider. He still likes and view eveythiny but I messed up.. I unfollowed by accident then followed >
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@pinkbird03 I'm ok. I don't feel the urgency to get him back or to avoid him. Right now dating is just not a priority. I'm flooded by work and traveling plus my usual routine.

Im enjoying this time for myself and self improvement. It will help me better with next relationship with him or someone else
Sometimes love clouds our judgement and being hopeful only hurts more in the end.

But I'm no one to judge. You'll move on when you feel ready to.
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@pinkbird03 I'm ok. I don't feel the urgency to get him back or to avoid him. Right now dating is just not a priority. I'm flooded by work and traveling plus my usual routine.

Im enjoying this time for myself and self improvement. It will help me better with next relationship with him or someone else
Sometimes love clouds our judgement and being hopeful only hurts more in the end.

But I'm no one to judge. You'll move on when you feel ready to.
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I just don't think jumping right into dating move is a sign of moving on. I've seen ppl wiTh lots of baggage and I don't wanna be one of those ppl.

He hasnt logged back into dating site either.
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@pinkbird03 I'm ok. I don't feel the urgency to get him back or to avoid him. Right now dating is just not a priority. I'm flooded by work and traveling plus my usual routine.

Im enjoying this time for myself and self improvement. It will help me better with next relationship with him or someone else


I hope it's not him. I doubt he will improve his behaviour .....
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Just a hunch I'm thinking he is insecure, or feels you are out of his control so to speak....also your youthfulness will unsettle him. Caps like security and dont want their girl having eyes on them. I get that also, being a Scorpio! Nothing more sexy than your partner being a woman/man in the street and a freak in the bedroom!!! There is five years with my guy and he always teases I'm old yet first to zip up my running top till it near chokes me when we see one another hehe too cute!!!!!!!
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The best advice I can give is when someone shows you who they are, believe them.

And please stop blaming yourself. That's driving me nuts. If you fucked his friend or crashed his car, then you can apologize. Otherwise, save your apologies. You did nothing wrong. He is a big boy. He can handle a few emotional outbursts and insecurities. Take it from a very emotional Scorpio woman who's been with a cap for 9 years. He's stronger than you are giving him credit for.
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@pinkbird03 I'm ok. I don't feel the urgency to get him back or to avoid him. Right now dating is just not a priority. I'm flooded by work and traveling plus my usual routine.

Im enjoying this time for myself and self improvement. It will help me better with next relationship with him or someone else
Sometimes love clouds our judgement and being hopeful only hurts more in the end.

But I'm no one to judge. You'll move on when you feel ready to.
I just don't think jumping right into dating move is a sign of moving on. I've seen ppl wiTh lots of baggage and I don't wanna be one of those ppl.

He hasnt logged back into dating site either.
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No, but you're still holding on. To what? He already ended things. There's other ways to move on besides dating new people. Like to keep him out of your mind by not looking at his social media. Out of sight out of mind, ya know.

I believe you're holding on because he's still in your life, you still like him a lot, and you miss him. But he did say something a long the lines of he didn't mind keeping you in his life short term, but not long term. Are you okay with that? To me, it means he will keep you around until he finds someone better. Know your self worth babe- you deserve someone a million times better
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@pinkbird03 I'm ok. I don't feel the urgency to get him back or to avoid him. Right now dating is just not a priority. I'm flooded by work and traveling plus my usual routine.

Im enjoying this time for myself and self improvement. It will help me better with next relationship with him or someone else
Sometimes love clouds our judgement and being hopeful only hurts more in the end.

But I'm no one to judge. You'll move on when you feel ready to.
I just don't think jumping right into dating move is a sign of moving on. I've seen ppl wiTh lots of baggage and I don't wanna be one of those ppl.

He hasnt logged back into dating site either.
No, but you're still holding on. To what? He already ended things. There's other ways to move on besides dating new people. Like to keep him out of your mind by not looking at his social media. Out of sight out of mind, ya know.

I believe you're holding on because he's still in your life, you still like him a lot, and you miss him. But he did say something a long the lines of he didn't mind keeping you in his life short term, but not long term. Are you okay with that? To me, it means he will keep you around until he finds someone better. Know your self worth babe- you deserve someone a million times better
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That's why we are not seeing each other... I would not see a guy who said things like this to me. He is the one who keeps liking eveything. He wants to keep tab on me.
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Just a hunch I'm thinking he is insecure, or feels you are out of his control so to speak....also your youthfulness will unsettle him. Caps like security and dont want their girl having eyes on them. I get that also, being a Scorpio! Nothing more sexy than your partner being a woman/man in the street and a freak in the bedroom!!! There is five years with my guy and he always teases I'm old yet first to zip up my running top till it near chokes me when we see one another hehe too cute!!!!!!!
He did say I'm too sexy for him. Cos ppl always give him dirty look when we are together. The irony is he said he can't stand woman his age. He only likes the young one. You are right about he can't control me though. I'm very gentle but I have strong will.
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@pinkbird03 I'm ok. I don't feel the urgency to get him back or to avoid him. Right now dating is just not a priority. I'm flooded by work and traveling plus my usual routine.

Im enjoying this time for myself and self improvement. It will help me better with next relationship with him or someone else
Sometimes love clouds our judgement and being hopeful only hurts more in the end.

But I'm no one to judge. You'll move on when you feel ready to.
I just don't think jumping right into dating move is a sign of moving on. I've seen ppl wiTh lots of baggage and I don't wanna be one of those ppl.

He hasnt logged back into dating site either.
No, but you're still holding on. To what? He already ended things. There's other ways to move on besides dating new people. Like to keep him out of your mind by not looking at his social media. Out of sight out of mind, ya know.

I believe you're holding on because he's still in your life, you still like him a lot, and you miss him. But he did say something a long the lines of he didn't mind keeping you in his life short term, but not long term. Are you okay with that? To me, it means he will keep you around until he finds someone better. Know your self worth babe- you deserve someone a million times better
That's why we are not seeing each other... I would not see a guy who said things like this to me. He is the one who keeps liking eveything. He wants to keep tab on me.
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You're keeping tabs on him too by knowing all the girls he's adding and knowing they aren't adding him back.
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@pinkbird03 I'm ok. I don't feel the urgency to get him back or to avoid him. Right now dating is just not a priority. I'm flooded by work and traveling plus my usual routine.

Im enjoying this time for myself and self improvement. It will help me better with next relationship with him or someone else
Sometimes love clouds our judgement and being hopeful only hurts more in the end.

But I'm no one to judge. You'll move on when you feel ready to.
I just don't think jumping right into dating move is a sign of moving on. I've seen ppl wiTh lots of baggage and I don't wanna be one of those ppl.

He hasnt logged back into dating site either.
No, but you're still holding on. To what? He already ended things. There's other ways to move on besides dating new people. Like to keep him out of your mind by not looking at his social media. Out of sight out of mind, ya know.

I believe you're holding on because he's still in your life, you still like him a lot, and you miss him. But he did say something a long the lines of he didn't mind keeping you in his life short term, but not long term. Are you okay with that? To me, it means he will keep you around until he finds someone better. Know your self worth babe- you deserve someone a million times better
That's why we are not seeing each other... I would not see a guy who said things like this to me. He is the one who keeps liking eveything. He wants to keep tab on me.

You're keeping tabs on him too by knowing all the girls he's adding and knowing they aren't adding him back.

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We are even then.