candyapplegrey
@candyapplegrey
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Posted by candyapplegrey
@Reincarnation4
Thanks man I appreciate it. He advised taking Zinc Powder daily as well as small does of Progest-E,and Pregnalone, DHEA powder in coconut oil As well as an aspirin cocktail which helps purge estrogen so the testosterone in supplements can have a stronger effect for better erection function.
@Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.


Posted by candyapplegrey
Should I run the kink scenario first with her and then if it its a no, have a "confessional" even though it may feel to her like Im taking her seriously too soon? I feel like Im stuck and I just dont know what to do at this point.

Posted by candyapplegrey
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.

Posted by alexscaries
... It doesn't matter if she orgasms or not. It's more important if she is comfortable and enjoys herself.

Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by candyapplegrey
@Reincarnation4
Thanks man I appreciate it. He advised taking Zinc Powder daily as well as small does of Progest-E,and Pregnalone, DHEA powder in coconut oil As well as an aspirin cocktail which helps purge estrogen so the testosterone in supplements can have a stronger effect for better erection function.
@Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.
Handcuffs may be too much for the first time, but I don't think a blind fold is. It depends on how suspicious she is lol Depends on how comfortable she is and if you talk a good game and make it fun, I would think.
Most water signs are understanding of this type of thing. There's a good reason and you're actually trying. You never know what can happen, don't count yourself out just yet. 🙂
Problem with handcuffs is people by the $ 2 ones. Actually dangerous as people tend to pull on them and they get tighter and cut into wrists. Something double locking and solid, had a look on Amazon Smith and Wesson ones look good. I can't do shibari, but rope is the way forward and a lot cheaper, but more time consuming.click to expand


Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by candyapplegrey
@Reincarnation4
Thanks man I appreciate it. He advised taking Zinc Powder daily as well as small does of Progest-E,and Pregnalone, DHEA powder in coconut oil As well as an aspirin cocktail which helps purge estrogen so the testosterone in supplements can have a stronger effect for better erection function.
@Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.
Handcuffs may be too much for the first time, but I don't think a blind fold is. It depends on how suspicious she is lol Depends on how comfortable she is and if you talk a good game and make it fun, I would think.
Most water signs are understanding of this type of thing. There's a good reason and you're actually trying. You never know what can happen, don't count yourself out just yet. 🙂
Problem with handcuffs is people by the $ 2 ones. Actually dangerous as people tend to pull on them and they get tighter and cut into wrists. Something double locking and solid, had a look on Amazon Smith and Wesson ones look good. I can't do shibari, but rope is the way forward and a lot cheaper, but more time consuming.click to expand

Posted by candyapplegrey
...Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.


Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by alexscaries
... It doesn't matter if she orgasms or not. It's more important if she is comfortable and enjoys herself.
*like*click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by GemiMayPosted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by candyapplegrey
@Reincarnation4
Thanks man I appreciate it. He advised taking Zinc Powder daily as well as small does of Progest-E,and Pregnalone, DHEA powder in coconut oil As well as an aspirin cocktail which helps purge estrogen so the testosterone in supplements can have a stronger effect for better erection function.
@Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.
Handcuffs may be too much for the first time, but I don't think a blind fold is. It depends on how suspicious she is lol Depends on how comfortable she is and if you talk a good game and make it fun, I would think.
Most water signs are understanding of this type of thing. There's a good reason and you're actually trying. You never know what can happen, don't count yourself out just yet. 🙂
Problem with handcuffs is people by the $ 2 ones. Actually dangerous as people tend to pull on them and they get tighter and cut into wrists. Something double locking and solid, had a look on Amazon Smith and Wesson ones look good. I can't do shibari, but rope is the way forward and a lot cheaper, but more time consuming.
You’ve got to be kidding! Shibari is an art and there are few and between people who knows how to rope. It can’t be advised SPECIALY when he has so many things that he is still dealing with…
I've met two, not as rare as you may think. Just depends what circles you move in. Something I should really get on.click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by candyapplegrey
@Reincarnation4
Thanks man I appreciate it. He advised taking Zinc Powder daily as well as small does of Progest-E,and Pregnalone, DHEA powder in coconut oil As well as an aspirin cocktail which helps purge estrogen so the testosterone in supplements can have a stronger effect for better erection function.
@Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.
Handcuffs may be too much for the first time, but I don't think a blind fold is. It depends on how suspicious she is lol Depends on how comfortable she is and if you talk a good game and make it fun, I would think.
Most water signs are understanding of this type of thing. There's a good reason and you're actually trying. You never know what can happen, don't count yourself out just yet. 🙂
Problem with handcuffs is people by the $ 2 ones. Actually dangerous as people tend to pull on them and they get tighter and cut into wrists. Something double locking and solid, had a look on Amazon Smith and Wesson ones look good. I can't do shibari, but rope is the way forward and a lot cheaper, but more time consuming.
Handcuffs are over rated lol It's metal and they aren't comfortable. And you have to be careful with a woman who has her hands tied behind her back because she can't "catch herself" while she's being tossed around on the bed or wherever, and a guy who isn't used to doing this type of thing doesn't account for that lol
He should get this 😛
https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/cLYAAOSwckVhlw5V/s-l400.jpg<div class="bqfade">click to expand


Posted by alexscariesPosted by GemiMayPosted by alexscariesPosted by GemiMayPosted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by candyapplegrey
@Reincarnation4
Thanks man I appreciate it. He advised taking Zinc Powder daily as well as small does of Progest-E,and Pregnalone, DHEA powder in coconut oil As well as an aspirin cocktail which helps purge estrogen so the testosterone in supplements can have a stronger effect for better erection function.
@Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.
Handcuffs may be too much for the first time, but I don't think a blind fold is. It depends on how suspicious she is lol Depends on how comfortable she is and if you talk a good game and make it fun, I would think.
Most water signs are understanding of this type of thing. There's a good reason and you're actually trying. You never know what can happen, don't count yourself out just yet. 🙂
Problem with handcuffs is people by the $ 2 ones. Actually dangerous as people tend to pull on them and they get tighter and cut into wrists. Something double locking and solid, had a look on Amazon Smith and Wesson ones look good. I can't do shibari, but rope is the way forward and a lot cheaper, but more time consuming.
You’ve got to be kidding! Shibari is an art and there are few and between people who knows how to rope. It can’t be advised SPECIALY when he has so many things that he is still dealing with…
I've met two, not as rare as you may think. Just depends what circles you move in. Something I should really get on.
Have you met somebody whom you trust enough to rope you?
Yep. Been tied to a bed and blind folded, clamped, Wattenberg wheels, verbal abuse. It was hot. Would do it again.click to expand

Posted by GemiMayPosted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by candyapplegrey
@Reincarnation4
Thanks man I appreciate it. He advised taking Zinc Powder daily as well as small does of Progest-E,and Pregnalone, DHEA powder in coconut oil As well as an aspirin cocktail which helps purge estrogen so the testosterone in supplements can have a stronger effect for better erection function.
@Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.
Handcuffs may be too much for the first time, but I don't think a blind fold is. It depends on how suspicious she is lol Depends on how comfortable she is and if you talk a good game and make it fun, I would think.
Most water signs are understanding of this type of thing. There's a good reason and you're actually trying. You never know what can happen, don't count yourself out just yet. 🙂
Problem with handcuffs is people by the $ 2 ones. Actually dangerous as people tend to pull on them and they get tighter and cut into wrists. Something double locking and solid, had a look on Amazon Smith and Wesson ones look good. I can't do shibari, but rope is the way forward and a lot cheaper, but more time consuming.
Handcuffs are over rated lol It's metal and they aren't comfortable. And you have to be careful with a woman who has her hands tied behind her back because she can't "catch herself" while she's being tossed around on the bed or wherever, and a guy who isn't used to doing this type of thing doesn't account for that lol
He should get this 😛
I am very surprised with learning oral by watching videos. Is this even good idea to have sex as of yet? 🤔click to expand


Posted by alexscariesPosted by GemiMayPosted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by candyapplegrey
@Reincarnation4
Thanks man I appreciate it. He advised taking Zinc Powder daily as well as small does of Progest-E,and Pregnalone, DHEA powder in coconut oil As well as an aspirin cocktail which helps purge estrogen so the testosterone in supplements can have a stronger effect for better erection function.
@Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.
Handcuffs may be too much for the first time, but I don't think a blind fold is. It depends on how suspicious she is lol Depends on how comfortable she is and if you talk a good game and make it fun, I would think.
Most water signs are understanding of this type of thing. There's a good reason and you're actually trying. You never know what can happen, don't count yourself out just yet. 🙂
Problem with handcuffs is people by the $ 2 ones. Actually dangerous as people tend to pull on them and they get tighter and cut into wrists. Something double locking and solid, had a look on Amazon Smith and Wesson ones look good. I can't do shibari, but rope is the way forward and a lot cheaper, but more time consuming.
Handcuffs are over rated lol It's metal and they aren't comfortable. And you have to be careful with a woman who has her hands tied behind her back because she can't "catch herself" while she's being tossed around on the bed or wherever, and a guy who isn't used to doing this type of thing doesn't account for that lol
He should get this 😛
I am very surprised with learning oral by watching videos. Is this even good idea to have sex as of yet? 🤔
I learnt by watching a St Bernard eat an apple pie.click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by GemiMayPosted by alexscariesPosted by GemiMayPosted by alexscariesPosted by GemiMayPosted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by candyapplegrey
@Reincarnation4
Thanks man I appreciate it. He advised taking Zinc Powder daily as well as small does of Progest-E,and Pregnalone, DHEA powder in coconut oil As well as an aspirin cocktail which helps purge estrogen so the testosterone in supplements can have a stronger effect for better erection function.
@Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.
Handcuffs may be too much for the first time, but I don't think a blind fold is. It depends on how suspicious she is lol Depends on how comfortable she is and if you talk a good game and make it fun, I would think.
Most water signs are understanding of this type of thing. There's a good reason and you're actually trying. You never know what can happen, don't count yourself out just yet. 🙂
Problem with handcuffs is people by the $ 2 ones. Actually dangerous as people tend to pull on them and they get tighter and cut into wrists. Something double locking and solid, had a look on Amazon Smith and Wesson ones look good. I can't do shibari, but rope is the way forward and a lot cheaper, but more time consuming.
You’ve got to be kidding! Shibari is an art and there are few and between people who knows how to rope. It can’t be advised SPECIALY when he has so many things that he is still dealing with…
I've met two, not as rare as you may think. Just depends what circles you move in. Something I should really get on.
Have you met somebody whom you trust enough to rope you?
Yep. Been tied to a bed and blind folded, clamped, Wattenberg wheels, verbal abuse. It was hot. Would do it again.
Fire ass! I can’t imagine verbal abuse though…unless it’s by somebody you aren’t with for a long haul…
It was hilarious.click to expand


Posted by saggurl88Posted by GemiMayPosted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by candyapplegrey
@Reincarnation4
Thanks man I appreciate it. He advised taking Zinc Powder daily as well as small does of Progest-E,and Pregnalone, DHEA powder in coconut oil As well as an aspirin cocktail which helps purge estrogen so the testosterone in supplements can have a stronger effect for better erection function.
@Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.
Handcuffs may be too much for the first time, but I don't think a blind fold is. It depends on how suspicious she is lol Depends on how comfortable she is and if you talk a good game and make it fun, I would think.
Most water signs are understanding of this type of thing. There's a good reason and you're actually trying. You never know what can happen, don't count yourself out just yet. 🙂
Problem with handcuffs is people by the $ 2 ones. Actually dangerous as people tend to pull on them and they get tighter and cut into wrists. Something double locking and solid, had a look on Amazon Smith and Wesson ones look good. I can't do shibari, but rope is the way forward and a lot cheaper, but more time consuming.
Handcuffs are over rated lol It's metal and they aren't comfortable. And you have to be careful with a woman who has her hands tied behind her back because she can't "catch herself" while she's being tossed around on the bed or wherever, and a guy who isn't used to doing this type of thing doesn't account for that lol
He should get this 😛
I am very surprised with learning oral by watching videos. Is this even good idea to have sex as of yet? 🤔
I actually was believing it until I read that part LMAO- Even the basics seem pretty self explanatory and easy to do.![]()
https://media3.giphy.com/media/zoMlwDpwKNG12/giphy.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by candyapplegrey
Just to address people who said she might get freaked out by the handcuffs. That is why I would run it by her first. And that the cuffs wouldnt be metal. They would be I guess the soft cushy ones. I would really convey that my priority is her feeling safe and that any point she can stop it if she doesn't That the whole point is to do something different than shes done before potentially and to have fun.
Years before my accident, I would do kinky stuff with my ex way before mya ccident. I tried to do as much out of the box stuff as I could to keep her interested. But that was years ago and when you dont have sex for a long a-- period of time, everything gets foggy.
If she has a small vagina, it will be a gift from the heavens as I wont have as much anxiety about her reaction to my size. Im going to attempt to lead with oral and fingering first if shes down, then see if I can postpone the actual sex to the next date so I am more prepped.
Ive learned the positions to have sex in when you are smaller like me so the woman can really feel it if her vagina is bigger. I just need the chance to show what I can do really.
Posted by candyapplegrey
Just to address people who said she might get freaked out by the handcuffs. That is why I would run it by her first. And that the cuffs wouldnt be metal. They would be I guess the soft cushy ones. I would really convey that my priority is her feeling safe and that any point she can stop it if she doesn't That the whole point is to do something different than shes done before potentially and to have fun.
Years before my accident, I would do kinky stuff with my ex way before mya ccident. I tried to do as much out of the box stuff as I could to keep her interested. But that was years ago and when you dont have sex for a long a-- period of time, everything gets foggy.
If she has a small vagina, it will be a gift from the heavens as I wont have as much anxiety about her reaction to my size. Im going to attempt to lead with oral and fingering first if shes down, then see if I can postpone the actual sex to the next date so I am more prepped.
Ive learned the positions to have sex in when you are smaller like me so the woman can really feel it if her vagina is bigger. I just need the chance to show what I can do really.


Posted by GemiMayPosted by saggurl88Posted by GemiMayPosted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by candyapplegrey
@Reincarnation4
Thanks man I appreciate it. He advised taking Zinc Powder daily as well as small does of Progest-E,and Pregnalone, DHEA powder in coconut oil As well as an aspirin cocktail which helps purge estrogen so the testosterone in supplements can have a stronger effect for better erection function.
@Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.
Handcuffs may be too much for the first time, but I don't think a blind fold is. It depends on how suspicious she is lol Depends on how comfortable she is and if you talk a good game and make it fun, I would think.
Most water signs are understanding of this type of thing. There's a good reason and you're actually trying. You never know what can happen, don't count yourself out just yet. 🙂
Problem with handcuffs is people by the $ 2 ones. Actually dangerous as people tend to pull on them and they get tighter and cut into wrists. Something double locking and solid, had a look on Amazon Smith and Wesson ones look good. I can't do shibari, but rope is the way forward and a lot cheaper, but more time consuming.
Handcuffs are over rated lol It's metal and they aren't comfortable. And you have to be careful with a woman who has her hands tied behind her back because she can't "catch herself" while she's being tossed around on the bed or wherever, and a guy who isn't used to doing this type of thing doesn't account for that lol
He should get this 😛
I am very surprised with learning oral by watching videos. Is this even good idea to have sex as of yet? 🤔
I actually was believing it until I read that part LMAO- Even the basics seem pretty self explanatory and easy to do.![]()
Soooo…are we ‘Team Doubts’ with subteam WTF?click to expand


Posted by saggurl88Posted by GemiMayPosted by saggurl88Posted by GemiMayPosted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by candyapplegrey
@Reincarnation4
Thanks man I appreciate it. He advised taking Zinc Powder daily as well as small does of Progest-E,and Pregnalone, DHEA powder in coconut oil As well as an aspirin cocktail which helps purge estrogen so the testosterone in supplements can have a stronger effect for better erection function.
@Saggurl88 - Thank you. I'm just scared she is not going to go for the kink thing off the bat. (Due to fear of potential rape due to the handcuffs and blindfold) I feel an extreme amount of pressure since I potentially could be having sex for the first time since my accident. Im also afraid of sucking since she is a Scorpio and afraid Im going to get nexted for something that was out of my control. Although Im slowly starting to get it back under control.
Ive been studying how to oral sex videos but its a lot to asorb and commit to memory. The timing of this whole thing is nightmarish. I wasnt trying to date till I had my penis situation fully in a better place as well as having oral sex down at least passibly. Now its a girl I like and this is just the absolute worst timing.
Handcuffs may be too much for the first time, but I don't think a blind fold is. It depends on how suspicious she is lol Depends on how comfortable she is and if you talk a good game and make it fun, I would think.
Most water signs are understanding of this type of thing. There's a good reason and you're actually trying. You never know what can happen, don't count yourself out just yet. 🙂
Problem with handcuffs is people by the $ 2 ones. Actually dangerous as people tend to pull on them and they get tighter and cut into wrists. Something double locking and solid, had a look on Amazon Smith and Wesson ones look good. I can't do shibari, but rope is the way forward and a lot cheaper, but more time consuming.
Handcuffs are over rated lol It's metal and they aren't comfortable. And you have to be careful with a woman who has her hands tied behind her back because she can't "catch herself" while she's being tossed around on the bed or wherever, and a guy who isn't used to doing this type of thing doesn't account for that lol
He should get this 😛
I am very surprised with learning oral by watching videos. Is this even good idea to have sex as of yet? 🤔
I actually was believing it until I read that part LMAO- Even the basics seem pretty self explanatory and easy to do.![]()
Soooo…are we ‘Team Doubts’ with subteam WTF?
I think so, as OP says~
This Is Awkward...click to expand


Posted by neves
Uhm, so this is like... your 1st post on an "astrology forum" and you even know how to tag people. 🤨 Something's off about you... 🤔

Posted by saggurl88Posted by neves
Uhm, so this is like... your 1st post on an "astrology forum" and you even know how to tag people. 🤨 Something's off about you... 🤔
And quote lol Usually they don't figure that out right away either lol
I'm surprised there wasn't a "Please don't judge my writing, English is not my first language" 😆click to expand




Posted by LadyNeptune
Stimulate her clit with your fingers lips and tongue. That’s it. That’s how she gets off. Penetration is fun but if the angle sucks or she isn’t turned on enough then no O. Doesn’t matter if the dick is massive or small, same result.
The G spot is a myth. When the clit becomes inflamed/engorged the peen can rub against the internal wings of the clit through the walls of the vagina during intercourse and result in her orgasm. But you can replicate this successfully, I’d argue more successfully, with direct stimulation with toys, tongue, or fingers. Order a pocket vibe ASAP.
Thank you for cumming to my Ted talk.

Posted by candyapplegrey
I get why people think this is fake and nothing I am go to say or do is going to prove them wrong otherwise.
I know im not fake, looking at the large scar on my right arm, the scar on the left side of my belly button, the scars on both my legs. The rods in my legs that feel like I am walking on stilts. Or the plate in my right arm which makes it feel robotic when moving it,
This is not something Im happily announcing to the world "Hey Im a cripple with a pencil dick that may not do the trick!" Its pretty embarrassing but since is a forum where no one knows who I am in person I dont mind asking for help.
As far as why I need help with oral, when I had an ex, I said it has been years since I dated my ex before my accident. Oral is intricate and Im not gonna remember every little nook and cranny when its been years without doing it. Im watching those videos, which arent porn BTW but how to ones taught by female instructors so i can refresh my memory.
I had to relearn how to kiss properly by watching videos since it has been a long time. I guess I didnt completely suck at the kissing since she decided to go on another date with me. Its nice having physical affection again after a long time without it. Im trying not to get attached because i could get ditched at any moment. But its not easy to say the least.

Posted by borednbeautiful
Can you really learn how to kiss by watching videos? They didn’t have those when I needed to learn the most lol


Posted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptune
Stimulate her clit with your fingers lips and tongue. That’s it. That’s how she gets off. Penetration is fun but if the angle sucks or she isn’t turned on enough then no O. Doesn’t matter if the dick is massive or small, same result.
The G spot is a myth. When the clit becomes inflamed/engorged the peen can rub against the internal wings of the clit through the walls of the vagina during intercourse and result in her orgasm. But you can replicate this successfully, I’d argue more successfully, with direct stimulation with toys, tongue, or fingers. Order a pocket vibe ASAP.
Thank you for cumming to my Ted talk.
So Gem isn’t well endowed? Huh? 🤔click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptune
Stimulate her clit with your fingers lips and tongue. That’s it. That’s how she gets off. Penetration is fun but if the angle sucks or she isn’t turned on enough then no O. Doesn’t matter if the dick is massive or small, same result.
The G spot is a myth. When the clit becomes inflamed/engorged the peen can rub against the internal wings of the clit through the walls of the vagina during intercourse and result in her orgasm. But you can replicate this successfully, I’d argue more successfully, with direct stimulation with toys, tongue, or fingers. Order a pocket vibe ASAP.
Thank you for cumming to my Ted talk.
So Gem isn’t well endowed? Huh? 🤔
Well endowed lol what a phrase
Not as good as flagpole.click to expand


Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by GemiMayPosted by LadyNeptune
Stimulate her clit with your fingers lips and tongue. That’s it. That’s how she gets off. Penetration is fun but if the angle sucks or she isn’t turned on enough then no O. Doesn’t matter if the dick is massive or small, same result.
The G spot is a myth. When the clit becomes inflamed/engorged the peen can rub against the internal wings of the clit through the walls of the vagina during intercourse and result in her orgasm. But you can replicate this successfully, I’d argue more successfully, with direct stimulation with toys, tongue, or fingers. Order a pocket vibe ASAP.
Thank you for cumming to my Ted talk.
So Gem isn’t well endowed? Huh? 🤔
Well endowed lol what a phraseclick to expand

Posted by Gemalit
Honestly I’d not care to much? The size of the penis isn’t the be all end all yknow? However not all woman share that sentiment but I feel like for your sake you should tell her before. I know some woman who are really mean and I’d hate for you to go through that. Best to tell her whilst you’re not naked and so vulnerable yknow.
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Here's the actual issue - This is a long story but I will try my best to condense it as much as possible. Years ago, I got ran over by a car head on while walking across the street. I shattered an arm and both legs. They put plates and rods in my arms and legs but I got a serious infection. It got to the point where they were about to cut off both my arm and leg due to infection.
I got offered a new antibiotic medication (at the time) but it was combined antibiotic and steroid. They laid out the major side effects which were temporary loss of taste, as well as skin receding in the penile and testicular area. They said if I didnt do it they may be forced to amputate because the infection was really awful. I obviously took it but I did get the side effects which include some of my penis receding back into my skin. TRANSLATION - I lost a few inches on the flagpole so to speak.
My penis was barely average prior and now had been pretty much been put near micropenis territory. For a while I got depressed and gave up on dating since I figured no girl would give me a chance. Also the medication effected me having consistant erections meaning it takes a few minutes to get hard in between an orgasm. I thought dating was over for me until I got placed on a supplement oriented plan. (I realize this sounds like a damn ad, so apologies in advance)
The supplement plan is starting to pay off, they recommended me using DHEA to help the penis come out of the skin it receded back into. Anyway, I was only starting the program when I met this girl and we hit it off. My concern is having to having a discussion about my penis situation when we obviously arent serious yet. I entertained running a kink scenario by her first where she is blind folded and cuffed. And I have sex with her without her seeing my penis. (FYI I had to learn sex positions for when someone is smaller)
I figured if I can prove to her I can make her orgasm with my size, she would be open to future encounters. But I realize also, that may be a little out there too soon for a sex encounter. Im scared that if I explain my situation and how it is starting to, and eventually going to get better, she will think Im putting pressure for a relationship or that I see it that way too soon.
Should I run the kink scenario first with her and then if it its a no, have a "confessional" even though it may feel to her like Im taking her seriously too soon? I feel like Im stuck and I just dont know what to do at this point.