So Tender

I would like to discuss and learn more a out this aspect of Capricorns.
The Capricorn I am seeing is SO tender. And in his own way, very romantic. Very sweet.
I have read they are not particularly emotional. I would not label him as either emotional or unemotional.
Yet, how can one be unemotional and yet tender? What is the difference? What do you feel you are?

Posted by Jahlia

People Are more than their zodiac sign. I vote venus in Pisces.

Hmm... now I'm wondering.

Could be.

Like a Taurus Merc on a Gem-- my Gem friend has this placement, conjunct Saturn--

she is very cautious with her words.

She also has Pisces rising... which seems to add a gentler nature, while smoothing

out the rougher edges of that sign.

no venus in aqua

Yup Aqua Venus softly approach

I have a Cap Venus and am much more of a softy than you would assume 😛 They also say Cap Venus people are very caring and nurturing to those that are close to them.
Also, aspects like Moon conjunct Venus make someone very romantic.

I'm a Cap with Aqua venus. Yes we're softies in love. You're our best friend and lover.

Posted by Greentea
I'm a Cap with Aqua venus. Yes we're softies in love. You're our best friend and lover.

I find this so interesting because both signs are supposed to be so distant.
I dated a cap briefly before, I found him to be rather sweet, but also, not sweet. Unbalanced.

Apparently MY cap took LSD recently and he says my ancestors came to him and threatened that he should treat me better and cited how.
This could be why he is smothering me in love lately.
LOL, idk...he's 'out there' for sure.

Posted by Vixen2

Posted by Greentea
I'm a Cap with Aqua venus. Yes we're softies in love. You're our best friend and lover.

Really?!

The Aqua venus is known for its detachment in love,

I have it as well but I'm nothing like the typical Aqua venus write up...I'm very open, passionate and intense, I attribute it to Venus trine pluto and venus trine mars with Pisces in my 4th to trump my detachment...

I honestly wished I had an easier time of detaching...I can do it, but I never really want to have to ..

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I'm the same way, only if I trust the person wholeheartedly, I'll be an open book... I can detach as well if I need to, it's weird, but it's usually not without contemplating the reasons why and finally come to an understanding with myself and just accept things, then i put my focus back on me. The worst is when you don't want to but have to.

Because they can be very tender and loving when your around them but they sometime want to have control over their emotions. The slightest things can have them put up a shield around them and that only to protect them.

Cappys are 100% loving, and emotional when they feel its safe to be so. They just take a long time to decide whether or not it is. The thing is they can be very hot and cold. Extremely loving then boom! What happened?! You may be left a little bewildered but once you understand them you learn its just the package they come in. Its like a dark cloud that you cant see pushes in over their head.

Posted by underwaterthing
I would like to discuss and learn more a out this aspect of Capricorns.
The Capricorn I am seeing is SO tender. And in his own way, very romantic. Very sweet.
I have read they are not particularly emotional. I would not label him as either emotional or unemotional.
Yet, how can one be unemotional and yet tender? What is the difference? What do you feel you are?

Remember this, Capricorns hold the highest vibration of lOooVeeE. Love is an energy, not emotion. Matters of the heart, are put over everything, in an evolved Capricorn. Even a young Capricorn will act "different" when feeling a special connection with someone. I have Sun, Asc,Venus, Mars, Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn yet I am very sweet and tender. However, I can also cut you off in a minute and prolly ruin your week with a few choice words.

We are simply masters of duality.

Embrace the love you are receiving and keep doing what you're doing

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Cappys are 100% loving, and emotional when they feel its safe to be so. They just take a long time to decide whether or not it is. The thing is they can be very hot and cold. Extremely loving then boom! What happened?! You may be left a little bewildered but once you understand them you learn its just the package they come in. Its like a dark cloud that you cant see pushes in over their head.

You are right. After all the signs to make me think we are one (Meeting parents, everyone he cares for, making plans) he cut me off.
After a long stressful road trip (outside source problems) and a few criticisms, I saw my sweet Capricorn become hateful, shut down, cantankerous. Rude. He came back to show me love for a day then went back to this dark place. After we got to his place he unloaded the car, closed the door, and nodded to me as if to say, Leave. We are done. And just like that, he is gone.

I am sad, but I don't think someone who was ready for a sustainable relationship, or felt good inside, would do this. As he did. His love was very tender, and I cant help but question the authenticity now. I missed it immediately when he went cold. I missed his touch. I questioned and regretted my actions, but I honestly don't feel they were wrong. It's very sad, but I will move forward. I won't chase. I will work on myself. In my heart I will try to forgive. My love for him was pure. I think he was hurting so much inside, that it wasn't enough.

Posted by Jahlia

Posted by underwaterthing
I would like to discuss and learn more a out this aspect of Capricorns.
The Capricorn I am seeing is SO tender. And in his own way, very romantic. Very sweet.
I have read they are not particularly emotional. I would not label him as either emotional or unemotional.
Yet, how can one be unemotional and yet tender? What is the difference? What do you feel you are?

People Are more than their zodiac sign. I vote venus in Pisces.

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2nd the motion.
-Glares at my own Venus in Pisces-

My venus is in cancer ya'll it's real rough. But hey, I'll be one badass loving wife one day to someone who appreciates allll that affection!

Underwaterthing - sorry to hear that things ended that way. I know how hard it can be. PM me if you want to talk.

Thanks sweetheart. 🙂
I know I will be okay and it is for the best.
Gotta learn the signs and avoid them way sooner.
I needed to focus on me this year anyways.
It's my second chance.