Can you feel someone thinking of you?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by miss1313 on Friday, September 4, 2015 and has 12 replies.

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@miss1313
11 Years

Like I cant get him out of my mind!! I will suddenly think of him out of nowhere, I can "feel" him in my chest, its a warm feeling. I also felt in my neck area too. I have felt like this for a few weeks, we haven't spoken in a while but he texted me a few times first. Other than that I haven't heard from him. Is he thinking about me or have I lost the plot?
Can you feel someone thinking of you and what are the signs?

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Going through this now, and have been for almost a year. He has claimed that it's not the case for him, but I've never experienced this level of intensity in my thoughts before. Almost like it comes out of nowhere, and then I get dizzy and feel completely overtaken.

Learning just how to deal with it; we aren't in contact and never had a relationship.

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@miss1313
11 Years

Posted by MagicPowas
That's because you two are one. Your other half is probably going through the same exact things, in tandem. Unless of course your true love is witch or warlock. 😉

we havent spoken in a few weeks though. We arent on talking terms at the moment

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@miss1313
11 Years

Posted by sultrykitty
Going through this now, and have been for almost a year. He has claimed that it's not the case for him, but I've never experienced this level of intensity in my thoughts before. Almost like it comes out of nowhere, and then I get dizzy and feel completely overtaken.

Learning just how to deal with it; we aren't in contact and never had a relationship.

Do you think its anxiety on our end? because ifhe was thinking of me wouldnt he say something

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by miss1313

Posted by sultrykitty
Going through this now, and have been for almost a year. He has claimed that it's not the case for him, but I've never experienced this level of intensity in my thoughts before. Almost like it comes out of nowhere, and then I get dizzy and feel completely overtaken.

Learning just how to deal with it; we aren't in contact and never had a relationship.

Do you think its anxiety on our end? because ifhe was thinking of me wouldnt he say something

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I really don't know. It started for me when he reciprocated interest ine, but nothing ever happened past that. We had daily contact (coworkers), and were friendly. I would be at home doing whatever and all of a sudden thoughts of him would flood my mind when I should've been preoccupied with other things (cooking dinner, watching TV). After some time when it was clear nothing would come of it, the frequency died down, but it still happens. I no longer work with him, but strange things still happen. I'm actually in a decent long term relationship with someone I love dearly, but have never experienced this sort of thing before.

Like I said, I'm just learning to live with it. Maybe it will go away eventually. I don't want to put too much weight into what it might mean, even though it's hard not to.

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@miss1313
11 Years

Posted by sultrykitty

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Posted by sultrykitty
Going through this now, and have been for almost a year. He has claimed that it's not the case for him, but I've never experienced this level of intensity in my thoughts before. Almost like it comes out of nowhere, and then I get dizzy and feel completely overtaken.

Learning just how to deal with it; we aren't in contact and never had a relationship.

Do you think its anxiety on our end? because ifhe was thinking of me wouldnt he say something

I really don't know. It started for me when he reciprocated interest ine, but nothing ever happened past that. We had daily contact (coworkers), and were friendly. I would be at home doing whatever and all of a sudden thoughts of him would flood my mind when I should've been preoccupied with other things (cooking dinner, watching TV). After some time when it was clear nothing would come of it, the frequency died down, but it still happens. I no longer work with him, but strange things still happen. I'm actually in a decent long term relationship with someone I love dearly, but have never experienced this sort of thing before.

Like I said, I'm just learning to live with it. Maybe it will go away eventually. I don't want to put too much weight into what it might mean, even though it's hard not to.

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Im really trying sultry kitty, Its like a huge cloud, overwhelming warm feeling. I cant stop it

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

I would say to just go with it, be in the moment. When you get those feelings, say what you need to to the universe. If he's there as well, he'll hear it. If not, the universe does. It helps me.

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@Starry22
12 Years

Posted by sultrykitty
I would say to just go with it, be in the moment. When you get those feelings, say what you need to to the universe. If he's there as well, he'll hear it. If not, the universe does. It helps me.

Beautiful thought! I sometimes close my eyes and wish my loved ones hoping they can hear my words if not... I hope my God can hear them and keep my loved ones safe!

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@buyonegetone
11 Years

I can sense when something is up with my family or close friends. Whenever it happens with the ex, I just chalk it up to me being irrational so I don't go down the rabbit hole of pining for him again… projection only hurts me.

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@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

I can.... but I don't rely on it. Even tho it's always been proven right, the logical side of me is always saying, " Hey! You could be wrong..." So, I rationalize it away.

Now, I am extremely empathic. So, if anyone is near me, I'll feel them!

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@gemguyaz34
11 Years500+ PostsGemini

Posted by miss1313
Like I cant get him out of my mind!! I will suddenly think of him out of nowhere, I can "feel" him in my chest, its a warm feeling. I also felt in my neck area too. I have felt like this for a few weeks, we haven't spoken in a while but he texted me a few times first. Other than that I haven't heard from him. Is he thinking about me or have I lost the plot?
Can you feel someone thinking of you and what are the signs?

It's only natural if you like him. He may be thinking of you. The universe has a strange way of revealing our heart felt feelings to us. Also how does he talk to you? Do you feel something is there, like a premonition? If so, then more than likely he is. What is his sign? Some signs have there own way of expressing their feelings before actually saying something. Sometimes it may be you to take the lead and let them know how you feel, so long as you keep it casual and light there is certainly no harm in it. Case in point, the Libra I'm with showered me with kindness and expensive things, so I knew there was something more there than just a friendship and I turned out to be right. Those are questions you need to reflect on and eventually you shall know the truth. 😉

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@shaysonusa
11 Years

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by miss1313
Like I cant get him out of my mind!! I will suddenly think of him out of nowhere, I can "feel" him in my chest, its a warm feeling. I also felt in my neck area too. I have felt like this for a few weeks, we haven't spoken in a while but he texted me a few times first. Other than that I haven't heard from him. Is he thinking about me or have I lost the plot?
Can you feel someone thinking of you and what are the signs?

It's only natural if you like him. He may be thinking of you. The universe has a strange way of revealing our heart felt feelings to us. Also how does he talk to you? Do you feel something is there, like a premonition? If so, then more than likely he is. What is his sign? Some signs have there own way of expressing their feelings before actually saying something. Sometimes it may be you to take the lead and let them know how you feel, so long as you keep it casual and light there is certainly no harm in it. Case in point, the Libra I'm with showered me with kindness and expensive things, so I knew there was something more there than just a friendship and I turned out to be right. Those are questions you need to reflect on and eventually you shall know the truth. 😉

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''I have felt like this for a few weeks, we haven't spoken in a while but he texted me a few times first. Other than that I haven't heard from him.''
If he was tinking about her wouldnt he say something like reach out. I'm kind of skeptica. but I'd also like to believe 🙂