Caught another Gemini in my web (Page 2)

Posted by Whorpio

Posted by boujeemarshmellow
HIS PSYCHE VIRGO 8 degrees
His Psyche Opposite Your EROS PISCES 23 degrees

HIS EROS ARIES 21 Degress
His Eros Sextiles Your PSYCHE GEMINI 20 degrees

HIS PSYCHE OPPOSTE HER EROS
The dynamic tension generated by this pairing is truly something to behold. Often they are officially the complete opposite of one another. No? Something is bound to be diametrically opposed. They get it on via an instant emotion of not ‘Wow, we are so similar’ but of ‘you complete me’. Happier than any other kind of couple to not just tolerate but relish the differences between them, they give one another ‘free to be me’ room. They’re also suave, modern or worldly about gender expression, caring not about who seems to be in charge’. Deeply private or a ways discreet, they keep the real passion or power politics to themselves, to be played out in private. This is because, cosmically, this duo always has something hot to be, er, worked through

HIS PSYCHE SEXTILES HER EROS
Serendipity strikes hard and fast as these two suddenly wake up to the fact that they’re fully in love. Yes, this couple is the most likely to al ready know one another – perhaps they are even the cliched just good friends, when suddenly one night, IT happens. Oh, dear. There so naturally compatible and happy together that they often bond on a purely platonic level, knowing right from the start that this person is someone they want to have in their lives indefinitely. Consciously or otherwise, they don’t want to blow it via some psychodramatic lust scenario. So? So they suppress their real feelings. Should true love run its destined course, this couple is a team working duo evoking sustained mutual stimulation to help them ride out the ruts of long-term love. The best expression of this relationship is that of real partnering. They’re mates in every sense of the word.

Thank you for taking the time to search all of this and really go the extra mile 🙏

Looks like there are good and bad aspects. A lot of what you wrote explains why he won’t leave me alone (though I do think he has mental illness / personality disorder so perhaps he’s naturally pre-disposed to obsess).

Lol @ the avoiding Gemini placements. I love geminis, I used to think my husband will have to be a Gemini, though these days I’ve started to tire of them and am opening my mind up to serious relationships with other signs.

Regarding what you said to the other user regarding violence having to be present in the personal natal chart in order to be concerning- interesting and valid point. Though I also think people’s upbringing may be the greatest influence in how they’ll treat partners. This particular Gem- his dad (gemini) tried to kill his mom (gemini), the dad had major attitude problems towards women in general. I see the overlap- this gem doesn’t respect his own mother (will call her a “bitch” and “whore” TO HER FACE, as openly admitted to me he doesn’t respect her). I’d just always try to encourage him to be better than those family cycles, scratch the record so to speak.

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tbh I've never met a gemini without a second personality hiding in their closet so about the split personality I wouldn't be surprised. sorry Geminis.

I'm also not surprised about your attraction to Geminis you have a SAG MARS you're drawn to mutables like moth to flame. your PSCHYE ASTERIOD IS GEMINI which is the soul asteroid your soul feels at home the most with this sign , you relate to them on a soul level quite literally so naturally you will feel an inexplicable bond to them. I have my PSYCHE in Scorpio its the only scorpio placement in my chart aside Pluto but boyyyyy whenever I meet a man with scorpio sun or mars/venus the connection is off the charts like I want to crawl inside their soul and hide safely. lol. instant attraction vibes every time.

As for what you said about his relaitonshioop with his mum and women in general. HIS VENUS SQUARES MARS in his natal chart. men with this are notorious for having issues with women or women in their lives. the relationship with women(venus) is rife with conflict (mars) , they have a marked hatred/dislike for women in general or some hang up about women. can also play out as a Madonna/whore complex. How I've noticed it play out in charts of men I've seen this aspect in is their also HUGE PLAYERSSSSSSS. Sheeeeesh they're unfaithful to the core. I call this the OG FKBOI aspect. Its like having Venus in Aries but on steroids. they get bored easily and yeah either quick temper/passive aggressive and conflict avoidant, no inbetween. either way their relationships are rarely peaceful. if it gets peaceful they'll shake things up for some stimuli , so drama for the sake of drama. thats what they get off on, their love language is conflict. MAKEUP SEX is the aphrodisiac. BTW I have this placement haha but I'm a woman but I can relate to the quick boredom and I lose interest FAST. relationships always start with a bang tho and they dont last because arguments galore with this aspect. Their need and wants conflict with this aspect. They have trouble finding someone who satisfies their emotional/love (venus) needs as well as sexual (mars) needs hence they often seek multiple different partners to satisfy it at the same time. they juggle like its a circus. its not all bad though. They are fun while it lasts. lol.

I wanted to ask why you stick around when he speaks so badly about his mum, I always say how a man treats his mum/ maternal figure and the women in his family is a reflection of how he feels about women and how he will treat you. its actually true . a man cant hate his mum / women already in his life and love you he's incapable of giving you something he hasn't practiced giving others. but of course I'm just being curious (or nosey)

Posted by boujeemarshmellow
tbh I've never met a gemini without a second personality hiding in their closet so about the split personality I wouldn't be surprised. sorry Geminis.

I'm also not surprised about your attraction to Geminis you have a SAG MARS you're drawn to mutables like moth to flame. your PSCHYE ASTERIOD IS GEMINI which is the soul asteroid your soul feels at home the most with this sign , you relate to them on a soul level quite literally so naturally you will feel an inexplicable bond to them. I have my PSYCHE in Scorpio its the only scorpio placement in my chart aside Pluto but boyyyyy whenever I meet a man with scorpio sun or mars/venus the connection is off the charts like I want to crawl inside their soul and hide safely. lol. instant attraction vibes every time.

As for what you said about his relaitonshioop with his mum and women in general. HIS VENUS SQUARES MARS in his natal chart. men with this are notorious for having issues with women or women in their lives. the relationship with women(venus) is rife with conflict (mars) , they have a marked hatred/dislike for women in general or some hang up about women. can also play out as a Madonna/whore complex. How I've noticed it play out in charts of men I've seen this aspect in is their also HUGE PLAYERSSSSSSS. Sheeeeesh they're unfaithful to the core. I call this the OG FKBOI aspect. Its like having Venus in Aries but on steroids. they get bored easily and yeah either quick temper/passive aggressive and conflict avoidant, no inbetween. either way their relationships are rarely peaceful. if it gets peaceful they'll shake things up for some stimuli , so drama for the sake of drama. thats what they get off on, their love language is conflict. MAKEUP SEX is the aphrodisiac. BTW I have this placement haha but I'm a woman but I can relate to the quick boredom and I lose interest FAST. relationships always start with a bang tho and they dont last because arguments galore with this aspect. Their need and wants conflict with this aspect. They have trouble finding someone who satisfies their emotional/love (venus) needs as well as sexual (mars) needs hence they often seek multiple different partners to satisfy it at the same time. they juggle like its a circus. its not all bad though. They are fun while it lasts. lol.

I wanted to ask why you stick around when he speaks so badly about his mum, I always say how a man treats his mum/ maternal figure and the women in his family is a reflection of how he feels about women and how he will treat you. its actually true . a man cant hate his mum / women already in his life and love you he's incapable of giving you something he hasn't practiced giving others. but of course I'm just being curious (or nosey)

I also have several personalities, some hidden, some not, so I can’t really be too concerned about Gemini's and their multi-facets.

That makes a lot of sense about my psyche being in Gemini! I was just trying to figure out why I keep coming back to this sign, why I feel so at ease, natural with them.

I would generally agree with the desire for conflict. Just when things would start to seem like they were going good, he’d pull some reason out of his arse to be upset with me. Though again, I don’t know how much of that is mental illness and how much is astrology (I’m always studying psychology, so that is more of a context I can understand as opposed to astrology).

I get bored easily too, and have cheated in all of my serious relationships. Sometimes I think an open-relationship would be best, other times I just think I’ll be happier being a single whore forever (I love my freedom and I’ll never run out of lovers).

I continue to entertain him because I want to help him. I know I have the power to heal others, though I haven’t been challenged with someone this afflicted, outside of my dad.

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Posted by boujeemarshmellow
tbh I've never met a gemini without a second personality hiding in their closet so about the split personality I wouldn't be surprised. sorry Geminis.
I'm also not surprised about your attraction to Geminis you have a SAG MARS you're drawn to mutables like moth to flame. your PSCHYE ASTERIOD IS GEMINI which is the soul asteroid your soul feels at home the most with this sign , you relate to them on a soul level quite literally so naturally you will feel an inexplicable bond to them. I have my PSYCHE in Scorpio its the only scorpio placement in my chart aside Pluto but boyyyyy whenever I meet a man with scorpio sun or mars/venus the connection is off the charts like I want to crawl inside their soul and hide safely. lol. instant attraction vibes every time.

As for what you said about his relaitonshioop with his mum and women in general. HIS VENUS SQUARES MARS in his natal chart. men with this are notorious for having issues with women or women in their lives. the relationship with women(venus) is rife with conflict (mars) , they have a marked hatred/dislike for women in general or some hang up about women. can also play out as a Madonna/whore complex. How I've noticed it play out in charts of men I've seen this aspect in is their also HUGE PLAYERSSSSSSS. Sheeeeesh they're unfaithful to the core. I call this the OG FKBOI aspect. Its like having Venus in Aries but on steroids. they get bored easily and yeah either quick temper/passive aggressive and conflict avoidant, no inbetween. either way their relationships are rarely peaceful. if it gets peaceful they'll shake things up for some stimuli , so drama for the sake of drama. thats what they get off on, their love language is conflict. MAKEUP SEX is the aphrodisiac. BTW I have this placement haha but I'm a woman but I can relate to the quick boredom and I lose interest FAST. relationships always start with a bang tho and they dont last because arguments galore with this aspect. Their need and wants conflict with this aspect. They have trouble finding someone who satisfies their emotional/love (venus) needs as well as sexual (mars) needs hence they often seek multiple different partners to satisfy it at the same time. they juggle like its a circus. its not all bad though. They are fun while it lasts. lol.

I wanted to ask why you stick around when he speaks so badly about his mum, I always say how a man treats his mum/ maternal figure and the women in his family is a reflection of how he feels about women and how he will treat you. its actually true . a man cant hate his mum / women already in his life and love you he's incapable of giving you something he hasn't practiced giving others. but of course I'm just being curious (or nosey)

I also have several personalities, some hidden, some not, so I can’t really be too concerned about Gemini's and their multi-facets.

That makes a lot of sense about my psyche being in Gemini! I was just trying to figure out why I keep coming back to this sign, why I feel so at ease, natural with them.

I would generally agree with the desire for conflict. Just when things would start to seem like they were going good, he’d pull some reason out of his arse to be upset with me. Though again, I don’t know how much of that is mental illness and how much is astrology (I’m always studying psychology, so that is more of a context I can understand as opposed to astrology).

I get bored easily too, and have cheated in all of my serious relationships. Sometimes I think an open-relationship would be best, other times I just think I’ll be happier being a single whore forever (I love my freedom and I’ll never run out of lovers).

I continue to entertain him because I want to help him. I know I have the power to heal others, though I haven’t been challenged with someone this afflicted, outside of my dad.

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single whore had me cackling im ngl

Yeah do what works best for you in that regard if its an open relationship then as long as the other person is aware and knows what they signing up for then no harm done plus u cant cheat on someone who knows you're seeing other people. its possible you have a mars Uranus aspect (didnt check ur natal chart) usually mars Uranus aspects and / aqua mars thrive best in these types of set ups. mars sag as well because sag likes varietyyyyyyy. my mars virgo would die if someone brought me a topic of open.... before he even finishes the sentence im OUT. lol I love mines to be just mines I dont SHARE. I have a mars Pluto sextile so that might be why. sexual possessiveness is my thing. if u not tryna be owned dont come my way type energy lol.

mmm thats interesting about your dad, not to psychoanalyse or anything but we as women tend to go towards men who display traits of our fathers and vice versa is true for men. they go with women who remind them of mum (for good or bad) . the energy is familiar to them.

yeah I hear you about taking psychology more seriously than astrology , any reasonable person would as its based off of facts instead of patterns and slight fiction (lol) im logical enough to know astrology can seem a tad bogus and shouldn't be taken as the end all be all and as you said nature and nurture have a huge influence on how a person behaves regardless of planets and aspects in birth chart or synastry. my virgo and aqua influence in my chart keeps me logical and hella grounded thank fck.