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Haha GeminiMind totally got pawned in this one. 😛
Way to go, lil fish. And good luck with your girl.

GM:This forum has allowed me to see myself...

Neptune, Is this a good thing, or a bad thing?

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Delusional. Typical.

Posted by sammuelhip
LMAO! Seriously, who's this GeminiMind dude? He is like the boss of Geminis who "thinks he knows it all" in level 10 of a video game lol

Well...if you are whta you describe yourself to be a true gemini, I can only say..I pity your friends, ex lovers, grandmother, wait you married? and your kids and wife for you being the gemini you are 😢
Please don't be the one bad apple that spoils the whole basket of gemini apples. 🙂

Nah, GeminiMind is cool. Honestly, it did come across as being manipulative to most of us who posted to you. Probably because we have all experienced someone trying to manipulate us. I'm sure you have too, right?

Here's my last piece of advice for you, just in case you really want it to work out with you and your Gemini lady. Think about the times you adore your girlfriend. What leads up to those days? Whatever those little things are you do that bring out the fun side of her, keep doing that. Then try and find a way to get her twin to come out and play in a different way....say the bedroom for instance. Our twins aren't evil, some of them are just a bit naughty...its all about finding the perfect outlet sometimes.

I see why. You state that it's all HER fault, without realizing that your emotional selfishness is working full force, nor have you admitted to any blame. Listen to yourself. You are full of butter, and she just started to recognize it, I hope. This is what Gemini's do when we peep a persons "Game". "Little Pisces" my ass. How many times have you cheated on her, little Pisces? You won't have to leave her, she's already gone, thus her "twin sister" has reared its warrior smash and grab head. Yup, when we see that emotional manipulation, self-centered, self-righteous, self-serving, emotional blackmailing bullbutter that Pisces (especially the dudes) pull, we turn cold and verbally abusive towards you. As it should be. No, you ruined it all for the both of you, based on how you view your situation, as you being the weak victim and now you're trying to setup your martyred exit. Maaaan, you may fool her, or some of the Gemini's here, but you don't fool me with your bullbutter, son. Swim away, before she breaks you, and if she won't, I will. How's that for an answer? The Gems on here don't usually bite, I always do.

You asked, I'm telling you the truth. How does that make you feel?

Betcha didn't expect that response, did ya?




LMAO i LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

some pisces caring is all a SHOW ...They will only do it when it serves them some sort of purpose......"Oh he/she's so sweet" As they try and steal your bf, your rug, your car anything.....insecurity lies deep which means they have to proove not only to themselves but everyone else "I AM WORTHY AND I DID IT" ..........try and play the guilt card......After all i have a pisces moon....... 😉 (NOT THE MATURE ONES)

Actally GM it's all good.After reading some opinions about Pisces,some things stood out.

Posted by sammuelhip
nats, I may need to clear this up a little bit.. I don't think I am trying to emotionally manipulate her in any way. In fact, I care for her emotional wellbeing which is why I will leave the matter till after her exams and I am seeking advice to reduce the impact if we ever break up. I decided I will have a good talk with her about our future after her exams.

I don't think this breaking up will threaten her to come back to me a changed and perfect woman to suit me. I am just hoping that both of us will clear our minds and decide if it's still worth our time staying together and walk the road ahead. I want to know what she thinks. If not, we have to decide and move separate ways, though I hope we can still be friends someday. How am I manipulating her emotionally...

If you care "so much" for her emotional wellbeing then you should get off this board, not worry if she's a gemini or not, go and TALK to your girlfriend and tell her that you love her, support her, will learn to get used to her "sister" as she has supported and had to learn to get along with your complicated personality (because no doubt about it, your NOT a simple person). Dont be so concerned about the impact if you break up. Trust me she's a gemini she'll get over it. Yes it will hurt but she'll find away to push her feelings aside/deal with them and move on while your still squirming around being hurt and feeling sorry for yourself.

If you want to break up with her so much just do it. Stop going around in circles. You either want to be with her and learn to deal with her different sides and accept and love them all OR u walk away and never look back. Its that simple and your turning it into something so big. See what I mean with the pisces drama. You drown yourself in a glass of water. If you cared so much like you try to make us believe u do then u wouldnt be considering breaking up with her, instead you would be thinking about ways to better your relationship.

Something i've realised about pisces that they're answer to EVERY relationship problem is "we should just break up". Seriously at first it works... but after a while it gets old.

Awwwwww dammit Norcalman, that was just about the sweetest thing I ever did read on DXP.

And I agree with you and Nats, just talk to you girlfriend without ultimatums. Great advice.

I can only speak for me...but when my ewil twin emerges and the other person critisize me for it or turn they back on me and treathens to leave because i act out i can say from that point on they have shown their true colours..

Sometimes i play around and take out the bad sides of me because when i invest time in people i need to know they cope with ALL of me... if you cant handle me at my worst then you sure as hell dont deserve me at my best

IF she really considered you to be worth while she would have never went home to her X...
I cant help to wonder..what have YOU done to get this behaviour out of her?

Again i cant speak for all gems..but often when i realize i am treated in a way i dont like..i often copy the person,they get exactly same shit they gave me,difference is that when i serve the shit back its worse shit and i truly meen it.The other person often does things to "test" me or to get reactions.

They just didnt realize that i where true until they started their fucking shit games on me.

I dont think you should be conserned about her and if she copes with a breakup,you should concentrate on yourself and be prepared for the shit she will serve you,since if you have done her wrong sometime before she has allready realized it long time ago..


If you want to stay with her..fight for her show her that you are there that you are true and loyal NO MATTER WHAT and you shall get the same back that is IF you havent made a fool of yourself allready,,if you have..be true about it and take responsibility..I think you might be that projecting type,you cant see your own faults,its not just 1 persons fault if a relationship is bad..its BOTH your faults..

If I were to be snappy and snarly and start hanging out around old flames again, it would be because I wasn't getting something fundamental I need from my relationship, despite telling my SO over and over exactly what I needed. Is there something she's been asking for that you are disregarding? Also, Pisceans have multiple personality disorder every bit as much as Gems. If she's dealing with yours, I'll bet you can find a way to deal with hers.