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I don’t know, I just feel like I’d die a little inside if I don’t fight for this love. For us 💗

Doesn’t anyone believe in romance and love anymore? Did everyone just give up on male-female relationships in this day and age? Is one and true love possible anymore? I still want to believe!!



He has to fight for it too

Of course. But not like he cheated on me or hurt me on purpose or lied to me or took my money or something. Quite contrary. He is trying. And I believe I can open up his heart and take him to new heights. He only has been in 2 relationships in his whole life. I don’t know how many he has had sex with, no man is honest about that.

So far, he is better this time around. More vulnerable from the sounds in his voice and look on his face is more sad 😢

I don’t want to hurt him.

So is one of you moving so

you can be together?

The LDR may not work?

He said he will also move back home.

Do you believe that Gem?

Yes. He opened his own business here recently.

Right

So he’s serious about moving back. Did he give you a time frame?

End of the year. I was also surprised because he told me previously he is planning on staying there. But I guess with the current world situation, many people are changing their plans.

I am glad but I realize it doesn’t mean anything yet.

Will you carry on dating or wait for him to arrive in?
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I wasn’t sure which is why I asked about everyone else’s opinion and advice. But I know that ultimately it’s up to me.

I am leaning more towards continue dating, right now! 😀 If I fall strongly for someone, I can make him into Mr.Right too 😍 😝
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I don’t know, I just feel like I’d die a little inside if I don’t fight for this love. For us 💗

Doesn’t anyone believe in romance and love anymore? Did everyone just give up on male-female relationships in this day and age? Is one and true love possible anymore? I still want to believe!!



He has to fight for it too

Of course. But not like he cheated on me or hurt me on purpose or lied to me or took my money or something. Quite contrary. He is trying. And I believe I can open up his heart and take him to new heights. He only has been in 2 relationships in his whole life. I don’t know how many he has had sex with, no man is honest about that.

So far, he is better this time around. More vulnerable from the sounds in his voice and look on his face is more sad 😢

I don’t want to hurt him.

So is one of you moving so

you can be together?

The LDR may not work?

He said he will also move back home.

Do you believe that Gem?

Yes. He opened his own business here recently.

Right

So he’s serious about moving back. Did he give you a time frame?

End of the year. I was also surprised because he told me previously he is planning on staying there. But I guess with the current world situation, many people are changing their plans.

I am glad but I realize it doesn’t mean anything yet.

Will you carry on dating or wait for him to arrive in?

I wasn’t sure which is why I asked about everyone else’s opinion and advice. But I know that ultimately it’s up to me.

I am leaning more towards continue dating, right now! 😀 If I fall strongly for someone, I can make him into Mr.Right too 😍 😝
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Yes you can have both of them ~ one for each twin 😃😃

So did you get it on with the younger fella yet? 😍
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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



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I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

"Overlooking sometimes glaring flaws in someone's personality or physical appearance because the sex is great. Similar to beer goggles, and sometimes resulting from it, sex goggles can be hard to clear do to the fact that we could all use a good lay."

Ignore the sloppy grammar on urban dictionary he clearly means due not do in the last line.

But I specifically mentioned his other qualities and how he makes me feel, deep inside. He calms me down and makes me domesticated in a way. We make each other blush. I admire his work ethics and his big heart. That guy has never, ever been mean to me (unless you count emotionally distant). But he has never been harsh to me. It’s a big deal breaker.

Of course, when sex is great you feel 10x as strong but I truly like him, the whole package.

And did I mention compliments he gives me? Why isn’t he moving on with someone else if I’m that easily forgettable?

You've idealised him. I don't know the ins and outs, but I think you said you chose to break up with him because he was distance, didn't show feelings and was non committed?

Why isn't he moving on? He doesn't have other options. Simple.

I've broken up with girls. It's hard, but there's always someone better albeit different. To me it's just seems pointless chasing the same person to get the same result.

I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm saying I wouldn't.

Lol. He has options trust me.

Every man has been there. Break up with someone and finding someone new is like wrestling with a shark. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, rich or confident; it's way harder for men because girls rarely approach cos social conditioning.

I think girls tend to put their boyfriends on a pedestal. I've got accused of cheating and all sorts of shit despite my behaviour being the opposite. Just self sabotage attempts.

I agree. I never accused him of cheating though. He recently started telling me of girls approaching him in a gym. But I played it cool.

My personal rule is to never show jealousy openly. It’s such a turn off and miserable, lowly behavior.

Well, he is free to find someone else and so am I. Nothing is set in stone.

Our brains are wired very differently. Jealousy is always a massive turn on as long as it doesn't descend into bitching, point scoring or false accusations.

Watch what happens when you see a married man get low-key flirted with in front of his wife. Through all the seething and clenched teeth you know he's getting blown that night.

A girl said to me "don't tell me about your past, because I'm jealous" 🔥🔥🔥

Also I would push for that MMF threesome. Nothing like being spoilt.
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Lol! Are you trolling me about that MMF threesome? 😛

Have you tried it yourself and what’s so special about it?

And yes, jealousy in small doses is a turn on. But I don’t like to show it openly. I always play it cool and simmer inside, lol!
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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



❤️

I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

"Overlooking sometimes glaring flaws in someone's personality or physical appearance because the sex is great. Similar to beer goggles, and sometimes resulting from it, sex goggles can be hard to clear do to the fact that we could all use a good lay."

Ignore the sloppy grammar on urban dictionary he clearly means due not do in the last line.

But I specifically mentioned his other qualities and how he makes me feel, deep inside. He calms me down and makes me domesticated in a way. We make each other blush. I admire his work ethics and his big heart. That guy has never, ever been mean to me (unless you count emotionally distant). But he has never been harsh to me. It’s a big deal breaker.

Of course, when sex is great you feel 10x as strong but I truly like him, the whole package.

And did I mention compliments he gives me? Why isn’t he moving on with someone else if I’m that easily forgettable?

You've idealised him. I don't know the ins and outs, but I think you said you chose to break up with him because he was distance, didn't show feelings and was non committed?

Why isn't he moving on? He doesn't have other options. Simple.

I've broken up with girls. It's hard, but there's always someone better albeit different. To me it's just seems pointless chasing the same person to get the same result.

I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm saying I wouldn't.

Lol. He has options trust me.

Every man has been there. Break up with someone and finding someone new is like wrestling with a shark. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, rich or confident; it's way harder for men because girls rarely approach cos social conditioning.

I think girls tend to put their boyfriends on a pedestal. I've got accused of cheating and all sorts of shit despite my behaviour being the opposite. Just self sabotage attempts.

I agree. I never accused him of cheating though. He recently started telling me of girls approaching him in a gym. But I played it cool.

My personal rule is to never show jealousy openly. It’s such a turn off and miserable, lowly behavior.

Well, he is free to find someone else and so am I. Nothing is set in stone.

Our brains are wired very differently. Jealousy is always a massive turn on as long as it doesn't descend into bitching, point scoring or false accusations.

Watch what happens when you see a married man get low-key flirted with in front of his wife. Through all the seething and clenched teeth you know he's getting blown that night.

A girl said to me "don't tell me about your past, because I'm jealous" 🔥🔥🔥

Also I would push for that MMF threesome. Nothing like being spoilt.

Lol! Are you trolling me about that MMF threesome? 😛

Have you tried it yourself and what’s so special about it?

And yes, jealousy in small doses is a turn on. But I don’t like to show it openly. I always play it cool and simmer inside, lol!

Partly trolling. Turned down two last month. Sad thing is I thought they were both MMF, one was MMFF. FML. Missed out big time.

This is true as well, I'm not a Libra man.
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No man is like Libra man! 😆

Do you like MMF or MFF? I don’t think Leo would be down for any of that, sadly.
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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



❤️

I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

"Overlooking sometimes glaring flaws in someone's personality or physical appearance because the sex is great. Similar to beer goggles, and sometimes resulting from it, sex goggles can be hard to clear do to the fact that we could all use a good lay."

Ignore the sloppy grammar on urban dictionary he clearly means due not do in the last line.

But I specifically mentioned his other qualities and how he makes me feel, deep inside. He calms me down and makes me domesticated in a way. We make each other blush. I admire his work ethics and his big heart. That guy has never, ever been mean to me (unless you count emotionally distant). But he has never been harsh to me. It’s a big deal breaker.

Of course, when sex is great you feel 10x as strong but I truly like him, the whole package.

And did I mention compliments he gives me? Why isn’t he moving on with someone else if I’m that easily forgettable?

You've idealised him. I don't know the ins and outs, but I think you said you chose to break up with him because he was distance, didn't show feelings and was non committed?

Why isn't he moving on? He doesn't have other options. Simple.

I've broken up with girls. It's hard, but there's always someone better albeit different. To me it's just seems pointless chasing the same person to get the same result.

I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm saying I wouldn't.

Lol. He has options trust me.

Every man has been there. Break up with someone and finding someone new is like wrestling with a shark. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, rich or confident; it's way harder for men because girls rarely approach cos social conditioning.

I think girls tend to put their boyfriends on a pedestal. I've got accused of cheating and all sorts of shit despite my behaviour being the opposite. Just self sabotage attempts.

I agree. I never accused him of cheating though. He recently started telling me of girls approaching him in a gym. But I played it cool.

My personal rule is to never show jealousy openly. It’s such a turn off and miserable, lowly behavior.

Well, he is free to find someone else and so am I. Nothing is set in stone.

Our brains are wired very differently. Jealousy is always a massive turn on as long as it doesn't descend into bitching, point scoring or false accusations.

Watch what happens when you see a married man get low-key flirted with in front of his wife. Through all the seething and clenched teeth you know he's getting blown that night.

A girl said to me "don't tell me about your past, because I'm jealous" 🔥🔥🔥

Also I would push for that MMF threesome. Nothing like being spoilt.

Lol! Are you trolling me about that MMF threesome? 😛

Have you tried it yourself and what’s so special about it?

And yes, jealousy in small doses is a turn on. But I don’t like to show it openly. I always play it cool and simmer inside, lol!

Partly trolling. Turned down two last month. Sad thing is I thought they were both MMF, one was MMFF. FML. Missed out big time.

This is true as well, I'm not a Libra man.

No man is like Libra man! 😆

Do you like MMF or MFF? I don’t think Leo would be down for any of that, sadly.

I'm up for anything. Not into men sexually, but the idea of giving a girl a good time with someone else to me seems selfless and fun. MFF I've not been able to find, difficult to find girls who are genuinely bisexual and even harder to find two who want to fuck me! 😹
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Yeah, that’s true. It is difficult to find anyone for these types of scenarios. I imagine it would require a lot of trust and vulnerability and being open-minded.

It’s not everyone’s cup of tea, for sure.

I always felt that’s something for mature years when you want to spice things up.

Why ruin a good 1 on 1? 🙂

And are you back into dating scene yourself or what’s been happening?
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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



❤️

I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

"Overlooking sometimes glaring flaws in someone's personality or physical appearance because the sex is great. Similar to beer goggles, and sometimes resulting from it, sex goggles can be hard to clear do to the fact that we could all use a good lay."

Ignore the sloppy grammar on urban dictionary he clearly means due not do in the last line.

But I specifically mentioned his other qualities and how he makes me feel, deep inside. He calms me down and makes me domesticated in a way. We make each other blush. I admire his work ethics and his big heart. That guy has never, ever been mean to me (unless you count emotionally distant). But he has never been harsh to me. It’s a big deal breaker.

Of course, when sex is great you feel 10x as strong but I truly like him, the whole package.

And did I mention compliments he gives me? Why isn’t he moving on with someone else if I’m that easily forgettable?

You've idealised him. I don't know the ins and outs, but I think you said you chose to break up with him because he was distance, didn't show feelings and was non committed?

Why isn't he moving on? He doesn't have other options. Simple.

I've broken up with girls. It's hard, but there's always someone better albeit different. To me it's just seems pointless chasing the same person to get the same result.

I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm saying I wouldn't.

Lol. He has options trust me.

Every man has been there. Break up with someone and finding someone new is like wrestling with a shark. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, rich or confident; it's way harder for men because girls rarely approach cos social conditioning.

I think girls tend to put their boyfriends on a pedestal. I've got accused of cheating and all sorts of shit despite my behaviour being the opposite. Just self sabotage attempts.

I agree. I never accused him of cheating though. He recently started telling me of girls approaching him in a gym. But I played it cool.

My personal rule is to never show jealousy openly. It’s such a turn off and miserable, lowly behavior.

Well, he is free to find someone else and so am I. Nothing is set in stone.

Our brains are wired very differently. Jealousy is always a massive turn on as long as it doesn't descend into bitching, point scoring or false accusations.

Watch what happens when you see a married man get low-key flirted with in front of his wife. Through all the seething and clenched teeth you know he's getting blown that night.

A girl said to me "don't tell me about your past, because I'm jealous" 🔥🔥🔥

Also I would push for that MMF threesome. Nothing like being spoilt.

Lol! Are you trolling me about that MMF threesome? 😛

Have you tried it yourself and what’s so special about it?

And yes, jealousy in small doses is a turn on. But I don’t like to show it openly. I always play it cool and simmer inside, lol!

Partly trolling. Turned down two last month. Sad thing is I thought they were both MMF, one was MMFF. FML. Missed out big time.

This is true as well, I'm not a Libra man.

No man is like Libra man! 😆

Do you like MMF or MFF? I don’t think Leo would be down for any of that, sadly.

I'm up for anything. Not into men sexually, but the idea of giving a girl a good time with someone else to me seems selfless and fun. MFF I've not been able to find, difficult to find girls who are genuinely bisexual and even harder to find two who want to fuck me! 😹
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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



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I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

"Overlooking sometimes glaring flaws in someone's personality or physical appearance because the sex is great. Similar to beer goggles, and sometimes resulting from it, sex goggles can be hard to clear do to the fact that we could all use a good lay."

Ignore the sloppy grammar on urban dictionary he clearly means due not do in the last line.

But I specifically mentioned his other qualities and how he makes me feel, deep inside. He calms me down and makes me domesticated in a way. We make each other blush. I admire his work ethics and his big heart. That guy has never, ever been mean to me (unless you count emotionally distant). But he has never been harsh to me. It’s a big deal breaker.

Of course, when sex is great you feel 10x as strong but I truly like him, the whole package.

And did I mention compliments he gives me? Why isn’t he moving on with someone else if I’m that easily forgettable?

You've idealised him. I don't know the ins and outs, but I think you said you chose to break up with him because he was distance, didn't show feelings and was non committed?

Why isn't he moving on? He doesn't have other options. Simple.

I've broken up with girls. It's hard, but there's always someone better albeit different. To me it's just seems pointless chasing the same person to get the same result.

I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm saying I wouldn't.

Lol. He has options trust me.

Every man has been there. Break up with someone and finding someone new is like wrestling with a shark. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, rich or confident; it's way harder for men because girls rarely approach cos social conditioning.

I think girls tend to put their boyfriends on a pedestal. I've got accused of cheating and all sorts of shit despite my behaviour being the opposite. Just self sabotage attempts.

I agree. I never accused him of cheating though. He recently started telling me of girls approaching him in a gym. But I played it cool.

My personal rule is to never show jealousy openly. It’s such a turn off and miserable, lowly behavior.

Well, he is free to find someone else and so am I. Nothing is set in stone.

Our brains are wired very differently. Jealousy is always a massive turn on as long as it doesn't descend into bitching, point scoring or false accusations.

Watch what happens when you see a married man get low-key flirted with in front of his wife. Through all the seething and clenched teeth you know he's getting blown that night.

A girl said to me "don't tell me about your past, because I'm jealous" 🔥🔥🔥

Also I would push for that MMF threesome. Nothing like being spoilt.

Lol! Are you trolling me about that MMF threesome? 😛

Have you tried it yourself and what’s so special about it?

And yes, jealousy in small doses is a turn on. But I don’t like to show it openly. I always play it cool and simmer inside, lol!

Partly trolling. Turned down two last month. Sad thing is I thought they were both MMF, one was MMFF. FML. Missed out big time.

This is true as well, I'm not a Libra man.

No man is like Libra man! 😆

Do you like MMF or MFF? I don’t think Leo would be down for any of that, sadly.

I'm up for anything. Not into men sexually, but the idea of giving a girl a good time with someone else to me seems selfless and fun. MFF I've not been able to find, difficult to find girls who are genuinely bisexual and even harder to find two who want to fuck me! 😹

I don’t think girls have to be bisexual for MFF just like men don’t necessarily have to be BI in order to have MMF? I realize it’s more fun if girls are bisexual but same goes for men, then. Lol 😛

It's about dynamics I'm going to be crude with two men one woman you've got three holes and two cocks. With the other you've got one cock six holes, which means one person isn't going to be getting bored and from what I've heard it's usually the man.
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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



❤️

I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

"Overlooking sometimes glaring flaws in someone's personality or physical appearance because the sex is great. Similar to beer goggles, and sometimes resulting from it, sex goggles can be hard to clear do to the fact that we could all use a good lay."

Ignore the sloppy grammar on urban dictionary he clearly means due not do in the last line.

But I specifically mentioned his other qualities and how he makes me feel, deep inside. He calms me down and makes me domesticated in a way. We make each other blush. I admire his work ethics and his big heart. That guy has never, ever been mean to me (unless you count emotionally distant). But he has never been harsh to me. It’s a big deal breaker.

Of course, when sex is great you feel 10x as strong but I truly like him, the whole package.

And did I mention compliments he gives me? Why isn’t he moving on with someone else if I’m that easily forgettable?

You've idealised him. I don't know the ins and outs, but I think you said you chose to break up with him because he was distance, didn't show feelings and was non committed?

Why isn't he moving on? He doesn't have other options. Simple.

I've broken up with girls. It's hard, but there's always someone better albeit different. To me it's just seems pointless chasing the same person to get the same result.

I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm saying I wouldn't.

Lol. He has options trust me.

Every man has been there. Break up with someone and finding someone new is like wrestling with a shark. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, rich or confident; it's way harder for men because girls rarely approach cos social conditioning.

I think girls tend to put their boyfriends on a pedestal. I've got accused of cheating and all sorts of shit despite my behaviour being the opposite. Just self sabotage attempts.

I agree. I never accused him of cheating though. He recently started telling me of girls approaching him in a gym. But I played it cool.

My personal rule is to never show jealousy openly. It’s such a turn off and miserable, lowly behavior.

Well, he is free to find someone else and so am I. Nothing is set in stone.

Our brains are wired very differently. Jealousy is always a massive turn on as long as it doesn't descend into bitching, point scoring or false accusations.

Watch what happens when you see a married man get low-key flirted with in front of his wife. Through all the seething and clenched teeth you know he's getting blown that night.

A girl said to me "don't tell me about your past, because I'm jealous" 🔥🔥🔥

Also I would push for that MMF threesome. Nothing like being spoilt.

Lol! Are you trolling me about that MMF threesome? 😛

Have you tried it yourself and what’s so special about it?

And yes, jealousy in small doses is a turn on. But I don’t like to show it openly. I always play it cool and simmer inside, lol!

Partly trolling. Turned down two last month. Sad thing is I thought they were both MMF, one was MMFF. FML. Missed out big time.

This is true as well, I'm not a Libra man.

No man is like Libra man! 😆

Do you like MMF or MFF? I don’t think Leo would be down for any of that, sadly.

I'm up for anything. Not into men sexually, but the idea of giving a girl a good time with someone else to me seems selfless and fun. MFF I've not been able to find, difficult to find girls who are genuinely bisexual and even harder to find two who want to fuck me! 😹

Yeah, that’s true. It is difficult to find anyone for these types of scenarios. I imagine it would require a lot of trust and vulnerability and being open-minded.

It’s not everyone’s cup of tea, for sure.

I always felt that’s something for mature years when you want to spice things up.

Why ruin a good 1 on 1? 🙂

And are you back into dating scene yourself or what’s been happening?

I must be in my mature years or just bored a lot.

Not got a proper profile on any dating apps yet. Was waiting for retrograde to be over. I will get on it this week.
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Alex the ram is ready to plow. I almost feel all this 🔥 in you; you are definitely ready 😉

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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



❤️

I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

"Overlooking sometimes glaring flaws in someone's personality or physical appearance because the sex is great. Similar to beer goggles, and sometimes resulting from it, sex goggles can be hard to clear do to the fact that we could all use a good lay."

Ignore the sloppy grammar on urban dictionary he clearly means due not do in the last line.

But I specifically mentioned his other qualities and how he makes me feel, deep inside. He calms me down and makes me domesticated in a way. We make each other blush. I admire his work ethics and his big heart. That guy has never, ever been mean to me (unless you count emotionally distant). But he has never been harsh to me. It’s a big deal breaker.

Of course, when sex is great you feel 10x as strong but I truly like him, the whole package.

And did I mention compliments he gives me? Why isn’t he moving on with someone else if I’m that easily forgettable?

You've idealised him. I don't know the ins and outs, but I think you said you chose to break up with him because he was distance, didn't show feelings and was non committed?

Why isn't he moving on? He doesn't have other options. Simple.

I've broken up with girls. It's hard, but there's always someone better albeit different. To me it's just seems pointless chasing the same person to get the same result.

I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm saying I wouldn't.

Lol. He has options trust me.

Every man has been there. Break up with someone and finding someone new is like wrestling with a shark. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, rich or confident; it's way harder for men because girls rarely approach cos social conditioning.

I think girls tend to put their boyfriends on a pedestal. I've got accused of cheating and all sorts of shit despite my behaviour being the opposite. Just self sabotage attempts.

I agree. I never accused him of cheating though. He recently started telling me of girls approaching him in a gym. But I played it cool.

My personal rule is to never show jealousy openly. It’s such a turn off and miserable, lowly behavior.

Well, he is free to find someone else and so am I. Nothing is set in stone.

Our brains are wired very differently. Jealousy is always a massive turn on as long as it doesn't descend into bitching, point scoring or false accusations.

Watch what happens when you see a married man get low-key flirted with in front of his wife. Through all the seething and clenched teeth you know he's getting blown that night.

A girl said to me "don't tell me about your past, because I'm jealous" 🔥🔥🔥

Also I would push for that MMF threesome. Nothing like being spoilt.

Lol! Are you trolling me about that MMF threesome? 😛

Have you tried it yourself and what’s so special about it?

And yes, jealousy in small doses is a turn on. But I don’t like to show it openly. I always play it cool and simmer inside, lol!

Partly trolling. Turned down two last month. Sad thing is I thought they were both MMF, one was MMFF. FML. Missed out big time.

This is true as well, I'm not a Libra man.

No man is like Libra man! 😆

Do you like MMF or MFF? I don’t think Leo would be down for any of that, sadly.

I'm up for anything. Not into men sexually, but the idea of giving a girl a good time with someone else to me seems selfless and fun. MFF I've not been able to find, difficult to find girls who are genuinely bisexual and even harder to find two who want to fuck me! 😹

I don’t think girls have to be bisexual for MFF just like men don’t necessarily have to be BI in order to have MMF? I realize it’s more fun if girls are bisexual but same goes for men, then. Lol 😛

It's about dynamics I'm going to be crude with two men one woman you've got three holes and two cocks. With the other you've got one cock six holes, which means one person isn't going to be getting bored and from what I've heard it's usually the man.

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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



❤️

I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

"Overlooking sometimes glaring flaws in someone's personality or physical appearance because the sex is great. Similar to beer goggles, and sometimes resulting from it, sex goggles can be hard to clear do to the fact that we could all use a good lay."

Ignore the sloppy grammar on urban dictionary he clearly means due not do in the last line.

But I specifically mentioned his other qualities and how he makes me feel, deep inside. He calms me down and makes me domesticated in a way. We make each other blush. I admire his work ethics and his big heart. That guy has never, ever been mean to me (unless you count emotionally distant). But he has never been harsh to me. It’s a big deal breaker.

Of course, when sex is great you feel 10x as strong but I truly like him, the whole package.

And did I mention compliments he gives me? Why isn’t he moving on with someone else if I’m that easily forgettable?

You've idealised him. I don't know the ins and outs, but I think you said you chose to break up with him because he was distance, didn't show feelings and was non committed?

Why isn't he moving on? He doesn't have other options. Simple.

I've broken up with girls. It's hard, but there's always someone better albeit different. To me it's just seems pointless chasing the same person to get the same result.

I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm saying I wouldn't.

Lol. He has options trust me.

Every man has been there. Break up with someone and finding someone new is like wrestling with a shark. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, rich or confident; it's way harder for men because girls rarely approach cos social conditioning.

I think girls tend to put their boyfriends on a pedestal. I've got accused of cheating and all sorts of shit despite my behaviour being the opposite. Just self sabotage attempts.

I agree. I never accused him of cheating though. He recently started telling me of girls approaching him in a gym. But I played it cool.

My personal rule is to never show jealousy openly. It’s such a turn off and miserable, lowly behavior.

Well, he is free to find someone else and so am I. Nothing is set in stone.

Our brains are wired very differently. Jealousy is always a massive turn on as long as it doesn't descend into bitching, point scoring or false accusations.

Watch what happens when you see a married man get low-key flirted with in front of his wife. Through all the seething and clenched teeth you know he's getting blown that night.

A girl said to me "don't tell me about your past, because I'm jealous" 🔥🔥🔥

Also I would push for that MMF threesome. Nothing like being spoilt.

Lol! Are you trolling me about that MMF threesome? 😛

Have you tried it yourself and what’s so special about it?

And yes, jealousy in small doses is a turn on. But I don’t like to show it openly. I always play it cool and simmer inside, lol!

Partly trolling. Turned down two last month. Sad thing is I thought they were both MMF, one was MMFF. FML. Missed out big time.

This is true as well, I'm not a Libra man.

No man is like Libra man! 😆

Do you like MMF or MFF? I don’t think Leo would be down for any of that, sadly.

I'm up for anything. Not into men sexually, but the idea of giving a girl a good time with someone else to me seems selfless and fun. MFF I've not been able to find, difficult to find girls who are genuinely bisexual and even harder to find two who want to fuck me! 😹

I don’t think girls have to be bisexual for MFF just like men don’t necessarily have to be BI in order to have MMF? I realize it’s more fun if girls are bisexual but same goes for men, then. Lol 😛

It's about dynamics I'm going to be crude with two men one woman you've got three holes and two cocks. With the other you've got one cock six holes, which means one person isn't going to be getting bored and from what I've heard it's usually the man.

😬🥴🤣

I live in a different world

*Born again Puritan*

😃🌈🙏

No 3-some in near future, star? 😎😜
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Someone would end up dead👿

“Don’t touch my man”

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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



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I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

Not meaning to be vulgar, but you've got your fuck goggles on.

What does that even mean? That I can’t think straight?

"Overlooking sometimes glaring flaws in someone's personality or physical appearance because the sex is great. Similar to beer goggles, and sometimes resulting from it, sex goggles can be hard to clear do to the fact that we could all use a good lay."

Ignore the sloppy grammar on urban dictionary he clearly means due not do in the last line.

But I specifically mentioned his other qualities and how he makes me feel, deep inside. He calms me down and makes me domesticated in a way. We make each other blush. I admire his work ethics and his big heart. That guy has never, ever been mean to me (unless you count emotionally distant). But he has never been harsh to me. It’s a big deal breaker.

Of course, when sex is great you feel 10x as strong but I truly like him, the whole package.

And did I mention compliments he gives me? Why isn’t he moving on with someone else if I’m that easily forgettable?

You've idealised him. I don't know the ins and outs, but I think you said you chose to break up with him because he was distance, didn't show feelings and was non committed?

Why isn't he moving on? He doesn't have other options. Simple.

I've broken up with girls. It's hard, but there's always someone better albeit different. To me it's just seems pointless chasing the same person to get the same result.

I'm not saying you shouldn't, I'm saying I wouldn't.

Lol. He has options trust me.

Every man has been there. Break up with someone and finding someone new is like wrestling with a shark. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, rich or confident; it's way harder for men because girls rarely approach cos social conditioning.

I think girls tend to put their boyfriends on a pedestal. I've got accused of cheating and all sorts of shit despite my behaviour being the opposite. Just self sabotage attempts.

I agree. I never accused him of cheating though. He recently started telling me of girls approaching him in a gym. But I played it cool.

My personal rule is to never show jealousy openly. It’s such a turn off and miserable, lowly behavior.

Well, he is free to find someone else and so am I. Nothing is set in stone.

Our brains are wired very differently. Jealousy is always a massive turn on as long as it doesn't descend into bitching, point scoring or false accusations.

Watch what happens when you see a married man get low-key flirted with in front of his wife. Through all the seething and clenched teeth you know he's getting blown that night.

A girl said to me "don't tell me about your past, because I'm jealous" 🔥🔥🔥

Also I would push for that MMF threesome. Nothing like being spoilt.

Lol! Are you trolling me about that MMF threesome? 😛

Have you tried it yourself and what’s so special about it?

And yes, jealousy in small doses is a turn on. But I don’t like to show it openly. I always play it cool and simmer inside, lol!

Partly trolling. Turned down two last month. Sad thing is I thought they were both MMF, one was MMFF. FML. Missed out big time.

This is true as well, I'm not a Libra man.

No man is like Libra man! 😆

Do you like MMF or MFF? I don’t think Leo would be down for any of that, sadly.

I'm up for anything. Not into men sexually, but the idea of giving a girl a good time with someone else to me seems selfless and fun. MFF I've not been able to find, difficult to find girls who are genuinely bisexual and even harder to find two who want to fuck me! 😹

I don’t think girls have to be bisexual for MFF just like men don’t necessarily have to be BI in order to have MMF? I realize it’s more fun if girls are bisexual but same goes for men, then. Lol 😛

It's about dynamics I'm going to be crude with two men one woman you've got three holes and two cocks. With the other you've got one cock six holes, which means one person isn't going to be getting bored and from what I've heard it's usually the man.

😬🥴🤣

I live in a different world

*Born again Puritan*

😃🌈🙏

No 3-some in near future, star? 😎😜

Not my scene

Someone would end up dead👿

“Don’t touch my man”

😂
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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



❤️

I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

BB, yes I know those effortless moments and feelings. But if there's no ACTION, it's all really nothing. So time will tell if Leo really means it. I hope so for you.

Because if this has been going on since 2015. Wtf...!? How long are you willing to give this.

He just throws a bone and expect you just to take it with all these pretty words.

Throws a bone 😸

Should have said, 'throws a boner', but didn't want to be disrespectful
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You wouldn’t be wrong though!!!

Ugh. Maybe I should have a revenge threesome! 👿
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Not meaning sound harsh, but I never understood why people get back together after breaking up. It's the same shit over and over again. I know a Taurus man and he broke up and got back together with his girlfriend 3 times in a year. 😛


I know someone that has been in this 20

yr cycle bc the guy didn’t/doesn’t want to commit. I don’t understand why she puts up with it, but some people would rather be with someone who’s not for them, then to be alone. 🤦🏽‍♀️ I think she’s gonna grow to be resentful, especially bc she’s sacrificed having kids, to be with him, hoping eventually he’ll commit. 🥺

I feel sorry for her, bc if someone hasn’t changed over a 20yr period, why would they, especially when their behavior has been accepted time after time.
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I agree with Alex. Sorry BB! This will just be a recipe for disaster. He also doesn't want you to work and have your own life? How controlling can he be.

Don't tell him about Pharm guy, and keep Leo at arms length. He has to prove himself BIG time. Sounds things haven't changed much with him and he is giving you all these pretty words to cave into the void.

Yeah no thanks!



❤️

I don't know if I'm right I can say what I would do. I never go back to relationships. I guess it's pride on my part would rather go through a dry spell.

There is another way threesome with the pharmacist guy.

If I already gave it my all I never go back either. And in this on and off case. Definitely not. But BB says Leo didn't give his all yet, so we have to wait it out and SEE his actions.

If it's pride, why Leo Moon going back? Ffs😂

For me it would be pride too. Would feel way too good to go back and I just don't see the point.

Have you ever talked to someone so effortlessly that you lost track of time and suddenly 4 hours passed? Have you smiled when talking to someone and giggled like a little girl? Have you smiled for the rest of the day after talking to special someone? Did your heart start pounding like crazy immediately after hearing their voice? Did their voice alone turn you on more than someone who is physically there? Has your whole day gone better just because they are in your life? Has he made you feel the most desired woman in the world? Has he made you somehow into a better person and a calmer version of yourself?

That’s how he makes me feel ❤️

He is opening his own business and I asked him teasingly if I can have a position. He said “top or bottom” position? Lol.

Then he said because of the nature of the job, that he wouldn’t allow me to do that because it involves a lot of traveling and it’s a “manly” job. He said he prefers that I just stay home.

I admire him for making something out of nothing. Okay, his parents helped a little because he is an only child. But mostly it’s him. He is so driven, relentless, passionate, creative and well-respected in his field. He is almost a perfect man in terms of everything. He also has a big heart. And he only likes blow jobs when he is laying down, hands behind or when he is driving. Something about that turns me on so much, lol. He said I’ll pay a price for all these past months…

But he is always so gentle and respectful to me. If I am not in the mood, he is very understanding. He has never said a cruel word to me, raised his voice at me or made me feel less in any shape or form. He is a very calm, laid-back Leo. We both make each other blush, lol, which is so adorable!

Despite having a Leo moon and Leo mars, I am still a Gemini at my core. Gemini does go back and forth, and my cancer venus holds onto the past. I have pride in certain things but not when it comes to him. Besides, we didn’t speak for whole 2 months which is enough time wasted.

He deserves another chance to make it right. We will see 🙂

BB, yes I know those effortless moments and feelings. But if there's no ACTION, it's all really nothing. So time will tell if Leo really means it. I hope so for you.

Because if this has been going on since 2015. Wtf...!? How long are you willing to give this.

He just throws a bone and expect you just to take it with all these pretty words.

Throws a bone 😸

Should have said, 'throws a boner', but didn't want to be disrespectful

You wouldn’t be wrong though!!!

Ugh. Maybe I should have a revenge threesome! 👿

Please don't go all Disney fairytale on him when he visits. Make him work for it.

And keep your heart out of your vagina FFS!

Use your head. Dammit!

Good luck dear, that's all I have to say on this ❤️
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Ctfu @ “please don’t go all Disney fairy tale” 🤣🤣🤣

But yeah, OP, I hope it does work out for you 🍀.

The way you describe how he makes you feel definitely sounds dreamy, and if everything was perfect, it sounds like the only thing that requires a discussion is whether or not he’s able/ready to commit. 🧐
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It's has to be said, so I'm going to say it. The hypocrisy in this thread is utterly disgusting.

Hardly anyone (or is that no-one?) has commented on how the pharma guy is getting a raw deal here.

How would any of you feel if you started dating someone you really like, only to later discover that said person was still flirting or hooking up with their ex during this time? Yeah, I thought as much.

Would any of you female dxpers be blasé about this situation, if a man was doing the 'juggling' instead? Exactly.

Many of you here need to drop your twisted morals and practice what you preach.

*smh*

Personally I would be fully open, definitely to the Pharma Cancer atleast, and 'take it or leave it'. Besides that i don't know what the deal is with that dude... if it's more than just sex?

If you look at it in terms of the long game how do we know Leo will even turn up?

Seems like a lot of assumptions.

She said he has business there now. So he has to be there. If he doesn't show up then. I mean... come on?
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I have to be patient but it’s not my strongest suit!

All is fair in love and war, or is it?
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It's has to be said, so I'm going to say it. The hypocrisy in this thread is utterly disgusting.

Hardly anyone (or is that no-one?) has commented on how the pharma guy is getting a raw deal here.

How would any of you feel if you started dating someone you really like, only to later discover that said person was still flirting or hooking up with their ex during this time? Yeah, I thought as much.

Would any of you female dxpers be blasé about this situation, if a man was doing the 'juggling' instead? Exactly.

Many of you here need to drop your twisted morals and practice what you preach.

*smh*

I said she ask for a threesome. A 29 year old randy pharma won't say no.

🎶 Everyone's a winner baby that's for sure 🎶

And at least the pharma guy would be made aware of the situation, so he decide for himself.

If the pharma guy was a potential, mutually agreed fling, no problem, but giving the impression that it could be something more is extremely deceptive and disrespectful.

Treat others how you would like to be treated, when in their shoes!

Also, didn't the OP state that she lives in a small town, where everybody knows each other's business? So, what happens when it blows up in her face (and it eventually will)? What then?

She hopes it blows up in her face 💦

Maybe a bit of cuckolding with Leo watching. 🦁

Jokes aside the pharmacist is Mr Right Now.

That's why so many men have given up on dating. Men are vilified for doing this sort of thing but women aren't.

It heavily reminds me of clubbing or social events - a man can't be seen flirting or interacting with too many women or most of the women will perceive him as a player, as opposed to someone who's simply assessing his options (aka the princess complex).

However, women will freely flirt with as many men as they want, knowing full well that men will still consider them as desirable or 'fair game', due to the flawed assumption that 'real men' should be competitive.
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I don’t consider myself a player, though. This is pure circumstances that I’ve moved so far away. I wanted to be with Leo forever. My life story is a very strange one.

Just when I almost gave up, I gave in again. And it’s nothing serious with the pharmacist guy. But I get it, maybe he should know there is my ex -still in the picture.
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It's has to be said, so I'm going to say it. The hypocrisy in this thread is utterly disgusting.

Hardly anyone (or is that no-one?) has commented on how the pharma guy is getting a raw deal here.

How would any of you feel if you started dating someone you really like, only to later discover that said person was still flirting or hooking up with their ex during this time? Yeah, I thought as much.

Would any of you female dxpers be blasé about this situation, if a man was doing the 'juggling' instead? Exactly.

Many of you here need to drop your twisted morals and practice what you preach.

*smh*

I said she ask for a threesome. A 29 year old randy pharma won't say no.

🎶 Everyone's a winner baby that's for sure 🎶

And at least the pharma guy would be made aware of the situation, so he decide for himself.

If the pharma guy was a potential, mutually agreed fling, no problem, but giving the impression that it could be something more is extremely deceptive and disrespectful.

Treat others how you would like to be treated, when in their shoes!

Also, didn't the OP state that she lives in a small town, where everybody knows each other's business? So, what happens when it blows up in her face (and it eventually will)? What then?

She hopes it blows up in her face 💦

Maybe a bit of cuckolding with Leo watching. 🦁

Jokes aside the pharmacist is Mr Right Now.

That's why so many men have given up on dating. Men are vilified for doing this sort of thing but women aren't.

It heavily reminds me of clubbing or social events - a man can't be seen flirting or interacting with too many women or most of the women will perceive him as a player, as opposed to someone who's simply assessing his options (aka the princess complex).

However, women will freely flirt with as many men as they want, knowing full well that men will still consider them as desirable or 'fair game', due to the flawed assumption that 'real men' should be competitive.

I don’t consider myself a player, though. This is pure circumstances that I’ve moved so far away. I wanted to be with Leo forever. My life story is a very strange one.

Just when I almost gave up, I gave in again. And it’s nothing serious with the pharmacist guy. But I get it, maybe he should know there is my ex -still in the picture.

It also means telling 🦁 you are/have been seeing someone.
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I don’t feel like telling him, considering everything.

Not unless it’s an attempt to make him jealous or something. He may use it against me at some point or even now.

Anyway, he should be awake soon and we will talk again.
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It's has to be said, so I'm going to say it. The hypocrisy in this thread is utterly disgusting.

Hardly anyone (or is that no-one?) has commented on how the pharma guy is getting a raw deal here.

How would any of you feel if you started dating someone you really like, only to later discover that said person was still flirting or hooking up with their ex during this time? Yeah, I thought as much.

Would any of you female dxpers be blasé about this situation, if a man was doing the 'juggling' instead? Exactly.

Many of you here need to drop your twisted morals and practice what you preach.

*smh*

I said she ask for a threesome. A 29 year old randy pharma won't say no.

🎶 Everyone's a winner baby that's for sure 🎶

And at least the pharma guy would be made aware of the situation, so he decide for himself.

If the pharma guy was a potential, mutually agreed fling, no problem, but giving the impression that it could be something more is extremely deceptive and disrespectful.

Treat others how you would like to be treated, when in their shoes!

Also, didn't the OP state that she lives in a small town, where everybody knows each other's business? So, what happens when it blows up in her face (and it eventually will)? What then?

She hopes it blows up in her face 💦

Maybe a bit of cuckolding with Leo watching. 🦁

Jokes aside the pharmacist is Mr Right Now.

That's why so many men have given up on dating. Men are vilified for doing this sort of thing but women aren't.

It heavily reminds me of clubbing or social events - a man can't be seen flirting or interacting with too many women or most of the women will perceive him as a player, as opposed to someone who's simply assessing his options (aka the princess complex).

However, women will freely flirt with as many men as they want, knowing full well that men will still consider them as desirable or 'fair game', due to the flawed assumption that 'real men' should be competitive.

I don’t consider myself a player, though. This is pure circumstances that I’ve moved so far away. I wanted to be with Leo forever. My life story is a very strange one.

Just when I almost gave up, I gave in again. And it’s nothing serious with the pharmacist guy. But I get it, maybe he should know there is my ex -still in the picture.

It also means telling 🦁 you are/have been seeing someone.

I don’t feel like telling him, considering everything.

Not unless it’s an attempt to make him jealous or something. He may use it against me at some point or even now.

Anyway, he should be awake soon and we will talk again.

There's your problem. You want your cake and to eat it, Princess. It's looking like a Ménage Á Un.
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Why am I a princess now? Lol
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It's has to be said, so I'm going to say it. The hypocrisy in this thread is utterly disgusting.

Hardly anyone (or is that no-one?) has commented on how the pharma guy is getting a raw deal here.

How would any of you feel if you started dating someone you really like, only to later discover that said person was still flirting or hooking up with their ex during this time? Yeah, I thought as much.

Would any of you female dxpers be blasé about this situation, if a man was doing the 'juggling' instead? Exactly.

Many of you here need to drop your twisted morals and practice what you preach.

*smh*

I said she ask for a threesome. A 29 year old randy pharma won't say no.

🎶 Everyone's a winner baby that's for sure 🎶

And at least the pharma guy would be made aware of the situation, so he decide for himself.

If the pharma guy was a potential, mutually agreed fling, no problem, but giving the impression that it could be something more is extremely deceptive and disrespectful.

Treat others how you would like to be treated, when in their shoes!

Also, didn't the OP state that she lives in a small town, where everybody knows each other's business? So, what happens when it blows up in her face (and it eventually will)? What then?

She hopes it blows up in her face 💦

Maybe a bit of cuckolding with Leo watching. 🦁

Jokes aside the pharmacist is Mr Right Now.

That's why so many men have given up on dating. Men are vilified for doing this sort of thing but women aren't.

It heavily reminds me of clubbing or social events - a man can't be seen flirting or interacting with too many women or most of the women will perceive him as a player, as opposed to someone who's simply assessing their options (aka the princess complex).

However, women will freely flirt with as many men as they want, knowing full well that men will still consider them as desirable or 'fair game', due to the flawed assumption that 'real men' should be competitive.

I went to a gig in Leeds and this was about 15 years ago I think, so before all that #metoo false flag fake feminism and there were signs up in the karzi saying "talking to a woman is sexual harrasment" nothing like being made to feel like a rapist when you're having a piddle.

TBH it doesn't matter if man is seen as a player if anything it can have advantages as some women will see him as popular or desirable even if he is striking out with loads of women, he is seen talking to them.

I half agree with you, as there is usually a 'limit' in woman's minds as to how much a man 'interacts' with other women.

A good random example is snogging. A man caught snogging a couple of women will already be condemned by other women in the vicinity. Not so much condemnation from men when it's women going around doing exactly the same thing.

I've experienced this just from dancing with women - at least half of the time, the women approached me to dance with them! So, now I'm a player for acquiescing their wishes?

*smh*
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Hey, please don’t project your issues with women on me and my situation.

This is a unique situation, unlike any other.
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It's has to be said, so I'm going to say it. The hypocrisy in this thread is utterly disgusting.

Hardly anyone (or is that no-one?) has commented on how the pharma guy is getting a raw deal here.

How would any of you feel if you started dating someone you really like, only to later discover that said person was still flirting or hooking up with their ex during this time? Yeah, I thought as much.

Would any of you female dxpers be blasé about this situation, if a man was doing the 'juggling' instead? Exactly.

Many of you here need to drop your twisted morals and practice what you preach.

*smh*

I said she ask for a threesome. A 29 year old randy pharma won't say no.

🎶 Everyone's a winner baby that's for sure 🎶

And at least the pharma guy would be made aware of the situation, so he can decide for himself.

If the pharma guy was a potential, mutually agreed fling, no problem, but giving the impression that it could be something more is extremely deceptive and disrespectful.

Treat others how you would like to be treated, when in their shoes!

Also, didn't the OP state that she lives in a small town, where everybody knows each other's business? So, what happens when it blows up in her face (and it eventually will)? What then?
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Agreed. Well she was looking for her husband lol but then Leo shows up? Well be honest with Pharmacy guy that you’re not over Leo.. and screw that possibility up.. for mr. Non commitment Leo that she just wants to hope it’s going to be different this time. It’s not fair to Pharmacy guy until she’s over Leo honestly. Wanting to move on & doing it are two different things.
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Posted by Gobbie
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Gobbie

It's has to be said, so I'm going to say it. The hypocrisy in this thread is utterly disgusting.

Hardly anyone (or is that no-one?) has commented on how the pharma guy is getting a raw deal here.

How would any of you feel if you started dating someone you really like, only to later discover that said person was still flirting or hooking up with their ex during this time? Yeah, I thought as much.

Would any of you female dxpers be blasé about this situation, if a man was doing the 'juggling' instead? Exactly.

Many of you here need to drop your twisted morals and practice what you preach.

*smh*

I said she ask for a threesome. A 29 year old randy pharma won't say no.

🎶 Everyone's a winner baby that's for sure 🎶

And at least the pharma guy would be made aware of the situation, so he decide for himself.

If the pharma guy was a potential, mutually agreed fling, no problem, but giving the impression that it could be something more is extremely deceptive and disrespectful.

Treat others how you would like to be treated, when in their shoes!

Also, didn't the OP state that she lives in a small town, where everybody knows each other's business? So, what happens when it blows up in her face (and it eventually will)? What then?

She hopes it blows up in her face 💦

Maybe a bit of cuckolding with Leo watching. 🦁

Jokes aside the pharmacist is Mr Right Now.

That's why so many men have given up on dating. Men are vilified for doing this sort of thing but women aren't.

It heavily reminds me of clubbing or social events - a man can't be seen flirting or interacting with too many women or most of the women will perceive him as a player, as opposed to someone who's simply assessing his options (aka the princess complex).

However, women will freely flirt with as many men as they want, knowing full well that men will still consider them as desirable or 'fair game', due to the flawed assumption that 'real men' should be competitive.

I don’t consider myself a player, though. This is pure circumstances that I’ve moved so far away. I wanted to be with Leo forever. My life story is a very strange one.

Just when I almost gave up, I gave in again. And it’s nothing serious with the pharmacist guy. But I get it, maybe he should know there is my ex -still in the picture.

It also means telling 🦁 you are/have been seeing someone.

I don’t feel like telling him, considering everything.

Not unless it’s an attempt to make him jealous or something. He may use it against me at some point or even now.

Anyway, he should be awake soon and we will talk again.

There's your problem. You want your cake and to eat it, Princess. It's looking like a Ménage Á Un.

Why am I a princess now? Lol

Reference to Marie Antoinette who allegedly said "let them eat cake" and she wore a princess crown. More to the point didn't you call yourself a princess on another thread, if the glass slipper fits.
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At least she's a princess with options. I'm a princess with no prince. 👑🤣

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Posted by Gobbie
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Posted by Gobbie

It's has to be said, so I'm going to say it. The hypocrisy in this thread is utterly disgusting.

Hardly anyone (or is that no-one?) has commented on how the pharma guy is getting a raw deal here.

How would any of you feel if you started dating someone you really like, only to later discover that said person was still flirting or hooking up with their ex during this time? Yeah, I thought as much.

Would any of you female dxpers be blasé about this situation, if a man was doing the 'juggling' instead? Exactly.

Many of you here need to drop your twisted morals and practice what you preach.

*smh*

I said she ask for a threesome. A 29 year old randy pharma won't say no.

🎶 Everyone's a winner baby that's for sure 🎶

And at least the pharma guy would be made aware of the situation, so he can decide for himself.

If the pharma guy was a potential, mutually agreed fling, no problem, but giving the impression that it could be something more is extremely deceptive and disrespectful.

Treat others how you would like to be treated, when in their shoes!

Also, didn't the OP state that she lives in a small town, where everybody knows each other's business? So, what happens when it blows up in her face (and it eventually will)? What then?

Agreed. Well she was looking for her husband lol but then Leo shows up? Well be honest with Pharmacy guy that you’re not over Leo.. and screw that possibility up.. for mr. Non commitment Leo that she just wants to hope it’s going to be different this time. It’s not fair to Pharmacy guy until she’s over Leo honestly. Wanting to move on & doing it are two different things.

And if he wants the threesome then he's a keeper.
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Lol