Aries Hatred Any Gemini? -warning girl rant-

I am happily in love with a Libra and have been for about a year now. His ex girlfriend was an Aries and she did some pretty nasty things to my Libra for the two years they were together. She cheated on him with men and women, hurt him emotionally with her absence, psychologically with her words,and physically with her nails and teeth. I understand why he didn't stick up for himself because he thought she would/could change and he didn't want to abandon something he had spent so much time, love, and money on... but he finally cut it off. I came into the picture months after his breakup and had broken up with an Aquarius who completely choked the life out of me. I fell head over heels for my Libra man. He asked me out and we haven't had a problem since... except for the reoccurring virus Aries-ex-girlfriend of his. He does not care in the least about her at all, but I do. I care because she still has his number and sends him texts every once in awhile that bash me. She tried to pull drama on facebook but he ignored her. When she gave up with that she began to lose weight (She was 200 pounds when she was dating him) and now she posts these profile pictures of her losing a considerable amount of weight. The biggest problem is I cannot just pretend she doesn't exist. Because she does and she hurt my Libra and I have to see her when I go to anime conventions. Although my Libra and I will have a couple outfits of pairings we like from shows, I will still be fuming until I can rub our togetherness in her stupid Aries face. My gosh... please help me... if anyone relates or can console me... I don't think the Aries has suffered nearly enough for what she did! My Libra couldn't care less about the Aries ex because he has me now which he considers an upgrade but I cannot be satisfied with her existing and missing him. She should sit in her puddle of shame and longing!

You can't do anything. It's your Libra that has to tell her to back off.
If he feels so bothered by her texts he should block her number or change his number.
Furthermore why is the woman still a friend on his facebook—?

I have a Libra ex that was treated terribly by an ex.
She cheated on him and I felt he held back due to him not wanting to waste his time nor get hurt.
Kept all the women he came in contact with as facebook friends. Many he was flirting with regularly.
If he can't stand up for himself, you and your relationship you have to think is he the type of man you want.

My husband has a female Aries friend who is his exroommate/past occasional bed buddy. She lives in another state, but makes regular trips through town, and used to always stay at our house and go out with us (fine with me). This womanchild bought my old car, told me she lost the tags, and was driving around for a year racking up tickets in my name. When I found out (because I was due in court halfway across the country) and confronted her, she called me every name in the book and still refuses to apologize.

My husband stepped up when the incident happened, and told the Aries that he supported my decision to never see her or allow her in my home again until I receive a heartfelt apology. It's been about 2 years since she was banned, and he continues to enforce what I want whenever she comes through town. It's my opinion that it's your Libra's responsibility to insist that his friend is respecting his woman. You shouldn't have to defend yourself from HIS friend, and once he understands how you feel, he should be willing to put your wants before hers.

Why are you allowing her to rent space in your head? If you are secure in your relationship and your Libra is ignoring all her stunts; why can't you? Are you afraid he may go back to her? Worrying won't prevent that if it's meant to be. I think you may be insecure because they have a history and she's losing weight and maybe you think that may spark an interest in Libra. Give him some credit; no one wants to go back to hurt and pain once they've left unless they are glutton for punishment. Just ignore her and she'll go away eventually. If you don't you'll only fuel her passion for irking you...

Posted by GemStar05
Why are you allowing her to rent space in your head? If you are secure in your relationship and your Libra is ignoring all her stunts; why can't you? Are you afraid he may go back to her? Worrying won't prevent that if it's meant to be. I think you may be insecure because they have a history and she's losing weight and maybe you think that may spark an interest in Libra. Give him some credit; no one wants to go back to hurt and pain once they've left unless they are glutton for punishment. Just ignore her and she'll go away eventually. If you don't you'll only fuel her passion for irking you...

+1
i'd also like to add that he can't control the ex-aries' actions.... and i have an aries sis, the best thing to do is ignore her and show her you're not threated by her in the least bit! 🙂