Virgiene
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Mirroring a cappy guy
It can be a good thing. It can not be.
But I'd probably mirror him, I mean we ARE mutable virgos. So..... But if this guy is pulling away without a reason, despite his sign, maybe it's best not to chase him and let him come back to you.
But I'd probably mirror him, I mean we ARE mutable virgos. So..... But if this guy is pulling away without a reason, despite his sign, maybe it's best not to chase him and let him come back to you.
But I wouldn't know because Virgo and Capricorn? Lol
Posted by VirgieneIf someone treated you that way, weighing out your interactions and measuring out their affection how would you feel?
is it a bad thing to do to a cappy guy? Like, if he pull back, you pull back too. If he did not call/ text you, you do the same thing too..
In other words, you do whatever he do to you.. if he showed some loving, you reciprocate it too but to a limit..
Just be genuine.
lol but what if my genuine self's response is to pull away out of fear and not out of manipulation?
Mirroring didn't work for me. It got better when I took charge. He became more receptive.
Posted by MiscorpionHow did you hurt him?
I'm new to this forum...I have a Capricorn guy in my life! Two years nearly. He is patient, talks to me everyday and I know he is there. I can relate though...he was messaging so constant and phoning, we had inside jokes and knew each other's routine. Times we shared felt comfortable like we shared a lifetime together and his eyes blazed every emotion imaginable. His character, approach to life, family and career reflect so much my approaches in life. He let me go 3 months ago...I kept chipping gently at him and stayed right there not wanting to lose him. He said I hurt him...when in fact I felt so fragile towards him. He has another close girl in his life that is gorgeous bubbly and gentle. We still stay in touch every day and see each other when we can but he has got very hot and cold. Our playful snaps have decreased significantly and a call is brief. Messages are casual and he never mentions feelings anymore. He was so quick to respond and yet leaves me for hours now. I try to do this back but my heart cannot treat him so. I miss my cappies ways and apologise over and over. I'm lost and don't know whether to let space give us thinking time. I feel this is against my grain. If you want to message message..life's to short and this connection is so precious. I am however exhausted of the up and down ride!!!
Posted by Miscorpion
He messaged me saying I'm watching a movie goodnight and then I seen him online on Facebook on and off so I messaged back saying great movie? He spat the dummy... My biggest problem is we started out as clients through my work then he moved away, then we rehooked up and he shared about girls at his work sending saucyvoucs and this gorgeous girl messaging etc and it was pretty steamy. I didn't care at first as my heart was not in it and I kept him at a distance knowing very well, then before I knew it I was under his spell. He was there through tough times at work etc yet social media kept creeping in and his likes kept racking up with his female friends on facebk. I'm passionate loyal and care so much and jealousy, lack of attention are ruling me now 😢 I want to run before I hurt anymore yet I wake each day and would miss him so dearly.
Delete him. Thats what I did. Keep the negative out. If it's really not working the way you want it to, then it's time to move on. Plus it seems like he's keeping his options open and not making you a priority.
Posted by MiscorpionAwe hun don't feel bad. I am in the same boat! It really sucks because they have a lot of extra special qualities about them. But you cannot force them to commit and you can only try for so long before wanting to give up. Do what's best for you. Think long term.
i felt this deep down and didn't want to admit it. Ugh he was so utterly amazing and I felt so special yet the odd thing crept in over time. He lacks responding, his ph plays up or his phone doesn't charge. He runs late to work or he's plain busy. I pull back for an hour responding and he drops all emotion from his texts or he just can't call. I snap yet his score keeps climbing while I wait for an answer...I dreaded this truth so much. He even forgot my birthday recently...I feel I keep having to pay for my snappy response and apologise profusely.
Posted by Capri-sunPosted by Miscorpion
i felt this deep down and didn't want to admit it. Ugh he was so utterly amazing and I felt so special yet the odd thing crept in over time. He lacks responding, his ph plays up or his phone doesn't charge. He runs late to work or he's plain busy. I pull back for an hour responding and he drops all emotion from his texts or he just can't call. I snap yet his score keeps climbing while I wait for an answer...I dreaded this truth so much. He even forgot my birthday recently...I feel I keep having to pay for my snappy response and apologise profusely.
Allow yourself time to heal then look for someone who wants to love the same way you do. He isn't invested so stop apologizing and expending energy on him.
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Here is what i have read:
If a Cappy guy is over you they do these things:
1.} they stop caring
2}.you feel you are left out. They don't tell you anymore what up their up to and whereabouts.
3.}. if the teasing stops and turn mean
I dont know but only cappy mind can only answer our questions.
Posted by Capri-sunPosted by VirgienePosted by Capri-sunPosted by Miscorpion
i felt this deep down and didn't want to admit it. Ugh he was so utterly amazing and I felt so special yet the odd thing crept in over time. He lacks responding, his ph plays up or his phone doesn't charge. He runs late to work or he's plain busy. I pull back for an hour responding and he drops all emotion from his texts or he just can't call. I snap yet his score keeps climbing while I wait for an answer...I dreaded this truth so much. He even forgot my birthday recently...I feel I keep having to pay for my snappy response and apologise profusely.
Allow yourself time to heal then look for someone who wants to love the same way you do. He isn't invested so stop apologizing and expending energy on him.
Here is what i have read:
If a Cappy guy is over you they do these things:
1.} they stop caring
2}.you feel you are left out. They don't tell you anymore what up their up to and whereabouts.
3.}. if the teasing stops and turn mean
I dont know but only cappy mind can only answer our questions.
....okay...
#3. Have you expressed a dislike of the teasing? Be mean could also be mood related, that's why it's best to not force anything & leave us be if we distance, shut down, go silent. Also in your particular case, the break is going to make him more cautious, guarded...it made him question interest, intent, loyalty, commitment, seriousness, etc.
#2. They probably stop communicating all together. I don't share much of this info in general or like feeling like I'm being checked on as to my whereabouts
#1. Again he'd probably be one all together. I care easily and about just about everyone...doesn't mean I love or have a desire to keep in touch per se.
If he's over you then he won't be there at all
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Some Cappy people can stay in relationship even if they don't feel romantic anymore with the person, coz they are so nice they don't want to hurt you. You have to do the initiave to break up with them. Please notice the some there.. i did not mean all cappies. But yeah these are all from what I have learned and read..
Hahaha to them yes. For my sanity it wasn't. He had major double standards though. Wanted to get away with things that I could not.
Posted by Miscorpionnow i am confused.. is this my thread or yours—?
Thank you for all your responses. He is writing me as I reply here. I left a huge message and he is going bout his day like he didn't get it. Arghhhh haha he does tell me about his day and shares about his work. He checks to see how my day or work is going. I guess I loved all the attention I got previously and now he seems guarded in his actions. Just miss being special like I was....scorpio girls for you! Intense emotions and hard to trust people even though I hold him dear. It's almost like I'm looking for him to slip up to justify things.
Nahhh! it's okey..
Posted by Capri-sun1) I think they would still care but maybe not initiate anything. If they are done though, they would hardly respond to messages.Posted by VirgienePosted by Capri-sunPosted by Miscorpion
i felt this deep down and didn't want to admit it. Ugh he was so utterly amazing and I felt so special yet the odd thing crept in over time. He lacks responding, his ph plays up or his phone doesn't charge. He runs late to work or he's plain busy. I pull back for an hour responding and he drops all emotion from his texts or he just can't call. I snap yet his score keeps climbing while I wait for an answer...I dreaded this truth so much. He even forgot my birthday recently...I feel I keep having to pay for my snappy response and apologise profusely.
Allow yourself time to heal then look for someone who wants to love the same way you do. He isn't invested so stop apologizing and expending energy on him.
Here is what i have read:
If a Cappy guy is over you they do these things:
1.} they stop caring
2}.you feel you are left out. They don't tell you anymore what up their up to and whereabouts.
3.}. if the teasing stops and turn mean
I dont know but only cappy mind can only answer our questions.
....okay...
#3. Have you expressed a dislike of the teasing? Be mean could also be mood related, that's why it's best to not force anything & leave us be if we distance, shut down, go silent. Also in your particular case, the break is going to make him more cautious, guarded...it made him question interest, intent, loyalty, commitment, seriousness, etc.
#2. They probably stop communicating all together. I don't share much of this info in general or like feeling like I'm being checked on as to my whereabouts
#1. Again he'd probably be one all together. I care easily and about just about everyone...doesn't mean I love or have a desire to keep in touch per se.
If he's over you then he won't be there at all
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2) In my experience, Caps don't really give this info normally anyway as Capri-Sun said.
3) This is hard as Caps are generally sarcastic people. The trick is to know what is malicious and what is their dry/dark self.
Overall, I would say if ANYONE regardless of their sign is treating you meanly (put downs and being abusive), leave his ass in the dust. If he's mature and sane, he will change. Otherwise, you're better off!
I was with this Capricorn for 7 years. Though we were not very compatible but we used to understand each other to an extent. He wanted lot of space and i wanted to spend each and every moment with him . Good thing about them was though they are cold most of the times it's not because they dont like you .. it may be that they are thinking about or stressing about other things in life. He loved his work. He used to work hard. He respected his family. He was quick to introduce me to his family and friends.. After an year I understood his need for space and i gave him that space. Though sometimes I was suspicious of his activities. He was an average lover. I used to do a lot for him but I never got back the same efforts. Just because he wanted to marry me doesnot mean he was actually in love with me. Capricorn weighs everything before getting into something.. they always have a bit of selfish motives behind whatever they do
They think for themselves and their immediate family members first. A family guy. Will be loyal once commited. As a workaholic, he always expects his partner to be a hard worker and professional as well. He used to motivate me for my promotions everytime and thanks to him I was in a very good position in my company. He was never jealous that i used to earn more than him. But if we had a very serious fight, he would expect me to say sorry regardless of the situation. I loved him but I would have had to compromise the whole life and feel lonely staying in a relationship. But tbh when I meet some jerks now a days, I do miss him. He never played dirty with me.. he had a human heart.
They think for themselves and their immediate family members first. A family guy. Will be loyal once commited. As a workaholic, he always expects his partner to be a hard worker and professional as well. He used to motivate me for my promotions everytime and thanks to him I was in a very good position in my company. He was never jealous that i used to earn more than him. But if we had a very serious fight, he would expect me to say sorry regardless of the situation. I loved him but I would have had to compromise the whole life and feel lonely staying in a relationship. But tbh when I meet some jerks now a days, I do miss him. He never played dirty with me.. he had a human heart.
Posted by Libralove666What was your break up like? And why did you break up? Because you weren't getting what you needed?
I was with this Capricorn for 7 years. Though we were not very compatible but we used to understand each other to an extent. He wanted lot of space and i wanted to spend each and every moment with him . Good thing about them was though they are cold most of the times it's not because they dont like you .. it may be that they are thinking about or stressing about other things in life. He loved his work. He used to work hard. He respected his family. He was quick to introduce me to his family and friends.. After an year I understood his need for space and i gave him that space. Though sometimes I was suspicious of his activities. He was an average lover. I used to do a lot for him but I never got back the same efforts. Just because he wanted to marry me doesnot mean he was actually in love with me. Capricorn weighs everything before getting into something.. they always have a bit of selfish motives behind whatever they do
They think for themselves and their immediate family members first. A family guy. Will be loyal once commited. As a workaholic, he always expects his partner to be a hard worker and professional as well. He used to motivate me for my promotions everytime and thanks to him I was in a very good position in my company. He was never jealous that i used to earn more than him. But if we had a very serious fight, he would expect me to say sorry regardless of the situation. I loved him but I would have had to compromise the whole life and feel lonely staying in a relationship. But tbh when I meet some jerks now a days, I do miss him. He never played dirty with me.. he had a human heart.
Why are so cappies sooooo lovable—?? They are hard to love and yet ..
i am still with my cappy guy for a year and 3 months now.. Sometimes I understand, him sometimes I don't.. But it feels good to be with him even we were just lying in the sofa watching TV, no talking just a silent conversation.
i am still with my cappy guy for a year and 3 months now.. Sometimes I understand, him sometimes I don't.. But it feels good to be with him even we were just lying in the sofa watching TV, no talking just a silent conversation.
#2. They probably stop communicating all together. I don't share much of this info in general or like feeling like I'm being checked on as to my whereabouts
Yep! Cappy men don't like to text, call, etc., letting you know 24/7 what they are doing (play-by-play). My Cappy has his life I have mine. At first, Cappy wouldn't text on his days off Mondays/Tuesdays; just today he texted (which surprised me) as I am working and Mondays are MANIC for me.
I called him on it on Saturday when we met, "Uh, I texted you good morning this morning" I said. He said, "I answered you back", Cappy said. Typical Piscean I picked up my cell and pointed to him, "See this is me", this is you....it's blank. He picked up HIS phone and said, "Oh, sorry, I thought I hit send". I sarcastically said, "You better take your $ 190.00 phone back and tell them they forgot the SEND option". 😆
I'd give him time to come back to you if he's interested. My Cappy makes plans and I'll never forget what he told me when we first me, "Whatever I say I mean". So far he's batting 10 for 10. AND he's a gentleman, too! Invited me over for Thanksgiving (his sister celebrates a couple of days before since the family cannot meet on the actual day) and I invited HIM to noon on the actual day at MY house. Cappy said "I guess I gotta get up early to be at your house at noon". We'll watch the Dallas Cowboys as he's ALSO a fan ^5 (high five!)....okay, he's batting 11 for 11 😆
Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Yep! Cappy men don't like to text, call, etc., letting you know 24/7 what they are doing (play-by-play). My Cappy has his life I have mine. At first, Cappy wouldn't text on his days off Mondays/Tuesdays; just today he texted (which surprised me) as I am working and Mondays are MANIC for me.
I called him on it on Saturday when we met, "Uh, I texted you good morning this morning" I said. He said, "I answered you back", Cappy said. Typical Piscean I picked up my cell and pointed to him, "See this is me", this is you....it's blank. He picked up HIS phone and said, "Oh, sorry, I thought I hit send". I sarcastically said, "You better take your $ 190.00 phone back and tell them they forgot the SEND option". 😆
I'd give him time to come back to you if he's interested. My Cappy makes plans and I'll never forget what he told me when we first me, "Whatever I say I mean". So far he's batting 10 for 10. AND he's a gentleman, too! Invited me over for Thanksgiving (his sister celebrates a couple of days before since the family cannot meet on the actual day) and I invited HIM to noon on the actual day at MY house. Cappy said "I guess I gotta get up early to be at your house at noon". We'll watch the Dallas Cowboys as he's ALSO a fan ^5 (high five!)....okay, he's batting 11 for 11 😆
Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
I can't tell you how many times my sister (cap) and I both forget to hit send 😐
Or I'll see something and say I'll respond later and forget when I have time to later.
Honest mistake. Glad things are going well for the 2 of you.
I agree I'm a woman of my word as well. If for some reason I'm unable to follow through, then Iet the person know.
Psst! My mom is Cappy too!!!! 😉 Yep! Honest mistake. We LOL at Starbucks about my "sarcastic" remark and I guess that's when he made up for it by slapping my arse at the restaurant we went to for dinner. He was SHOCKED 😱 I paid for dinner 😆
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Thanks doll
Love,
Eva
I can't tell you how many times my sister (cap) and I both forget to hit send 😐
Or I'll see something and say I'll respond later and forget when I have time to later.
Honest mistake. Glad things are going well for the 2 of you.
I agree I'm a woman of my word as well. If for some reason I'm unable to follow through, then Iet the person know.
Psst! My mom is Cappy too!!!! 😉 Yep! Honest mistake. We LOL at Starbucks about my "sarcastic" remark and I guess that's when he made up for it by slapping my arse at the restaurant we went to for dinner. He was SHOCKED 😱 I paid for dinner 😆
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: Thanks doll
Sometimes I want cuddles and my Capricorn doesn't. So, I just climb on top of him or make him the little spoon. So, while I feel that we are in sync with one another, I wouldn't purposefully act against myself with the intent to retaliate. I may temper myself so as to respect his moods or wishes as much as he does mine.
Posted by pinkbird03
Mirroring didn't work for me. It got better when I took charge. He became more receptive.
I fully agree, mirroring is probably the worst thing to do because he will need some encouragement from you. I say be as open and honest as you can and you will reap the rewards.
Posted by SunsetvirgoDo tell 🙂
But I wouldn't know because Virgo and Capricorn? Lol
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