Valentine....

Do you do something special? Give something? Or don't you give a damn....

I'd like something thoughtful and sweet. I try to do the same.

Nothing is special on Valentine's day.

Nothing.

When every other woman on the face of the earth is getting treated on the SAME DAY......how could it possible make anyone feel special?

It's a well organized wallet grab..........always has been.

Yes, I'm cynical on the topic.

we made a reservation at an interesting restaurant in the city we saw on the food channel the other day. i cannot wait! we are inviting another couple to join us so it's not that romantic lol

any excuse to add special memory to ♡

and i'm going to give him the most romantic card ever ♡♡

i collect romantic stuff when i see something that moves me so i always have something ♡ to pull out of my sleeve without any pressure at a moment's notice lol 😛

Posted by truecap
I'd like something thoughtful and sweet. I try to do the same.

Thx Truecap

I don't think that he will get me something, but that doesn't matter. I will give him something but not shore what....maybe i give him a massage.... he like that :-)

Posted by starlover
I buy my self flowers and make up for all the thoughtless non gestures from the past 😛

Much easier and more comfortable not thinking of someone *having* to do something when they may not want to

I remember my dad bought my mother flowers every week. I asked him once why he didn't get her a valentines card and he said besides the fact it was a commercial racket, he didn't need a reminder how to be romantic

🙂

True, but what if the cap doesn't do anything romantic at all ? Nor on special days nor on common days?

He told me " if you want something you can buy it yourself"

Posted by CapTenn
Nothing is special on Valentine's day.

Nothing.

When every other woman on the face of the earth is getting treated on the SAME DAY......how could it possible make anyone feel special?

It's a well organized wallet grab..........always has been.

Yes, I'm cynical on the topic.

You have a point CapTenn. But he NEVER buys me something sweet, romantic on other days too. I do get him when he says " you can buy anything you want yourself". And he means that. He works enought to provide us with lots of money. But there's nothing romantic about getting something yourself instead of receiving something from your lover. It doesn't have to cost much or nothing at all...

Wishfull thinking i gess :-)