Caught another Gemini in my web (Page 2)

Mercury

Taurus

21°37’ Opposition

(1°03’)

Exact aspect Venus

Scorpio

20°33’

With this aspect, the Mercury person could view love on an intellectual level, while the Venus person experiences it on an emotional level. The Venus person can feel that as the Mercury person does not take the Venus person's wellbeing into account. There is conflict between the Venus person's need to give love and Mercury person's detached, cerebral reaction to it.

Mercury

Taurus

21°37’ Sextile (3°03’) Saturn

Pisces

18°34’

Saturn partner contributes maturity, which acts as a shock absorber, protecting and focusing Mercury partner's intelligence, helping to achieve a meaningful expression. Saturn's subconscious projection of a target creates a "nest" in which Mercury's ideas are born, fed and strengthened until they are brought to implementation. This is an excellent aspect for a long karmic partnership or marriage, because Saturn partner contributes a sense of purpose and helps Mercury partner to shape their view of life and have more mature ideas. Because of karmic mixing of the significant ideas both partners experience spiritual evolution.



Mars

Virgo

23°54’ Opposition (5°19’) Saturn

Pisces

18°34’

The Saturn partner represents crystallized rules, traditions and formalities, which Mars wouldn't like to be the part of. Saturn finds the Mars partner irresponsible and too young. There is tension due to the strong difference between two points of view. In the karmic sense, Mars attracted this relationship to eventually learn how to break the shackles of prohibitions and become an independent person. Thus, the more Saturn partner tries to limit him and keep within expectations, the more Saturn learns that it is impossible to control the other person always. As a result, Saturn should give Mars freedom to gain sense of self-worth.



Jupiter

Aquarius

21°52’ Trine (5°20’) Mercury

Libra

16°32’

With this aspect, the lower mind of the Mercury person connects to the higher mind of the Jupiter person to create multiple levels of harmonious understanding. Jupiter can generously nourish Mercury with ideas, which Mercury can easily digest, thus, feeling satisfying expansion of the consciousness. Jupiter partner introduces Mercury partner to new ways of thinking, and the latter can be fascinated by seeing the value of expanding simple ideas. At the same time Mercury provides Jupiter with the means for self-expression. If both are being practical and reasonable, this aspect can lead to spiritual growth for both partners. When light is combined with intellect, Renaissance begins.



Jupiter

Aquarius

21°52’ Square

(1°19’)

Exact aspect Venus

Scorpio

20°33’

Venus partner is faced with an open and expansive nature of the Jupiter person. Venus may try to attract Jupiter with love, but Jupiter's inner feeling of freedom and the desire for openness of consciousness can cause irritation in Venus' possessive nature. If Jupiter person abandons their freedom, they can find affection and attachment, but lose at the same time an independent understanding, which makes them a personality. Thus, this aspect creates a personal dilemma, which makes lasting relationship difficult.



Saturn

Aries

17°34’ Opposition

(1°02’)

Exact aspect Mercury

Libra

16°32’

While the Saturn partner is trying to dominate, the Mercury partner may not agree to accept the requirements imposed on their active and adaptable intelligence. Disputes and fighting are possible, because Mercury, trying to find their own importance, feels the need to resist any sense of responsibility, which is not their own. Although this reaction can cause difficulties in the relationship, this aspect can symbolize strong and lasting union. Both partners may subconsciously enjoy the fight, which ultimately makes each of them more powerful.

Saturn

Aries

17°34’ Trine (2°35’) Jupiter

Sagittarius

14°59’

If Jupiter provides a vision and Saturn creates a structure, they can build a relationship that will benefit the society as a whole. On a personal level, Jupiter's friendliness and optimism prevent Saturn from becoming too shallow and depressed, while Saturn makes sure that Jupiter's ideas are based on common sense.



Neptune

Capricorn

29°40’ Square (3°15’) Sun

Scorpio

2°56’

This aspect can bring romance, but can also prevent deep contact necessary for long relationships. It is difficult for the Sun partner to understand mental wavelength of Neptune, as the latter tends to move away to other "mental spheres". This causes difficulty of communication at inner levels. As a result, the Sun constantly aspires to Neptune, but never reaches the other. This situation is reminiscent of the constant courtship, eventually leads the Sun person to realize that they always remain empty-handed. If the relationship should work, Neptune person needs to understand that they can not constantly mislead the Sun.



Mercury

Taurus

21°37’ Trine (5°04’) Uranus

Capricorn

26°42’

This aspect creates the harmony between the intelligence of Mercury and the unusual or imaginative knowledge that Uranus has collected. Through their "lower" mind Mercury seeks to categorize and analyze all that is perceived. But in doing so, they can overlook a lot of things that could enrich thinking. Through this relationship with Uranus partner, Mercury becomes more inventive, original and gains a greater contact with the many existing opportunities, which otherwise might be overlooked. This relationship may have touch of genius, if both individuals will work together towards a common goal.



Mercury

Taurus

21°37’ Trine

(1°16’)

Exact aspect Neptune

Capricorn

22°54’

With this aspect, the mental capacity of Mercury is connected with the intuition and inspiration of Neptune, whose dreams complement Mercury's concrete reality. Neptune can inspire and support the other partner, because of beliefs and vision, which can teach Mercury to perceive the aesthetic natural beauty and spiritually uplift the intellectual ability. Compatible harmony of this aspect includes the understanding of music and arts.

Mars

Virgo

23°54’ Trine (2°47’) Uranus

Capricorn

26°42’

This aspect creates turbulent and stormy relationship. Mars acts through the ego to reach the understanding of the partner. Uranus ensures objectivity, which balances the subjective view of Mars partner. Because of supplementing sense of progress of both partners, the relationship acquires the features of two children, eagerly striving to experience their future.



Mars

Virgo

23°54’ Trine

(0°59’)

Exact aspect Neptune

Capricorn

22°54’

In this aspect the ego of Mars and the motivation is complemented by inspirational dreams of Neptune partner, who adds color and texture to everything that Mars does, and it helps Mars to strengthen the impression of the self. Mars, in turn, can show Neptune how to activate dreams and create a meaningful reality. While Mars is unceremonious and Neptune is evasive and elusive, there is an intriguing sense of sexual magnetism, because Neptune is like a butterfly, flying close enough to almost be caught.



Uranus

Aquarius

8°29’ Sextile (4°11’) Mars

Sagittarius

4°17’

This aspect creates turbulent and stormy relationship. Mars acts through the ego to reach the understanding of the partner. Uranus ensures objectivity, which balances the subjective view of Mars partner. Because of supplementing sense of progress of both partners, the relationship acquires the features of two children, eagerly striving to experience their future.



Saturn

Aries

17°34’ Square (5°19’) Neptune

Capricorn

22°54’

Saturn thinks that Neptune's weaknesses and peculiarities are detrimental to Saturn's stability and prosperity. Neptune, on the other hand, considers Saturn's innate fears and inhibitions to be frustrating and restrictive. So the result can be a lot of blame and guilt. Saturn person feels that they must keep the relationship going while Neptune is unreliable and irresponsible, at least according to Saturn. But Neptune person cannot stand that they should play according to Saturn's rules and considers Saturn to be a "despotic father," who denies even the slightest joy.

personally if I see gemini anywhere in the chart of someone im interested in especially Mars and Sun and Juno I throw the whole thing away. but each to their own. at first look at your synasty I couldn't understand the attraction but noticed his venus trines your sun almost exact so major attraction on his part to u. but Pluto mars conjunction/opposition in synastry is notorious for abuse or physical violence. case in point , dahmer's 7 year old victim the boy's Pluto opposite dahmer's mars almost exact degrees.

7/12 year dont recall exact age now but remember checking the synastry when the doc first aired.

HIS JUNO CANCER 4 Degrees

Juno Trine Your Sun 1°37’ Scorpio (he sees you as wifey material spousal prospect and long term commitment worthy, someone he would settle down with basically you're his marriage type., Juno is the ideal spouse asteroid)

Juno Conjunction Your Lilith 1°28’ Cancer

Juno Square Your Chiron 2°12’ Libra (I've noticed this in abusive relationships, with the square the abuse can go both ways. both the relationship is painful and can be traumatic for both)

HIS PSYCHE VIRGO 8 degrees

His Psyche Opposite Your EROS PISCES 23 degrees

HIS EROS ARIES 21 Degress

His Eros Sextiles Your PSYCHE GEMINI 20 degrees

HIS PSYCHE OPPOSTE HER EROS

The dynamic tension generated by this pairing is truly something to behold. Often they are officially the complete opposite of one another. No? Something is bound to be diametrically opposed. They get it on via an instant emotion of not ‘Wow, we are so similar’ but of ‘you complete me’. Happier than any other kind of couple to not just tolerate but relish the differences between them, they give one another ‘free to be me’ room. They’re also suave, modern or worldly about gender expression, caring not about who seems to be in charge’. Deeply private or a ways discreet, they keep the real passion or power politics to themselves, to be played out in private. This is because, cosmically, this duo always has something hot to be, er, worked through

HIS PSYCHE SEXTILES HER EROS

Serendipity strikes hard and fast as these two suddenly wake up to the fact that they’re fully in love. Yes, this couple is the most likely to al ready know one another – perhaps they are even the cliched just good friends, when suddenly one night, IT happens. Oh, dear. There so naturally compatible and happy together that they often bond on a purely platonic level, knowing right from the start that this person is someone they want to have in their lives indefinitely. Consciously or otherwise, they don’t want to blow it via some psychodramatic lust scenario. So? So they suppress their real feelings. Should true love run its destined course, this couple is a team working duo evoking sustained mutual stimulation to help them ride out the ruts of long-term love. The best expression of this relationship is that of real partnering. They’re mates in every sense of the word.

Ya, you have karma with this soul. Fated? You are right on top of his Saturn Chiron opposition with your Sun and North Node. That means your south node is probably conjunct his Saturn. You two will really know each other and have great capacity to wound each other. He will feel so insecure around you he will be setting limits to protect himself - Saturn and Chiron are places we protect - and there you are always activating these.

All of the Mars-Saturn stuff going on between you two. You could really wound this person. Maybe even unintentionally. This will never work unless you both are very upfront and learn to protect the union. Rlse one of you might off the other one of you.

Or else

Gabrielle Petito was killed by her fiancé Brian Laundrie. They had a bunch of these 'fated' aspects, too. She was all over the 'soft' spots in his chart (like you are).

Posted by mirthyQ
Gabrielle Petito was killed by her fiancé Brian Laundrie. They had a bunch of these 'fated' aspects, too. She was all over the 'soft' spots in his chart (like you are).

mmmm true on petito and laundrie's relationship. personally when looking at synastry with difficult aspects or aspects that point to abuse I also like to look at the individual charts , like does one of them have a propensity for violence, so regardless of what the synastry chart says if the person doesn't have those tendencies then the synastry is unlikely to play out that way. in the natal chart i always look out for mars Uranus square, mars Jupiter square aspect or venus square mars in some cases as those point to anger issues , square to mars in the natal chart general shows a combative or argumentative personality and short fuse. even mars square Neptune but sometimes its more deceptive tendencies and lack of boundaries than anything. with mars Uranus square thats uncontrollable temper , and mars Jupiter well and inflated ego and massive temper. thats what I've noticed anyway.

forgot to mention, definitely mars square Pluto is another honourable mention. but usually this place attracts it or gives it (physical violence) the opposition can go both ways as well for all the mars aspects mentioned.

Posted by mirthyQ
Gabrielle Petito was killed by her fiancé Brian Laundrie. They had a bunch of these 'fated' aspects, too. She was all over the 'soft' spots in his chart (like you are).

wow thank you for bringing this to my attention. I don’t like to think this direction, but I do feel like those aspects/similarities are important to know.

Posted by boujeemarshmellow
HIS PSYCHE VIRGO 8 degrees

His Psyche Opposite Your EROS PISCES 23 degrees


HIS EROS ARIES 21 Degress

His Eros Sextiles Your PSYCHE GEMINI 20 degrees


HIS PSYCHE OPPOSTE HER EROS

The dynamic tension generated by this pairing is truly something to behold. Often they are officially the complete opposite of one another. No? Something is bound to be diametrically opposed. They get it on via an instant emotion of not ‘Wow, we are so similar’ but of ‘you complete me’. Happier than any other kind of couple to not just tolerate but relish the differences between them, they give one another ‘free to be me’ room. They’re also suave, modern or worldly about gender expression, caring not about who seems to be in charge’. Deeply private or a ways discreet, they keep the real passion or power politics to themselves, to be played out in private. This is because, cosmically, this duo always has something hot to be, er, worked through


HIS PSYCHE SEXTILES HER EROS

Serendipity strikes hard and fast as these two suddenly wake up to the fact that they’re fully in love. Yes, this couple is the most likely to al ready know one another – perhaps they are even the cliched just good friends, when suddenly one night, IT happens. Oh, dear. There so naturally compatible and happy together that they often bond on a purely platonic level, knowing right from the start that this person is someone they want to have in their lives indefinitely. Consciously or otherwise, they don’t want to blow it via some psychodramatic lust scenario. So? So they suppress their real feelings. Should true love run its destined course, this couple is a team working duo evoking sustained mutual stimulation to help them ride out the ruts of long-term love. The best expression of this relationship is that of real partnering. They’re mates in every sense of the word.

Thank you for taking the time to search all of this and really go the extra mile 🙏

Looks like there are good and bad aspects. A lot of what you wrote explains why he won’t leave me alone (though I do think he has mental illness / personality disorder so perhaps he’s naturally pre-disposed to obsess).

Lol @ the avoiding Gemini placements. I love geminis, I used to think my husband will have to be a Gemini, though these days I’ve started to tire of them and am opening my mind up to serious relationships with other signs.



Regarding what you said to the other user regarding violence having to be present in the personal natal chart in order to be concerning- interesting and valid point. Though I also think people’s upbringing may be the greatest influence in how they’ll treat partners. This particular Gem- his dad (gemini) tried to kill his mom (gemini), the dad had major attitude problems towards women in general. I see the overlap- this gem doesn’t respect his own mother (will call her a “bitch” and “whore” TO HER FACE, as openly admitted to me he doesn’t respect her). I’d just always try to encourage him to be better than those family cycles, scratch the record so to speak.

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by boujeemarshmellow
HIS PSYCHE VIRGO 8 degrees
His Psyche Opposite Your EROS PISCES 23 degrees

HIS EROS ARIES 21 Degress
His Eros Sextiles Your PSYCHE GEMINI 20 degrees

HIS PSYCHE OPPOSTE HER EROS
The dynamic tension generated by this pairing is truly something to behold. Often they are officially the complete opposite of one another. No? Something is bound to be diametrically opposed. They get it on via an instant emotion of not ‘Wow, we are so similar’ but of ‘you complete me’. Happier than any other kind of couple to not just tolerate but relish the differences between them, they give one another ‘free to be me’ room. They’re also suave, modern or worldly about gender expression, caring not about who seems to be in charge’. Deeply private or a ways discreet, they keep the real passion or power politics to themselves, to be played out in private. This is because, cosmically, this duo always has something hot to be, er, worked through

HIS PSYCHE SEXTILES HER EROS
Serendipity strikes hard and fast as these two suddenly wake up to the fact that they’re fully in love. Yes, this couple is the most likely to al ready know one another – perhaps they are even the cliched just good friends, when suddenly one night, IT happens. Oh, dear. There so naturally compatible and happy together that they often bond on a purely platonic level, knowing right from the start that this person is someone they want to have in their lives indefinitely. Consciously or otherwise, they don’t want to blow it via some psychodramatic lust scenario. So? So they suppress their real feelings. Should true love run its destined course, this couple is a team working duo evoking sustained mutual stimulation to help them ride out the ruts of long-term love. The best expression of this relationship is that of real partnering. They’re mates in every sense of the word.

Thank you for taking the time to search all of this and really go the extra mile 🙏

Looks like there are good and bad aspects. A lot of what you wrote explains why he won’t leave me alone (though I do think he has mental illness / personality disorder so perhaps he’s naturally pre-disposed to obsess).

Lol @ the avoiding Gemini placements. I love geminis, I used to think my husband will have to be a Gemini, though these days I’ve started to tire of them and am opening my mind up to serious relationships with other signs.



Regarding what you said to the other user regarding violence having to be present in the personal natal chart in order to be concerning- interesting and valid point. Though I also think people’s upbringing may be the greatest influence in how they’ll treat partners. This particular Gem- his dad (gemini) tried to kill his mom (gemini), the dad had major attitude problems towards women in general. I see the overlap- this gem doesn’t respect his own mother (will call her a “bitch” and “whore” TO HER FACE, as openly admitted to me he doesn’t respect her). I’d just always try to encourage him to be better than those family cycles, scratch the record so to speak.

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You're welcome ❤️

tbh I've never met a gemini without a second personality hiding in their closet so about the split personality I wouldn't be surprised. sorry Geminis.

I'm also not surprised about your attraction to Geminis you have a SAG MARS you're drawn to mutables like moth to flame. your PSCHYE ASTERIOD IS GEMINI which is the soul asteroid your soul feels at home the most with this sign , you relate to them on a soul level quite literally so naturally you will feel an inexplicable bond to them. I have my PSYCHE in Scorpio its the only scorpio placement in my chart aside Pluto but boyyyyy whenever I meet a man with scorpio sun or mars/venus the connection is off the charts like I want to crawl inside their soul and hide safely. lol. instant attraction vibes every time.

As for what you said about his relaitonshioop with his mum and women in general. HIS VENUS SQUARES MARS in his natal chart. men with this are notorious for having issues with women or women in their lives. the relationship with women(venus) is rife with conflict (mars) , they have a marked hatred/dislike for women in general or some hang up about women. can also play out as a Madonna/whore complex. How I've noticed it play out in charts of men I've seen this aspect in is their also HUGE PLAYERSSSSSSS. Sheeeeesh they're unfaithful to the core. I call this the OG FKBOI aspect. Its like having Venus in Aries but on steroids. they get bored easily and yeah either quick temper/passive aggressive and conflict avoidant, no inbetween. either way their relationships are rarely peaceful. if it gets peaceful they'll shake things up for some stimuli , so drama for the sake of drama. thats what they get off on, their love language is conflict. MAKEUP SEX is the aphrodisiac. BTW I have this placement haha but I'm a woman but I can relate to the quick boredom and I lose interest FAST. relationships always start with a bang tho and they dont last because arguments galore with this aspect. Their need and wants conflict with this aspect. They have trouble finding someone who satisfies their emotional/love (venus) needs as well as sexual (mars) needs hence they often seek multiple different partners to satisfy it at the same time. they juggle like its a circus. its not all bad though. They are fun while it lasts. lol.

I wanted to ask why you stick around when he speaks so badly about his mum, I always say how a man treats his mum/ maternal figure and the women in his family is a reflection of how he feels about women and how he will treat you. its actually true . a man cant hate his mum / women already in his life and love you he's incapable of giving you something he hasn't practiced giving others. but of course I'm just being curious (or nosey)

Posted by boujeemarshmellow
tbh I've never met a gemini without a second personality hiding in their closet so about the split personality I wouldn't be surprised. sorry Geminis.

I'm also not surprised about your attraction to Geminis you have a SAG MARS you're drawn to mutables like moth to flame. your PSCHYE ASTERIOD IS GEMINI which is the soul asteroid your soul feels at home the most with this sign , you relate to them on a soul level quite literally so naturally you will feel an inexplicable bond to them. I have my PSYCHE in Scorpio its the only scorpio placement in my chart aside Pluto but boyyyyy whenever I meet a man with scorpio sun or mars/venus the connection is off the charts like I want to crawl inside their soul and hide safely. lol. instant attraction vibes every time.


As for what you said about his relaitonshioop with his mum and women in general. HIS VENUS SQUARES MARS in his natal chart. men with this are notorious for having issues with women or women in their lives. the relationship with women(venus) is rife with conflict (mars) , they have a marked hatred/dislike for women in general or some hang up about women. can also play out as a Madonna/whore complex. How I've noticed it play out in charts of men I've seen this aspect in is their also HUGE PLAYERSSSSSSS. Sheeeeesh they're unfaithful to the core. I call this the OG FKBOI aspect. Its like having Venus in Aries but on steroids. they get bored easily and yeah either quick temper/passive aggressive and conflict avoidant, no inbetween. either way their relationships are rarely peaceful. if it gets peaceful they'll shake things up for some stimuli , so drama for the sake of drama. thats what they get off on, their love language is conflict. MAKEUP SEX is the aphrodisiac. BTW I have this placement haha but I'm a woman but I can relate to the quick boredom and I lose interest FAST. relationships always start with a bang tho and they dont last because arguments galore with this aspect. Their need and wants conflict with this aspect. They have trouble finding someone who satisfies their emotional/love (venus) needs as well as sexual (mars) needs hence they often seek multiple different partners to satisfy it at the same time. they juggle like its a circus. its not all bad though. They are fun while it lasts. lol.


I wanted to ask why you stick around when he speaks so badly about his mum, I always say how a man treats his mum/ maternal figure and the women in his family is a reflection of how he feels about women and how he will treat you. its actually true . a man cant hate his mum / women already in his life and love you he's incapable of giving you something he hasn't practiced giving others. but of course I'm just being curious (or nosey)

I also have several personalities, some hidden, some not, so I can’t really be too concerned about Gemini's and their multi-facets.

That makes a lot of sense about my psyche being in Gemini! I was just trying to figure out why I keep coming back to this sign, why I feel so at ease, natural with them.

I would generally agree with the desire for conflict. Just when things would start to seem like they were going good, he’d pull some reason out of his arse to be upset with me. Though again, I don’t know how much of that is mental illness and how much is astrology (I’m always studying psychology, so that is more of a context I can understand as opposed to astrology).

I get bored easily too, and have cheated in all of my serious relationships. Sometimes I think an open-relationship would be best, other times I just think I’ll be happier being a single whore forever (I love my freedom and I’ll never run out of lovers).

I continue to entertain him because I want to help him. I know I have the power to heal others, though I haven’t been challenged with someone this afflicted, outside of my dad.

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Posted by boujeemarshmellow
tbh I've never met a gemini without a second personality hiding in their closet so about the split personality I wouldn't be surprised. sorry Geminis.
I'm also not surprised about your attraction to Geminis you have a SAG MARS you're drawn to mutables like moth to flame. your PSCHYE ASTERIOD IS GEMINI which is the soul asteroid your soul feels at home the most with this sign , you relate to them on a soul level quite literally so naturally you will feel an inexplicable bond to them. I have my PSYCHE in Scorpio its the only scorpio placement in my chart aside Pluto but boyyyyy whenever I meet a man with scorpio sun or mars/venus the connection is off the charts like I want to crawl inside their soul and hide safely. lol. instant attraction vibes every time.

As for what you said about his relaitonshioop with his mum and women in general. HIS VENUS SQUARES MARS in his natal chart. men with this are notorious for having issues with women or women in their lives. the relationship with women(venus) is rife with conflict (mars) , they have a marked hatred/dislike for women in general or some hang up about women. can also play out as a Madonna/whore complex. How I've noticed it play out in charts of men I've seen this aspect in is their also HUGE PLAYERSSSSSSS. Sheeeeesh they're unfaithful to the core. I call this the OG FKBOI aspect. Its like having Venus in Aries but on steroids. they get bored easily and yeah either quick temper/passive aggressive and conflict avoidant, no inbetween. either way their relationships are rarely peaceful. if it gets peaceful they'll shake things up for some stimuli , so drama for the sake of drama. thats what they get off on, their love language is conflict. MAKEUP SEX is the aphrodisiac. BTW I have this placement haha but I'm a woman but I can relate to the quick boredom and I lose interest FAST. relationships always start with a bang tho and they dont last because arguments galore with this aspect. Their need and wants conflict with this aspect. They have trouble finding someone who satisfies their emotional/love (venus) needs as well as sexual (mars) needs hence they often seek multiple different partners to satisfy it at the same time. they juggle like its a circus. its not all bad though. They are fun while it lasts. lol.

I wanted to ask why you stick around when he speaks so badly about his mum, I always say how a man treats his mum/ maternal figure and the women in his family is a reflection of how he feels about women and how he will treat you. its actually true . a man cant hate his mum / women already in his life and love you he's incapable of giving you something he hasn't practiced giving others. but of course I'm just being curious (or nosey)

I also have several personalities, some hidden, some not, so I can’t really be too concerned about Gemini's and their multi-facets.


That makes a lot of sense about my psyche being in Gemini! I was just trying to figure out why I keep coming back to this sign, why I feel so at ease, natural with them.


I would generally agree with the desire for conflict. Just when things would start to seem like they were going good, he’d pull some reason out of his arse to be upset with me. Though again, I don’t know how much of that is mental illness and how much is astrology (I’m always studying psychology, so that is more of a context I can understand as opposed to astrology).

I get bored easily too, and have cheated in all of my serious relationships. Sometimes I think an open-relationship would be best, other times I just think I’ll be happier being a single whore forever (I love my freedom and I’ll never run out of lovers).


I continue to entertain him because I want to help him. I know I have the power to heal others, though I haven’t been challenged with someone this afflicted, outside of my dad.

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single whore had me cackling im ngl

Yeah do what works best for you in that regard if its an open relationship then as long as the other person is aware and knows what they signing up for then no harm done plus u cant cheat on someone who knows you're seeing other people. its possible you have a mars Uranus aspect (didnt check ur natal chart) usually mars Uranus aspects and / aqua mars thrive best in these types of set ups. mars sag as well because sag likes varietyyyyyyy. my mars virgo would die if someone brought me a topic of open.... before he even finishes the sentence im OUT. lol I love mines to be just mines I dont SHARE. I have a mars Pluto sextile so that might be why. sexual possessiveness is my thing. if u not tryna be owned dont come my way type energy lol.

mmm thats interesting about your dad, not to psychoanalyse or anything but we as women tend to go towards men who display traits of our fathers and vice versa is true for men. they go with women who remind them of mum (for good or bad) . the energy is familiar to them.

yeah I hear you about taking psychology more seriously than astrology , any reasonable person would as its based off of facts instead of patterns and slight fiction (lol) im logical enough to know astrology can seem a tad bogus and shouldn't be taken as the end all be all and as you said nature and nurture have a huge influence on how a person behaves regardless of planets and aspects in birth chart or synastry. my virgo and aqua influence in my chart keeps me logical and hella grounded thank fck.