Taurus woman and Married Capricorn Man

We met in early 2015, we had really liked each other since then. He was still in love with his ex, so we could not move forward. We had few fights and by the end of the year we parted off. He got married to a new woman(Libra) in 2016 and I dated a Cancer guy for some time. In 2017 Cancer guy left my life. Also, me and Cap guy became friends soon after he got married.

We talk more than before. But few of his statements made me realize that he does not love his wife as much as I thought. I don't intend to come in between a married couple. I only wanted to be his friend. But it feels that he is attracted towards me and it makes me think about him, which I should not.

His wife lives in another state. We snapchat each other literally 24 hours. He texts me first and asks me to continue talking. Few photos of mine, he commented that I look beautiful, hot and really nice. I met him twice last month but he is shy in talking on face. But online, his humor is sarcastic and talks lot about sensuality. He asked me what's the difference between bra and bralette! He asked me to show dancing and attend a concert with him. I feel I am attracted towards him too. 😢 I asked him to ask his wife instead and he clearly said he would rather ask me than her. He complimented my body few times. He takes care of me also. He helped me in figuring out some family matters.

I feel he is more comfortable with me than his wife, which is so much wrong. He is such an awesome hard working guy. He talks sense and logical but I think I am somehow important to him and more than a friend. I don't know what to do? He is my close good friend. He genuinely cares for me.

What does this behavior of cap guy suggest? We know each other in close friends setup.

Please help me in stop committing a sin to be attracted towards a married guy.

DISGUSTING. Stay away from the couple, know your place.

This is messy.. Don't do it..

Just leave him alone.. for good.. You can't be friends if there are feelings there and clearly you both are attracted to each other.. It isn't fair to his wife.

& honestly... he may not leave his wife for you. So then you get hurt..

Let it go.

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Posted by taurus575


Please help me in stop committing a sin to be attracted towards a married guy.

It's simple. Stop talking to him, this is going in a bad direction and you already know it.

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I will. But I intend to know what does his this behavior intend? I put up this question to understand Capricorn behavior. I have lessened talking and will eventually stop. I wanted to know what he is thinking through how he interacts with me.

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Posted by taurus575


Please help me in stop committing a sin to be attracted towards a married guy.

It's simple. Stop talking to him, this is going in a bad direction and you already know it.

I will. But I intend to know what does his this behavior intend? I put up this question to understand Capricorn behavior. I have lessened talking and will eventually stop. I wanted to know what he is thinking through how he interacts with me.

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Some caps cheat.. NOT ALL...but clearly yours.. & even tho you aren't sexual, he is clearly cheating on his wife.. by speaking to you "24 7", snap chatting you.. asking you to go out with him.. Asking the difference of bra and bralette.. All those things should be directed to him asking his wife... He may be lonely and you are convenient.

& also you are allowing him to.

You all are right. I already know its a sin to even think about a married guy, irrespective of zodiac sign. I respect his wife. Its been few days I am deliberately looking at their wedding pictures to make me realize my place. I thought we could be just friends. A day before his wedding he asked me if I liked him and how it all developed. I told him I am with a Cancer guy, I don't love you at all. I even congratulated both for their wedding. I feel terrible about his wife, imagining if someone does this to my husband in future.

I am not a bad girl. I am naturally getting attracted towards a married guy who was perfect for me.

Posted by taurus575
You all are right. I already know its a sin to even think about a married guy, irrespective of zodiac sign. I respect his wife. Its been few days I am deliberately looking at their wedding pictures to make me realize my place. I thought we could be just friends. A day before his wedding he asked me if I liked him and how it all developed. I told him I am with a Cancer guy, I don't love you at all. I even congratulated both for their wedding. I feel terrible about his wife, imagining if someone does this to my husband in future.

I am not a bad girl. I am naturally getting attracted towards a married guy who was perfect for me.

This guy is all over the place. He doesnot know what he wants. Cut off him off...

Posted by taurus575
You all are right. I already know its a sin to even think about a married guy, irrespective of zodiac sign. I respect his wife. Its been few days I am deliberately looking at their wedding pictures to make me realize my place. I thought we could be just friends. A day before his wedding he asked me if I liked him and how it all developed. I told him I am with a Cancer guy, I don't love you at all. I even congratulated both for their wedding. I feel terrible about his wife, imagining if someone does this to my husband in future.

I am not a bad girl. I am naturally getting attracted towards a married guy who was perfect for me.

Understandable...

But just as you said.. run fast because you 2 had something in the past.. & I don't think with his actions that you can just be friends in the present.. It's too complicated with you 2...

& like you said.. Think about if it was the other way around.. and you were in his wife's shoes.. You wouldn't want that.

Do you know this caps placements.. ?

Not that it matters, but I'm curious.. For my own research.

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Posted by taurus575


Please help me in stop committing a sin to be attracted towards a married guy.

It's simple. Stop talking to him, this is going in a bad direction and you already know it.

I will. But I intend to know what does his this behavior intend? I put up this question to understand Capricorn behavior. I have lessened talking and will eventually stop. I wanted to know what he is thinking through how he interacts with me.

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This isn't the behavior of a capricorn, this is the behavior of a cheater. And your behavior is the same. Break off communication. You don't need to know why his intentions are to cheat. His actions should be enough.

Posted by Gob_Shite
Let me guess, you're both in your 20s...

We both are 27.

If staying away is the best we can do for myself, him and his wife, I will do it. I am not a desperate girl stubbornly looking for him. I think if I stop myself, I can save three lives from a trauma.

I don't like to say that I am attracted towards married guy. But yes, I am attracted towards that Cap guy. He is literally perfect. And I don't know why, why he came back into my life; that too after he got married. I really hope he loves his wife 🙂 She is amazingly beautiful! I know his wife is Libra. It came to my mind that it might be just in my head. It might be the fact that Caps open up with Taureans more than Libras.

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Posted by taurus575


Please help me in stop committing a sin to be attracted towards a married guy.

It's simple. Stop talking to him, this is going in a bad direction and you already know it.

I will. But I intend to know what does his this behavior intend? I put up this question to understand Capricorn behavior. I have lessened talking and will eventually stop. I wanted to know what he is thinking through how he interacts with me.

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This behavior could mean he does not mind having an extramarital affair. Why did you guys breakup in the first place. Whose decision was it?

We called it off in the past because at that time he was still in love with his ex-gf. He was going through post breakup blues. I think I had last talked to him in 2015 in October and in November he met a new girl and got engaged in Dec 2015. He got married to her in Dec 2016. When I became friends with him again I found out that he does not get much excited to see his wife when she visits here. They both live in separate state. So obviously now when they are married they should live together.So they decided to search job in a common separate state. His wife already found a job in California. He has not even started.

I asked him how he is going to spend his first valentine as a husband and he was just not excited that he will spend it with his wife. It's their life but I genuinely felt that we are friends.

I met him at a coffee shop he hugged me, when I only gave him a formal side hug. It feels he wants more but I clearly don't, he is married. Also, he does not wear his wedding ring.

Why do women do this to themselves?

It's all about the "connection."

He's so perfect... ?

If he's so perfect then why is he searching for a way to cheat? Why not be a "great guy," tell the TRUTH and divorce his wife? So she can go live a better life and he can be with someone who is willing to cheat with him...I mean he's going to end up doing the same to any other woman.. so why not, right?

It's not a Cap thing.. you're not going to find your answer by analyzing Caps. It's a cheater thing...he's happy to be with you because you allow this to happen. It's easy. If it wasn't you, it would be someone else who he could tell liked him and could possibly end up sleeping with. It's simple.

She is going to sleep with him.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
@secret this needs to be on that cancer man left me thread

"In 2017 Cancer guy left my life. "

Add..and the cap doesn't want me back.

There is definitely an attraction between Caps and Taurus women. My ex was with a Taurus girl during a period when we had broken up. about 2 yrs. then he came back to me, and we got back together. (our break up was mutual)

We lasted 12 yrs, during the last few he stayed in contact with her, she had gotten married and had a kid. They were also open about each other in a friendship way l, I read the messages and never bother, I told him if he wanted to go with her to go. I wasn't holding him back, it was his choice and he chose to stay with me. I didn't feel as cheating bc we were both going through a separation/breakup/makeup. He never lied to her about his love for me. So he stopped communicating, we got back together. Then I left him for other issues (possessive).

He went back to her, I don't know how their relationship is now or of they are together but he still says he would rather be with me.

He says his relationship with her is secure, they are both home people, they like each other and have a long time bond, but he doesn't love her.

Believe it or not as traditional as caps are, they would rather be with air signs than earth signs. They are already very homey and they need air women to make them crazy lol. I mean happy.

Let me say that this Taurus girl wasn't as patient as you are, she sent him things indicating she liked him a lot, and even things about me. long long ago when she was younger one day she sent me a message saying she was going to be with him and even raise my kids hahaha I could literally laugh in her face! she could keep him but never get my kids into her mess. but i guess she was just butthurt that he chose me and I'm not generalizing on signs, every person was raised differently.

I would suggest you to stay out of it, honestly cap men are weak when it comes to finding someone that they can trust, if they find one they will attach. I have a cap long time friend who is also married and wants me to be with him, but he knows I'm a dead end when it comes to that. I like him as a very good friend and like you said has helped but make sure to keep the relationship at that. I've suggested that if he's not happy in his marriage to divorce. I did it, and I am happier now. He knows not to do it for me bc there is a 99% I still wouldnt date him bc I don't see him that way. So it's a bit different. Also we met before he got married.

Not to generalize caps as cheaters btw. in any case this can happen.