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I'm not exclusive with either.
I don't need to divulge what I'm doing when I'm not with them.
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
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I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
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Having a conversation about intentions is more like "I'm looking for a relationship" or "I just want to casually date"
I'm dating people in order to find a relationship.
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
I'm going to age myself but is this a new thing dating multiple people at once?
I found out this girl I started seeing was dating other people and I bailed.
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I would too
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
I'm going to age myself but is this a new thing dating multiple people at once?
I found out this girl I started seeing was dating other people and I bailed.
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I’m fairly new to dating. I find it to be the case. What I also come across is guys that are cheating. I can tell because they try to rush and have sex after a couple of dates.
I’ve come across 2 guys within this last month.
I would date just one person if they actually had time to see me. I’m finding guys want to see someone twice a month, practically. It’s annoying.
I think multiple dating is about finding a person your compatible with faster.
I have an open conversation from the beginning though.
Do people really only date one person at a time?
It's dating, why would you invest all your time into one stranger?
The whole idea is to get to know them better over time to see if it could work long time.
or am I doing it wrong
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
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I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
I think a decision should be made once sex with either party becomes more intimate
Yes! Exactly!
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
Having a conversation about intentions is more like "I'm looking for a relationship" or "I just want to casually date"
I'm dating people in order to find a relationship.
communication manages expectations.
what if one of these ppl yr dating gets attached & tells you?
then you say “oh im seeing other people”
and that person gets hurt?
a simple communication alleviates any potential for weird or hurt feelings. it puts you both on the same page.
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If a person starts to become attached and says "I want to see you exclusively" then I have to make a decision. I'll just stop dating the other person or I politely decline.
Making declarations about intent before the guy seems like trying to steer things in a specific direction prematurely.
why wouldnt you be honest from the start?
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Because you couldn’t choose right away...
DUH...?
I not sleeping with either.
If I were of course I would let them know
About 6 months usually was the case for me. No one assumed I was seeing them exclusively... the guys that were 10 years older than me knew better.
In some ways, I find it arrogant to assume some is only dating you.
I've always dated that way... since my teens. It gives excellent perspective.
When I met my husband, I had a f-buddy and a guy I had went on a (horrible) date with. When horrible date guy showed up I told him to scram, I got a man. He tried to argue. I told him to get out my yard, he (my husband) might drive by.
I called my f-buddy to say good-bye, I found "the one."
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I agree
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
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I'm not exclusive with either.
I don't need to divulge what I'm doing when I'm not with them.
then why feel dishonest if you dont need to divulge anything?
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I know right?
I love You!
And fuck them all before and after...
Never understood ‘undersided’
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
Having a conversation about intentions is more like "I'm looking for a relationship" or "I just want to casually date"
I'm dating people in order to find a relationship.
communication manages expectations.
what if one of these ppl yr dating gets attached & tells you?
then you say “oh im seeing other people”
and that person gets hurt?
a simple communication alleviates any potential for weird or hurt feelings. it puts you both on the same page.
If a person starts to become attached and says "I want to see you exclusively" then I have to make a decision. I'll just stop dating the other person or I politely decline.
Making declarations about intent before the guy seems like trying to steer things in a specific direction prematurely.
are you a cancer? or is it prominently in yr chart?
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haha,
why would you ask that?
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
Having a conversation about intentions is more like "I'm looking for a relationship" or "I just want to casually date"
I'm dating people in order to find a relationship.
communication manages expectations.
what if one of these ppl yr dating gets attached & tells you?
then you say “oh im seeing other people”
and that person gets hurt?
a simple communication alleviates any potential for weird or hurt feelings. it puts you both on the same page.
If a person starts to become attached and says "I want to see you exclusively" then I have to make a decision. I'll just stop dating the other person or I politely decline.
Making declarations about intent before the guy seems like trying to steer things in a specific direction prematurely.
are you a cancer? or is it prominently in yr chart?
haha,
why would you ask that?
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Because it’s...for whatever it worth...fucking ASTROLOGY site!
Oh! You didn’t know?
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
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A Scorpio and a Leo
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?
im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?
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Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.
She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.
At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.
I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.
About 6 months usually was the case for me. No one assumed I was seeing them exclusively... the guys that were 10 years older than me knew better.
In some ways, I find it arrogant to assume some is only dating you.
I've always dated that way... since my teens. It gives excellent perspective.
When I met my husband, I had a f-buddy and a guy I had went on a (horrible) date with. When horrible date guy showed up I told him to scram, I got a man. He tried to argue. I told him to get out my yard, he (my husband) might drive by.
I called my f-buddy to say good-bye, I found "the one."
It's stop you from getting carried away with expectations
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
A Scorpio and a Leo
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A Leo I would have no issues with. I think they are great.
About 6 months usually was the case for me. No one assumed I was seeing them exclusively... the guys that were 10 years older than me knew better.
In some ways, I find it arrogant to assume some is only dating you.
I've always dated that way... since my teens. It gives excellent perspective.
When I met my husband, I had a f-buddy and a guy I had went on a (horrible) date with. When horrible date guy showed up I told him to scram, I got a man. He tried to argue. I told him to get out my yard, he (my husband) might drive by.
I called my f-buddy to say good-bye, I found "the one."
It's stop you from getting carried away with expectations
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I'm not the expectations type. It helped me to compare and contrast, figure out what I like not just in theory but in real time. Also, it made me immune to "game."
I have a true love of all things romance. And, I am easily satisified and satiated with the experience of romance.
So should these guys be telling me if they are dating other people?
I don't care if they are. They don't really know me yet to want to date only me.
So should these guys be telling me if they are dating other people?
I don't care if they are. They don't really know me yet to want to date only me.
I let it flow. I'm 45. It worked all my life.... just letting it flow. But, I'm a creature of instincts...like an animal, lol.
Usually, they will say that they want to be with me exclusivy. Stating so is honorable to me and made me give it a try. Not all said that. So... boop-bye... to the rest.
So should these guys be telling me if they are dating other people?
I don't care if they are. They don't really know me yet to want to date only me.
why does communication have to = commitment— this makes zero sense.
and why are you evading my cancer question?
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I"m not evading, just delaying lol. Yes I'm a Cancer.
I'm not interested in "leading" the courtship with details no one has asked
So should these guys be telling me if they are dating other people?
I don't care if they are. They don't really know me yet to want to date only me.
why does communication have to = commitment— this makes zero sense.
and why are you evading my cancer question?
I"m not evading, just delaying lol. Yes I'm a Cancer.
I'm not interested in "leading" the courtship with details no one has asked
I don't openly communicate with people I hardl
🎯 i knew it. this is cancer communication style to a T
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Well there's an Aries with an Aqua Venus and a Sag that do it the same so you discovered nothing
there is a point when you have to talk about it, if you avoid the topic it becomes dishonest.
It's dishonest if you can't assume what you're doing
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?
im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?
Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.
She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.
At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.
I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.
you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.
i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.
OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?
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I love Scorpios. I just don’t love the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.
I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.
It will probably just end very bad.
And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in sight if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵
there is a point when you have to talk about it, if you avoid the topic it becomes dishonest.
It's only dishonest if you can't assume what you're doing
yes I see, avoiding would give it another meaning
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
I'm going to age myself but is this a new thing dating multiple people at once?
I found out this girl I started seeing was dating other people and I bailed.
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LOL right.....
slightly older millennials remember what it was like before dating apps
Do people really only date one person at a time?
It's dating, why would you invest all your time into one stranger?
The whole idea is to get to know them better over time to see if it could work long time.
or am I doing it wrong
Why are you feeling dishonest? Or are you feeling guilty youre gonna have to drop one?
Slow dating is what bothers some people. But then again you could be in a relationship just by liking someone then leaving
Nothing has to be a commitment if someone is not happy
Relationships are living things not set in stone you got to take care of them
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I don't feel dishonest. I'll have to make a decision soon
Yes, that makes me sad because I don't know yet
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
Having a conversation about intentions is more like "I'm looking for a relationship" or "I just want to casually date"
I'm dating people in order to find a relationship.
communication manages expectations.
what if one of these ppl yr dating gets attached & tells you?
then you say “oh im seeing other people”
and that person gets hurt?
a simple communication alleviates any potential for weird or hurt feelings. it puts you both on the same page.
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this happens all of the time...especially when there is sex involved!!
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?
im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?
Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.
She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.
At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.
I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.
you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.
i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.
OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?
I love Scorpios. I just don’t live the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.
I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.
It will probably just end very bad.
And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in site if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵
LOOOL exactly why its best to keep mum
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I was just driving a male cancer family member somewhere today and a girl call his phone and he said “I just sent you a text and now you’re calling, you’re bugging me” and he hung up on her lol.
I would’ve never thought in a million years he would do such a thing with how sweet and loving he is. Lol.
I would’ve died being a girl in that situation.
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?
im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?
Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.
She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.
At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.
I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.
you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.
i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.
OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?
I love Scorpios. I just don’t love the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.
I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.
It will probably just end very bad.
And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in sight if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵
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what are the rest of your placements?
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?
im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?
Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.
She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.
At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.
I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.
you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.
i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.
OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?
I love Scorpios. I just don’t live the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.
I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.
It will probably just end very bad.
And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in site if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵
i getchu 100% . not communicating from the get is a recipe for weird shit to happen later on.
if you communicate yr dating other ppl & the other ppl bounce afterward then that eliminates any potential for mixed signals, assumptions, etc.
communicating about what yr doing, when it comes to other ppl’s emotions, is being responsible, imo.
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I completely agree with you! It will probably end up pretty bad. Fixed signs don’t let go that easily so it’s bound to come out.
I had a Taurus come back around after a few months cause he got upset when we had conversations about dating. He told me he had a date that night and then I said “well tell me how it goes” - he got mad at that! Lol. Then called me months later asking why I never contacted him. I reminded him he was supposed to tell me how his date went, since he never messaged or called back, I assumed it went well 😬🤷♀️
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?
im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?
Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.
She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.
At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.
I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.
you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.
i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.
OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?
I love Scorpios. I just don’t live the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.
I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.
It will probably just end very bad.
And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in site if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵
LOOOL exactly why its best to keep mum
I was just driving a male cancer family member somewhere today and a girl call his phone and he said “I just sent you a text and now you’re calling, you’re bugging me” and he hung up on her lol.
I would’ve never thought in a million years he would do such a thing with how sweet and loving he is. Lol.
I would’ve died being a girl in that situation.
oh you don't KNOW us do you
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I only see the sweet side. Even with friends. I could never be rude to someone I’m dating like that. 😅
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?
im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?
Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.
She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.
At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.
I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.
you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.
i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.
OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?
I love Scorpios. I just don’t love the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.
I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.
It will probably just end very bad.
And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in sight if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵
what are the rest of your placements?
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Cancer Moon
Sag Mercury
Leo Mars
Scorpio Venus
Libra Rising.
Those are the biggies right? I’m water dominant.
I think a decision should be made once sex with either party becomes more intimate
I only slept with one guy at a time so this theory wouldn't have worked for me. I had an F-buddy to keep my numbers down.
Even with condoms, didn't want to be like that girl who accused Kobe of rape.... three -four different specimens in her draws, lol. And, no Maury, "you are Not the father."
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?
im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?
Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.
She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.
At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.
I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.
you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.
i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.
OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?
I love Scorpios. I just don’t live the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.
I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.
It will probably just end very bad.
And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in site if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵
LOOOL exactly why its best to keep mum
I was just driving a male cancer family member somewhere today and a girl call his phone and he said “I just sent you a text and now you’re calling, you’re bugging me” and he hung up on her lol.
I would’ve never thought in a million years he would do such a thing with how sweet and loving he is. Lol.
I would’ve died being a girl in that situation.
oh you don't KNOW us do you
I only see the sweet side. Even with friends. I could never be rude to someone I’m dating like that. 😅
idk about other cancers but I'm extremely rude
if I don't want to talk to you ill hang up
of course you'd have to be extremely close to me for that like family
so yeah id probably treat my boyfriend like that
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That would be the last time I ever called a guy. My worst fear is to bug someone and be annoying.
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?
im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?
Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.
She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.
At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.
I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.
you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.
i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.
OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?
I love Scorpios. I just don’t love the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.
I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.
It will probably just end very bad.
And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in sight if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵
what are the rest of your placements?
Cancer Moon
Sag Mercury
Leo Mars
Scorpio Venus
Libra Rising.
Those are the biggies right? I’m water dominant.
ohhh shit didnt realize you were libra rising!
🥰🥰🥰
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Are you too?
For some reason I go extremely well with Taurus rising. I don’t know why but I love that chemistry. I keep dating other libra risings though.
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?
im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?
Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.
She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.
At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.
I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.
you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.
i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.
OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?
I love Scorpios. I just don’t live the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.
I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.
It will probably just end very bad.
And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in site if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵
i getchu 100% . not communicating from the get is a recipe for weird shit to happen later on.
if you communicate yr dating other ppl & the other ppl bounce afterward then that eliminates any potential for mixed signals, assumptions, etc.
communicating about what yr doing, when it comes to other ppl’s emotions, is being responsible, imo.
I completely agree with you! It will probably end up pretty bad. Fixed signs don’t let go that easily so it’s bound to come out.
I had a Taurus come back around after a few months cause he got upset when we had conversations about dating. He told me he had a date that night and then I said “well tell me how it goes” - he got mad at that! Lol. Then called me months later asking why I never contacted him. I reminded him he was supposed to tell me how his date went, since he never messaged or called back, I assumed it went well 😬🤷♀️
lmaoooooooooo savage
im just at a point where i’d rather be emotionally responsible w/ other ppl than deal w/ the emotional mess of not communicating.
maybe im old & stupid but... seems to work for me.
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I swear I wish I was better at communicating. I don’t even know where to start or how to be better. It’s so much easier for me to back off and busy myself with life instead.
You can date as many people you want until your money run out...then you can ask them all for loan...unless you haven’t dated them already asked for loan...
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?
im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?
Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.
She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.
At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.
I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.
you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.
i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.
OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?
I love Scorpios. I just don’t live the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.
I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.
It will probably just end very bad.
And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in site if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵
i getchu 100% . not communicating from the get is a recipe for weird shit to happen later on.
if you communicate yr dating other ppl & the other ppl bounce afterward then that eliminates any potential for mixed signals, assumptions, etc.
communicating about what yr doing, when it comes to other ppl’s emotions, is being responsible, imo.
I completely agree with you! It will probably end up pretty bad. Fixed signs don’t let go that easily so it’s bound to come out.
I had a Taurus come back around after a few months cause he got upset when we had conversations about dating. He told me he had a date that night and then I said “well tell me how it goes” - he got mad at that! Lol. Then called me months later asking why I never contacted him. I reminded him he was supposed to tell me how his date went, since he never messaged or called back, I assumed it went well 😬🤷♀️
lmaoooooooooo savage
im just at a point where i’d rather be emotionally responsible w/ other ppl than deal w/ the emotional mess of not communicating.
maybe im old & stupid but... seems to work for me.
I swear I wish I was better at communicating. I don’t even know where to start or how to be better. It’s so much easier for me to back off and busy myself with life instead.
well, i am an over communicator & get aggressive w/ ppl who dont communicate back.
i will straight up have a text convo for 3 hours lmao
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You failing dude!
I’ve almost missed you and I’ve believed we are a match 🧟♀️
Do people really only date one person at a time?
It's dating, why would you invest all your time into one stranger?
The whole idea is to get to know them better over time to see if it could work long time.
or am I doing it wrong
Why are you feeling dishonest? Or are you feeling guilty youre gonna have to drop one?
Slow dating is what bothers some people. But then again you could be in a relationship just by liking someone then leaving
Nothing has to be a commitment if someone is not happy
Relationships are living things not set in stone you got to take care of them
I don't feel dishonest. I'll have to make a decision soon
Yes, that makes me sad because I don't know yet
Too bad youre not a gemini, then you could have both 😆
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I AM and I want to...did you said it’s called ‘report’?
Since when bitch?
why wouldnt you be honest from the start?
🤦🏻♀️
Have you been honest saying you need all the viagra in the state to just THINK of getting it up? 🧟♀️
Are you people that are dating multiple people at once still trying to find that "perfect match"?
LULZ
Like I stated, I did.
I even had an open relationship for three years with a Cancer who later proposed marriage.
Even when my husband and I were divorced went right back to multi-dating, or just dating cause that is what dating is. Otherwise, it's a relationship.
Then, you have the serial monogamists.... feel bad for them. Is that what you are?
I don’t think that’s dishonest. Dating means going out and meeting people. Unless you have an exclusive talk, then you should be assuming both parties are dating multiple people.
you know what assuming does right?
why not just say “im dating around” from the get?
no assumptions, no dishonesty, just pure communication.
I don’t think it matters at all or it’s even worth bringing up though, assuming isn’t a big deal in dating. Especially if they met online. That person wasn’t the only one they met.
I don’t understand this type of thing not being talked about from the start.
this is why i could never date you 🥺
its no big deal to just state that yr seeing other ppl. it same pages yall & no one assumes anything.
assuming makes an ASS out of U and ME.
I would never be able to date multiple people while dating a Scorpio. I’m aware. I actually don’t date Scorpios for that reason because they are so time consuming. I kind of don’t want another relationship with one either because I had such horrible emotional issues with the last one.
I might do it if I know I want to settle down again. But right now I like my freedom better. I like taking a while to decide and going slow.
... why are you all the sudden hating on scorps?
im just wondering why you cant communicate about dating other ppl?
Im not hating on Scorpios and I didn’t say that I can’t communicate with people I’m dating. I do tell everyone. Theres no reason to hide anything from anyone.
She was saying she felt guilty about dating multiple people and I said she shouldn’t whole there hasn’t been a talk about being exclusive.
At no point did I say pretend you aren’t dating anyone and don’t say anything.
I tell whoever I talk to what I’m doing. Most guys don’t care, which is why it’s even easier to do.
you did kinda randomly bring up scorps & how we are “time consuming”, whatever that means. regardless, it was a moot point.
i re read yr initial post & i agree w/ you, you agree w/ me.
OP should just be up front from the get cuz... why hide what yr doing?
I love Scorpios. I just don’t live the fighting. They are time consuming for me and only me. I’d have no issue being with one if they didn’t need to pick fights when everything was going good. It’s just too much of an emotional rolle coaster for me.
I would never lead someone on from the beginning though. That’s practically building blocks to a relationship, especially with 2 fixed signs.
It will probably just end very bad.
And I wouldn’t want to be anywhere in site if the choice wasn’t the Scorpio and he got played 🥵
i getchu 100% . not communicating from the get is a recipe for weird shit to happen later on.
if you communicate yr dating other ppl & the other ppl bounce afterward then that eliminates any potential for mixed signals, assumptions, etc.
communicating about what yr doing, when it comes to other ppl’s emotions, is being responsible, imo.
I completely agree with you! It will probably end up pretty bad. Fixed signs don’t let go that easily so it’s bound to come out.
I had a Taurus come back around after a few months cause he got upset when we had conversations about dating. He told me he had a date that night and then I said “well tell me how it goes” - he got mad at that! Lol. Then called me months later asking why I never contacted him. I reminded him he was supposed to tell me how his date went, since he never messaged or called back, I assumed it went well 😬🤷♀️
lmaoooooooooo savage
im just at a point where i’d rather be emotionally responsible w/ other ppl than deal w/ the emotional mess of not communicating.
maybe im old & stupid but... seems to work for me.
I swear I wish I was better at communicating. I don’t even know where to start or how to be better. It’s so much easier for me to back off and busy myself with life instead.
well, i am an over communicator & get aggressive w/ ppl who dont communicate back.
i will straight up have a text convo for 3 hours lmao
You failing dude!
I’ve almost missed you and I’ve believed we are a match 🧟♀️
i dunno what i am failing at
but do you wanna date me? i do like gemini energy 😈
but just fyi: i AM dating other ppl & talking to 4 others 😛😛
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Let’s DO it!
We can reduce all the weak energy and throw bitches off the cliff:.:
BTW
I want to watch orgies...
Is there any problems with that?
Are you people that are dating multiple people at once still trying to find that "perfect match"?
LULZ
Like I stated, I did.
I even had an open relationship for three years with a Cancer who later proposed marriage.
Even when my husband and I were divorced went right back to multi-dating, or just dating cause that is what dating is. Otherwise, it's a relationship.
Then, you have the serial monogamists.... feel ba
d for them. Is that what you are?
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Just hit me!
You full of shit!
Seriously...or you marrying cockhold...it’s not a good normal shit. Whatever...
Are you people that are dating multiple people at once still trying to find that "perfect match"?
LULZ
Like I stated, I did.
I even had an open relationship for three years with a Cancer who later proposed marriage.
Even when my husband and I were divorced went right back to multi-dating, or just dating cause that is what dating is. Otherwise, it's a relationship.
Then, you have the serial monogamists.... feel bad for them. Is that what you are?
Why do you feel bad for them?
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I asked my question first. Have to temper my answer to your question based on your response. Gotta practice good EQ.
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.....before it starts feeling dishonest?
And how do you decide if you like them both?