Help needed from smart people who can read chart ~ Thanks!

I need some smart people to help me to figure out if this Cancer man can be loyal to one woman only...here is a part of his chart:

Rising Sign is in 07 Degrees Libra

Sun is in 20 Degrees Cancer

Moon is in 24 Degrees Libra

Mercury is in 16 Degrees Leo

Venus is in 04 Degrees Virgo

Mars is in 25 Degrees Leo



And if we are good match...here is a part of my chart:

Rising Sign is in 26 Degrees Scorpio

Sun is in 23 Degrees Sagittarius

Moon is in 01 Degrees Sagittarius

Mercury is in 16 Degrees Sagittarius

Venus is in 20 Degrees Capricorn

Mars is in 23 Degrees Pisces



He said that he wants us to be best friends forever and love me always, so whenever I want to get married, I should marry my best friend----him!

I have known him one and half years so far. But I'm afraid to lose my freedom by getting married, and I don't know if he is the Mr. Right to me? 😢



Thanks a lot for all helps in advance!!!

Sadly, there is nobody can help for analyzing charts? :?

Posted by Ellygant

Posted by findtruth
Sadly, there is nobody can help for analyzing charts? :?

Nah, it’s just that no one can promise you anything like total lifelong fidelity in a reading.

You might have better luck at posting whole charts, in graph format and asking about compatibility instead.

Also ask yourself why that’s the first thing you want an answer to at the start of a relationship. Either something is off and you already don’t trust him or you have previous insecurities affecting your perception.

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That's precisely what I said to her on her other thread. Nobody can guarantee lifelong fidelity. Relationships are a gamble.

Posted by Toti
That libra moon concerns me. He becomes dependant of people he is with fast, dreaming of marrying them. Once he is married he will be finding flaws in his partner to justify his wandering eye. His virgo venus with your cap Venus would make your sex life robotic. That libra in him and Scorpio in you would eventually kill each other. You like freedom. He is possessive and wishy washy.

It's good to know that we are not good match "technically" by charts.

Thank you very much!

@aquarius09



I first posted on Cancer forum, later, I found this Chart Interpretation forum----I thought this is the right forum I should post since I want someone to look at both charts...

And I agree with you that relationship is like a gamble. I just try to figure out if it is worthy to make a bet.

Posted by findtruth
@aquarius09



I first posted on Cancer forum, later, I found this Chart Interpretation forum----I thought this is the right forum I should post since I want someone to look at both charts...

And I agree with you that relationship is like a gamble. I just try to figure out if it is worthy to make a bet.

Has he proposed to you? How long have you been dating for?

Leo and libra tend to be loyal, they "depend" on others...the selfish omes are around the Aries /Pisces area, they see morals as elastic...

Posted by HoneyXx
a sag and a cancer? 😩

They have a strangely strong connection. Geminis or Leos are down to earth, they're not really into the stratospheric signs like Sag and Aqua, but for some reason Cancers share a special bond with them.

They have a strangely strong connection. Geminis or Leos are down to earth, they're not really into the stratospheric signs like Sag and Aqua, but for some reason Cancers share a special bond with them.

He said that I'm the only one whom he can get along with. That's why he wanna marry me.

However, I'm easy-going by Sag nature, so I can get along with all people around me. For me, "to get along with" is not a big deal, and should not be No. 1 reason for getting married. Plus, he has kept connecting with his other female friends also.

Post his actual natal chart, and your synastry chart together, for more insight from people. However, something like fidelity cannot be determined by any one placement or even based on astrology alone, nor are there any guarantees. Certain aspects/placements are more pre disposed to certain behaviors, such as a need for variety and a wandering eye, but charts are only a blueprint and free will/personal choice is and always will be the main factor. All that aside, if you don't trust him and you're unsure of marriage, then you aren't ready.

Posted by PhoenixGirl
Post his actual natal chart, and your synastry chart together, for more insight from people. However, something like fidelity cannot be determined by any one placement or even based on astrology alone, nor are there any guarantees. Certain aspects/placements are more pre disposed to certain behaviors, such as a need for variety and a wandering eye, but charts are only a blueprint and free will/personal choice is and always will be the main factor. All that aside, if you don't trust him and you're unsure of marriage, then you aren't ready.

You are right----there is no guarantees based on astrology alone! Thank you for warning me!!!

None of his family members would like to talk to this cancer man (strange enough!). That's a red flag for me, and I should believe my own intuition. Surely, I won't be ready until I find the right one.