Any Gemini STALKERS??

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I'm currently being stalked/"closely watched". by a Gemini. HOW do I know?? well He told ON himself by writing a status on a social network: "love handles,are out of control!"..and while I know I HAVE gained some "winter weight" how would he know this, if I haven't SEEN him in 2 months?? Unless..HE has infact seen me. He is a harmless individual, so I don't feel in danger.. I just think its childish to lurk around instead of just contacting me.

Brief history: I met him in October, we talked alot on the phone,went out a few times, he would pick me up, we'd go to the Movies, dinner..etc. We even rang in the New Year together. (Nooo sexual activity whatsoever the whole time) Then not long after, I noticed he would seem detached, not as intensely focused as he once was. His usual "Good Morning" texts were getting dry and less creative. So I sensed that there was some sort of "Interference"..so I pulled back a little. No calls, no texts. He of course noticed the distancing, and HE addressed it and admitted that his Ex GF was still contacting him. SO, I told him that I was giving him the time and SPACE from me, to sort out all his past & present issues,He didn't want that, but I just wasn't going to sit in the middle to "wait it out" and/or act oblivious to what's REALLY going on (flip-flopping between 2 women.)..So I told him "Look, apparently you still have some healing to do, or a chapter to end..call me when you're ready to start a NEW & final one." ..then I went back into no contact, no calls or texts. After a WHOLE month later, He did call, but I was a bit icy, it threw him off. (What was he expecting, a Mother Teresa welcome??) Not from me. We gotta get re-acquainted first..he didn't take that too well..ego-bruised much? haha..

SO he clearly didn't take the "cut off" well.. but he has to realize that not ALL women will fall for his simple charms and/or sit and tolerate his juggling women. I am certainly NOT the one. So its evident, he's been lurking lately to see WHY I'm not "on his jock" like the other women who's attention he easily captures.


Here's his chart:

Rising: Leo (23deg)
Sun: GEMINI (04deg)
Moon: Sagittarius (29deg)
Mercury: Gemini (07deg)
Venus: Cancer (04deg)
Mars: Capricorn (21deg)
Jupiter: Pisces (19deg)
Saturn: Sagittarius (6deg)
Uranus: Sagittarius (21deg)
Neptune: Capricorn (5deg)
Pluto: Scorpio (05deg)
N. Node: Aries (29deg)


What's your take on this??



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Anearthlygemini,
Wooow, this is what amazes me with astrology. You are absolutely right. He definitely does have a VERY BEAUTIFUL mind. Our conversations could be SO mentally stimulating & interesting, we would talk for hours almost everynight. He speaks 4 languages and I speak 2 and I'm intermediate in French & Spanish. He is also well travelled. While yes,-I admit- I was initially attracted to his intelligence, intense smouldering soul gazing stares, and sweet seranades.(To which I reciprocated, with seranades of my own,which he LOVED.) I just could't stand the confusion that would manifest through his emotions when it came to getting rid of his ex. He just couldn't seem to SHAKE her. Which I found to be SOOO annoying. WHY hold onto or keep reviving & reliving memories of a DEAD relationship with someone who HURT him?? I considered him emotionally weak and it turned me off. I DESPiiisE weakness. His weakness stopped the possible growth of what could have worked between us. From the beginning he said that I was a strong & an intimidating woman. (Rightly so.) I can try to be compassionate, if his emotions and devotion were directed towards ME & only me. COMPLETE focus and devotion isn't too much to ask for right?? 😉

But Speaking of Capricorns..I AM presently interested in one. 2 Exes of mine were CAPS, but their drive doesn't match THIS new one.😄 I posted a thread in the Capricorn section ("Taurus Falling for a Workaholic")..sigh. God help me.

:Here is his chart:
Rising: Aries
Sun: Capricorn
Moon: Leo
Mercury: Sagittarius
Venus: Capricorn
Mars: Scorpio
Jupiter: Aquarius
Saturn: Sagittarius
Uranus: Sagittarius
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio
N.Node: Taurus
Juno: Scorpio

How do our charts fair?
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Posted by AA
LOL! So casual.

"Are you being stalked?"

...

"I'm Currently being stalked"



..yes.. I've quickly gotten over the "Shock factor" and accepted the fact my Gemini Admirer has been lurking around my side of town. There was a VERY dark tinted car parked (but still running) on my street a few days ago. He can't help but to do so because I've been paying him NO mind at all. He's used to getting ALOT of female attention. and I'm that ONE, that's not giving him a slither of a care. I guess its driving him a little over the edge. *shrugs*..oh well.
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Posted by anearthygemini
Cont...—From the beginning he said that I was a strong & an intimidating woman. (Rightly so.) I can try to be compassionate, if his emotions and devotion were directed towards ME & only me. COMPLETE focus and devotion isn't too much to ask for right—?

You have Venus in Aries. This is the first sign of the Zodiac and Venus here likes to come first, and be the only one! The emotions are passionate, strong, on target and aggressive (Aries is ruled by Mars). The Ram has got to Ram things along. Venus in Aries can be pushy (ramming) and their patience for games is non-existent, unless they are actively participating or competing.For Venus in Aries, there simply isn't any patience available to expend on anyone who plays games with them and can—t make up their minds. Venus in Aries experiences things suddenly, enthusiastically and with vigor. Whimps need not apply. Their love is strong, ardent, consuming, competitive and all embracing. Combined with a Taurus Sun, Venus in Aries wants total devotion, passionate love and acceptance, and is willing to give the same to their partner. They always run the risk of consuming their partner in a ball of passionate flames! They are also the indisputable winners of the —Least Likely to Control Oneself Award?? when their passions are stirred.


YES!! THIS is by far, the BEST description of my NO-NONSENSE approach in relationships. When I know what I want, THAT's all I want, NOTHING else, NO games..just DELIVER to me, and I'll reciprocate X 10. I DO Love with EVERY single FIBER of my being. IF it were possible, I'd pour out every drop of love that is IN me onto my mate so that I can demonstrate my love even further than my actions. Yes.."Least likely to control myself"..lol but I've learned to hide or at least manage my compulsiveness better, at least in the beginning. 😛
Posted by anearthygemini
Your Mutual Receptions are Venus in Aries and Mars in Libra, and also Sun in Taurus and Moon in Scorpio. These dynamics can place you in a constant spin regarding issues of relationship needs and balancing them with your ardent desires. Toss in the habit forming tendency of Sun in Taurus, and you may find relationship dynamics being a lifelong issue.
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Yes! my sun, tries to stop my aries impulsiveness. CONSTANT interna
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tant internal battle for me. Aries passion vs. Taurus Sun/Moon Scorpio- always needs to slooowly ponder, process and dissect everything. When my Venus Aries just wants to dive in HEAD first. "RAM"..lol
Posted by anearthygemini
CG needs to let go, and he will eventually, when his Venus in Cancer is ready to do so. You need commitment and ardent expression (Moon in Scorpio and Venus in Aries). The key here is patience and how you choose to use it. There is a clear timing issue here, since he is slower to trust and let go, and you are more ardent and aggressive. So, if a relationship did develop this would be a huge issue that would need to be resolved.

I'd rather let him go lick his wounds, I can't baby a grown man. He can return when his TOUGH skin has formed over it.(if Handsome & Mysteriously magnetic CAPPY hasn't snatched me up & away by then.)
In fact, you will probably encounter this with Mr. Capricorn too, since he has a fair share of Capricorn energy, and Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, who is father-time himself. These men live in their own time warp. Mr. Cap has an interesting chart, and I can see why you??re attracted to him. I didn't get to read the Capricorn thread, but I??ll share some insights on him anyway in a little while??_
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Yup it DEFINITELY is a timing issue. And you are dead ON about CAP being in their own time warp..ugh!! its terrible. Its been 2 weeks since I've last contacted him on 3/3/12, I left the ball in his court to contact me, and I haven't heard from him YET. (I'm not going to chase)...Here is the link for the THREAD for My CAP:

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/TAURUS-Falling-for-a-WORKAHOLIC-Capricorn!-3110539.asp</strong>

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Posted by anearthygemini
For now the my watery Gemini son is having a heck of a time with his emotions. He has Mercury/Venus conjunct in Cancer. He's been really going through it lately and I spent the better half of the morning sharing cuddle time with him, and soothing his nerves. He cried for like an hour, and just needed a lot of hugs, comfort and kisses. I just placed him in the care of his beloved Bubble Guppies and Team Umizoomi buddies for now. His feelings are considerably affect by his mind. He's also a real tender, sweet and very creative soul. I??ll be back??_

Aww...enjoy your day with the little one. So Cute! I think this is where ALL my tender hearted compassion lies (with Children) They melt me to the core.

But grown men that sulk..YUCK. I just can't and won't tend to their wounds that haven't been inflicted by me. If I had to tend to mine. He can do the same. He's got to Suck it up..and walk it off.

Looking forward to reading about Mr. Cappy.. 😄
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Oh yes..I've pretty much figured that I'd have to literally muffle my Aries at times with him. Because he's definitely the "I am MAN leader, you are Woman, FOLLOW me" vibe going on, yet he's a VERY sensitive being. He likes my wit, calls it "spicy" but said I can come off harsh with my sarcastic jokes. (in my defense,its really just playful Gemini/Scorpionic banter..c'mon!). After apologizing over the phone that day to him, we went out later, then as he was bringing me home, he brought up my little joke" right before dropping me off, I looked at him and said: "Wooow, let me find out you sure can hold a grudge for even the SMALLEST thing??" he was quiet..so before I got out the car, I wrapped my arms around him and kissed him and said in his ear: "that I was sincerely sorry, and I'll be more mindful, next time." (when I REEALLY wanted to say.."Next time I'll treat your overly sensitive heiny with KID glove care..ok?")...lol

But you're definitely right about him taking revenge, CAP told me a story about him getting back at his neighbor for not helping him get a jump to his car one winter morning. When the Cap would ALWAYS give his neighbor's elderly mother a ride to the corner busstop whenever he'd see her on foot. (He has a kind heart for children and the Elderly, and he alo works with the Mentally disabled.)..SO.. after several mornings of "voluntary drop-offs", his car gave out on him, he never once asked his neighbor for anything,& thought, since he's been so thoughtful about his neighbors mom, that he could get a simple jump. The neighbor dissmisively said "No man,I can't help you. Sorry."

Later on that night..Mr. Cappy slashed ALL 4 tires of his neighbor. And when his neighbor came out the next morning to discover the state of his car. Cap came out of his house, stood next to his neighbor to look over at his crafty work, but acted obliviously "shocked" to "sympathize" with his neighbor while telling him, "aww man, you must have done some fkked up sh*t to someone, and they were out to GET you."

He looked at me & said: "NOW, he'll learn to help others,that has been helping all along." My scorpio moon got SOO turned on by that..it got SO hot at that moment, I had to open a car window! I looked at him in amazement and wonder!

And you're right he is indeed hot. The very few moments I spent with him, there's always this magnetic charge or "pull" between us, time feels like it slowwwws down. MMM intense.

We'll see how things go. THANKS AEG!!