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Should I quit now with this Cap woman?
Posted by WaterbearerwearerI'm terribly sorry, I don't understand what you're saying.
You’ll never be a person in this relationSHIT.
Next her now
Posted by WaterbearerwearerI'm beginning to see that, she's bucking what little I know about dating and what I've read about Caps like it's a game of BuckarooPosted by OwnardPosted by Waterbearerwearer
You’ll never be a person in this relationbutter.
Next her now
I'm terribly sorry, I don't understand what you're saying. click to expand
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Posted by WaterbearerwearerAlright,so back to the original question, should I give up now or is there anything I can do?Posted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by OwnardPosted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by OwnardPosted by Waterbearerwearer
You’ll never be a person in this relationbutter.
Next her now
I'm terribly sorry, I don't understand what you're saying. click to expand
Goats are clinically insane. click to expand
I'm beginning to see that, she's bucking what little I know about dating and what I:be read about Caps like it's a game of Buckaroo click to expand
Emotionally lazy but so sly at the same time. Their narrative should be yours (this is their earth thinking)
They really don’t have a handle on being part of the crowd but staying true to their personal positive truths.
Polarising for all the wrong reasons.
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the 2 cap women im friends with, both had difficult childhoods, and were absolutely "wild" and "crazy" (their words, not mine lol) in their teenage years. they only settled in their 30s. If you want to be along on her ride sure why not you are still young right? If not you may want to miss this, you can always talk to them like 10 years or so later lol.
Posted by WaterbearerwearerI will take this as that you think I should quit, your opinion is noted.Posted by OwnardPosted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by OwnardPosted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by OwnardPosted by Waterbearerwearer
You’ll never be a person in this relationbutter.
Next her now
I'm terribly sorry, I don't understand what you're saying. click to expand
Goats are clinically insane. click to expand
I'm beginning to see that, she's bucking what little I know about dating and what I:be read about Caps like it's a game of Buckaroo click to expand
Emotionally lazy but so sly at the same time. Their narrative should be yours (this is their earth thinking)
They really don’t have a handle on being part of the crowd but staying true to their personal positive truths.
Polarising for all the wrong reasons.
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Alright,so back to the original question, should I give up now or is there anything I can do? click to expand
I can lead a horse to water....
Exits thread. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by PinsNNeedlesHow might I do that? The other guys at the party seemed to have a lot less trouble than me at this -_-
Sounds she's not impressed. Probably wants you to chase her. I mean like, hard too. Like sweep her off her feet type. Probably thinking you're up to something else like a hit and run.
Posted by HorseyThat's all well and good but it doesn't really give much helpful advice to my situation. I want to go "along on her ride", I've already decided that. But I have hit a brick wall as you can read above, how might you suggest I fix it or has my chances been and gone?
the 2 cap women im friends with, both had difficult childhoods, and were absolutely "wild" and "crazy" (their words, not mine lol) in their teenage years. they only settled in their 30s. If you want to be along on her ride sure why not you are still young right? If not you may want to miss this, you can always talk to them like 10 years or so later lol.
Posted by PinsNNeedlesThe other guys just didn't have to deal with 3 seperate incidents including the hostess having a breakdown over her ex. One guy, whom I was talk to once she left, said that he was chatting to her for quite a while and she invited him over to hers, and he was high, drunk and depressed. That's why I think it was easier for them.Posted by OwnardPosted by PinsNNeedles
Sounds she's not impressed. Probably wants you to chase her. I mean like, hard too. Like sweep her off her feet type. Probably thinking you're up to something else like a hit and run.
How might I do that? The other guys at the party seemed to have a lot less trouble than me at this -_- click to expand
Hmmm... Other guys have it easy except you? 🤔
Playing hard to get definitely sounds like it. Wow, maybe she wants you to go full blown knight in shining armor. Some girls are like that... Actually alot of girls these days. You could keep killing her with kindness. Be honest and genuine. Go from there see what happens. If she continues to doubt you, well... It's not really your responsibility to make her happy, you know? She'll have to see it eventually or continue living in her head with some image of you that isn't true. click to expandclick to expand
It might be playing hard to get, but I have also in the past have had girls who thought I wasn't flirting with them, making me think I'm not that good at it. Is there any way I can be the good, honest guy while still making my intentions very clear?
Posted by CaploveThank you very much, I will take your advice on board for the next time I talk to her, likely to be tomorrow or the next day. I will do as you say and hope I get a response. For the sake of argument, say I do get my response, how do I go on to keep her attention and translate that to a date or hanging out?Posted by CaplovePosted by Ownard
Hey there,
I have been chatting to this Capricorn via snapchat for a couple of weeks now and I feel like it has been going ok, but not great. I have been just trying to get to know her first, which has been going well but I have recently decided to escalate and make my intentions known.
My original plan was to chat to her and flirt a bit at the after-party for my school prom. Sadly, I only had a few moments with her due to me being the least drunk and having to help the hostess with various medical and emotional incidents throughout the evening. I only managed to talk to her for a few moments and comfort her while she was crying at her friends emotional breakdown. Overall, not that great of a success, especially when I found out that other guys made successful passes on her.
Fast forward to yesterday where I was chatting to her and complemented her dress at prom and teased her a bit, to which she bbusted my balls a bit. After that she was meeting her friends so I dropped out on the conversation to let her have her fun and was later snapchated by one of her friends. She had signed up for Tinder and had found me on it. Later that night I was on tinder and saw her profile and swiped right, matching us. I left a message: "My curiosity got the better of me", to which she replied "oooooo". I replied by saying that I was stumped since this kinda breaks my usual Tinder process. She has not replied to that.
Overall, I am unsure as to how I should proceed right now. I missed my golden ticket at the prom party and now my records very doesn't seem to be doing wlvery great. Do you guys think I should abandon ship while I can or do you guys have any advice for me that I could use?
-Ownard
In general, always ask open ended questions that allows her to answer back. Because here, how is she supposed to respond? If that were me, I'd be thinking.. oh what do I do here? How to respond.. can't compute.
To recover, maybe mention something about enjoying what she said in her profile or compliment the picture and then ask her a question so she can respond. Make sure it's not Yes/NO answerable.
Posted by Ownard
Hey there,
I have been chatting to this Capricorn via snapchat for a couple of weeks now and I feel like it has been going ok, but not great. I have been just trying to get to know her first, which has been going well but I have recently decided to escalate and make my intentions known.
My original plan was to chat to her and flirt a bit at the after-party for my school prom. Sadly, I only had a few moments with her due to me being the least drunk and having to help the hostess with various medical and emotional incidents throughout the evening. I only managed to talk to her for a few moments and comfort her while she was crying at her friends emotional breakdown. Overall, not that great of a success, especially when I found out that other guys made successful passes on her.
Fast forward to yesterday where I was chatting to her and complemented her dress at prom and teased her a bit, to which she bbusted my balls a bit. After that she was meeting her friends so I dropped out on the conversation to let her have her fun and was later snapchated by one of her friends. She had signed up for Tinder and had found me on it. Later that night I was on tinder and saw her profile and swiped right, matching us. I left a message: "My curiosity got the better of me", to which she replied "oooooo". I replied by saying that I was stumped since this kinda breaks my usual Tinder process. She has not replied to that.
Overall, I am unsure as to how I should proceed right now. I missed my golden ticket at the prom party and now my records very doesn't seem to be doing wlvery great. Do you guys think I should abandon ship while I can or do you guys have any advice for me that I could use?
-Ownard click to expand
In general, always ask open ended questions that allows her to answer back. Because here, how is she supposed to respond? If that were me, I'd be thinking.. oh what do I do here? How to respond.. can't compute.
To recover, maybe mention something about enjoying what she said in her profile or compliment the picture and then ask her a question so she can respond. Make sure it's not Yes/NO answerable.
And if she ignores your honest inquiry you can safely pass on her. With this it gives you a chance to open up a conversation with her. click to expandclick to expand
Maybe show your resume to her.
Show that you have status and money or at least potential.
You'll get her attention.
Show that you have status and money or at least potential.
You'll get her attention.
Posted by DMVI honestly wish it were that easy 😂
Maybe show your resume to her.
Show that you have status and money or at least potential.
You'll get her attention.
Posted by CaplovePosted by OwnardPosted by CaplovePosted by CaplovePosted by Ownard
Hey there,
I have been chatting to this Capricorn via snapchat for a couple of weeks now and I feel like it has been going ok, but not great. I have been just trying to get to know her first, which has been going well but I have recently decided to escalate and make my intentions known.
My original plan was to chat to her and flirt a bit at the after-party for my school prom. Sadly, I only had a few moments with her due to me being the least drunk and having to help the hostess with various medical and emotional incidents throughout the evening. I only managed to talk to her for a few moments and comfort her while she was crying at her friends emotional breakdown. Overall, not that great of a success, especially when I found out that other guys made successful passes on her.
Fast forward to yesterday where I was chatting to her and complemented her dress at prom and teased her a bit, to which she bbusted my balls a bit. After that she was meeting her friends so I dropped out on the conversation to let her have her fun and was later snapchated by one of her friends. She had signed up for Tinder and had found me on it. Later that night I was on tinder and saw her profile and swiped right, matching us. I left a message: "My curiosity got the better of me", to which she replied "oooooo". I replied by saying that I was stumped since this kinda breaks my usual Tinder process. She has not replied to that.
Overall, I am unsure as to how I should proceed right now. I missed my golden ticket at the prom party and now my records very doesn't seem to be doing wlvery great. Do you guys think I should abandon ship while I can or do you guys have any advice for me that I could use?
-Ownard
In general, always ask open ended questions that allows her to answer back. Because here, how is she supposed to respond? If that were me, I'd be thinking.. oh what do I do here? How to respond.. can't compute.
To recover, maybe mention something about enjoying what she said in her profile or compliment the picture and then ask her a question so she can respond. Make sure it's not Yes/NO answerable.
Posted by Ownard
Hey there,
I have been chatting to this Capricorn via snapchat for a couple of weeks now and I feel like it has been going ok, but not great. I have been just trying to get to know her first, which has been going well but I have recently decided to escalate and make my intentions known.
My original plan was to chat to her and flirt a bit at the after-party for my school prom. Sadly, I only had a few moments with her due to me being the least drunk and having to help the hostess with various medical and emotional incidents throughout the evening. I only managed to talk to her for a few moments and comfort her while she was crying at her friends emotional breakdown. Overall, not that great of a success, especially when I found out that other guys made successful passes on her.
Fast forward to yesterday where I was chatting to her and complemented her dress at prom and teased her a bit, to which she bbusted my balls a bit. After that she was meeting her friends so I dropped out on the conversation to let her have her fun and was later snapchated by one of her friends. She had signed up for Tinder and had found me on it. Later that night I was on tinder and saw her profile and swiped right, matching us. I left a message: "My curiosity got the better of me", to which she replied "oooooo". I replied by saying that I was stumped since this kinda breaks my usual Tinder process. She has not replied to that.
Overall, I am unsure as to how I should proceed right now. I missed my golden ticket at the prom party and now my records very doesn't seem to be doing wlvery great. Do you guys think I should abandon ship while I can or do you guys have any advice for me that I could use?
-Ownard click to expand
In general, always ask open ended questions that allows her to answer back. Because here, how is she supposed to respond? If that were me, I'd be thinking.. oh what do I do here? How to respond.. can't compute.
To recover, maybe mention something about enjoying what she said in her profile or compliment the picture and then ask her a question so she can respond. Make sure it's not Yes/NO answerable.
And if she ignores your honest inquiry you can safely pass on her. With this it gives you a chance to open up a conversation with her. click to expand
Thank you very much, I will take your advice on board for the next time I talk to her, likely to be tomorrow or the next day. I will do as you say and hope I get a response. For the sake of argument, say I do get my response, how do I go on to keep her attention and translate that to a date or hanging out? click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand
Well, let's see, if she's interested then she'll ask you a question back (hopefully that'll happen). Remember to keep it going and ask her another open ended question back after you've answered her question. This keeps dialogue moving and helps you get to know each other.
It's best to ease into it slowly, make her feel comfortable and intrigued by you so she'll want to take it further and give her time to think and reflect. So go back and forth a few times with some fun, playful conversation. Then ask her if she'd like to meet for coffee/tea or something nice.
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Thanks for the advice, I will definitely follow it! Got screenshots of it on my phone so I can keep it in mind. That seems to be a problem of mine, I'm either too eager or too passive; never in the Goldilocks state.
I'll have some time to think before messaging her, and decide what questions I want to ask. And also figure out weather to message through Tinder or Snapchat.
I'm a Capricorn and most of us deal with situations differently. I'm more optimistic and hope for the better. From my point of view, since you both matched on Tinder it is definitely clear shes into you. The last response you provided was really not needed but I understand we post things before we think. If this was my situation, I would say "Hi, was thinking of you today and thought we could go grab a drink or lunch." Im pretty sure going in that route will make her forget about everything else
I think you should abandon ship.
Some caps are kind of weird, and can be the go hard or go home type.
Some caps are kind of weird, and can be the go hard or go home type.
Posted by braydenknoxI asked her if she wanted to hang out but she was very vague so I asked if this was awkward, which she said yes to since we've only recently began talking. Sge says she wants to keep talking to me and while I'm happy to, I said I need a spot of time to think, to which she sounded a bit disappointed. I'm going to try and get to know her a bit better then see if I can find anything but I'm hopeful she does have interest in me.
I'm a Capricorn and most of us deal with situations differently. I'm more optimistic and hope for the better. From my point of view, since you both matched on Tinder it is definitely clear shes into you. The last response you provided was really not needed but I understand we post things before we think. If this was my situation, I would say "Hi, was thinking of you today and thought we could go grab a drink or lunch." Im pretty sure going in that route will make her forget about everything else
Posted by lnana04Thanks for your opinion, I will see if this has any potential for anything further in the next week or so then decide if it's worth abandoning ship.
I think you should abandon ship.
Some caps are kind of weird, and can be the go hard or go home type.
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-Ownard