Would you sleep with someone who had a bf/gf?

So my Cap got really drunk and told me that before he met me, he slept with a girl who picked him up at a bar. Problem is, she had a boyfriend (she told him) and he knowingly went ahead with it.

He said it was because he didn't really see a future with her and didn't care..aka. horny imo.

Is this a red flag? What does this say about him?

Yes I have. Twice.

No, even if the person in the relationship doesn't respect the relationship, I do. I think it would be fucked up to participate in dishonouring another person like that. I'm open to sex. Tu that's just dishonest and disrespectful.

But if he was fucked up with alcohol it changes the setting a bit, I say don't hold it on him, he pr Badly wasn't in the right mind, but it is a little iffy, I personally think it's screwed up, but it does happen with thoughtlessness.

No, for a number of honorable reasons, but also because you never know how CRAZY a person's significant other may be. It's not worth putting myself in a dangerous position just to get laid.

Says that he's a male.

Pssssshhhh what does this say about the girl—? And your Cap told you...no red flag. He laid it out on table and it was prior to you!

No

Posted by SunMoonStars
So my Cap got really drunk and told me that before he met me, he slept with a girl who picked him up at a bar. Problem is, she had a boyfriend (she told him) and he knowingly went ahead with it.

He said it was because he didn't really see a future with her and didn't care..aka. horny imo.

Is this a red flag? What does this say about him?

Well he was single so I don't think it really matters especially to men. Men think using their dicks. Like you said, he said he didn't really see a future with her so in his eyes it isn't an issue at all. Why would that matter...yeah