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how is it an obvious lie?

not everyone is obsessed with/cares for pornography. it doesn't do anything for me.

Snnnaaaaaaaaaaaake !!!

I just had a mini orgasm 🙂

Had no idea there was a new one

Honestly Kitten, you area bit of a hippocrite. You are on an astrology website. dont you know that according to the bible, astrology is considered sorcery, witchcraft and evil. So your going to condemn porn as evil, when you have probably been scouring this site for whatever relationship advice you need. Hmmmm interesting....

Posted by CapricornLaurie
Honestly Kitten, you area bit of a hippocrite. You are on an astrology website. dont you know that according to the bible, astrology is considered sorcery, witchcraft and evil. So your going to condemn porn as evil, when you have probably been scouring this site for whatever relationship advice you need. Hmmmm interesting....

I can see your little brain spinning but please, have a seat, since you dont know me and never will

Posted by Blood ft. Water
I will never understand people who watch porn while in a relationship.

Even when I was single and not getting sex when needed I'd masturbate to fantasy of banging girls I have banged so far.

The harm pornography does on your personality and biochemical balances of your brain is disturbing to say the least.

+100

Posted by Blood ft. Water
I will never understand people who watch porn while in a relationship.

Even when I was single and not getting sex when needed I'd masturbate to fantasy of banging girls I have banged so far.

The harm pornography does on your personality and biochemical balances of your brain is disturbing to say the least.

I know someone that has watched it for 20 years straight, im assuming his brain is just gone.

Last I heard, Christians don't cuss. She's used the words damn and Bulls bullshit in this thread. Great example she sets.

There are so many trolls on this site now....

Posted by Vanish
I'm a Virgo, not a Capricorn, but I usually just go with whatever the person I'm dating thinks since I don't watch too much of it anymore anyways and also I prefer not to care. I was in a relationship with someone who did think it was cheating among a list of other things, and the list just kind of seemed to grow and grow and grow the more I submitted to their beliefs. That's not the reason I left so I don't really have a point, but I've always wanted to try a more sexually adventurous relationship with someone.

This is good, flexible

...welp, this thread was helpful. (Poor op ran away from this mess)

Sorry everyone been quite busy. Thanks to every one for your replies I read them all. My take on this matter is that watching a porn when you are in a relationship is cheating. Once you are in a committed relationship your partner should have a right on your eyes. Porn is very disrespectful to females. IMO making love is an intimate experience it should be between you and your partner only no third person should be involved in such an intimate act.

If Porn is not considered as cheating then video chatting with someone else where the other person takes off his/her clothes and you jack off while watching him/her shouldn't be considered as cheating either

Posted by libramoon195
If Porn is not considered as cheating then video chatting with someone else where the other person takes off his/her clothes and you jack off while watching him/her shouldn't be considered as cheating either

That's different it's more personal.

Just my opinion.

Just beware that if a guy knows you are that rigid on porn, then he will just hide it from you if he does watch it. It invites secrets into your relationship.

Just sayin'.

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Posted by libramoon195
If Porn is not considered as cheating then video chatting with someone else where the other person takes off his/her clothes and you jack off while watching him/her shouldn't be considered as cheating either

That's different it's more personal.

Just my opinion.

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This is such a weird question...lol

I hope ya gf cheats on you, with your porn addiction azz! Lol

And if you were getting pu33y on the regular you wouldn't be watching porn like that...nut job literally lmaooo

Someone get this guy a human gf lol one that breathes lmaooo

Repping the capricorns real good! Lol

Its not about me and my guy. My scorpio best friend recently found that her Capricorn boyfriend watches porn and she is of the viewpoint that it is cheating and so am I. I just started this thread to find out whether all Capricorns watches porn when in a relationship or is it just her boyfriend

Posted by libramoon195
Its not about me and my guy. My scorpio best friend recently found that her Capricorn boyfriend watches porn and she is of the viewpoint that it is cheating and so am I. I just started this thread to find out whether all Capricorns watches porn when in a relationship or is it just her boyfriend

May I ask where you are from Libramoon? Because it sounds like you are either from a religious area or a small town. Because that would explain why you and your friends think it is cheating.

For example, I wouldn't like it if my girlfriend was masturbating to pictures of her ex-boyfriend or video chatting to some guy.
But watching some random hot dude or reading an erotic story is fine by me. It might be the only way to experience a certain sexual fantasy.

You come across a lot of different fantasies when you visit message boards, fanfiction websites and cartoon porn/hentai.
They all have merit in the sense that they help someone to get off and who knows, maybe if you can move on beyond the fact that your boyfriend/husband likes to look at other naked women you can incorporate some of that sexual energy into your own sex life and have it be focused on you.

Because if you disapprove of porn it won't disappear. It will just stay out of sight and become a separate part of someone's sexuality apart from you.

Posted by TigerCap

Posted by libramoon195
Its not about me and my guy. My scorpio best friend recently found that her Capricorn boyfriend watches porn and she is of the viewpoint that it is cheating and so am I. I just started this thread to find out whether all Capricorns watches porn when in a relationship or is it just her boyfriend

May I ask where you are from Libramoon? Because it sounds like you are either from a religious area or a small town. Because that would explain why you and your friends think it is cheating.

For example, I wouldn't like it if my girlfriend was masturbating to pictures of her ex-boyfriend or video chatting to some guy.
But watching some random hot dude or reading an erotic story is fine by me. It might be the only way to experience a certain sexual fantasy.

You come across a lot of different fantasies when you visit message boards, fanfiction websites and cartoon porn/hentai.
They all have merit in the sense that they help someone to get off and who knows, maybe if you can move on beyond the fact that your boyfriend/husband likes to look at other naked women you can incorporate some of that sexual energy into your own sex life and have it be focused on you.

Because if you disapprove of porn it won't disappear. It will just stay out of sight and become a separate part of someone's sexuality apart from you.

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Yes we are from a small city in india.

I think If he loves her truly then he should understand that if it bothers her he should quit watching it.

Posted by libramoon195
Its not about me and my guy. My scorpio best friend recently found that her Capricorn boyfriend watches porn and she is of the viewpoint that it is cheating and so am I. I just started this thread to find out whether all Capricorns watches porn when in a relationship or is it just her boyfriend

Realize not everyone who posted here is a capricorn.

I reviewed the thread and to sum it up, the majority of the capricorns don't see it as cheating and many don't have a problem with it unless it is an addiction that gets in the way of a relationship. Two, I believe were against it altogether.

Hope that helps.

Sounds like your friend and her boyfriend need to have a heart to heart, honest talk about it.

It's not cheating but if the porn is distracting him from his ability to be a good boyfriend then that is a problem that has to be resolved between the couple.

As long as he's being an attentive loving caring good boyfriend I wouldn't make a huge deal out of it.

My cap was caught watching porn which he swore he hated. He said it was low brow and what is wrong with men in our culture today. I guess it's what's wrong with him too. He took it a step further and began sex chatting and when I asked if I took off my clothes and let someone master bate would he be cool with it (?) He said if I watched porn our sex life is over. Funny thing is our sex life is over. I moved out the next day. I miss him a lot, but when we get together he refuses to acknowledge how he hurt me. I mean, to be with someone 5 years that claims they find porn degrading and a turn off, and learn they are hooking up with chick on sex date sites is a real blow. And he turned me on in bed so that is a total bummer. However, he was the love of my life (or so i thought) and my favorite guitar player in the world and I am still reckoning with what has gone on. I know one thing for sure.....I need an ego boost. No matter how shallow it may seem, the only thing that is gonna rebuild my confidence after this huge blow to my ego is getting back on the horse....so to speak. It was my x that turned me on to this site. He has been hooking up with chick's here and I figured what's good for the goose....— I figure that considering I learned here that Cap 1's and Libra 2's (me) are completely incompatible, I might see what astrological sign IS a match. Lets see if the universe doesn't do a better job choosing a mate for me than I have. Wouldn't take too much. I would bet you one thousand dollars this is him. I am a Libra which would explain the libramoon handle. By the way, I did tell him if he wanted to watch porn I would humor him. I also took some pretty sexy photos when I first learned he was doing the porn thing to spice things up. He never looked at them once, so I sent them to an Eagle of Death Metal; who had been begging for videos (compromise). Goes to show you, for every cap that doesnt get turned on by you, there is a rock star that does. While my dream man is jacking off to women he will never have (without paying), rock stars jack off to me. I hope this stings a bit....cuz my heart is broken and it feels pretty shitty.

@libramoon. Quick question: How did you find out he was watching porn and visiting sex cam sites? Did you look through his computer, did he tell you? If you looked through his history, it would be a major privacy and trust breach and push him to more porn.

My view is that even sex webcam sites are not considered cheating. Which I know is a pretty broad view. I used to work in a book store that had a well stocked erotica section. Ppl are into some really kinky things. Maybe he has a fetish he's embarrassed about. You shaming him about it isn't going to help.

For live sex I would be more angry about the amount of money he was spending. Its a very expensive habit similar to gambling.

@desertrockprincess. Sooo you keep in contact with rock stars who want nude videos and pics of you buttt you consider your ex cheating because he looks at porn...

Okay this thread is a joke now. A joke full of antiporn hypocrites

Posted by libramoon195
Dear Capricorn men Will you watch porn even if you are in a serious relationship?

If so, Don't you think its emotional cheating ?
Another Important question is that if you watch porn or nude girls pictures then will you imagine them while having sex with your wife/serious girl friend you love?