Should I?

Hi guys!

I am so glad I waited for mercury retrograde to be over with and I didn’t delete my dxp account. As someone mentioned (can’t remember who), it’s good to have dxp just in case I need advice again. Thanks.

So here is my dilemma…should I tell my Leo “ex” about the new guy I am seeing and should I tell the pharmacist guy about my current Leo “ex”.

I love my Leo ex, I am in love with him but I don’t trust him 100% . He has been attentive and sweet this past week, but you know how it is when you first get back together with someone. After the initial excitement wears off, I realized I need to keep my head cool. In fact, we just had a small argument tonight again.

I am also seeing the new guy (went out 3 times) and he hinted at talking about ex partners and what he is looking for. It’s fairly early in my opinion, but I know it will have to be discussed sooner than later. I like him, we have a lot in common and we also have good chemistry. We just don’t have history.

Leo is coming in august, but what if he is a dollar short and a day late. And most importantly…am I shorting myself here? He also told me he wouldn’t won’t me to work, and I don’t know if that’s ok with me. He never mentioned that before, but I guess there is always something new we find out about the person.

How long can I keep both of them in the game? This stuff keeps me up at night. Along with hot weather/nights (with no A/C), family reunions (unannounced) and Audi that broke down as soon as I bought it.

I think you should friendzone the pharmacist and keep him around for rainy days.

Tell him "Let's just see how we work as friends first."



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Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II

I think you should friendzone the pharmacist and keep him around for rainy days.

Tell him "Let's just see how we work as friends first."



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I could try but I don’t know if he is going to go for that now…

Thanks 🙃

Posted by Enfant-Terrible-II

I think you should friendzone the pharmacist and keep him around for rainy days.

Tell him "Let's just see how we work as friends first."



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Post fucktum?

She technically CAN call it friendly encounter or unfortunate entanglement…🤔

How long did you go out with Leo and why did you split? Sorry don’t know your story, but need that info

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How long did you go out with Leo and why did you split? Sorry don’t know your story, but need that info

I have known him since June 25th, 2015. Cancer chart 🙂 But it was on and off relationship, not always together.

We mainly split because he would not commit and could not express emotions like I needed him to. His business/career came first, always. We could have kept it going, but I moved from one country to another. Very, very far away.

Pharmacist guy is a cancer/leo cusp. But yeah, mainly a cancer!

Yeah so what has changed with Leo—

I wouldn’t give my all up until he’s proven that he’s changed.. imho that’s going to be highly unlikely!

Keep having fun with Pharma Joe and chatting to Leo until you have a definite.

I texted my Leo at 6 pm his time yesterday and he didn’t reply until 5 am today. He said he fell asleep.

He also said he recently joined a gym and that women are approaching him. Whatever. I don’t know why he feels the need to tell me this. Maybe I should tell him I am seeing someone too.

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Yeah so what has changed with Leo—

I wouldn’t give my all up until he’s proven that he’s changed.. imho that’s going to be highly unlikely!

Keep having fun with Pharma Joe and chatting to Leo until you have a definite.

That’s exactly what I have been thinking too. And say nothing to either one of them.

Who is closer to you? Isn't the Leo long distant? Will a LDR relationship fulfill your needs within the relationship?

Cancer will disappear in about 6 months, so the problem will take care of itself. 🙃

Yes, think of it like poker. You hold your cards close to your chest and only reveal when you know your winning 🙂

The comment about you taking your chest profile picture down is a red flag btw. You’re so paranoid about him searching for you on the internet and you actually think he’ll find you by a headless shot?

He was controlling wasn’t he?

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Who is closer to you? Isn't the Leo long distant? Will a LDR relationship fulfill your needs within the relationship?

Leo said he is willing to work on a solution. I am also willing to be anywhere for love.

If only I could trust him? And he was telling me about that story of Ukrainian girl who ruined someone’s marriage by moving in, and he said no relationship or marriage can get ruined in 10 days if they didn’t have problems before. And how, when it’s meant to be, you just know. And how we are meant to be, meaning he and I. Maybe it was just post orgasm talk. But we have so much history though.

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Is the leo a jealous guy? If yes, dont tell him. Him telling you the gym thing is probably a trap to get you to tell him about pharm guy.

No, he is not jealous. Possessive and territorial, yes. But he is a good sport about flirting and mentioning other guys. Of course, it has to be done tastefully and respectfully.

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Cancer will disappear in about 6 months, so the

problem will take care of itself. 🙃

Lol! Why is he going to disappear?

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Yes, think of it like poker. You hold your cards close to your chest and only reveal when you know your winning 🙂

The comment about you taking your chest profile picture down is a red flag btw. You’re so paranoid about him searching for you on the internet and you actually think he’ll find you by a headless shot?

He was controlling wasn’t he?

I would say he was passively-aggressive controlling. I never thought that he was, until I really thought about it and then read about it, to confirm. Things definitely always end his way!

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Is the leo a jealous guy? If yes, dont tell him. Him telling you the gym thing is probably a trap to get you to tell him about pharm guy.

No, he is not jealous. Possessive and territorial, yes. But he is a good sport about flirting and mentioning other guys. Of course, it has to be done tastefully and respectfully.

If you think he'll be okay about it then tell him. Its better if it comes out sooner rather than later. Idk I'm usually always honest, but I dont care if jealous people ghost me.

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I mostly feel like telling him because he told me girls approach him. Maybe that’s such a Leo thing to say. But then again, I also feel like I shouldn’t tell him everything. He will use it against me at some point.

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You should be taking this seriously and not play any games. You are in your 30s right? Alone with a cat? Your prime years are over. You better hop to it unless you don't care about being alone.

Jeez, can you be any more bitter? I am not playing any games. I am just trying to find a good man for me.

I don’t think I should settle with just anyone out of some fear of ending up alone. I don’t think anyone should. Being in a bad relationship is worse than being single.

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Is the leo a jealous guy? If yes, dont tell him. Him telling you the gym thing is probably a trap to get you to tell him about pharm guy.

No, he is not jealous. Possessive and territorial, yes. But he is a good sport about flirting and mentioning other guys. Of course, it has to be done tastefully and respectfully.

If you think he'll be okay about it then tell him. Its better if it comes out sooner rather than later. Idk I'm usually always honest, but I dont care if jealous people ghost me.

I mostly feel like telling him because he told me girls approach him. Maybe that’s such a Leo thing to say. But then again, I also feel like I shouldn’t tell him everything. He will use it against me at some point.

I'm not sure what you should tell the leo. I'd probably tell the pharm guy though.

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I suppose it’s better to tell sooner than later. Maybe I can be diplomatic about it and leave the details out. Maybe he’ll understand 😎😬😐

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Is the leo a jealous guy? If yes, dont tell him. Him telling you the gym thing is probably a trap to get you to tell him about pharm guy.

No, he is not jealous. Possessive and territorial, yes. But he is a good sport about flirting and mentioning other guys. Of course, it has to be done tastefully and respectfully.

If you think he'll be okay about it then tell him. Its better if it comes out sooner rather than later. Idk I'm usually always honest, but I dont care if jealous people ghost me.

I mostly feel like telling him because he told me girls approach him. Maybe that’s such a Leo thing to say. But then again, I also feel like I shouldn’t tell him everything. He will use it against me at some point.

I'm not sure what you should tell the leo. I'd probably tell the pharm guy though.

I suppose it’s better to tell sooner than later. Maybe I can be diplomatic about it and leave the details out. Maybe he’ll understand 😎😬😐

Nevermind, dont listen to me! I dont want to mess up what you have going on. Do what you feels best.

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Ok!

I am mostly venting anyway. I should just go to sleep. Who knows how all of this will end anyway. There are no guarantees.

Thank you.

Hmmm yes Leo’s will tell you about others & ask if you are seeing anyone… possessive and territorial yes! My son is a Leo, and says never go back, remember there was a reason you split up .. lol it’s pretty true though. You’ve been off and on for years, he had commitment issues and now he drops a little breadcrumb and he’s got you back? I wouldn’t trust him either. I say keep dating the pharm guy. Be honest about the Leo as it comes up. I wouldn’t tell the Leo about the pharm guy unless you want to get into the possessive & territorial thing. You don’t even know the situation or if there is one yet.

I'd play it cool. Leo needs to prove himself worthy, until then be a free shooter. This is how I'd tell him I have other prospects, but wouldn't mention the Cancer/Leo situation in detail. Men like to fight for things and I've noticed that with them - the less you give, the more they want.

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Posted by MrBalance

You should be taking this seriously and not play any games. You are in your 30s right? Alone with a cat? Your prime years are over. You better hop to it unless you don't care about being alone.

Jeez, can you be any more bitter? I am not playing any games. I am just trying to find a good man for me.

I don’t think I should settle with just anyone out of some fear of ending up alone. I don’t think anyone should. Being in a bad relationship is worse than being single.

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That’s bullshit about your prime years being over. The best sex I ever had was 35+. Lots of women gain more confidence and have more fun as they get older....

There's a reason why you broke up the first time. Doing the same, repeating the cycle but hoping for another outcome hardly ever works. What's in the past should be in the past but that's just me.

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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



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I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

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Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

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Not meaning sound harsh, but I never understood why people get back together after breaking up. It's the same shit over and over again. I know a Taurus man and he broke up and got back together with his girlfriend 3 times in a year. 😛

It’s not for everyone, but I’ve done it in almost every single relationship I’ve ever been in. Many backs and forths and really beating it into the ground!

Plus, make-up sex is the best sex I’ve ever had. There is something to be said about losing it and then getting it again 😋

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Posted by MrBalance

You should be taking this seriously and not play any games. You are in your 30s right? Alone with a cat? Your prime years are over. You better hop to it unless you don't care about being alone.

Jeez, can you be any more bitter? I am not playing any games. I am just trying to find a good man for me.

I don’t think I should settle with just anyone out of some fear of ending up alone. I don’t think anyone should. Being in a bad relationship is worse than being single.

That’s bullshit about your prime years being over. The best sex I ever had was 35+. Lots of women gain more confidence and have more fun as they get older....

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I may not be in my prime but who cares? My Leo is still in his prime and that is more important. As long as he likes it, lol, I still got it!

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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



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I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

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I don’t want a threesome. Ewwwww 🤢

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Posted by MrBalance

You should be taking this seriously and not play any games. You are in your 30s right? Alone with a cat? Your prime years are over. You better hop to it unless you don't care about being alone.

Jeez, can you be any more bitter? I am not playing any games. I am just trying to find a good man for me.

I don’t think I should settle with just anyone out of some fear of ending up alone. I don’t think anyone should. Being in a bad relationship is worse than being single.

That’s bullshit about your prime years being over. The best sex I ever had was 35+. Lots of women gain more confidence and have more fun as they get older....

I may not be in my prime but who cares? My Leo is still in his prime and that is more important. As long as he likes it, lol, I still got it!

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Are you sure about going back with him? Do you feel it will work, Gem?

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Posted by MrBalance

You should be taking this seriously and not play any games. You are in your 30s right? Alone with a cat? Your prime years are over. You better hop to it unless you don't care about being alone.

Jeez, can you be any more bitter? I am not playing any games. I am just trying to find a good man for me.

I don’t think I should settle with just anyone out of some fear of ending up alone. I don’t think anyone should. Being in a bad relationship is worse than being single.

That’s bullshit about your prime years being over. The best sex I ever had was 35+. Lots of women gain more confidence and have more fun as they get older....

I may not be in my prime but who cares? My Leo is still in his prime and that is more important. As long as he likes it, lol, I still got it!

Are you sure about going back with him? Do you feel it will work, Gem?

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I honestly have no idea, star 🙂

I am sure I want to get back together but will it work? We will have to wait and see. He seems more attentive and more vulnerable, I could tell in his voice. And he also talked about future plans which involves him moving here 💙♌️

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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



❤️

I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

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What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



❤️

I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

"Overlooking sometimes glaring flaws in someone's personality or physical appearance because the sex is great. Similar to beer goggles, and sometimes resulting from it, sex goggles can be hard to clear do to the fact that we could all use a good lay."

Ignore the sloppy grammar on urban dictionary he clearly means due not do in the last line.

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But I specifically mentioned his other qualities and how he makes me feel, deep inside. He calms me down and makes me domesticated in a way. We make each other blush. I admire his work ethics and his big heart. That guy has never, ever been mean to me (unless you count emotionally distant). But he has never been harsh to me. It’s a big deal breaker.

Of course, when sex is great you feel 10x as strong but I truly like him, the whole package.

And did I mention compliments he gives me? Why isn’t he moving on with someone else if I’m that easily forgettable?

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Posted by MrBalance

You should be taking this seriously and not play any games. You are in your 30s right? Alone with a cat? Your prime years are over. You better hop to it unless you don't care about being alone.

Jeez, can you be any more bitter? I am not playing any games. I am just trying to find a good man for me.

I don’t think I should settle with just anyone out of some fear of ending up alone. I don’t think anyone should. Being in a bad relationship is worse than being single.

That’s bullshit about your prime years being over. The best sex I ever had was 35+. Lots of women gain more confidence and have more fun as they get older....

I may not be in my prime but who cares? My Leo is still in his prime and that is more important. As long as he likes it, lol, I still got it!

Are you sure about going back with him? Do you feel it will work, Gem?

I honestly have no idea, star 🙂

I am sure I want to get back together but will it work? We will have to wait and see. He seems more attentive and more vulnerable, I could tell in his voice. And he also talked about future plans which involves him moving here 💙♌️

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How did you start talking again? Did he contact you?

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Posted by MrBalance

You should be taking this seriously and not play any games. You are in your 30s right? Alone with a cat? Your prime years are over. You better hop to it unless you don't care about being alone.

Jeez, can you be any more bitter? I am not playing any games. I am just trying to find a good man for me.

I don’t think I should settle with just anyone out of some fear of ending up alone. I don’t think anyone should. Being in a bad relationship is worse than being single.

That’s bullshit about your prime years being over. The best sex I ever had was 35+. Lots of women gain more confidence and have more fun as they get older....

I may not be in my prime but who cares? My Leo is still in his prime and that is more important. As long as he likes it, lol, I still got it!

Are you sure about going back with him? Do you feel it will work, Gem?

I honestly have no idea, star 🙂

I am sure I want to get back together but will it work? We will have to wait and see. He seems more attentive and more vulnerable, I could tell in his voice. And he also talked about future plans which involves him moving here 💙♌️

How did you start talking again? Did he contact you?

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He was basically online 24/7 and I said one day:

“my respect, young mister so and so. long time no see” and he was so eager to hear from me. He immediately wanted to call me but I made him wait 2-3 days. I think he was nervous to reach out because I’ve been mean to him in the past. He knows my temper. And yes, we talked about sex but also everything else. Sex is only a small part. And he sounded more serious and determined. Still single.

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You should be taking this seriously and not play any games. You are in your 30s right? Alone with a cat? Your prime years are over. You better hop to it unless you don't care about being alone.

Jeez, can you be any more bitter? I am not playing any games. I am just trying to find a good man for me.

I don’t think I should settle with just anyone out of some fear of ending up alone. I don’t think anyone should. Being in a bad relationship is worse than being single.

That’s bullshit about your prime years being over. The best sex I ever had was 35+. Lots of women gain more confidence and have more fun as they get older....

I may not be in my prime but who cares? My Leo is still in his prime and that is more important. As long as he likes it, lol, I still got it!

Are you sure about going back with him? Do you feel it will work, Gem?

I honestly have no idea, star 🙂

I am sure I want to get back together but will it work? We will have to wait and see. He seems more attentive and more vulnerable, I could tell in his voice. And he also talked about future plans which involves him moving here 💙♌️

How did you start talking again? Did he contact you?

He was basically online 24/7 and I said one day:

“my respect, young mister so and so. long time no see” and he was so eager to hear from me. He immediately wanted to call me but I made him wait 2-3 days. I think he was nervous to reach out because I’ve been mean to him in the past. He knows my temper. And yes, we talked about sex but also everything else. Sex is only a small part. And he sounded more serious and determined. Still single.

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So it was you who reached out

I don’t know, I just feel like I’d die a little inside if I don’t fight for this love. For us 💗

Doesn’t anyone believe in romance and love anymore? Did everyone just give up on male-female relationships in this day and age? Is one and true love possible anymore? I still want to believe!!

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I don’t know, I just feel like I’d die a little inside if I don’t fight for this love. For us 💗

Doesn’t anyone believe in romance and love anymore? Did everyone just give up on male-female relationships in this day and age? Is one and true love possible anymore? I still want to believe!!

He has to fight for it too

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I don’t know, I just feel like I’d die a little inside if I don’t fight for this love. For us 💗

Doesn’t anyone believe in romance and love anymore? Did everyone just give up on male-female relationships in this day and age? Is one and true love possible anymore? I still want to believe!!

He has to fight for it too

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Of course. But not like he cheated on me or hurt me on purpose or lied to me or took my money or something. Quite contrary. He is trying. And I believe I can open up his heart and take him to new heights. He only has been in 2 relationships in his whole life. I don’t know how many he has had sex with, no man is honest about that.

So far, he is better this time around. More vulnerable from the sounds in his voice and look on his face is more sad 😢

I don’t want to hurt him.

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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



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I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

"Overlooking sometimes glaring flaws in someone's personality or physical appearance because the sex is great. Similar to beer goggles, and sometimes resulting from it, sex goggles can be hard to clear do to the fact that we could all use a good lay."

Ignore the sloppy grammar on urban dictionary he clearly means due not do in the last line.

But I specifically mentioned his other qualities and how he makes me feel, deep inside. He calms me down and makes me domesticated in a way. We make each other blush. I admire his work ethics and his big heart. That guy has never, ever been mean to me (unless you count emotionally distant). But he has never been harsh to me. It’s a big deal breaker.

Of course, when sex is great you feel 10x as strong but I truly like him, the whole package.

And did I mention compliments he gives me? Why isn’t he moving on with someone else if I’m that easily forgettable?

You've idealised him. I don't know the ins and outs, but I think you said you chose to break up with him because he was distance, didn't show feelings and was non committed?

Why isn't he moving on? He doesn't have other options. Simple.

I've broken up with girls. It's hard, but there's always someone better albeit different. To me it's just seems pointless chasing the same person to get the same result.

I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm saying I wouldn't.

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Lol. He has options trust me.

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I don’t know, I just feel like I’d die a little inside if I don’t fight for this love. For us 💗

Doesn’t anyone believe in romance and love anymore? Did everyone just give up on male-female relationships in this day and age? Is one and true love possible anymore? I still want to believe!!

He has to fight for it too

Of course. But not like he cheated on me or hurt me on purpose or lied to me or took my money or something. Quite contrary. He is trying. And I believe I can open up his heart and take him to new heights. He only has been in 2 relationships in his whole life. I don’t know how many he has had sex with, no man is honest about that.

So far, he is better this time around. More vulnerable from the sounds in his voice and look on his face is more sad 😢

I don’t want to hurt him.

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So is one of you moving so

you can be together?

The LDR may not work?

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I don’t know, I just feel like I’d die a little inside if I don’t fight for this love. For us 💗

Doesn’t anyone believe in romance and love anymore? Did everyone just give up on male-female relationships in this day and age? Is one and true love possible anymore? I still want to believe!!

He has to fight for it too

Of course. But not like he cheated on me or hurt me on purpose or lied to me or took my money or something. Quite contrary. He is trying. And I believe I can open up his heart and take him to new heights. He only has been in 2 relationships in his whole life. I don’t know how many he has had sex with, no man is honest about that.

So far, he is better this time around. More vulnerable from the sounds in his voice and look on his face is more sad 😢

I don’t want to hurt him.

So is one of you moving so

you can be together?

The LDR may not work?

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He said he will also move back home.

...and you don’t mind being second best to his career?

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I don’t know, I just feel like I’d die a little inside if I don’t fight for this love. For us 💗

Doesn’t anyone believe in romance and love anymore? Did everyone just give up on male-female relationships in this day and age? Is one and true love possible anymore? I still want to believe!!

He has to fight for it too

Of course. But not like he cheated on me or hurt me on purpose or lied to me or took my money or something. Quite contrary. He is trying. And I believe I can open up his heart and take him to new heights. He only has been in 2 relationships in his whole life. I don’t know how many he has had sex with, no man is honest about that.

So far, he is better this time around. More vulnerable from the sounds in his voice and look on his face is more sad 😢

I don’t want to hurt him.

So is one of you moving so

you can be together?

The LDR may not work?

He said he will also move back home.

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Do you believe that Gem?

The biggest part of our breakup was because I chose to leave the States. Imagine how he felt when he realized I am moving 10,000 km away for good?

But it’s been long time coming and coronavirus just made it into “now or never” type of a deal. Plus, my family is here mostly.

There is more to this story but it’s complicated, like every love story.

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I don’t know, I just feel like I’d die a little inside if I don’t fight for this love. For us 💗

Doesn’t anyone believe in romance and love anymore? Did everyone just give up on male-female relationships in this day and age? Is one and true love possible anymore? I still want to believe!!

He has to fight for it too

Of course. But not like he cheated on me or hurt me on purpose or lied to me or took my money or something. Quite contrary. He is trying. And I believe I can open up his heart and take him to new heights. He only has been in 2 relationships in his whole life. I don’t know how many he has had sex with, no man is honest about that.

So far, he is better this time around. More vulnerable from the sounds in his voice and look on his face is more sad 😢

I don’t want to hurt him.

So is one of you moving so

you can be together?

The LDR may not work?

He said he will also move back home.

Do you believe that Gem?

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Yes. He opened his own business here recently.

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I don’t know, I just feel like I’d die a little inside if I don’t fight for this love. For us 💗

Doesn’t anyone believe in romance and love anymore? Did everyone just give up on male-female relationships in this day and age? Is one and true love possible anymore? I still want to believe!!

He has to fight for it too

Of course. But not like he cheated on me or hurt me on purpose or lied to me or took my money or something. Quite contrary. He is trying. And I believe I can open up his heart and take him to new heights. He only has been in 2 relationships in his whole life. I don’t know how many he has had sex with, no man is honest about that.

So far, he is better this time around. More vulnerable from the sounds in his voice and look on his face is more sad 😢

I don’t want to hurt him.

So is one of you moving so

you can be together?

The LDR may not work?

He said he will also move back home.

Do you believe that Gem?

Yes. He opened his own business here recently.

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Right

So he’s serious about moving back. Did he give you a time frame?

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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



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I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

"Overlooking sometimes glaring flaws in someone's personality or physical appearance because the sex is great. Similar to beer goggles, and sometimes resulting from it, sex goggles can be hard to clear do to the fact that we could all use a good lay."

Ignore the sloppy grammar on urban dictionary he clearly means due not do in the last line.

But I specifically mentioned his other qualities and how he makes me feel, deep inside. He calms me down and makes me domesticated in a way. We make each other blush. I admire his work ethics and his big heart. That guy has never, ever been mean to me (unless you count emotionally distant). But he has never been harsh to me. It’s a big deal breaker.

Of course, when sex is great you feel 10x as strong but I truly like him, the whole package.

And did I mention compliments he gives me? Why isn’t he moving on with someone else if I’m that easily forgettable?

You've idealised him. I don't know the ins and outs, but I think you said you chose to break up with him because he was distance, didn't show feelings and was non committed?

Why isn't he moving on? He doesn't have other options. Simple.

I've broken up with girls. It's hard, but there's always someone better albeit different. To me it's just seems pointless chasing the same person to get the same result.

I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm saying I wouldn't.

Lol. He has options trust me.

Every man has been there. Break up with someone and finding someone new is like wrestling with a shark. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, rich or confident; it's way harder for men because girls rarely approach cos social conditioning.

I think girls tend to put their boyfriends on a pedestal. I've got accused of cheating and all sorts of shit despite my behaviour being the opposite. Just self sabotage attempts.

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I agree. I never accused him of cheating though. He recently started telling me of girls approaching him in a gym. But I played it cool.

My personal rule is to never show jealousy openly. It’s such a turn off and miserable, lowly behavior.

Well, he is free to find someone else and so am I. Nothing is set in stone.

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I don’t know, I just feel like I’d die a little inside if I don’t fight for this love. For us 💗

Doesn’t anyone believe in romance and love anymore? Did everyone just give up on male-female relationships in this day and age? Is one and true love possible anymore? I still want to believe!!

He has to fight for it too

Of course. But not like he cheated on me or hurt me on purpose or lied to me or took my money or something. Quite contrary. He is trying. And I believe I can open up his heart and take him to new heights. He only has been in 2 relationships in his whole life. I don’t know how many he has had sex with, no man is honest about that.

So far, he is better this time around. More vulnerable from the sounds in his voice and look on his face is more sad 😢

I don’t want to hurt him.

So is one of you moving so

you can be together?

The LDR may not work?

He said he will also move back home.

Do you believe that Gem?

Yes. He opened his own business here recently.

Right

So he’s serious about moving back. Did he give you a time frame?

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End of the year. I was also surprised because he told me previously he is planning on staying there. But I guess with the current world situation, many people are changing their plans.

I am glad but I realize it doesn’t mean anything yet.

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I don’t know, I just feel like I’d die a little inside if I don’t fight for this love. For us 💗

Doesn’t anyone believe in romance and love anymore? Did everyone just give up on male-female relationships in this day and age? Is one and true love possible anymore? I still want to believe!!

He has to fight for it too

Of course. But not like he cheated on me or hurt me on purpose or lied to me or took my money or something. Quite contrary. He is trying. And I believe I can open up his heart and take him to new heights. He only has been in 2 relationships in his whole life. I don’t know how many he has had sex with, no man is honest about that.

So far, he is better this time around. More vulnerable from the sounds in his voice and look on his face is more sad 😢

I don’t want to hurt him.

So is one of you moving so

you can be together?

The LDR may not work?

He said he will also move back home.

Do you believe that Gem?

Yes. He opened his own business here recently.

Right

So he’s serious about moving back. Did he give you a time frame?

End of the year. I was also surprised because he told me previously he is planning on staying there. But I guess with the current world situation, many people are changing their plans.

I am glad but I realize it doesn’t mean anything yet.

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Will you carry on dating or wait for him to arrive in?