Need help with Cap man (Page 2)

Where is MsScorpio?? I'm following this storyline now somehow and I wanna know! 😉
GEG was right though when she said that you will not get the real answers from just one "test situation" like last night. Right when you think that he's history and it was just a fling, he'll prove you wrong. That's usually how these TURTLES work (slow-moving... that's dead-on, Krobe).

cappy8

If I may... how old are you? I'm just curious! I guess it's my Gemini brain working over time!! Lol , seeing if there may be some sort of stages as the caps age? hmmmm lol


as far as msscorp~ where the heck are ya? "EVERYTHIGN HAPPENS FOR A REASON" 😉

hey greeneyedgem,

I'm 25, and I guess I'm supposed to get less rigid as I age? Isn't that true for all men though?

I'm an odd one..this much I know is true.

lol! An odd one huh? lol I think you are all ODD!! he he j/k for sure!! Yes I hear that as Caps get older they relax and start having fun!! hmmmmm My cap's first real girlfriend was a scorp...I always thought that she would leave a lasting empression on him. do you feel the same?

"Rigid"... Was that a clever sexual innuendo, or is it just Friday? 😛

I'm experiencing the sloooow-moving male Cap. phenomenon right now. Known the guy 2 1/2 years, but just started talking again after 6 months of no-contact (my choice but his circumstances), and it's taking over 3 weeks now to get together for drinks or dinner!

krobe03,
That's the typical capricorn male. I did not say that capricorns don't like rejection. No capricorns HATE rejection. However, they want things to move or HAPPEN on their time. And if you get rejected in the process it is because you just happen to move a little to slow! Ain't NO happens right now lol

capgirl~
you never responded back on thread you started for me!! Omg 6 months who contacted who... and as far as the "meeting" whos idea was it? he he nosy ladies wanna know!! lol 😄

greeneyedgem,

Yeah, I'd say my scorpio is going to have a lasting impression on me, perhaps more than she knows...

I'm still here after two years of up and down and up again....my god what has gotten into me....haha

I would say that "if you get rejected in the process... it is because YOU just happen to move a little too FAST" for the Cap. guy.

They think that rejection is like death or something! Like, they don't even want to risk that you might be busy or have other plans and have to reject their invite. So, they'll first "test the waters" by finding out what you're up to, what you're doing, without ever making their intentions clear! It's utterly maddening even when you know what they're doing.

cap girl has it right on the dot!!! lol...hahaha

Hey GEG~ I hate to broadcast much of my stuff on here, as I really am not on here anymore. I contacted him, after staying away for 6 months, bc. I was getting signs that he was "back on the market", and he immediately responded and suggested dinner. Now, we've been talking on the phone for 3 weeks, and also ran into each other last week after not seeing him for a year! (It was more than a "coincidence".) The timing has been off on getting together when he's called so we'll see... I'm just trying to be friends and am not jumping at any supposed opportunity. 😉

cappy8~
Two years and you have never been intimate!! WOW!!! Maybe that's why she wants her ?freedom? I hear that scorps are very SEXUAL people!! Maybe you need to put the smack down on her!! Lol j/k show her what your working with..lol J then maybe she will be lusting after you? like your fellow caps we discuss here? or do you think maybe just maybe you are so into her because you can hold her down and secretly that creates a challenge for you (not a bad thing) just that you enjoy the fact that she is independent? And keeps you wanting more? Hmmmm I might be on to something ..lol


Capgirl~

I agree with you? never being clear?hmmm now are we the hunter? What a vicious cycle!! Ooo geees maybe im not on to something!! Lol


GEG

cappy8,
Try posting your scorpio dilemma in the Scorpio forum. There's alot of Scorpio ladies there that can give you insight. So you been with her for 2 years and she doesn't want to committ to a monogamous relationship? Did she ever tell you how she felt about you? Is she young? I thought Scorpios were all or nothing. She probably has some air or fire in her birth chart.

I'm dying to know what happened at the club last night! MsScorpio where are you?

Amen, Cappy8!! I'm glad to know that I've learned something about you guys after 2 1/2 years of training!!!! 🙂

Cappy8,
U never had sex with your Scorpio? If so, greeneyedgemini is right..you need to show her how great us Cappies are sexually. Show her that passionate sensual side and dominate. Sex is super important to them and they can't seem to sustain monogamous relationships without it.

Good idea, I will try posting on the scorpio site, here is some more info.
Well its was going good for a few months...she got frustrated with me being TOO SLOW, decided that I wasn't really interested. I took that as rejection and we stoped talking for a year, then we recently re-aquainted ourselves with each other. She seemed totally not into it, but I worked some magic and now we are spending time together again.
I want to make a move but she seems very shy and timid, like she is more nervous than I am. By the way she has a lot of scorpio in her chart...her venus is in scorpio...there is some cap in her chart too. I sort of think she is afraid of loosing control, so far she has all of it...the control.

I hope MsScorpio is still in the bedroom with mister cap....
we can last for days you know

OMygosh did I just hear a capricorn man say someone else had the control? Now mr.8 let me ask you this 2 years back were you the one putting your heels into the ground slowing it down? and how did you show her this sllllloooooowww doooooown? Did you back away not call pop in and out of her life keeping her guessing? Do you think maybe she fell in love with you then and like us... here now, is trying to take it sloooow for you, trying to be aloof so you will want her? hmmm I mean like us she may be trying to figure you out!! TELL HER STRAIT UP!! I love you I want to be with you and i will try not to hurt you again. The go from there someones got to make the leap and the "rejected one" who could possibly be her (from the past) may be afraid.....

Uh, yeah, we haven't had sex. I'm afraid of lighting the sheets on fire.

ha ha ha ah aha ha aha !!!


omy that is freaking funny

Thank you GEG. I already have ideas floating in my head for this weekend. Now if I could just find out if SHE already has plans for this weekend...hahah.

I was trying to say hurt not her!! lol

call her dang it!!! ask her dont keep her waiting you, hear all of us on here what we complain that caps do can you for one moment let your guard down and just try something new for all of us....lol rejection sucks but so does a broken heart and you will never know until you try!! You cap men have away of telling us you want us with out even speaking and if the two of you have the "connection: then im affraid the sheets arent the only thing thats gonna be on fire!! 😉

ok, i'm going to call her and try to get her to spend some *quality* time with me this weekend.

thank you for the kick in the pants GEG...lol

you are very welcome!! But please keep us updated!! I will keep all my toes and fingers crossed!!


So my gals, all our caps need is to be kicked in the pants....hmmmmmmmm LOL

I just have one major question to ask you...this last time around.... who contacted who?

Here's another butt-kick, Cappy8! POW!! Seriously, just DO it. And don't be too indirect about it! She won't have a CLUE why you're calling if you don't make it CLEAR. 😉

CRYSTAL FREAKING CLEAR....LOL 😉

you guys are so funny. I contacted her, many times, she started dating someone when we were apart. Then broke up with them after I started contacting her again. But she definately took her time to getting around to me, but I think she was getting over her break up, which I think is healthy and i'm all for it. So I guess she responded to me *after* I apologized for being a selfish jerk...

well how nice are you....? lol j/k I wish mine would step up and say he was a selfish jerk... however i still think hes too young hes... 22 :-O so maybe he has some growing up to do yet... and me well I have a LIFE to live!

Soooooooooo were you irritated that she had a man? would you say jealous things? hmmm just suckin you dry with all your info!! But you are fun too!! he he h Ladies feel free to ask cappy8 anything while hes still responding... before he leaves us!! lol

She's probably afraid you'll hurt her again. I hope ya'll get to spend time this weekend. Burn it up, those sheets should be all ash when you're done with her 😉
Keep us posted!

yeah I did say jealous things *head bowed* I won't do that again....just a few times...not harrasment or anything. More as mistakes.

Hahah, yeah i'm going to call my girl soon. But feel free to ask me questions about caps.

He will come around, just let him know you are still there for him in the friend sense, loyalty is important to us, since we are loyal as well. You just sort of have to let us BE sometimes.

o.k. so saaaay i have this friend (me) and well she sends him random nice text messages and he responds then sometimes (as of late) he does not! Should (she) me not call him or put a call in? I want to but my chicken sh!t friend/me is terified!! its been 1.5 since we have talked on the cell!! ha ha


and by the way when you say "yeah i'm going to call my girl soon" does she know shes your girl have you made it CRYSTAL CLEAR? he ehe

Yeah, just call him and be yourself.

I hope MsScorpio lets us know what happens/ but if she doesn't that means it going well.

capangel~ that was freaking funny have me laughing out loud!!! ha ha ha


extension to Mr. 8 is the rejection im affraid of and i dont want him to think im some kinda stalker chick. I just want hi to know that im in a much better place in my life now! And maybe be friends... the night that he told me it was over he was crying like it was something he really wanted to do and when I asked if he wanted me to move on.... he grabbed me and held me!! I felt like it wasnt what he wanted... but that he needed to! Im sure it was his age and my trouble aka DIVORCE but all that is over... hmmmm

I think that is great GEG it sounds like trying to be friendly is what you both need. Is he a cap?

GeG~ Just have a couple drinks and call! Stalker?? Not possible. You are totally overlooking your own power in this situation.
You are dealing with an insecure Cap. guy who is not going to chase you down so you'll have to make alot of moves of your own.

Yeah,

you have to make a lot of moves.

ooooh yes hes a CAP....um I am in the cap board right? lol j/k Im a gemini! I have to express there ws alot of drama back then..ex- friends talking crap, ex-hubby angry that kinda thing!! Since then I have cleard out my life and drama and its calm. another night after the wanting me to move on nigh... we had a movie/fire sheet burning night and then he tole me this is not going to work we can not be just friends....then I never talked to him...? Um do i sound like a crazed woman ha ha!!I let him have his time he was turning 21 so i know he needed his time i would say about 7 months later i sent him a text... then about 3 months after that I called and he hung up (i called from a blocked number... he I tricked him soo i thought then he hung up on me!! I sent him a few text asking why the bitterness he seems to think I did some damage to his car (see the EX-friends up above) im like um NO Im an adult I have Children why woudl i risk getting into trouble... then a few months later... text again jokes he woudl repsond and sen dme back funnies!! I think he knows Im still here wanting to be his friend!! But shouldnt I make him make the effort....

oh and one of the last text he wrote...Wheres your boyfriend?



ahhhhh crap!! he he he

LOL This has nothing to do with YOU though, Cappy8! YOU go make YOUR move now. 😉
Interesting thing... this Cap. guy and I have only slept together once in all this time, not that he hasn't tried again in his nice indirect ways, but I've been rather cautious and holding out, yet I am crazy about him all this time, so I am not surprised at your situation, Cappy8. 😉

Moves? ooooh I GOT some moves alright!! LOL

you have to remeber my ex-best friend got a hold of him and told him all kinds of shit like i was obsessed and yad yada and hes young so he could be trippen out?

once in two years the crap was must have been some powerful stuff!!lol dang girl!!

GEG,
Does your Cap know that your divorce is final and you have no more drama in your life? People that have drama, crazy exes, divorce process are ones we try to stay away from even if it hurts us. If you tell him things are going great and no more drama then maybe he'll feel safe to come back. call him once and see how he responds.

IM not sure if he knows I would hope so! But im not sure! IM just scared that he would hang up again.... ooh dang!

o.k. well
everyone have a great weekend!! Im out!

Brandy

Well, i am here and sorry to report my Cappy was a no-show. I was so disappointed. I really don't know what to think but this advice I would give to any male courting a female Scorpio is to be sincere. We can detect deceit in a heartbeat. If you are fortunate enough to capture our attention and hearts you have done well. We do not succumb easily. But, when we decide you are "it" you will recieve more than you ever bargained for. We are a monogomous sort and devoute our entire life to you. We are intense and dedicated to the one we love. Call us crazy but that's the way we are. Never make us jealous and always put us first and you will have the most remarkable partner ever. I'm still reeling from my no-show and how I need to approach this. I need to know that I'm still in the game otherwise I'll move on. We will go after whatever we want but if fate shows us that isn't possible we are capable of transformation and then move on. Do not get involved with a Scorpio if you are not sincere and in love with her. We don't do casual and we play for keeps. I need to take a breather and figure out my next step. Thank you all for your support, it has helped me in this time of despair. I'll survive this and be stronger in the days to come. I left a voicemail for my Cappy inviting him to dinner. I think this shoud be closure of some sort to this situation. It's really so simple....if he responds no that's a given and if no response that's a given. I just can't go on not knowing. Have a great evening and I'll be back.

MsScorpio

hey guys I called no answer!! I left a message he eh e

Omg- what you say—

These guys are WACK, GeG, just remember that. I'm waiting on hearing from a VM I left this aftn. about getting together over the wkend. It's been ages since we hung out and god forbid he look too eager!!? Trying hard not to be royally insulted. So, just be prepared to wait... 😉

Capgirl~

I left a message (remember its been 1.5 yrs) i said "hey there its Brandy, I was just calling to see how you are and how things were going...give me a call back.

he never called but, its cool didnt expect much!! LOL

It's too soon to tell, GeG. Give it till month's end! 😉