Why do I destroy anything I love

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by cappygirl11 on Saturday, July 19, 2014 and has 21 replies.

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@cappygirl11
12 Years

I'm a capricorn. I always mess up my relationships badly.

Most recently with my bf of 5 years a wonderful cancerian.

The only person in this world who loved and cared for me.

Why do we do this

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@VivaciousVirgo
12 Years

Cappys tend to have the fault of not respecting or loving themselves. I second the therapy. If more Capricorns just bit the bullet instead of limping around "independently" the sign would be associated with more contended people.

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@cappygirl11
12 Years

I was terribly mean. I mean I went totally crazy and brought up everything that happened in the last 5 years cause I had to much happening...and in that moment he let me down again cause of work. So I picked o everything bad that had ever happened.

I want him back so bad.....He was the only good thing in my life

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@RichCap
12 Years

Posted by cappygirl11
I was terribly mean. I mean I went totally crazy and brought up everything that happened in the last 5 years cause I had to much happening...and in that moment he let me down again cause of work. So I picked o everything bad that had ever happened.

Is that all?

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@KittenLaRouge
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by SpiceNSugar

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Posted by CapTenn

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by cappygirl11
I'm a capricorn. I always mess up my relationships badly.
Most recently with my bf of 5 years a wonderful cancerian.
The only person in this world who loved and cared for me.
Why do we do this

yup. i do the same thing. ughhh

Me too.

y do we do it ? ughhhhh 😢

Yes, why?

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maybe deep down don't think we deserve love, possibly we like to test the person to see how much they love us. i know this tearing down period is temporary which leads me to believe its a test. i know if the object of our love can hang in there through this with us, they will be richly rewarded. but only the strong survive. 😛

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@highlyclassified
12 Years500+ PostsCapricorn

Posted by Sn1p3r187
There are better things to do than come to us for your problems. Those things are entirely up to self.

Have some consideration u may not feel advice is needed an only self could answer but if that was the case we wouldn't need forums like these or we wouldn't have problems we need help with addressing i don't think its anything wrong with asking for help about a situation or advice

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by CapTenn

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by cappygirl11
I'm a capricorn. I always mess up my relationships badly.

Most recently with my bf of 5 years a wonderful cancerian.

The only person in this world who loved and cared for me.

Why do we do this

yup. i do the same thing. ughhh

Me too.

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Me too. I even let a little bit of my female crazy jeopardize my relationship with the aqua this weekend. Kicking myself for not controlling my emotions.

*slaps scorpio venus, ties up her and locks her back in the cage*

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by highlyclassified

Posted by Sn1p3r187
There are better things to do than come to us for your problems. Those things are entirely up to self.

Have some consideration u may not feel advice is needed an only self could answer but if that was the case we wouldn't need forums like these or we wouldn't have problems we need help with addressing i don't think its anything wrong with asking for help about a situation or advice

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Agree. Sometimes it is good to have someone objective to talk to. Sometimes we just need to get it off our chest and feel some encouragement, sympathy, understanding, validation, a kick in the ass, or whatever else we need to help us get over it.

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@highlyclassified
12 Years500+ PostsCapricorn

Posted by truecap

Posted by highlyclassified

Posted by Sn1p3r187
There are better things to do than come to us for your problems. Those things are entirely up to self.

Have some consideration u may not feel advice is needed an only self could answer but if that was the case we wouldn't need forums like these or we wouldn't have problems we need help with addressing i don't think its anything wrong with asking for help about a situation or advice

Agree. Sometimes it is good to have someone objective to talk to. Sometimes we just need to get it off our chest and feel some encouragement, sympathy, understanding, validation, a kick in the ass, or whatever else we need to help us get over it.

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@trucap u my girl......... +1