I just started in a new job 2 weeks ago. I am currently working for an aquarian. He used to work with my aquarian boyfriend. The thing is.... Its been pretty weird lately. He seemed to open up a lot about him being single, finding the right woman etc. he will ask me things... Well not exactly ask me things but in a conversation when i tell him my opinion, he would always say thats exactly what he is looking for in a woman or a wife. It happened several times in a span of two weeks. Apart from that he gives me full attention at work and helps me a lot. Last night we went clubbing with other people in the office and he started sharing a cigarette with me. Later on, a drink. Like he literally told me to drink his drink and asked me if im ok to share his cigarette. I did. For some reason, I am kind of feeling like he is interested or curious about me. I dont know why. He just gives me that impression. He is an aquarian and i attract aquarians like crazy. Aside from my boyfriend, my bestfriend is an aquarian and my best ex-boss was an aquarian too. How do I respond to my boss now when he is being like that? Also do you think I'm just reading too much into things or should I start pulling myself away? I am in a committed relationship with another aquarian right now and im confused...
Aquarius Boss

My Leo boss is going through a separation and confides in me way too much. I suppose it could be seen as a little inappropriate, however on my end I keep things VERY professional.
I do not go out to get drinks with him or dinner, and I certainly do not go clubbing with him. I would never share drinks or smokes or anything that has touched his lips. I prefer to keep the relationship strictly business.
You need to establish your boundaries with him. Right now everything you view as a red flag, you've encouraged.
I do not go out to get drinks with him or dinner, and I certainly do not go clubbing with him. I would never share drinks or smokes or anything that has touched his lips. I prefer to keep the relationship strictly business.
You need to establish your boundaries with him. Right now everything you view as a red flag, you've encouraged.

Posted by PureGem23Zero confusion there IMO lol ๐
... I am in a committed relationship with another aquarian right now ...
Just focus on this part of what you wrote, and maybeh shut down everything else.
You can't lose your job just because you don't want to share a cigarette or a drink with your Boss.
So I'd bring that to a halt asap ๐
That means the entire situation becomes a non-issue, if you want it to be ~shrug~
I went last night because it was suppose to be a team thing but turned out all women in my team bailed out so had to go with him because i already said yes and there were 2 other guys. Its true though. I think i just need to start pulling away a bit. It was the first time i encountered an aquarian to come off this strong towards me. I dont know my moon by i was born may 23rd 88 at 6:05pm. Can anyone tell my my moon or anything additional about my charts?
I forgot to mention... He even asked me last night how my exes look like. He showed me a photo of his ex. I showed him a photo of mine. Then i said i like bad boy type of guys (considering i showed him a photo of my ex and he has earrings and tattoos, shaved head... ) and he said to me that he only looks nice but he is a bad boy deep inside. Like his attitude is a bad boy. :/
Posted by InstantkarmaThat is true. I just talked about that with a friend the other day. Sometimes I dont know how to act around the opposite sex because of it. He knows that I have a boyfriend they weren't friends but they were colleagues at 2 companies before this. :/
I have realised we Geminis, because of our friendliness, life style , personality and the need to connect with people we get our lines blurred by mistake. But once we realise it, we can be very straightforward and correct it before it is too late.
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