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Posted by annabella
I just tell gem boys what to do, and they listen 🙂 hehe muahaha
so you like taking advantage of our feelings ehh? to be honest i dont think they would hold you accountable for it.
Posted by DoubleGem2
^^^^But I see u are growing weary😕ahahaha maybe...i can only help so much tho and like you said im still young, i do hope for the best between them tho.
Tupac was a Gem I heard? Anna is only playin with u....Aqua's cant be bitches, no matter how hard they try.....
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no doubt just check out his charm
alright ill take your word for it.
Posted by DoubleGem2
^^^^But I see u are growing weary😕ahahaha maybe...i can only help so much tho and like you said im still young, i do hope for the best between them tho.
Tupac was a Gem I heard? Anna is only playin with u....Aqua's cant be bitches, no matter how hard they try.....
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That's true.
Is it me, or do all Gems have the same eyes and forehead? :\
guys stop spamming -_- i never seen her bf and probably never will, because i dont care, and okay ill just keep doing my thing, and ill let her know that im interested, thanks for now ill keep u posted, AND STOP SPAMMING LOL!
alright, best of luck mano.
Posted by DoubleGem2
^^^^We cant....we just wanna be close to you KOA🙂
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lol uhhhhhhhhh
Lionel Richie is a Gemini by the way!
Posted by annabella
I just tell gem boys what to do, and they listen 🙂 hehe muahahaso you like taking advantage of our feelings ehh? to be honest i dont think they would hold you accountable for it.
No and they don't. Gem guy are soothed by my calming nature.. I can set them at ease with little effort. I have A LOT of gem guy friends.
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Guys in general are soothed by your pretty face. Calming nature my ass! Stop frontin!
i dont care ugh maybe u shall think about me and me only here!
Posted by annabella
I just tell gem boys what to do, and they listen 🙂 hehe muahahaso you like taking advantage of our feelings ehh? to be honest i dont think they would hold you accountable for it.
No and they don't. Gem guy are soothed by my calming nature.. I can set them at ease with little effort. I have A LOT of gem guy friends.
Guys in general are soothed by your pretty face. Calming nature my ass! Stop frontin!
haha well thanks.. I can surprise them by being too serious, too smart or downright cold. But I prefer peaceful settings and to relax more than anything. Comfort comes first for me and who I'm with.
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So it's in your destiny to be with a Gemini at some point in your life? I mean, a developed Gemini.
Posted by annabella
I just tell gem boys what to do, and they listen 🙂 hehe muahahaso you like taking advantage of our feelings ehh? to be honest i dont think they would hold you accountable for it.
No and they don't. Gem guy are soothed by my calming nature.. I can set them at ease with little effort. I have A LOT of gem guy friends.
Guys in general are soothed by your pretty face. Calming nature my ass! Stop frontin!
haha well thanks.. I can surprise them by being too serious, too smart or downright cold. But I prefer peaceful settings and to relax more than anything. Comfort comes first for me and who I'm with.
So it's in your destiny to be with a Gemini at some point in your life? I mean, a developed Gemini.
Well I dated a Gemini guy.. he was a pilot.. It was great.. He would fly me to where ever he was and I would spend holidays with him while he was on the road and we'd do something fun, and random to celebrate. But it didnt end up working out. We were younger though, about 23. I dont know, I dont like too much uncertainty in anything and I feel like Gems leave alot of pieces for other to pick up after.
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That goes back to the undeveloped part, I think. But you're right, Aquaris women can be like this too. My daughter is one, and I think it's an Air thing. For people who need their definition of structure, it can pose a problem. :\
@Annabella,
I think that most of the Female Air signs do. But, at some point they usually figure out that it's all just a false sense of security. All you have to do is watch Air signs and Water signs together. The Air sign usually lowers themselves to where they aren't themselves. Just my observation. For me, the key has always been to create my own doors, see if that works. So far so good.
Posted by DoubleGem2
Yes..very true....not with Cancers though..the only water sign that embraces Gemini's for who we are. They have the ability to see the big picture...
To a point. Their emotion is still the emotion of water though, fear.
fuk now this got very annoyimg, stop spammin here who the fuk asked yoy about fuking water signs i hate all water signs with big passion, please dont even fuking remind me of those pricks i can freaking smwll them a mile away, nastiest people ever, also stop quoting that much ts annoying quote tje word u wanna quote not the whole board! andcreate your own fuking thread and talk about your hsit there im not interested in what gem and cancer and libra males are like! now i fuking have to make a new thread because you spammed it again
and the asshole stop fallowimg me around and posting on my posts no one cares about hat your pathetic little mind has to say
Posted by KingOfAries
fuk now this got very annoyimg, stop spammin here who the fuk asked yoy about fuking water signs i hate all water signs with big passion, please dont even fuking remind me of those pricks i can freaking smwll them a mile away, nastiest people ever, also stop quoting that much ts annoying quote tje word u wanna quote not the whole board! andcreate your own fuking thread and talk about your hsit there im not interested in what gem and cancer and libra males are like! now i fuking have to make a new thread because you spammed it againand the asshole stop fallowimg me around and posting on my posts no one cares about hat your pathetic little mind has to say
Again, are you drunk?
im justt a failure and i had vodka with redublll idfc
Posted by KingOfAries
im justt a failure and i had vodka with redublll idfc
There's your problem right there. *wtf* Why are you putting that junk in your system? Where the hell are your parents? I mean, seriously. Don't you have anyone that you look up to? A man? A mentor? Anything? You are lost dude. Don't you see that? Who the fuck would want you the way that you hang? Who? Wake the fuck up and grow the fuck up dude, really. You just made your whole thread bullshit because you're an idiot. I mean, what woman would want a man that drinks redbull and vodka saying that they don't fucking care? Certainly not a Gemini woman, nor any real woman for that matter. Get your mind right dude, you're pathetic. People here are just appeasing your ass. At the end of the day, we'd all be telling this female that you're obsessed and to get the hell away from you cuz your ass is on some bullshit. For that, you are a failure. But, it's your choice. Nobody put a gun to your head and said be stupid. Fuck sake.
lmao relax you all, the only reason i drank it was because my geminie told me to try it so i did and we were both laughing our asses off through texts till like 2am she had just redbull without vodka, i wanted to try vodka, i dont even drink so stop lecturing me that i dont have a mentor or anyone look up to, yeah i dond only because they are not good enough to be looked up to, my parents trust me and my judgement completely because they probably have a reason to, thats why i live separately and etc, im sorry for being rude last night i was just pissed about big ass quotes, but i really am grateful for all advise you give me guys i read and consume everything, keep up good work ill let u kknow what happened today but i gotta run now i got psychology final
ANNABELLABABY, i cant see the video for some reason says privacy settings wont allow me to, i hink i should add u on fb before i watch ur evil laugh xD or whatever it is :3
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I mean thomas, are u having fun following me around forum and trying to make me look bad in every topic? if u wanna be an aries so bad then just get a girl pregnant in the end of summer and theres a good chance a son will come out of your penis and become an aries, and then live your life through his life - thats what mentally unstable parents do, and leave me alone already, you just look more and more pathetic and desperate for attention.
ANYWAY, my bi@ass thread, today i was busy all day long i was sitting studying in the library in a quiet place people dont know about just so i concentrate and study, i get a text from my geminie about that its a nice weather that she passed all her finals that everything is awesome, and she asked me where i was, i told her, she was at starbucks at the moment and she asked me where i was exactly and she came over to me!😛 she sat we talked about school crap and she really wanted to go on the sun so she left and we kept texting each other, then i got intrigued and i asked her who she was with, she said "my imaginery friend lol" i said "hahah" "is grass wet?" and she says "im not on the grass im on the steps *to one of our college buildings*" and in that bulding they teach all sorts of useless crap like english literature , the only people who hang there are surority and greeks and all those losers, so i said "oh the smart ppl building" with sarcasm obviously lol, and she said "go study txt u later lol" and i said lol okay🙂 gosh wish she bosses me around its so hot lol.. then later she texxted me again and again and were texting each other now even tho she has no exams and could be sleeping
oh guys we started talking about psychology ans she saiod she will haven intern as psychologist, so i told her "uh im only able to really listen to people who i care about lol, but professionally idk if i could do it, id be the coldest mentor ever"
and she answers "lmao seriously"
and then i said something to regret i guess, "yeah i just cant listen to peoples problems i literally dont care unless a person is my friend or something, and the cool thing is those who shared with me they felt better and happier, its weird, because i only told them mean things or screamed sense into them lol"
then she replied "Lol" and hasnt replied since, and i asked her a question, and still no reply ;(
but dont you think it would be a little weird if i apologized to her for kind of nothing? ill just go with "you know what i mean" thing.. and she texted me an hour later when i was sleeping "Huh? Lol" to my question, so that could me an opportunity to say something back lol, cause the question was pretty random, and i wanted her opinion on it
I wouldn't say English Lit is crap tbh.
I'm a Gem who has as much of a love of texting as the next person, but I can't figure out why so many folks on this board think texting is a relationship. I text when I want to say something quickly and don't have enough inclination to go into a full-on interaction. Texting will always leave you wondering what someone meant! You can't see a facial expression, feel the energy being put out, hear the inflection of the voice, read the body language. If someone wants to be with you, they'll show up! Or at least call! Or am I just "soooo last century"?
I feel real sympathy for anyone trying to figure out a Gem girl. You're never going to know what she's going to do. She doesn't even know what she's going to do. And what she did yesterday -or last hour- might be reversed by whatever personality she's using at the moment. You have no idea if you're being let in to her inner circle, if you're on the outer rings, or if you're just an amusement. And she's not going to tell you. There's no way of planning what to say or do- that would mean that you've figured out her mind. If you have, they need to hand you a psychology PhD on the spot. All you can do is be yourself, not trick or plan your way in. Despite what some people have implied on here, Gems are very picky- they'll befriend anyone, but are choosy about love relationships.
I do want to say something about the tone you're using when you say "she's mine" or call her "my Gemini". Be careful that that attitude isn't coming across to her. It doesn't even matter if you get her to the altar- she's not yours. A Gem belongs to herself and stays with someone because she chooses it daily. A Gem can take great pleasure in proving to you that you don't own her, and that's not what you want.
you done good man. i wouldnt spend time worrying about what you said youl should just keep moving forward. i mean damn the only time i actually txt people and seek them out is with my really good gemini female friends that i love so i think you're in the right.
Posted by Whimsy
I'm a Gem who has as much of a love of texting as the next person, but I can't figure out why so many folks on this board think texting is a relationship. I text when I want to say something quickly and don't have enough inclination to go into a full-on interaction. Texting will always leave you wondering what someone meant! You can't see a facial expression, feel the energy being put out, hear the inflection of the voice, read the body language. If someone wants to be with you, they'll show up! Or at least call! Or am I just "soooo last century"?I feel real sympathy for anyone trying to figure out a Gem girl. You're never going to know what she's going to do. She doesn't even know what she's going to do. And what she did yesterday -or last hour- might be reversed by whatever personality she's using at the moment. You have no idea if you're being let in to her inner circle, if you're on the outer rings, or if you're just an amusement. And she's not going to tell you. There's no way of planning what to say or do- that would mean that you've figured out her mind. If you have, they need to hand you a psychology PhD on the spot. All you can do is be yourself, not trick or plan your way in. Despite what some people have implied on here, Gems are very picky- they'll befriend anyone, but are choosy about love relationships.
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haha this is very true, this is what i was talking about when i said planning what to say in advance, cuz things just dont go right and its better to just act cool in the moment.
lol Whimsy, she doesnt text me to tell me something quickly, we have conversations, and if u read carefully she actually came to see me while i was studying, and i feel sympathy for you because you are so pessimistic just wow.. I might have not figured out her mind, not that i would want or need that, but im a pretty good judge of an insight, and can see whats going on even through texts i can somewhat feel emotions, she doesnt show them but it doesnt mean i cant see them when shes around.. and i dont think she is texting all 200 people at the same time to tell that she got an A+ in her class being all happy.. and yes she is my geminie and bodody elses, i know what im talking about so dont teach me life, im not dumb enough to come up to her and tell her that, nor show it in any way, i only share it with people on this forum.
thanks westside, i just started acting more like me
Darlin, I'm not attacking you. I'm rooting for you. I'm actually trying to help...because you asked about Gem females and I am one. You don't have to take my advice and can get defensive, but don't disparage me for trying, please. If you had it all together, you wouldn't be here, would you?
I feel real sympathy for anyone trying to figure out a Gem girl. You're never going to know what she's going to do. She doesn't even know what she's going to do. And what she did yesterday -or last hour- might be reversed by whatever personality she's using at the moment. You have no idea if you're being let in to her inner circle, if you're on the outer rings, or if you're just an amusement. And she's not going to tell you. There's no way of planning what to say or do- that would mean that you've figured out her mind. If you have, they need to hand you a psychology PhD on the spot. All you can do is be yourself, not trick or plan your way in. Despite what some people have implied on here, Gems are very picky- they'll befriend anyone, but are choosy about love relationships.
I do want to say something about the tone you're using when you say "she's mine" or call her "my Gemini". Be careful that that attitude isn't coming across to her. It doesn't even matter if you get her to the altar- she's not yours. A Gem belongs to herself and stays with someone because she chooses it daily. A Gem can take great pleasure in proving to you that you don't own her, and that's not what you want.
This is dead on Whimsy. Every relationship I have had went through my partner having to grasp that. Some didn't and it ended quickly. Most of the ones that did grasp that tried to change me, which was the equivalent of trying to put me in chains. When that failed, instead of embracing my free spirit, most of them were afraid of it. The few that made it past that point got so comfortable that they forgot until they woke up one morning and I was gone.
BUT IM NOT trying to figure her out—? i act according to moment, you probably are under impression that i write on a piece of paper what i have to say and read it infront of her - noo?! everyhting is cool guys, im into her and the reason i say shes mine is because thats whats gonna happen, im not gonna try to marry her and keep her on a leash, i will respect her freedom, but a cuddle or a kiss attack wont kill her once in a while... wimsy thank you i really took that to considerations, i just quickly analized my grandma and it matches, so ill keep it in mind, and i hope she chooses me over her bf one day... but if it wont work then it wont, i wont die from that, ill show her more interest by asking her abt her bf, and then will fukc off for good until she starts freaking out and looking for me, i just actually realized i had a gemini ex gf lmao, we broke up because we had to because she had to move to a different city in nyc and we didnt see each other as often, she got a bf secretly, andwhen i got the news from someone that shes been with the guy for 6 months i quickly ended our long distance.. she was crying didnt want to let me go, but it ended badly, basically told her very very directly to leave me alone, and she did, but i started texting her now i wanna ask questions what she liked abt me, we were together for 2 years, oh and by the way i just texted my gem and asked how long they been together she said 4 years... so i got no chance, its probably all over
damn man...thats devastating...4 years..i envy that committment with someone, but relationships do end. well i think you should make the best out of your friendship with her cuz she definately sees you as a good friend. and if you want to continue the chase i would be all for it mano.
Exactly, you can not control a Gem. We will conform (for a while) BUT, if we can not be ourselves the relationship will not work. Making (forcing) me to change,...will not fly. As a matter of fact, I will fly-away.
Most have not understood the need for that freedom to explore, experience. For if we are allowed to do so,...we will always come back to you and share our experiences.
And oddly enough, the one person that "Always" gave me that freedom w/o questioning, or asking anything in return is the one I married.The reason we work together is because we do not force the other to conform. We allow each other the freedom to be ourselves. That freedom gives us the space (comfort) to conform to each other-you might say compromise. Or, as GD said, 'A Gem belongs to herself and stays with someone because she chooses it daily'. EXACTLY!!
We choose daily to be with the ones we love. Faithful to a fault-that's a GEM.
Seriously, sometimes I feel like I am the only person I know like this until I come here. Y'all make me feel not crazy lol! I am back with the Leo now (my daughters father) and he truly understands me. He can tell what kind of mood I am in just by seeing what music I am listening to. In fact this weekend as I was blasting Freebird on my iTunes he looks at me and says, "you need a break don't you?" I smiled and said yep. Later that afternoon he and I looked at hotels on a lake a few hours away and booked me a weekend ALONE to relax and just be still for awhile. No freak outs from him about him wanting to come too or thinking I am going to go out and meet someone else. He's confident and not stifling. He knows if I want to be with him, I will.
well i can see how a person of my interest feels by looking into their eyes, even geminies can't hide it, unless you are a psychopath ill know who you are by looking at you
You know what? You just never know. I've had a few 4-year relationships. You guys are both young, and odds are in your favor that she won't be with this guy forever.
Seriously, sometimes I feel like I am the only person I know like this until I come here. Y'all make me feel not crazy lol! I am back with the Leo now (my daughters father) and he truly understands me. He can tell what kind of mood I am in just by seeing what music I am listening to. In fact this weekend as I was blasting Freebird on my iTunes he looks at me and says, "you need a break don't you?" I smiled and said yep. Later that afternoon he and I looked at hotels on a lake a few hours away and booked me a weekend ALONE to relax and just be still for awhile. No freak outs from him about him wanting to come too or thinking I am going to go out and meet someone else. He's confident and not stifling. He knows if I want to be with him, I will.
Wow- what a caring thing to do!
your other thread sends me to a cannot load pg, might be me but if its not might want to remake.
Posted by westside
your other thread sends me to a cannot load pg, might be me but if its not might want to remake.
Same for me.
Wow- what a caring thing to do!
I know! He is a breath of fresh air. He may not verbalize a bunch of mushy stuff but his actions speak loud and clear. It works for me because I don't really like overly emotional men lol.
oh i know idk whats wrong ill repost it guys no worries
haters gon hate
thomas go finger urself
He doesn't want the girl ... he wants to relish in the drama of it.
Most children are that way .. no surprise, right?
P-Angel you have no idea what teh fukc youre talking about, the last time i checked children needed love and fun, if you wanted drama as a child you must have been growing up a pretty fukced up person.. which by the way justifies what you are right now, and im sorry to burst your bubble but i do actually want the girl she is amazing in all ways
Just a thought. Did her 'bf' comment that she texted you actually mean 'best friend'?? Has she actually mentioned her boyfriend to you directly in a conversation? (I've skimmed this post, so apologies if you've already covered this).
KingofAries...
Unfortunately how much you have to wait for her depends on how much you like her.
You live in NYC, do you even know what some guys would give to live there.
A confident man in NYC is a dangerous combination. Look whats out your window my man.
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KingofAries with all due respect, may I use your thread to get my pal some help...
Can any of you help my friend on "How-Not-to-Lead a Gemini Female on", who is coming onto him?
He would appreciate it.
Thanks.
Posted by wgamador2
KingofAries...
Unfortunately how much you have to wait for her depends on how much you like her.
You live in NYC, do you even know what some guys would give to live there.
A confident man in NYC is a dangerous combination. Look whats out your window my man.--------------------------------
KingofAries with all due respect, may I use your thread to get my pal some help...
Can any of you help my friend on "How-Not-to-Lead a Gemini Female on", who is coming onto him?
He would appreciate it.
Thanks.
Tell her straight up. "no." Simple.
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ahahaha maybe...i can only help so much tho and like you said im still young, i do hope for the best between them tho.