Stryker77
@Stryker77
11 Years
Comments: 0 · Posts: 170 · Topics: 16
Sag Sun Venus in Capricorn
Sag sun, venus capricorn
I havent been in many relationships but the One i was in very tough on me financially. I left do to finances and abuse.
Other guys I've dated, all weren't on my.level financially and it cause problems. I could never truly relax knowing my.bank account could be wiped put by my lover.
Very sorry for your hurt.
I havent been in many relationships but the One i was in very tough on me financially. I left do to finances and abuse.
Other guys I've dated, all weren't on my.level financially and it cause problems. I could never truly relax knowing my.bank account could be wiped put by my lover.
Very sorry for your hurt.
Thanks for your reply, that’s the thing, I know this is important to her but there wasn’t anything that happpened that you could point at to say it didn’t work because of this reason, I have my own business and she has always said from the second date that I should never worry about money, I replied that I don’t want her to say that because my driver in life was the fear of not having money, hence I work harder.
She seems conflicted and also escaping ??
She seems conflicted and also escaping ??
Posted by RooSagicorn
I am so sorry. I’m a Sag sun, Cap Venus. In fact, cap dominant and no money/drive was never the reason to leave, but it does make it incredibly difficult. So it can lead to a breakdown in the relationship. See you want a partnership, and if one isn’t holding up their half, then it’s tough. What would the future look like? With kids, etc. Would she have to carry the financial responsibilities? That’s not quite a partnership. Maybe she just couldn’t see it working.
Thanks for your reply
I am hurting, she was in such a state leaving and knowing I couldn’t say or do anything to make this better is frustrating and upsetting.
Its confusing she offers financial help and security with one hand but takes it back with the other, I know sag can be overly generous but does this conflict with her Capricorn?
She kept saying it’s not about the money it’s the principal
I am hurting, she was in such a state leaving and knowing I couldn’t say or do anything to make this better is frustrating and upsetting.
Its confusing she offers financial help and security with one hand but takes it back with the other, I know sag can be overly generous but does this conflict with her Capricorn?
She kept saying it’s not about the money it’s the principal
Posted by DMV
Sag sun, venus capricorn
I havent been in many relationships but the One i was in very tough on me financially. I left do to finances and abuse.
Other guys I've dated, all weren't on my.level financially and it cause problems. I could never truly relax knowing my.bank account could be wiped put by my lover.
Very sorry for your hurt.
Saggis have been going through a tough time all year. She could be affected by this as well.
Some of us are just unhappy with the progression of our lives.
Stay positive. Go out and do things that make you happy. If she reaches out, dont be vindictive even tho it will be hard not to be. Be honest with how her actions have affected you.
Some of us are just unhappy with the progression of our lives.
Stay positive. Go out and do things that make you happy. If she reaches out, dont be vindictive even tho it will be hard not to be. Be honest with how her actions have affected you.
Posted by Stryker77
Thanks for your reply
I am hurting, she was in such a state leaving and knowing I couldn’t say or do anything to make this better is frustrating and upsetting.
Its confusing she offers financial help and security with one hand but takes it back with the other, I know sag can be overly generous but does this conflict with her Capricorn?
She kept saying it’s not about the money it’s the principalPosted by DMV
Sag sun, venus capricorn
I havent been in many relationships but the One i was in very tough on me financially. I left do to finances and abuse.
Other guys I've dated, all weren't on my.level financially and it cause problems. I could never truly relax knowing my.bank account could be wiped put by my lover.
Very sorry for your hurt.
click to expand
To me, it seems like it is financial related. The pitfalls of being a humble giver. One hand, you give freely. On the other hand, your stingy and judgemental. Where is the balance of there even is one?
If it makes you feel any better, I got dropped to yesterday.
Let's hurt together 😎
I'm doing my cancer rising thing...eating
I will go out in nature later.
Let's hurt together 😎
I'm doing my cancer rising thing...eating
I will go out in nature later.
Thanks, I can’t be vindictive with her even if I tried, this is the weirdest break up because no one cheated on each other or abused each other, it feels like a passing away of someone instead.
I will look after myself as I know it’s the best thing to do and if she wants to reach out I will be there for her, I think she knows how it’s affected me and maybe that guilt is sitting heavy on her
I will look after myself as I know it’s the best thing to do and if she wants to reach out I will be there for her, I think she knows how it’s affected me and maybe that guilt is sitting heavy on her
Posted by DMV
Saggis have been going through a tough time all year. She could be affected by this as well.
Some of us are just unhappy with the progression of our lives.
Stay positive. Go out and do things that make you happy. If she reaches out, dont be vindictive even tho it will be hard not to be. Be honest with how her actions have affected you.
I’m so sorry to hear that, are you ok? Well I have reached out to friends and family and also taken my dog for a walk (we had 2 dogs but she took one).
But this is probably messed up, I’m currently having a beer on “our” table in a bar, the table we had our first date and always came back to.
It’s comforting
She is texting me too, she doesn’t seem to want to let go
But this is probably messed up, I’m currently having a beer on “our” table in a bar, the table we had our first date and always came back to.
It’s comforting
She is texting me too, she doesn’t seem to want to let go
Posted by DMV
If it makes you feel any better, I got dropped to yesterday.
Let's hurt together 😎
I'm doing my cancer rising thing...eating
I will go out in nature later.
Never let a woman make u feel any other way than u are suppose to feel. Ur sensitive Virgo lol
I would fight fire with fire. Sags are spiritual & creative people by nature, so the attack must also be creative spiritual. So I would ball up her grief and throw a curve ball at her chest.
I would tell her about carrying all of that negativity around is why god is giving more back problems. Tell her how, yes she has money but it looks like for every one year you age, shes aging 5 years. Tell her shes aging in dog years lol
I could never be cancer moon lol
Virgo sun
Sag moon
Leo venus
I would fight fire with fire. Sags are spiritual & creative people by nature, so the attack must also be creative spiritual. So I would ball up her grief and throw a curve ball at her chest.
I would tell her about carrying all of that negativity around is why god is giving more back problems. Tell her how, yes she has money but it looks like for every one year you age, shes aging 5 years. Tell her shes aging in dog years lol
I could never be cancer moon lol
Virgo sun
Sag moon
Leo venus
Posted by DMV
If it makes you feel any better, I got dropped to yesterday.
Let's hurt together 😎
I'm doing my cancer rising thing...eating
I will go out in nature later.
Feel better girl
I got dropped back in Feb.
thing, she said in every other aspect I’m perfect, she has text me a few times, said she was upset, she arrived back in the city safely.
I still don’t feel she wants to let me go. Part of me feels she needs space to clear her mind because of the darkness in her head and doesn’t want me to go far which isn’t fair, there are too many signs in her behaviour except for the obvious! That she isn’t done, I don’t know if cap Venus once done there is no way back?!Posted by RooSagicornPosted by Stryker77
Thanks for your reply, that’s the thing, I know this is important to her but there wasn’t anything that happpened that you could point at to say it didn’t work because of this reason, I have my own business and she has always said from the second date that I should never worry about money, I replied that I don’t want her to say that because my driver in life was the fear of not having money, hence I work harder.
She seems conflicted and also escaping ??
Posted by RooSagicorn
I am so sorry. I’m a Sag sun, Cap Venus. In fact, cap dominant and no money/drive was never the reason to leave, but it does make it incredibly difficult. So it can lead to a breakdown in the relationship. See you want a partnership, and if one isn’t holding up their half, then it’s tough. What would the future look like? With kids, etc. Would she have to carry the financial responsibilities? That’s not quite a partnership. Maybe she just couldn’t see it working.
What about it not working for other reasons & she’s pointing to this as an excuse?click to expand
done, I maybe being stupid but I know we have a relationship but need her to realise that, I’m not chasing or messaging other than I politely reply to her messages, what else can I do?Posted by RooSagicornPosted by Stryker77
That’s the thing, she said in every other aspect I’m perfect, she has text me a few times, said she was upset, she arrived back in the city safely.
I still don’t feel she wants to let me go. Part of me feels she needs space to clear her mind because of the darkness in her head and doesn’t want me to go far which isn’t fair, there are too many signs in her behaviour except for the obvious! That she isn’t done, I don’t know if cap Venus once done there is no way back?!Posted by RooSagicornPosted by Stryker77
Thanks for your reply, that’s the thing, I know this is important to her but there wasn’t anything that happpened that you could point at to say it didn’t work because of this reason, I have my own business and she has always said from the second date that I should never worry about money, I replied that I don’t want her to say that because my driver in life was the fear of not having money, hence I work harder.
She seems conflicted and also escaping ??
Posted by RooSagicorn
I am so sorry. I’m a Sag sun, Cap Venus. In fact, cap dominant and no money/drive was never the reason to leave, but it does make it incredibly difficult. So it can lead to a breakdown in the relationship. See you want a partnership, and if one isn’t holding up their half, then it’s tough. What would the future look like? With kids, etc. Would she have to carry the financial responsibilities? That’s not quite a partnership. Maybe she just couldn’t see it working.
What about it not working for other reasons & she’s pointing to this as an excuse?
It depends on if you are really done or just think you should be done. It doesn’t sound like she’s done, but conflicted.click to expand
Posted by Stryker77
I’m so sorry to hear that, are you ok? Well I have reached out to friends and family and also taken my dog for a walk (we had 2 dogs but she took one).
But this is probably messed up, I’m currently having a beer on “our” table in a bar, the table we had our first date and always came back to.
It’s comforting
She is texting me too, she doesn’t seem to want to let goPosted by DMV
If it makes you feel any better, I got dropped to yesterday.
Let's hurt together 😎
I'm doing my cancer rising thing...eating
I will go out in nature later.
click to expand
Shes ultra confused. Indulge but also let her know how you are affected.
2 hour walk did me good.
Posted by 777
Never let a woman make u feel any other way than u are suppose to feel. Ur sensitive Virgo lol
I would fight fire with fire. Sags are spiritual & creative people by nature, so the attack must also be creative spiritual. So I would ball up her grief and throw a curve ball at her chest.
I would tell her about carrying all of that negativity around is why god is giving more back problems. Tell her how, yes she has money but it looks like for every one year you age, shes aging 5 years. Tell her shes aging in dog years lol
I could never be cancer moon lol
Virgo sun
Sag moon
Leo venus
Hurt people, hurt people
a good walk, I will give her space but she knows where I am, she knows I’m hurting too, she is back home in 3 weeks, I’m not sure she will do well in the next 3 weeks with all that’s going on, I think she will reach out to me ........ I won’t be able to ignore thatPosted by DMVPosted by Stryker77
I’m so sorry to hear that, are you ok? Well I have reached out to friends and family and also taken my dog for a walk (we had 2 dogs but she took one).
But this is probably messed up, I’m currently having a beer on “our” table in a bar, the table we had our first date and always came back to.
It’s comforting
She is texting me too, she doesn’t seem to want to let goPosted by DMV
If it makes you feel any better, I got dropped to yesterday.
Let's hurt together 😎
I'm doing my cancer rising thing...eating
I will go out in nature later.
Shes ultra confused. Indulge but also let her know how you are affected.
2 hour walk did me good.click to expand
Posted by RooSagicorn
It’s a tricky balance between allowing space and fighting for her I guess. Checking in, asking how she is. Not pushing but showing you’re still there. If I get no effort from the other side, I will think they don’t care & move on. However, if you check in, show you care I will try to work through it.
Btw my ex husband had a business that was struggling. Not at first, but later. But when I left he made absolutely no effort. So it seemed to me I wasn’t important enough. I filed for divorce 4 months later. But only cuz he didn’t try. ( I had been trying for the last 3 years of the marriage & he wasn’t). My heart was broken.
Posted by Stryker77
No I’m not done, I maybe being stupid but I know we have a relationship but need her to realise that, I’m not chasing or messaging other than I politely reply to her messages, what else can I do?Posted by RooSagicornPosted by Stryker77
That’s the thing, she said in every other aspect I’m perfect, she has text me a few times, said she was upset, she arrived back in the city safely.
I still don’t feel she wants to let me go. Part of me feels she needs space to clear her mind because of the darkness in her head and doesn’t want me to go far which isn’t fair, there are too many signs in her behaviour except for the obvious! That she isn’t done, I don’t know if cap Venus once done there is no way back?!Posted by RooSagicornPosted by Stryker77
Thanks for your reply, that’s the thing, I know this is important to her but there wasn’t anything that happpened that you could point at to say it didn’t work because of this reason, I have my own business and she has always said from the second date that I should never worry about money, I replied that I don’t want her to say that because my driver in life was the fear of not having money, hence I work harder.
She seems conflicted and also escaping ??
Posted by RooSagicorn
I am so sorry. I’m a Sag sun, Cap Venus. In fact, cap dominant and no money/drive was never the reason to leave, but it does make it incredibly difficult. So it can lead to a breakdown in the relationship. See you want a partnership, and if one isn’t holding up their half, then it’s tough. What would the future look like? With kids, etc. Would she have to carry the financial responsibilities? That’s not quite a partnership. Maybe she just couldn’t see it working.
What about it not working for other reasons & she’s pointing to this as an excuse?
It depends on if you are really done or just think you should be done. It doesn’t sound like she’s done, but conflicted.
It’s a tricky balance between allowing space and fighting for her I guess. Checking in, asking how she is. Not pushing but showing you’re still there. If I get no effort from the other side, I will think they don’t care & move on. However, if you check in, show you care I will try to work through it.
Btw my ex husband had a business that was struggling. Not at first, but later. But when I left he made absolutely no effort. So it seemed to me I wasn’t important enough. I filed for divorce 4 months later. But only cuz he didn’t try. ( I had been trying for the last 3 years of the marriage & he wasn’t). My heart was broken.
click to expand
Posted by DMVPosted by 777
Never let a woman make u feel any other way than u are suppose to feel. Ur sensitive Virgo lol
I would fight fire with fire. Sags are spiritual & creative people by nature, so the attack must also be creative spiritual. So I would ball up her grief and throw a curve ball at her chest.
I would tell her about carrying all of that negativity around is why god is giving more back problems. Tell her how, yes she has money but it looks like for every one year you age, shes aging 5 years. Tell her shes aging in dog years lol
I could never be cancer moon lol
Virgo sun
Sag moon
Leo venus
Hurt people, hurt peopleclick to expand
All of u guys trying to sympathize with them both in this situation, but my assumptions leads me to believe shes looking for something she perceives as better, and he is in his feelings "hoping" lol. She should have thought about these things 2 years before & she wouldnt have had to jump ship & leave the captain sailing alone. Ol stowaway ass bitch.
Sorry, im a prime example of child hood neglect. Ive suffered enough pain 2 know how to see things b4 they happen. I dont buy words, I invest in actions.
I truly hate how capricorns get so materislistic ....it doesn't make a relationship about love, care and simply being lost in eachother with all the good and bad, taking life all in no matter what shortcomings there are cause you know that you can take on the world by being together. Relationships with them feel like cold business.
Sorry but you know what, at least you know where you stand so you can get your head somewhere else better.
good luck in your love life and your business
Sorry but you know what, at least you know where you stand so you can get your head somewhere else better.
good luck in your love life and your business
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
Venus in Capricorn men what are you looking for in a woman? What kind of woman are you attracted to?
How are they like? :-S
Anything would help. Thanks!
btw I am Aqua Sun
Im just curious since people hardly mention venus in this sign and im a venus in capricorn myself
My Question from Venus in Capricorn
1. Have you EVER CHEATED in a committed relationship? If so why??
2. How are you in love generally and do you flirt or have a wandering eye while you are in a relationship?
Please provide detailed answers along w
Hello there :) I want to know more about you all who have this placement! In your opinion how would you describe Venus in Capricorn. How you love, what you love etc... just whatever you'd like to share This is a happy thread
I've been dating this Aqua sun, venus in capricorn man for almost 4 months. I feel a strong connection between us and always have the best time together. We have a lot in common and share similar ambitions and values. Up to this point he has not come o
What are your views about spending life with one person only ? Is it your thing to give one person your all (Putting all your eggs in one basket) or you want to jump from one person to another maybe because you are bored.. If so what are the reasons that
I am interested in a capricorn man, and would like to get to know him better, and ask him out for lunch. We've only met once, at a party (and we hooked up). He has venus in capricorn, mars in saggitarius, and most probably moon in scorpio. I have su
I'm curious how you guys deal with this placement, whether you have it yourself or know someone who does. How long does
His sun is Libra, Moon in Capricorn and Venus in Virgo .. I am a Cap sun with moon in Taurus and venus in capricorn.
Do you people have tendencies to marry for money or for love ? Or both ?
All Men with Sun, Moon or Venus in Capricorn, Do you people like to marry girls who have childlike innocence ? If so. Wh
Met this guy online through ps3 (again no judgements I never in a million years expected this) everything was perfect it
so me and this venus in capricorn guy weren't ever committed but there were feelings involved.He told me he has issues w
Me and my cap are both Venus in capricorn.We are in a long distance relationship.We are not in a committed official real
Do you find that it takes you a long time to get in a relationship? Do you find that it takes you an equally long tim
do any of you have your venus in capricorn? if yessss....let me know, how are you with love and relationships? how do yo
Tell me about it, please.
venus is the way we love, right? how does capricorn in affect venus personality?
She is very career driven, and has accomplished so much academically and in her work, she strives to achieve greatness by working hour after hour, days on end which led to a lot of stress and anxiety on her part, she has suffered with mental health in the past and this has reared its head on many occasions, I’ve tried to learn so much about it so I can empathise and be the best I can for her.
So for the last 4-5 months she has been sending mixed signals, told me on 2 occasions she wasn’t sure about us but then not long after telling me this, she would behave or say something that meant she was committed to me and I am the one etc, be it through gifts or texts or to my face.
Then last week we bickered about something and she ended the relationship, she has set her reasons as that I can’t be relied on financially, I don’t have the same drive and ambition as her, both I feel is unfair, I run my own business and that needs drive or it just won’t succeed, over the last few months she has helped me out financially with a few things as things tightened up in my business, I didn’t turn to her for help, but she insisted she help me, she would create an environment that meant it was ok for her to help me, I had a text of her many months ago telling me that it’s just money and she had loads of it (she was playing).
I feel so hard done by, I don’t know what to do. I know her Capricorn in Venus is at play here but do they end relationships based on something like this? She said in every other aspect I’m the best boyfriend she has ever had, she said that I have given her drive and confidence to go after the job she is in, to better her health etc, but she said the one thing that is non comprisable is the matching of her drive.
I don’t get it, she goes through a lot of anguish with nerve damage and back pain from surgery she has which was unsuccessful so she carries a lot of pain and negativity and I feel that has now clouded her view on things,
This is the text she sent me last night:
I couldn’t speak earlier so couldn’t tell you some of the things I wanted to. I’ve said a lot about what needed to change in the last few days but nothing about the things that I wouldn’t change in a heartbeat. You loved me, with all your being and gave yourself, your time and your love freely. I received it freely and tried to reciprocate. Your family welcomed me, loved me and made me feel like I was one of you. I’m thankful to them for that. I tried to welcome them, love them and make us all feel as one too even if you didn’t think so. I feel utterly alone in this, although you may not think so. I’m terrified about what I’ll do with my pain, my bad days at work, my anxiety/panic attacks. I’m terrified Of not having you to get excited with when I have good news, the thoughts of how proud you’ll be when I have something good to tell you from work or from my recovery. You’ve been my biggest supporter and my biggest support. And I’m so sorry to be hurting you. I love you and I’ll miss you, and I’m so scared for myself. But I’m also so so sorry. So sorry for not being able to make this work form my end. I really am. Please love Lola enough from me too. And always tell Ethan I loved him entirely. I hope one day you can all feel able to call on me if you need me coz I’ll be here Xxx
I’m gutted