What should I do when a Capricorn Male ignores me? (Page 2)

Posted by Capricornicus
Being a Cap man, I know a 21 yr old cap can be precocious. he thinks he knows what he wants and will analyse every detail about it to be sure. to be fair, we pull away if we have something on our mind, but no doubt if he is interested he will be all about you. The one thing we are is intense with our attention and our passion when we have a goal or a person in our sights. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if it has been a long time, he is giving you the cold shoulder hoping you wont bother him anymore. Us Caps have a light switch, and once its off it is hard to turn back on. I very seriously doubt it was you. It was most likely something else that made him think about what he wants, and something in that made him pull away. Don't chase him, honestly if you want him, pull away. I guarantee he will see you more attractive when he has to chase you down a bit. At that age, we are full of piss and vinegar and think we can control the world with our will. Its a younger Caps fault that we take time to realize we are masters, but there is a bigger game to be had, thats why older caps are better, we matured enough to realize that the game we play is more about our ego than anything. Don't let his actions control or dominate your behavior. Its how you were when you met that made him attracted to you, get back to that. You will be happier and he may see you as the prize you are and return fill steam. If he doesnt, then he missed out and you are better off being yourself again. either way, that is a win win.

So I should just wait and carry on with my life right now?

If he can be Facebook so frequent but not responding to my messages, does it really mean that he's completely out?

I worry that he would forget about me...

This would annoy and hurt me. Hed be dead to me.

But you could roll up on his house.

Posted by CAPLOCKISBACK
Sorry for the bad news but he's no longer interested. You're better off moving on.

If i want a girl, i will hunt her down and make her mine lol #AlphaMale

It's very difficult to accept this 😢

Posted by DMV
This would annoy and hurt me. Hed be dead to me.

But you could roll up on his house.

I don't want to annoy him and make him think that I'm a psycho... If I really go to his house, isn't that too much? :/ I've been contemplating to do so actually but I really don't wanna screw this up

Posted by ptyw

Posted by DMV
This would annoy and hurt me. Hed be dead to me.

But you could roll up on his house.

I don't want to annoy him and make him think that I'm a psycho... If I really go to his house, isn't that too much? :/ I've been contemplating to do so actually but I really don't wanna screw this up

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Or you could keep being sad and wait by the phone.

By the way, hes screwing this up. Not you.

How long have you been ignored? Like 2 weeks?

Posted by DMV
How long have you been ignored? Like 2 weeks?

yes...2 and half-ish?

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Posted by Capricornicus
Being a Cap man, I know a 21 yr old cap can be precocious. he thinks he knows what he wants and will analyse every detail about it to be sure. to be fair, we pull away if we have something on our mind, but no doubt if he is interested he will be all about you. The one thing we are is intense with our attention and our passion when we have a goal or a person in our sights. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if it has been a long time, he is giving you the cold shoulder hoping you wont bother him anymore. Us Caps have a light switch, and once its off it is hard to turn back on. I very seriously doubt it was you. It was most likely something else that made him think about what he wants, and something in that made him pull away. Don't chase him, honestly if you want him, pull away. I guarantee he will see you more attractive when he has to chase you down a bit. At that age, we are full of piss and vinegar and think we can control the world with our will. Its a younger Caps fault that we take time to realize we are masters, but there is a bigger game to be had, thats why older caps are better, we matured enough to realize that the game we play is more about our ego than anything. Don't let his actions control or dominate your behavior. Its how you were when you met that made him attracted to you, get back to that. You will be happier and he may see you as the prize you are and return fill steam. If he doesnt, then he missed out and you are better off being yourself again. either way, that is a win win.

So I should just wait and carry on with my life right now?

If he can be Facebook so frequent but not responding to my messages, does it really mean that he's completely out?

I worry that he would forget about me...

Why would you want to be with a guy that is so rude, inconsiderate and disrespectful? Do you think you deserve that?

Do not wait for anyone who doesn't respect your feelings. Never ever 'get used' to someone's bad behavior; always speak up, don't settle for crumbs, live your life, focus on College, dive into your hobbies, date other

ppl, go out with friends.

If he does come around and wants to hook up for sex, because that's a possibility, he'll ignore you again and

you'll be even more hurt. You really can't make a guy stay and love you, but you can love yourself and demand respect.

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The fact that he was probably the best guy that I dated at first because he was really caring made it difficult for me to accept the fact that he's treating me this way.

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Posted by DMV
This would annoy and hurt me. Hed be dead to me.

But you could roll up on his house.

I don't want to annoy him and make him think that I'm a psycho... If I really go to his house, isn't that too much? :/ I've been contemplating to do so actually but I really don't wanna screw this up

Bad idea.

If he texts or calls again, ignore him. Give him a taste of his own medicine.

Be busy with your life, be happy, be successful. Date a hotter guy that treats you right.

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I think it's a bad idea too....

Posted by DMV

Posted by ptyw

Posted by DMV
This would annoy and hurt me. Hed be dead to me.

But you could roll up on his house.

I don't want to annoy him and make him think that I'm a psycho... If I really go to his house, isn't that too much? :/ I've been contemplating to do so actually but I really don't wanna screw this up

Or you could keep being sad and wait by the phone.

By the way, hes screwing this up. Not you.

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It's killing me waiting for his responds and not do anything about it but I don't know if going to his house is a good idea...

Posted by ptyw

Posted by DMV
How long have you been ignored? Like 2 weeks?

yes...2 and half-ish?

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Gurl....please go spend some time around more Aries. Go to the Aries board and have them give you a lesson in self respect.and taking no shit.

Youre quite the sheep. They will make you a ram.

Youve clearly fallen for potential... The "used to" guy

Posted by DMV
Youve clearly fallen for potential... The "used to" guy

What do you mean by this?

Posted by ptyw

Posted by DMV
Youve clearly fallen for potential... The "used to" guy

What do you mean by this?

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The "used to" guy. The inital potential. The guys who was doing all these good things. He used to call you, used to date, used to treat you good. Now hes changed.

Now is the present.

Youre still living in the past...thinking of all the things he used to do. Not holding him accountable for what hes doing right now.

Posted by Capricornicus
Being a Cap man, I know a 21 yr old cap can be precocious. he thinks he knows what he wants and will analyse every detail about it to be sure. to be fair, we pull away if we have something on our mind, but no doubt if he is interested he will be all about you. The one thing we are is intense with our attention and our passion when we have a goal or a person in our sights. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if it has been a long time, he is giving you the cold shoulder hoping you wont bother him anymore. Us Caps have a light switch, and once its off it is hard to turn back on. I very seriously doubt it was you. It was most likely something else that made him think about what he wants, and something in that made him pull away. Don't chase him, honestly if you want him, pull away. I guarantee he will see you more attractive when he has to chase you down a bit. At that age, we are full of piss and vinegar and think we can control the world with our will. Its a younger Caps fault that we take time to realize we are masters, but there is a bigger game to be had, thats why older caps are better, we matured enough to realize that the game we play is more about our ego than anything. Don't let his actions control or dominate your behavior. Its how you were when you met that made him attracted to you, get back to that. You will be happier and he may see you as the prize you are and return fill steam. If he doesnt, then he missed out and you are better off being yourself again. either way, that is a win win.

Okay, let's say I did something that pissed him off but I have absolutely no idea what was it that I did that made him pull away, should I not apologize to him? Even if it was my fault?

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Posted by ptyw

Posted by DMV
This would annoy and hurt me. Hed be dead to me.

But you could roll up on his house.

I don't want to annoy him and make him think that I'm a psycho... If I really go to his house, isn't that too much? :/ I've been contemplating to do so actually but I really don't wanna screw this up

Or you could keep being sad and wait by the phone.

By the way, hes screwing this up. Not you.

It's killing me waiting for his responds and not do anything about it but I don't know if going to his house is a good idea...

You just said a minute ago "I think it's a bad idea too."

From your responses, if he were to contact you, I have no doubt you would go running.

He's in control and you're not.

You should go to his home then and show him how weak you are and

lack any dignity, because that is exactly what he will think.

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I wouldn't lie that I was contemplating to drop by his place because people around me have been asking me to do so but I know that it is a bad idea so it's obvious that I won't go to his house.

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Posted by DMV
Youve clearly fallen for potential... The "used to" guy

What do you mean by this?

The "used to" guy. The inital potential. The guys who was doing all these good things. He used to call you, used to date, used to treat you good. Now hes changed.

Now is the present.

Youre still living in the past...thinking of all the things he used to do. Not holding him accountable for what hes doing right now.

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Oh, so that's the definition of "used to" guy.

Well, yes, I admit that I am still holding on to the past....

Posted by Skye

What's his date of birth if you don't mind sharing.

December 22nd!

Posted by Skye
@ptyw

Do you know what year?

1995.

Posted by ptyw

Posted by Skye
@ptyw

Do you know what year?

1995.

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Oh dear, He's a full Stellium Cap alright. Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Uranus, Neptune.. all in Capricorn. All these are square your Sun depending on the orb.

His ways is guaranteed to rub you the wrong without a shadow of doubt and the fact that he's young wont make it any easier.

Your Sun is located where his South Node is. Now unless you have a signifcant planet in Libra to balance this out, I'm going to say you're in for a tough ride in the future. I'm not a negative nancy that will tell you to leave him but realistically, putting astrology aside, you want to someone to treat you they way you would treat them.

Unless you're into chasing someone that treats you like shit (which I gather is not the case here). I would say back off a bit. We rams love the chase but after a while, little bit of self-respect is needed.

Caps can be like Pisces in a sense, we get preoccupied with life or need downtime to ourselves. Caps are largely natural workaholics or ambitious. It could also be that he might not be interested, if a Cap is really interested, they would make time to at least drop a line, we're ruled by Saturn, the god of responsibility. A serious relationship would be considered just that. But like in my current situation, I have a Leo ex trying to text me wanting to rekindle a relationshe messed up cheating on me. I ifnore her because I legitimately don't want anything to do with her, I found a Pisces I've fallen for and its become pretty serious. If I cared for someone, I wouldn't normally wait more than a week. I like Arien women, playful personalities. Worked with one that liked me, was always taking and hiding my soda so I'd come find her knowing she took it. She was in a troubled marriage though but said she wanted to screw my brains out in the parking lot or a hotel. We cared a lot for each other, also Virgo moon so that may have attributed to the appeal. But she was in the military and was restationed to a base in GA. Never saw her again, she found my address and wrote but my jealous Leo gf at the time wasn't having any of that.