Adreamuponwaking
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F*ck girls...why doesn't anyone talk about them?
So no surprise here this thread unfortunately is about the same girl I've been posting about these last couple of months.
( e.g see sex with toxic women...is is ever a good idea thread).
Ultimately I'm glad I didn't give in to her advances a few weeks ago when we were cuddling in her bed ...although if I'm 100 percent honest the memory of my skin tingling as she pulled me in closer to her from behind , and the subsequent sensation I felt as lips her grazed the back of my neck....HAUNTS ME.
I just wanted to melt.No girl has ever had that effect on me. She knew how to press all the right buttons in the right order.
She just might have been my best sex ever person. But alas I will never know because I pulled away and denied that I dreamt of her...which is where the conversation was going......
If we would have had sex I would have definitely developed even stronger feelings and a deeper attachment for someone who ultimately never cared about me as what my trip revealed.
I was devastated in the end but I can only imagine how I would have felt if I gave up the goods.
I hope I can have that chemistry again one day with someone who cares about me and wants a relationship.
It sucks being old school and having standards in today's current dating climate.
But yeah I'm still a little hurt / shook.
( e.g see sex with toxic women...is is ever a good idea thread).
Ultimately I'm glad I didn't give in to her advances a few weeks ago when we were cuddling in her bed ...although if I'm 100 percent honest the memory of my skin tingling as she pulled me in closer to her from behind , and the subsequent sensation I felt as lips her grazed the back of my neck....HAUNTS ME.
I just wanted to melt.No girl has ever had that effect on me. She knew how to press all the right buttons in the right order.
She just might have been my best sex ever person. But alas I will never know because I pulled away and denied that I dreamt of her...which is where the conversation was going......
If we would have had sex I would have definitely developed even stronger feelings and a deeper attachment for someone who ultimately never cared about me as what my trip revealed.
I was devastated in the end but I can only imagine how I would have felt if I gave up the goods.
I hope I can have that chemistry again one day with someone who cares about me and wants a relationship.
It sucks being old school and having standards in today's current dating climate.
But yeah I'm still a little hurt / shook.
For those who don't know what I mean by fuckgirl :
Most women have had the unlucky experience of being targeted by a fuckboi, but not everyone has had the displeasure of encountering a fuckgirl.
There’s a lot of discourse about fuckbois. We warn each other about the guys who are just out to play games. We console each other when we get hurt by one. And we remind each other of the red flags we need to watch out for.
But there’s a lot less talk about fuckgirls.
They’re not as common as fuckbois and they might not always seem as threatening. But they can still break your heart, waste your time, and leave you feeling used.
Like a fuckboi, a fuckgirl is after external validation.
She wants to know she’s desirable and wanted. She wants to feel like a catch. She wants to feel like she has power over someone else. And she uses sex to get it.
The problem is that she’s willing to be dishonest to get it. She doesn’t mind leading someone on to get them in bed, even if she’s not interested in a relationship. She’s emotionally unavailable but she doesn’t mind faking a fast connection if it gets her what she wants.
The problem is that she’s hard to spot.
For one thing, a lot of us have our guard down when it comes to women.
We know that there are men out there who are after one thing and one thing only. We know there are guys who will lie, manipulate, and cajole if it means they can get laid. But we tend to give women the benefit of the doubt, so a fuckgirl can fly under the radar a little more easily.
Even when our guard is up, though, a fuckgirl is tricky because we’re less aware of the way they operate.
Because fuckgirls aren’t as common as fuckbois, we don’t get a steady stream of memes about them and the internet isn’t flooded with articles about their tactics. So most of us don’t have a clear sense of how a fuckgirl acts until we find ourselves tangled up with one.
https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/latest-1/how-to-spot-a-fuckgirl
Posted by PezRojoPescadoAzul
I knew this girl who would basically defend the fuckboy mentality, she liked having game spit at her and fucking all these dudes. Cool whatever
She was also one of these girls who I'd hear people say things like this about, "yeah she's a slut or whatever but when she's in a relationship she's loyal," and let me tell ya, that wasn't the case with her lol. Or some other girls I'd hear people say stuff like that about. I'm sure there are girls (and guys) out there that are really like that, but it honestly seems like people only say something like this to cover their minor guilt over talking shit about their sexuality, ending it on a positive note
yeah one of the first things I learned about this girl was even in when she was committed relationships she would continue to go out and flirt with other people and even give her number out.
Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by PezRojoPescadoAzul
I knew this girl who would basically defend the fuckboy mentality, she liked having game spit at her and fucking all these dudes. Cool whatever
She was also one of these girls who I'd hear people say things like this about, "yeah she's a slut or whatever but when she's in a relationship she's loyal," and let me tell ya, that wasn't the case with her lol. Or some other girls I'd hear people say stuff like that about. I'm sure there are girls (and guys) out there that are really like that, but it honestly seems like people only say something like this to cover their minor guilt over talking shit about their sexuality, ending it on a positive note
i know one, she dated so many guys plus take so many drink, now shes overweighted and ugly and she finaly setted with a simp skinny boy but no judgement zone
i know another one, she played with me checked on her instagram she date a 50 yo rich man, but flirting hard with young boi. idk she lowkey disgusted me
MY FUCCBOI YEARS ARE PAUSED I WANT TO PROTECT MY SOULclick to expand
I could have ended up like that simp
or the 50 yr.
she was a total gold digger hindsight
but I had the lust blinders on.
also was reading up on astrology websites instead of just observing what she did.
astrology can be misleading especially if the person has a underlying mental illness / personality disorder...
then i feel like everything you read kind of goes out the window.lol
Posted by TXCowboy
I warned you about this one. Oh well, you had to learn the hard way. 🤷🏻♂️
YOU did !
she just wanted that cash which is why she was trying to get my ass.......
Posted by ImperfectStorm
You probably won’t see many complaints from men about fuck girls because there is no shortage of men who enjoy toxic sex with toxic women well throughout their 20s and 30s until they hit their 40s and their sex drive decrease. then they want a good wholesome wife to play house with their old, washed up asses. 🥴🤣🤣
yeah it's a little different for a non binary afab like myself.
who also was raised by a toxic woman.
my worse fear is marrying someone like my mother or my dad's current wife
( gold diggers and or narcissists ) .
i hear stories all the time about f**kboys and girls who been ran through by dudes but it's damn near impossible for me to like actually come across one in real life 'cause i don't really go to places where these people tend to frequent (night clubs, bars, parties, swinger gatherings, dating apps etc)
even if i met one, they would probably run screaming in the the other direction after seeing how i am lol (they'd probably be like "oh, he doesn't play around. i better come correct.")
many people get their hearts broken 'cause they believe the words that come out of people's mounths. i never believe words. i only believe actions, patterns, and continuous effort. intangible things don't mean shit lol blame it on my venus in taurus haha
for example like, someone could text you "i miss you" but obviously they don't miss you that much if they're not actually showing up at your doorstep.
so , like if anyone is looking to decrease their chances of getting played, the first thing you gotta do is stop believing words...lol
even if i met one, they would probably run screaming in the the other direction after seeing how i am lol (they'd probably be like "oh, he doesn't play around. i better come correct.")
many people get their hearts broken 'cause they believe the words that come out of people's mounths. i never believe words. i only believe actions, patterns, and continuous effort. intangible things don't mean shit lol blame it on my venus in taurus haha
for example like, someone could text you "i miss you" but obviously they don't miss you that much if they're not actually showing up at your doorstep.
so , like if anyone is looking to decrease their chances of getting played, the first thing you gotta do is stop believing words...lol
Posted by serenidad
i hear stories all the time about f**kboys and girls who been ran through by dudes but it's damn near impossible for me to like actually come across one in real life 'cause i don't really go to places where these people tend to frequent (night clubs, bars, parties, swinger gatherings, dating apps etc)
even if i met one, they would probably run screaming in the the other direction after seeing how i am lol (they'd probably be like "oh, he doesn't play around. i better come correct.")
many people get their hearts broken 'cause they believe the words that come out of people's mounths. i never believe words. i only believe actions, patterns, and continuous effort. intangible things don't mean shit lol blame it on my venus in taurus haha
for example like, someone could text you "i miss you" but obviously they don't miss you that much if they're not actually showing up at your doorstep.
so , like if anyone is looking to decrease their chances of getting played, the first thing you gotta do is stop believing words...lol
Thank you so much for your contribution to this thread!!!
You are a 1000 percent right.
I met this girl at a festival and we stayed at a camp that hosted a sex party and she does frequent bars , night clubs is on dating app etc....
My problem is that I started to believe her words at times even though her actions always contradicted things she said...mainly because I wanted to believe them ( because I am lonely and I realize I really want a relationship at the moment)...so that's a learning lesson I'm grateful in itself.
I need to be true to my gut and let people prove themselves with actions instead of words.
I also need to stop looking for love in all of the wrong places.lol
Posted by cersei
This doesn’t apply to me personally, but my older cousin who’s in his 50’s is a magnet for F girls. Let me tell you
He’s a Capricorn and Cancer moon, when it comes to women even if they just started dating he will drop his family and closest friends like a hot tamale. And often these girls are only taking advantage of him because he wines and dines them. Spoils them rotten.
And he’s had plenty of relationships with girls obviously only trying to use him.
One of his girlfriends had a husband he had no idea about. His recent girlfriend left him for another man.
The thing with my cousin is he likes the bad girls but at the same time wants a steady relationship but that mix doesn’t really mix lol
Thank you for your contribution!
Sounds like me oh dear. I'm going to have to work out a lot of this in therapy.lol
Similarly I am sexually attracted to bad girls but I actually want a relationship with a really sweet girl next door traditional type who is funny ,ambitious ,independent and smart. ***( Edited : But above I want a girl all who loves herself , is self reflective and is genuinely interested and can love me back in the way I have always needed and deserved).***
This last girl looked like she was going to bake me cookies ( she had this really disarming smile) and when she wanted to be she could be extremely charming, thoughtful , attentive , warm and kind ( perfect girlfriend vibes) but it was all part of her game.
I did get a preview in regards to that she actually might be a bad girl before I saw her sweet side when we first met but that's probably why my sexual interest in her formed.
The girl I was sexually interested briefly before her was very smart but looked like a villain and actually has narcissistic personality disorder. lol
Initially I liked her work ethic , ambition ( her CV was 12 pages long and she was only 23 at the time) . I also loiked all of the attention she was showing me including thirst trapping ( but it was love bombing ) though I didn't know it at the time.
But I'm learning.
Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by cersei
This doesn’t apply to me personally, but my older cousin who’s in his 50’s is a magnet for F girls. Let me tell you
He’s a Capricorn and Cancer moon, when it comes to women even if they just started dating he will drop his family and closest friends like a hot tamale. And often these girls are only taking advantage of him because he wines and dines them. Spoils them rotten.
And he’s had plenty of relationships with girls obviously only trying to use him.
One of his girlfriends had a husband he had no idea about. His recent girlfriend left him for another man.
The thing with my cousin is he likes the bad girls but at the same time wants a steady relationship but that mix doesn’t really mix lol
he needs therapyclick to expand
FACTS
Dude sounds like me no joke .lol
I know I need to get back in therapy too.
Posted by TXCowboy
They definitely exist, but I don't go to where they are anymore.
I'm too busy building up my empire to care about what low vibration people do.
Trying to get on your level!
Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOO
fuckgirl are just girl tbh, while fuckboi have a smth special
Disagree.
I think.lol
I hope all women aren't like this?
I don't think secure confident ones are like this at least ,but I'm finding that encountering secure confident women is a rare occurrence or is rare occurrence where I'm looking or maybe it could have to do with the age and experience of the girls I've been talking too.idk
I do think all women want attention and to be desired but I think there are those who will only flirt with people they have a genuine interest in and not for sport , boredom , or due to needing their ego stroked , or due to insecurity and or wanting to get things from someone.
Posted by MysteriousHeart
I’ve had a few that broke my heart who still haunt me. (Fuckbois that is, but I’m sure fuckgirls do the same damage). Of course I’m partly to blame for being naive and believing what they tell me. Sigh….live and learn.
My heart goes out to you my friend.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by cersei
This doesn’t apply to me personally, but my older cousin who’s in his 50’s is a magnet for F girls. Let me tell you
He’s a Capricorn and Cancer moon, when it comes to women even if they just started dating he will drop his family and closest friends like a hot tamale. And often these girls are only taking advantage of him because he wines and dines them. Spoils them rotten.
And he’s had plenty of relationships with girls obviously only trying to use him.
One of his girlfriends had a husband he had no idea about. His recent girlfriend left him for another man.
The thing with my cousin is he likes the bad girls but at the same time wants a steady relationship but that mix doesn’t really mix lol
Thank you for your contribution!
Sounds like me oh dear. I'm going to have to work out a lot of this in therapy.lol
Similarly I am sexually attracted to bad girls but I actually want a relationship with a really sweet girl next door traditional type who is funny ,ambitious ,independent and smart. ***( Edited : But above I want a girl all who loves herself , is self reflective and is genuinely interested and can love me back in the way I have always needed and deserved).***
This last girl looked like she was going to bake me cookies ( she had this really disarming smile) and when she wanted to be she could be extremely charming, thoughtful , attentive , warm and kind ( perfect girlfriend vibes) but it was all part of her game.
I did get a preview in regards to that she actually might be a bad girl before I saw her sweet side when we first met but that's probably why my sexual interest in her formed.
The girl I was sexually interested briefly before her was very smart but looked like a villain and actually has narcissistic personality disorder. lol
Initially I liked her work ethic , ambition ( her CV was 12 pages long and she was only 23 at the time) . I also loiked all of the attention she was showing me including thirst trapping ( but it was love bombing ) though I didn't know it at the time.
But I'm learning.click to expand
I don't understand "the game?" What's being "won?"
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by serenidad
i hear stories all the time about f**kboys and girls who been ran through by dudes but it's damn near impossible for me to like actually come across one in real life 'cause i don't really go to places where these people tend to frequent (night clubs, bars, parties, swinger gatherings, dating apps etc)
even if i met one, they would probably run screaming in the the other direction after seeing how i am lol (they'd probably be like "oh, he doesn't play around. i better come correct.")
many people get their hearts broken 'cause they believe the words that come out of people's mounths. i never believe words. i only believe actions, patterns, and continuous effort. intangible things don't mean shit lol blame it on my venus in taurus haha
for example like, someone could text you "i miss you" but obviously they don't miss you that much if they're not actually showing up at your doorstep.
so , like if anyone is looking to decrease their chances of getting played, the first thing you gotta do is stop believing words...lol
Thank you so much for your contribution to this thread!!!
You are a 1000 percent right.
I met this girl at a festival and we stayed at a camp that hosted a sex party and she does frequent bars , night clubs is on dating app etc....
My problem is that I started to believe her words at times even though her actions always contradicted things she said...mainly because I wanted to believe them ( because I am lonely and I realize I really want a relationship at the moment)...so that's a learning lesson I'm grateful in itself.
I need to be true to my gut and let people prove themselves with actions instead of words.
I also need to stop looking for love in all of the wrong places.lolclick to expand
expecting to meet a wifey material at those places is probably like similar to waiting for a ship to come in at the airport lol you'll have much better luck elsewhere 🙂
It's funny how men are still clueless about women even though we existed in this form for 300 000 years.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by GenericUsername
It's funny how men are still clueless about women even though we existed in this form for 300 000 years.
Or maybe we just don't care 🥁click to expand
saved by the drum roll 🥸
Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOO
fuckgirl are just girl tbh, while fuckboi have a smth special
Both are similar, IMO. Both genders don't like the other person enough to want anything else from them.
Any gender can fall into this category when the other person feels used for sex or unwanted by the person they want.
I was dating someone and wouldn't commit for years, I know he thought of me in this way.
Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOO
fuckgirl are just girl tbh, while fuckboi have a smth special
Both are similar, IMO. Both genders don't like the other person enough to want anything else from them.
Any gender can fall into this category when the other person feels used for sex or unwanted by the person they want.
I was dating someone and wouldn't commit for years, I know he thought of me in this way.
to me a fuckboi is a guy who can ONS or need only one date to fugg,click to expand
Fuck boys play with women on and off and fuck them from time to time but never commit, in the States. Sometimes it happens more then once over here. You guys take dating more seriously, I believe.
Needing only 1 date to fuck is iffy, IMO cause there are some men and women that don't care about it being the first night, they don't hold it against you or judge.
Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOO
fuckgirl are just girl tbh, while fuckboi have a smth special
Both are similar, IMO. Both genders don't like the other person enough to want anything else from them.
Any gender can fall into this category when the other person feels used for sex or unwanted by the person they want.
I was dating someone and wouldn't commit for years, I know he thought of me in this way.
to me a fuckboi is a guy who can ONS or need only one date to fugg,
Fuck boys play with women on and off and fuck them from time to time but never commit, in the States. Sometimes it happens more then once over here. You guys take dating more seriously, I believe.
Needing only 1 date to fuck is iffy, IMO cause there are some men and women that don't care about it being the first night, they don't hold it against you or judge.
its not that* if u talk more than one week with someone to me that person want to be in couple i see this like this, even if the couple wont workclick to expand
lol you'd have a very different experience here in the states.
People here love wasting their time and pretending they don't want a relationship, when they do.
No one wants to be the first one to admit anything.
It's a never ending game until you find a person that is one the same page as you and their actions and words prove they want a relationship.
The culture here is popular for being in the grey area. It would be easier if there was an unspoken rule of commitment in our American culture. - Americans save that for marriage 😏
Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOO
fuckgirl are just girl tbh, while fuckboi have a smth special
Both are similar, IMO. Both genders don't like the other person enough to want anything else from them.
Any gender can fall into this category when the other person feels used for sex or unwanted by the person they want.
I was dating someone and wouldn't commit for years, I know he thought of me in this way.
to me a fuckboi is a guy who can ONS or need only one date to fugg,
Fuck boys play with women on and off and fuck them from time to time but never commit, in the States. Sometimes it happens more then once over here. You guys take dating more seriously, I believe.
Needing only 1 date to fuck is iffy, IMO cause there are some men and women that don't care about it being the first night, they don't hold it against you or judge.
its not that* if u talk more than one week with someone to me that person want to be in couple i see this like this, even if the couple wont work
lol you'd have a very different experience here in the states.
People here love wasting their time and pretending they don't want a relationship, when they do.
No one wants to be the first one to admit anything.
It's a never ending game until you find a person that is one the same page as you and their actions and words prove they want a relationship.
The culture here is popular for being in the grey area. It would be easier if there was an unspoken rule of commitment in our American culture. - Americans save that for marriage 😏
but mb its just me idk but a lot of my friend are in couple with girls they doesnt likeclick to expand
That's because you guys commit easily, and it's an unspoken rule. There are problems on both sides.
Committing because it's the proper thing to do, and being noncommittal.
Dating isn't easy.
Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOO
fuckgirl are just girl tbh, while fuckboi have a smth special
Both are similar, IMO. Both genders don't like the other person enough to want anything else from them.
Any gender can fall into this category when the other person feels used for sex or unwanted by the person they want.
I was dating someone and wouldn't commit for years, I know he thought of me in this way.
to me a fuckboi is a guy who can ONS or need only one date to fugg,
Fuck boys play with women on and off and fuck them from time to time but never commit, in the States. Sometimes it happens more then once over here. You guys take dating more seriously, I believe.
Needing only 1 date to fuck is iffy, IMO cause there are some men and women that don't care about it being the first night, they don't hold it against you or judge.
its not that* if u talk more than one week with someone to me that person want to be in couple i see this like this, even if the couple wont work
lol you'd have a very different experience here in the states.
People here love wasting their time and pretending they don't want a relationship, when they do.
No one wants to be the first one to admit anything.
It's a never ending game until you find a person that is one the same page as you and their actions and words prove they want a relationship.
The culture here is popular for being in the grey area. It would be easier if there was an unspoken rule of commitment in our American culture. - Americans save that for marriage 😏
but mb its just me idk but a lot of my friend are in couple with girls they doesnt like
That's because you guys commit easily, and it's an unspoken rule. There are problems on both sides.
Committing because it's the proper thing to do, and being noncommittal.
Dating isn't easy.
i dont think guys is the prob, they are both weirdclick to expand
Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOOPosted by saggurl88Posted by FUCKTHISACCOUNTTOO
fuckgirl are just girl tbh, while fuckboi have a smth special
Both are similar, IMO. Both genders don't like the other person enough to want anything else from them.
Any gender can fall into this category when the other person feels used for sex or unwanted by the person they want.
I was dating someone and wouldn't commit for years, I know he thought of me in this way.
to me a fuckboi is a guy who can ONS or need only one date to fugg,
Fuck boys play with women on and off and fuck them from time to time but never commit, in the States. Sometimes it happens more then once over here. You guys take dating more seriously, I believe.
Needing only 1 date to fuck is iffy, IMO cause there are some men and women that don't care about it being the first night, they don't hold it against you or judge.
its not that* if u talk more than one week with someone to me that person want to be in couple i see this like this, even if the couple wont work
lol you'd have a very different experience here in the states.
People here love wasting their time and pretending they don't want a relationship, when they do.
No one wants to be the first one to admit anything.
It's a never ending game until you find a person that is one the same page as you and their actions and words prove they want a relationship.
The culture here is popular for being in the grey area. It would be easier if there was an unspoken rule of commitment in our American culture. - Americans save that for marriage 😏
but mb its just me idk but a lot of my friend are in couple with girls they doesnt like
That's because you guys commit easily, and it's an unspoken rule. There are problems on both sides.
Committing because it's the proper thing to do, and being noncommittal.
Dating isn't easy.
i dont think guys is the prob, they are both weird
would u stay in a rs with a dude where u feel nothingclick to expand
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by cersei
This doesn’t apply to me personally, but my older cousin who’s in his 50’s is a magnet for F girls. Let me tell you
He’s a Capricorn and Cancer moon, when it comes to women even if they just started dating he will drop his family and closest friends like a hot tamale. And often these girls are only taking advantage of him because he wines and dines them. Spoils them rotten.
And he’s had plenty of relationships with girls obviously only trying to use him.
One of his girlfriends had a husband he had no idea about. His recent girlfriend left him for another man.
The thing with my cousin is he likes the bad girls but at the same time wants a steady relationship but that mix doesn’t really mix lol
Thank you for your contribution!
Sounds like me oh dear. I'm going to have to work out a lot of this in therapy.lol
Similarly I am sexually attracted to bad girls but I actually want a relationship with a really sweet girl next door traditional type who is funny ,ambitious ,independent and smart. ***( Edited : But above I want a girl all who loves herself , is self reflective and is genuinely interested and can love me back in the way I have always needed and deserved).***
This last girl looked like she was going to bake me cookies ( she had this really disarming smile) and when she wanted to be she could be extremely charming, thoughtful , attentive , warm and kind ( perfect girlfriend vibes) but it was all part of her game.
I did get a preview in regards to that she actually might be a bad girl before I saw her sweet side when we first met but that's probably why my sexual interest in her formed.
The girl I was sexually interested briefly before her was very smart but looked like a villain and actually has narcissistic personality disorder. lol
Initially I liked her work ethic , ambition ( her CV was 12 pages long and she was only 23 at the time) . I also loiked all of the attention she was showing me including thirst trapping ( but it was love bombing ) though I didn't know it at the time.
But I'm learning.
I don't understand "the game?" What's being "won?"click to expand
Initially narcissistic supply ( positive attention) and then ultimately a temporary ego boost and feelings of control and power after they break you down by subjecting you to psychological torture and verbal and emotional abuse which undoubtedly will happen when dealing someone that has Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
So no surprise here this thread unfortunately is about the same girl I've been posting about these last couple of months.
( e.g see sex with toxic women...is is ever a good idea thread).
Ultimately I'm glad I didn't give in to her advances a few weeks ago when we were cuddling in her bed ...although if I'm 100 percent honest the memory of my skin tingling as she pulled me in closer to her from behind , and the subsequent sensation I felt as lips her grazed the back of my neck....HAUNTS ME.
I just wanted to melt.No girl has ever had that effect on me. She knew how to press all the right buttons in the right order.
She just might have been my best sex ever person. But alas I will never know because I pulled away and denied that I dreamt of her...which is where the conversation was going......
If we would have had sex I would have definitely developed even stronger feelings and a deeper attachment for someone who ultimately never cared about me as what my trip revealed.
I was devastated in the end but I can only imagine how I would have felt if I gave up the goods.
I hope I can have that chemistry again one day with someone who cares about me and wants a relationship.
It sucks being old school and having standards in today's current dating climate.
But yeah I'm still a little hurt / shook.
You shoulda fucked I'mma be real. Don't ever deny a woman who initiates because she won't ever look at you the same. Now you got feelings and fantasies when you coulda had a memory instead. And trust me, it's plenty old school ppl who have always had the same mindset as the youth today.
Don't beat ya self up tho. But if you still feel this way, CHASE HER
Posted by Midnite_Riser
Too many thirsty f*ck girls with their hubbies or bfs at the club giving long stares and multiple glances when their man's not looking. I don't blame them. They dream of getting absolutely dominated by this Libra pretty boy with my strong muscular thick Taurus frame. With how aggressive they dance, I can tell they are dying to be unapologetically ragdolled in the bedroom.
Hmm ok now this is interesting. Cus if this the case I guess we can all say that 90% out of 100% of girls are fuckgirls. I say this cus girls be giving me the hard stare too and unbelievable men too. The other 10% seem to don't give a damn. With my pretty boy square shaped boxy muscular and thick scorpio frame.
Posted by Midnite_RiserPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Midnite_Riser
Too many thirsty f*ck girls with their hubbies or bfs at the club giving long stares and multiple glances when their man's not looking. I don't blame them. They dream of getting absolutely dominated by this Libra pretty boy with my strong muscular thick Taurus frame. With how aggressive they dance, I can tell they are dying to be unapologetically ragdolled in the bedroom.
Hmm ok now this is interesting. Cus if this the case I guess we can all say that 90% out of 100% of girls are fuckgirls. I say this cus girls be giving me the hard stare too and unbelievable men too. The other 10% seem to don't give a damn. With my pretty boy square shaped boxy muscular and thick scorpio frame.
Scorpios are not known to be think. They are usually lean or skinny and have dark eyes or if they have blue or green eyes, they are piercing.click to expand
*thick* not think. But anyway it is with heavy regret to inform you that I fortunately agree with you. Scorpio is a wiry sign and those that are born scorpios will tend to be skinny or lean. It's very rare to see a fat scorpio but I do know at least one fat scorpio who's still looking for a girlfriend or woman. And because my ascendant is in the 3rd decan of Libra (and its said 3rd decan libra risings carry scorpios traits including physically) and I have a 1st house lilith in scorpio all in tight orbs gives me an appearance of scorpio. It is only when scorpio is rising that it gives a thick muscular appearance as oppose to scorpio sun. And um...did I ever mention I'm an honorary Scorpio?
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by Adreamuponwaking
So no surprise here this thread unfortunately is about the same girl I've been posting about these last couple of months.
( e.g see sex with toxic women...is is ever a good idea thread).
Ultimately I'm glad I didn't give in to her advances a few weeks ago when we were cuddling in her bed ...although if I'm 100 percent honest the memory of my skin tingling as she pulled me in closer to her from behind , and the subsequent sensation I felt as lips her grazed the back of my neck....HAUNTS ME.
I just wanted to melt.No girl has ever had that effect on me. She knew how to press all the right buttons in the right order.
She just might have been my best sex ever person. But alas I will never know because I pulled away and denied that I dreamt of her...which is where the conversation was going......
If we would have had sex I would have definitely developed even stronger feelings and a deeper attachment for someone who ultimately never cared about me as what my trip revealed.
I was devastated in the end but I can only imagine how I would have felt if I gave up the goods.
I hope I can have that chemistry again one day with someone who cares about me and wants a relationship.
It sucks being old school and having standards in today's current dating climate.
But yeah I'm still a little hurt / shook.
You shoulda fucked I'mma be real. Don't ever deny a woman who initiates because she won't ever look at you the same. Now you got feelings and fantasies when you coulda had a memory instead. And trust me, it's plenty old school ppl who have always had the same mindset as the youth today.
Don't beat ya self up tho. But if you still feel this way, CHASE HERclick to expand
I couldn't handle it man.
I would have been even more broken.lol
Real talk she f*cked this chick like 2 years ago who was about to move back home to the UK , ended up changing her mind and got back with her ex .
The chick from the UK is STILL hanging around hoping that they will be together one day while she talks sh*t about the girl from the UK behind her back and they are supposed to be close friends.
It made me sad.
It could have been me. I could have been another casualty.
Posted by Midnite_RiserPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Midnite_RiserPosted by Jumpin_JupiterPosted by Midnite_Riser
Too many thirsty f*ck girls with their hubbies or bfs at the club giving long stares and multiple glances when their man's not looking. I don't blame them. They dream of getting absolutely dominated by this Libra pretty boy with my strong muscular thick Taurus frame. With how aggressive they dance, I can tell they are dying to be unapologetically ragdolled in the bedroom.
Hmm ok now this is interesting. Cus if this the case I guess we can all say that 90% out of 100% of girls are fuckgirls. I say this cus girls be giving me the hard stare too and unbelievable men too. The other 10% seem to don't give a damn. With my pretty boy square shaped boxy muscular and thick scorpio frame.
Scorpios are not known to be think. They are usually lean or skinny and have dark eyes or if they have blue or green eyes, they are piercing.
*thick* not think. But anyway it is with heavy regret to inform you that I fortunately agree with you. Scorpio is a wiry sign and those that are born scorpios will tend to be skinny or lean. It's very rare to see a fat scorpio but I do know at least one fat scorpio who's still looking for a girlfriend or woman. And because my ascendant is in the 3rd decan of Libra (and its said 3rd decan libra risings carry scorpios traits including physically) and I have a 1st house lilith in scorpio all in tight orbs gives me an appearance of scorpio. It is only when scorpio is rising that it gives a thick muscular appearance as oppose to scorpio sun. And um...did I ever mention I'm an honorary Scorpio?
My apology, I was typing with one eye open, I just woke up.click to expand
Yeah it happens. I make lots of typos typing way too fast most of the times. It's a good thing I got auto and grammar correct.
And um, this living like a scorpio in a Gemini body ain't easy. It sucks kinda.
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by Adreamuponwaking
So no surprise here this thread unfortunately is about the same girl I've been posting about these last couple of months.
( e.g see sex with toxic women...is is ever a good idea thread).
Ultimately I'm glad I didn't give in to her advances a few weeks ago when we were cuddling in her bed ...although if I'm 100 percent honest the memory of my skin tingling as she pulled me in closer to her from behind , and the subsequent sensation I felt as lips her grazed the back of my neck....HAUNTS ME.
I just wanted to melt.No girl has ever had that effect on me. She knew how to press all the right buttons in the right order.
She just might have been my best sex ever person. But alas I will never know because I pulled away and denied that I dreamt of her...which is where the conversation was going......
If we would have had sex I would have definitely developed even stronger feelings and a deeper attachment for someone who ultimately never cared about me as what my trip revealed.
I was devastated in the end but I can only imagine how I would have felt if I gave up the goods.
I hope I can have that chemistry again one day with someone who cares about me and wants a relationship.
It sucks being old school and having standards in today's current dating climate.
But yeah I'm still a little hurt / shook.
You shoulda fucked I'mma be real. Don't ever deny a woman who initiates because she won't ever look at you the same. Now you got feelings and fantasies when you coulda had a memory instead. And trust me, it's plenty old school ppl who have always had the same mindset as the youth today.
Don't beat ya self up tho. But if you still feel this way, CHASE HERclick to expand
also not really a possibility and you are right....it will never be the same again.
After I curved her , she gaslit the hell out of me and told me that she wasn't attracted to me.
She pretended like the past two months never happened and that I misinterpreted everything ( the heavy flirting , DMs that she initiated , video calls telling me she wished I was with her etc) .
I started questioning my sense of things and my self esteem and ego definitely took a blow ( the effects of gaslighting 101).
But it makes sense it was simply the self preservation of a narcissist.
You hurt them and they will hurt you back trust.
She was going to drop me either way though as she told me she didn't want to date me / do long distance prior to my visit.
She just would have had the panties and felt good about her conquest
and I would have been even sadder than I am now.
Especially if it was the best sex ever for me. I would be missing her / her touch so much more.
And she clearly isn't good for me or my sanity .
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by Adreamuponwaking
So no surprise here this thread unfortunately is about the same girl I've been posting about these last couple of months.
( e.g see sex with toxic women...is is ever a good idea thread).
Ultimately I'm glad I didn't give in to her advances a few weeks ago when we were cuddling in her bed ...although if I'm 100 percent honest the memory of my skin tingling as she pulled me in closer to her from behind , and the subsequent sensation I felt as lips her grazed the back of my neck....HAUNTS ME.
I just wanted to melt.No girl has ever had that effect on me. She knew how to press all the right buttons in the right order.
She just might have been my best sex ever person. But alas I will never know because I pulled away and denied that I dreamt of her...which is where the conversation was going......
If we would have had sex I would have definitely developed even stronger feelings and a deeper attachment for someone who ultimately never cared about me as what my trip revealed.
I was devastated in the end but I can only imagine how I would have felt if I gave up the goods.
I hope I can have that chemistry again one day with someone who cares about me and wants a relationship.
It sucks being old school and having standards in today's current dating climate.
But yeah I'm still a little hurt / shook.
You shoulda fucked I'mma be real. Don't ever deny a woman who initiates because she won't ever look at you the same. Now you got feelings and fantasies when you coulda had a memory instead. And trust me, it's plenty old school ppl who have always had the same mindset as the youth today.
Don't beat ya self up tho. But if you still feel this way, CHASE HER
I couldn't handle it man.
I would have been even more broken.lol
Real talk she f*cked this chick like 2 years ago who was about to move back home to the UK , ended up changing her mind and got back with her ex .
The chick from the UK is STILL hanging around hoping that they will be together one day while she talks sh*t about the girl from the UK behind her back and they are supposed to be close friends.
It made me sad.
It could have been me. I could have been another casualty.click to expand
Yea but you won't be the one caught in the web cuz you already see it. Might be the best sex of ya life. Dont pass on it. Just keep what you just said in mind and remain detached.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by Adreamuponwaking
So no surprise here this thread unfortunately is about the same girl I've been posting about these last couple of months.
( e.g see sex with toxic women...is is ever a good idea thread).
Ultimately I'm glad I didn't give in to her advances a few weeks ago when we were cuddling in her bed ...although if I'm 100 percent honest the memory of my skin tingling as she pulled me in closer to her from behind , and the subsequent sensation I felt as lips her grazed the back of my neck....HAUNTS ME.
I just wanted to melt.No girl has ever had that effect on me. She knew how to press all the right buttons in the right order.
She just might have been my best sex ever person. But alas I will never know because I pulled away and denied that I dreamt of her...which is where the conversation was going......
If we would have had sex I would have definitely developed even stronger feelings and a deeper attachment for someone who ultimately never cared about me as what my trip revealed.
I was devastated in the end but I can only imagine how I would have felt if I gave up the goods.
I hope I can have that chemistry again one day with someone who cares about me and wants a relationship.
It sucks being old school and having standards in today's current dating climate.
But yeah I'm still a little hurt / shook.
You shoulda fucked I'mma be real. Don't ever deny a woman who initiates because she won't ever look at you the same. Now you got feelings and fantasies when you coulda had a memory instead. And trust me, it's plenty old school ppl who have always had the same mindset as the youth today.
Don't beat ya self up tho. But if you still feel this way, CHASE HER
also not really a possibility and you are right....it will never be the same again.
After I curved her , she gaslit the hell out of me and told me that she wasn't attracted to me.
She pretended like the past two months never happened and that I misinterpreted everything ( the heavy flirting , DMs that she initiated , video calls telling me she wished I was with her etc) .
I started questioning my sense of things and my self esteem and ego definitely took a blow ( the effects of gaslighting 101).
But it makes sense it was simply the self preservation of a narcissist.
You hurt them and they will hurt you back trust.
She was going to drop me either way though as she told me she didn't want to date me / do long distance prior to my visit.
She just would have had the panties and felt good about her conquest
and I would have been even sadder than I am now.
Especially if it was the best sex ever for me. I would be missing her / her touch so much more.
And she clearly isn't good for me or my sanity .click to expand
Damn I feel you lol Frfr. This broke it down for me. You doing the right thing my guy
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by Adreamuponwaking
So no surprise here this thread unfortunately is about the same girl I've been posting about these last couple of months.
( e.g see sex with toxic women...is is ever a good idea thread).
Ultimately I'm glad I didn't give in to her advances a few weeks ago when we were cuddling in her bed ...although if I'm 100 percent honest the memory of my skin tingling as she pulled me in closer to her from behind , and the subsequent sensation I felt as lips her grazed the back of my neck....HAUNTS ME.
I just wanted to melt.No girl has ever had that effect on me. She knew how to press all the right buttons in the right order.
She just might have been my best sex ever person. But alas I will never know because I pulled away and denied that I dreamt of her...which is where the conversation was going......
If we would have had sex I would have definitely developed even stronger feelings and a deeper attachment for someone who ultimately never cared about me as what my trip revealed.
I was devastated in the end but I can only imagine how I would have felt if I gave up the goods.
I hope I can have that chemistry again one day with someone who cares about me and wants a relationship.
It sucks being old school and having standards in today's current dating climate.
But yeah I'm still a little hurt / shook.
You shoulda fucked I'mma be real. Don't ever deny a woman who initiates because she won't ever look at you the same. Now you got feelings and fantasies when you coulda had a memory instead. And trust me, it's plenty old school ppl who have always had the same mindset as the youth today.
Don't beat ya self up tho. But if you still feel this way, CHASE HER
I couldn't handle it man.
I would have been even more broken.lol
Real talk she f*cked this chick like 2 years ago who was about to move back home to the UK , ended up changing her mind and got back with her ex .
The chick from the UK is STILL hanging around hoping that they will be together one day while she talks sh*t about the girl from the UK behind her back and they are supposed to be close friends.
It made me sad.
It could have been me. I could have been another casualty.
Yea but you won't be the one caught in the web cuz you already see it. Might be the best sex of ya life. Dont pass on it. Just keep what you just said in mind and remain detached.click to expand
If I could have I would have.
Not possible with my placements or maybe if I had transitioned and was a transman. ( I hear testosterone helps haha)
I only have a libra moon and aqua mercury and I have too much earth and water in my chart. : /
: (
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by Adreamuponwaking
So no surprise here this thread unfortunately is about the same girl I've been posting about these last couple of months.
( e.g see sex with toxic women...is is ever a good idea thread).
Ultimately I'm glad I didn't give in to her advances a few weeks ago when we were cuddling in her bed ...although if I'm 100 percent honest the memory of my skin tingling as she pulled me in closer to her from behind , and the subsequent sensation I felt as lips her grazed the back of my neck....HAUNTS ME.
I just wanted to melt.No girl has ever had that effect on me. She knew how to press all the right buttons in the right order.
She just might have been my best sex ever person. But alas I will never know because I pulled away and denied that I dreamt of her...which is where the conversation was going......
If we would have had sex I would have definitely developed even stronger feelings and a deeper attachment for someone who ultimately never cared about me as what my trip revealed.
I was devastated in the end but I can only imagine how I would have felt if I gave up the goods.
I hope I can have that chemistry again one day with someone who cares about me and wants a relationship.
It sucks being old school and having standards in today's current dating climate.
But yeah I'm still a little hurt / shook.
You shoulda fucked I'mma be real. Don't ever deny a woman who initiates because she won't ever look at you the same. Now you got feelings and fantasies when you coulda had a memory instead. And trust me, it's plenty old school ppl who have always had the same mindset as the youth today.
Don't beat ya self up tho. But if you still feel this way, CHASE HER
I couldn't handle it man.
I would have been even more broken.lol
Real talk she f*cked this chick like 2 years ago who was about to move back home to the UK , ended up changing her mind and got back with her ex .
The chick from the UK is STILL hanging around hoping that they will be together one day while she talks sh*t about the girl from the UK behind her back and they are supposed to be close friends.
It made me sad.
It could have been me. I could have been another casualty.
Yea but you won't be the one caught in the web cuz you already see it. Might be the best sex of ya life. Dont pass on it. Just keep what you just said in mind and remain detached.
If I could have I would have.
Not possible with my placements or maybe if I had transitioned and was a transman. ( I hear testosterone helps haha)
I only have a libra moon and aqua mercury and I have too much earth and water in my chart. : /
: (click to expand
But you have air in the perfect places. I'm willing to bet you're pretty young. Like early 20s young
Posted by Libra4rmTXPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by Adreamuponwaking
So no surprise here this thread unfortunately is about the same girl I've been posting about these last couple of months.
( e.g see sex with toxic women...is is ever a good idea thread).
Ultimately I'm glad I didn't give in to her advances a few weeks ago when we were cuddling in her bed ...although if I'm 100 percent honest the memory of my skin tingling as she pulled me in closer to her from behind , and the subsequent sensation I felt as lips her grazed the back of my neck....HAUNTS ME.
I just wanted to melt.No girl has ever had that effect on me. She knew how to press all the right buttons in the right order.
She just might have been my best sex ever person. But alas I will never know because I pulled away and denied that I dreamt of her...which is where the conversation was going......
If we would have had sex I would have definitely developed even stronger feelings and a deeper attachment for someone who ultimately never cared about me as what my trip revealed.
I was devastated in the end but I can only imagine how I would have felt if I gave up the goods.
I hope I can have that chemistry again one day with someone who cares about me and wants a relationship.
It sucks being old school and having standards in today's current dating climate.
But yeah I'm still a little hurt / shook.
You shoulda fucked I'mma be real. Don't ever deny a woman who initiates because she won't ever look at you the same. Now you got feelings and fantasies when you coulda had a memory instead. And trust me, it's plenty old school ppl who have always had the same mindset as the youth today.
Don't beat ya self up tho. But if you still feel this way, CHASE HER
I couldn't handle it man.
I would have been even more broken.lol
Real talk she f*cked this chick like 2 years ago who was about to move back home to the UK , ended up changing her mind and got back with her ex .
The chick from the UK is STILL hanging around hoping that they will be together one day while she talks sh*t about the girl from the UK behind her back and they are supposed to be close friends.
It made me sad.
It could have been me. I could have been another casualty.
Yea but you won't be the one caught in the web cuz you already see it. Might be the best sex of ya life. Dont pass on it. Just keep what you just said in mind and remain detached.
If I could have I would have.
Not possible with my placements or maybe if I had transitioned and was a transman. ( I hear testosterone helps haha)
I only have a libra moon and aqua mercury and I have too much earth and water in my chart. : /
: (
But you have air in the perfect places. I'm willing to bet you're pretty young. Like early 20s youngclick to expand
I wish. I would have had more hope and feel less bad because I would in my mind have had plenty of time to find another lady .
I'm 34.
Relationship wise/experience I'm like in high school.lol
28 was the very first time I felt sexual attraction to someone.
I was in relationship ( in my early 20s) and had some limited sexual experience with that person but was not sexually attracted to her.
Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Libra4rmTXPosted by Adreamuponwaking
So no surprise here this thread unfortunately is about the same girl I've been posting about these last couple of months.
( e.g see sex with toxic women...is is ever a good idea thread).
Ultimately I'm glad I didn't give in to her advances a few weeks ago when we were cuddling in her bed ...although if I'm 100 percent honest the memory of my skin tingling as she pulled me in closer to her from behind , and the subsequent sensation I felt as lips her grazed the back of my neck....HAUNTS ME.
I just wanted to melt.No girl has ever had that effect on me. She knew how to press all the right buttons in the right order.
She just might have been my best sex ever person. But alas I will never know because I pulled away and denied that I dreamt of her...which is where the conversation was going......
If we would have had sex I would have definitely developed even stronger feelings and a deeper attachment for someone who ultimately never cared about me as what my trip revealed.
I was devastated in the end but I can only imagine how I would have felt if I gave up the goods.
I hope I can have that chemistry again one day with someone who cares about me and wants a relationship.
It sucks being old school and having standards in today's current dating climate.
But yeah I'm still a little hurt / shook.
You shoulda fucked I'mma be real. Don't ever deny a woman who initiates because she won't ever look at you the same. Now you got feelings and fantasies when you coulda had a memory instead. And trust me, it's plenty old school ppl who have always had the same mindset as the youth today.
Don't beat ya self up tho. But if you still feel this way, CHASE HER
I couldn't handle it man.
I would have been even more broken.lol
Real talk she f*cked this chick like 2 years ago who was about to move back home to the UK , ended up changing her mind and got back with her ex .
The chick from the UK is STILL hanging around hoping that they will be together one day while she talks sh*t about the girl from the UK behind her back and they are supposed to be close friends.
It made me sad.
It could have been me. I could have been another casualty.
Yea but you won't be the one caught in the web cuz you already see it. Might be the best sex of ya life. Dont pass on it. Just keep what you just said in mind and remain detached.
If I could have I would have.
Not possible with my placements or maybe if I had transitioned and was a transman. ( I hear testosterone helps haha)
I only have a libra moon and aqua mercury and I have too much earth and water in my chart. : /
: (
But you have air in the perfect places. I'm willing to bet you're pretty young. Like early 20s young
I wish. I would have had more hope and feel less bad because I would in my mind have had plenty of time to find another lady .
I'm 34.
Relationship wise/experience I'm like in high school.lol
28 was the very first time I felt sexual attraction to someone.
I was in relationship ( in my early 20s) and had some limited sexual experience with that person but was not sexually attracted to her.click to expand
Oh dang ok then the water and earth truly is strong in ya. Trust me ya 30s is still a great age to find someone and quickly too
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by Adreamuponwaking
They’re not as common as fuckbois and they might not always seem as threatening. But they can still break your heart, waste your time, and leave you feeling used.
Bullshit! They're just as common, especially many years before their biological clocks are of any concern.
Obviously, a (biased) woman (living in denial) wrote the article.
*checks link*
I rest my fucking case.click to expand
Edited- thought you quoted the kid in his 20's lol.
I think women in their prime, late 30's (high sex drive) can be just as bad if they are single and ready to mingle.
What happened to your dating expert? You still seeing her? 🧐
I was invited to a house party with a Virgo female friend . The 2 boys present there . One of them she knew . The one she knew assaulted me. It was 11 in the night she called me up said she was planning to hangout with these 2 guys . She knew one of them from 3 years. So I go there we all have drinks in the living room , just chill . This guy starts showing interest in me . I was flirting back as well . I told him I need to wake up early the next day so he got a blanket in the living room . He was funny and he seemed kind . After a while he said to me you can rest in the bedroom so I went with him there . That’s when things got bad . From the sweet , funny guy he turned into a guy who gave me nightmares.
Men are strong like really strong I know this now cos I fought his advances physically for an hour. With his words like stop moving or “you will be raped “. He kept telling me to stop fighting him . Twice i told him he can get a prostitude so he should just leave me. He said I ll punch you . The second Time when I said that he ll punch me . I believed him. I just wanted to get out of the bed . But no amount of effort or fight was helping .I kept telling him to stop putting his hand in my shirt , I kept telling him to let me go as he kept forcing his kiss on me . For an hour .The more I said no the more he violated me . I kicked I pushed all to no end . I cried , I begged , I told him he was scaring me . The only way he stopped is when I stopped kicking and pushing & told him I liked him too .I thought that my energy isn’t working maybe just playing along will. Cos I didn’t want to have sex with him . I was sure about that. When he asked me to kiss him I kissed him back. Cos I was tired of fighting him and being hurt . We heard some noise in the living room , thats when my opportunity struck and I told him to check what it was , and that I would stay here waiting for him . That’s why he stopped and left . The moment he left I leapt after a minute or 2 . Pushing my friend to leave with me . I was scared .
I screamed and shouted in attempts so my friend could hear me in the living room . She told me the next day she couldn’t hear me , infact she told me “why didn’t he do that to me”. She told me “why didn’t I just come out the bedroom” , she told me “ why dint I tell her the same Time “ .I was scared , she doesn’t understand what I mean scared I don’t know how to articulate it . Explain it . I was scared . Scared he would punch me like he said he would . Scared he would break me . Scared they are 2 and me and my friend are just women .
She can’t understand and guest what blames me .
I am suffering now from post assault symptoms. Spent 2 days crying , drinking , numb , thoughts that would take me back to him bed . That feeling of helplessness. Numbness . That humiliation. That anger of how dare he . I thought of reporting him to the authorities. But here’s the thing . My friend is a non believer, I entered the bed room with my wish .
I never thought this would happen to me . When I looked online 1 out of 3 women . 1 out of 8 men . It’s that common ?? What world are we living in
Men are strong like really strong I know this now cos I fought his advances physically for an hour. With his words like stop moving or “you will be raped “. He kept telling me to stop fighting him . Twice i told him he can get a prostitude so he should just leave me. He said I ll punch you . The second Time when I said that he ll punch me . I believed him. I just wanted to get out of the bed . But no amount of effort or fight was helping .I kept telling him to stop putting his hand in my shirt , I kept telling him to let me go as he kept forcing his kiss on me . For an hour .The more I said no the more he violated me . I kicked I pushed all to no end . I cried , I begged , I told him he was scaring me . The only way he stopped is when I stopped kicking and pushing & told him I liked him too .I thought that my energy isn’t working maybe just playing along will. Cos I didn’t want to have sex with him . I was sure about that. When he asked me to kiss him I kissed him back. Cos I was tired of fighting him and being hurt . We heard some noise in the living room , thats when my opportunity struck and I told him to check what it was , and that I would stay here waiting for him . That’s why he stopped and left . The moment he left I leapt after a minute or 2 . Pushing my friend to leave with me . I was scared .
I screamed and shouted in attempts so my friend could hear me in the living room . She told me the next day she couldn’t hear me , infact she told me “why didn’t he do that to me”. She told me “why didn’t I just come out the bedroom” , she told me “ why dint I tell her the same Time “ .I was scared , she doesn’t understand what I mean scared I don’t know how to articulate it . Explain it . I was scared . Scared he would punch me like he said he would . Scared he would break me . Scared they are 2 and me and my friend are just women .
She can’t understand and guest what blames me .
I am suffering now from post assault symptoms. Spent 2 days crying , drinking , numb , thoughts that would take me back to him bed . That feeling of helplessness. Numbness . That humiliation. That anger of how dare he . I thought of reporting him to the authorities. But here’s the thing . My friend is a non believer, I entered the bed room with my wish .
I never thought this would happen to me . When I looked online 1 out of 3 women . 1 out of 8 men . It’s that common ?? What world are we living in
I was invited to a house party with a Virgo female friend . The 2 boys present there . One of them she knew . The one she knew assaulted me. It was 11 in the night she called me up said she was planning to hangout with these 2 guys . She knew one of them from 3 years. So I go there we all have drinks in the living room , just chill . This guy starts showing interest in me . I was flirting back as well . I told him I need to wake up early the next day so he got a blanket in the living room . He was funny and he seemed kind . After a while he said to me you can rest in the bedroom so I went with him there . That’s when things got bad . From the sweet , funny guy he turned into a guy who gave me nightmares.
Men are strong like really strong I know this now cos I fought his advances physically for an hour. With his words like stop moving or “you will be raped “. He kept telling me to stop fighting him . Twice i told him he can get a prostitude so he should just leave me. He said I ll punch you . The second Time when I said that he ll punch me . I believed him. I just wanted to get out of the bed . But no amount of effort or fight was helping .I kept telling him to stop putting his hand in my shirt , I kept telling him to let me go as he kept forcing his kiss on me . For an hour .The more I said no the more he violated me . I kicked I pushed all to no end . I cried , I begged , I told him he was scaring me . The only way he stopped is when I stopped kicking and pushing & told him I liked him too .I thought that my energy isn’t working maybe just playing along will. Cos I didn’t want to have sex with him . I was sure about that. When he asked me to kiss him I kissed him back. Cos I was tired of fighting him and being hurt . We heard some noise in the living room , thats when my opportunity struck and I told him to check what it was , and that I would stay here waiting for him . That’s why he stopped and left . The moment he left I leapt after a minute or 2 . Pushing my friend to leave with me . I was scared .
I screamed and shouted in attempts so my friend could hear me in the living room . She told me the next day she couldn’t hear me , infact she told me “why didn’t he do that to me”. She told me “why didn’t I just come out the bedroom” , she told me “ why dint I tell her the same Time “ .I was scared , she doesn’t understand what I mean scared I don’t know how to articulate it . Explain it . I was scared . Scared he would punch me like he said he would . Scared he would break me . Scared they are 2 and me and my friend are just women .
She can’t understand and guest what blames me .
I am suffering now from post assault symptoms. Spent 2 days crying , drinking , numb , thoughts that would take me back to him bed . That feeling of helplessness. Numbness . That humiliation. That anger of how dare he . I thought of reporting him to the authorities. But here’s the thing . My friend is a non believer, I entered the bed room with my wish .
I never thought this would happen to me . When I looked online 1 out of 3 women . 1 out of 8 men . It’s that common ?? What world are we living in
Men are strong like really strong I know this now cos I fought his advances physically for an hour. With his words like stop moving or “you will be raped “. He kept telling me to stop fighting him . Twice i told him he can get a prostitude so he should just leave me. He said I ll punch you . The second Time when I said that he ll punch me . I believed him. I just wanted to get out of the bed . But no amount of effort or fight was helping .I kept telling him to stop putting his hand in my shirt , I kept telling him to let me go as he kept forcing his kiss on me . For an hour .The more I said no the more he violated me . I kicked I pushed all to no end . I cried , I begged , I told him he was scaring me . The only way he stopped is when I stopped kicking and pushing & told him I liked him too .I thought that my energy isn’t working maybe just playing along will. Cos I didn’t want to have sex with him . I was sure about that. When he asked me to kiss him I kissed him back. Cos I was tired of fighting him and being hurt . We heard some noise in the living room , thats when my opportunity struck and I told him to check what it was , and that I would stay here waiting for him . That’s why he stopped and left . The moment he left I leapt after a minute or 2 . Pushing my friend to leave with me . I was scared .
I screamed and shouted in attempts so my friend could hear me in the living room . She told me the next day she couldn’t hear me , infact she told me “why didn’t he do that to me”. She told me “why didn’t I just come out the bedroom” , she told me “ why dint I tell her the same Time “ .I was scared , she doesn’t understand what I mean scared I don’t know how to articulate it . Explain it . I was scared . Scared he would punch me like he said he would . Scared he would break me . Scared they are 2 and me and my friend are just women .
She can’t understand and guest what blames me .
I am suffering now from post assault symptoms. Spent 2 days crying , drinking , numb , thoughts that would take me back to him bed . That feeling of helplessness. Numbness . That humiliation. That anger of how dare he . I thought of reporting him to the authorities. But here’s the thing . My friend is a non believer, I entered the bed room with my wish .
I never thought this would happen to me . When I looked online 1 out of 3 women . 1 out of 8 men . It’s that common ?? What world are we living in
I was invited to a house party with a Virgo female friend . The 2 boys present there . One of them she knew . The one she knew assaulted me. It was 11 in the night she called me up said she was planning to hangout with these 2 guys . She knew one of them from 3 years. So I go there we all have drinks in the living room , just chill . This guy starts showing interest in me . I was flirting back as well . I told him I need to wake up early the next day so he got a blanket in the living room . He was funny and he seemed kind . After a while he said to me you can rest in the bedroom so I went with him there . That’s when things got bad . From the sweet , funny guy he turned into a guy who gave me nightmares.
Men are strong like really strong I know this now cos I fought his advances physically for an hour. With his words like stop moving or “you will be raped “. He kept telling me to stop fighting him . Twice i told him he can get a prostitude so he should just leave me. He said I ll punch you . The second Time when I said that he ll punch me . I believed him. I just wanted to get out of the bed . But no amount of effort or fight was helping .I kept telling him to stop putting his hand in my shirt , I kept telling him to let me go as he kept forcing his kiss on me . For an hour .The more I said no the more he violated me . I kicked I pushed all to no end . I cried , I begged , I told him he was scaring me . The only way he stopped is when I stopped kicking and pushing & told him I liked him too .I thought that my energy isn’t working maybe just playing along will. Cos I didn’t want to have sex with him . I was sure about that. When he asked me to kiss him I kissed him back. Cos I was tired of fighting him and being hurt . We heard some noise in the living room , thats when my opportunity struck and I told him to check what it was , and that I would stay here waiting for him . That’s why he stopped and left . The moment he left I leapt after a minute or 2 . Pushing my friend to leave with me . I was scared .
I screamed and shouted in attempts so my friend could hear me in the living room . She told me the next day she couldn’t hear me , infact she told me “why didn’t he do that to me”. She told me “why didn’t I just come out the bedroom” , she told me “ why dint I tell her the same Time “ .I was scared , she doesn’t understand what I mean scared I don’t know how to articulate it . Explain it . I was scared . Scared he would punch me like he said he would . Scared he would break me . Scared they are 2 and me and my friend are just women .
She can’t understand and guest what blames me .
I am suffering now from post assault symptoms. Spent 2 days crying , drinking , numb , thoughts that would take me back to him bed . That feeling of helplessness. Numbness . That humiliation. That anger of how dare he . I thought of reporting him to the authorities. But here’s the thing . My friend is a non believer, I entered the bed room with my wish .
I never thought this would happen to me . When I looked online 1 out of 3 women . 1 out of 8 men . It’s that common ?? What world are we living in
Men are strong like really strong I know this now cos I fought his advances physically for an hour. With his words like stop moving or “you will be raped “. He kept telling me to stop fighting him . Twice i told him he can get a prostitude so he should just leave me. He said I ll punch you . The second Time when I said that he ll punch me . I believed him. I just wanted to get out of the bed . But no amount of effort or fight was helping .I kept telling him to stop putting his hand in my shirt , I kept telling him to let me go as he kept forcing his kiss on me . For an hour .The more I said no the more he violated me . I kicked I pushed all to no end . I cried , I begged , I told him he was scaring me . The only way he stopped is when I stopped kicking and pushing & told him I liked him too .I thought that my energy isn’t working maybe just playing along will. Cos I didn’t want to have sex with him . I was sure about that. When he asked me to kiss him I kissed him back. Cos I was tired of fighting him and being hurt . We heard some noise in the living room , thats when my opportunity struck and I told him to check what it was , and that I would stay here waiting for him . That’s why he stopped and left . The moment he left I leapt after a minute or 2 . Pushing my friend to leave with me . I was scared .
I screamed and shouted in attempts so my friend could hear me in the living room . She told me the next day she couldn’t hear me , infact she told me “why didn’t he do that to me”. She told me “why didn’t I just come out the bedroom” , she told me “ why dint I tell her the same Time “ .I was scared , she doesn’t understand what I mean scared I don’t know how to articulate it . Explain it . I was scared . Scared he would punch me like he said he would . Scared he would break me . Scared they are 2 and me and my friend are just women .
She can’t understand and guest what blames me .
I am suffering now from post assault symptoms. Spent 2 days crying , drinking , numb , thoughts that would take me back to him bed . That feeling of helplessness. Numbness . That humiliation. That anger of how dare he . I thought of reporting him to the authorities. But here’s the thing . My friend is a non believer, I entered the bed room with my wish .
I never thought this would happen to me . When I looked online 1 out of 3 women . 1 out of 8 men . It’s that common ?? What world are we living in
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