is everybody your friend?

since you have many many friends. how can one tell who is your friend and who is more than a friend? what are the signs you give to each? tell tell..

Every body is my friend until theyre not.

I get deeper with friends. More vulnearable.

Posted by DMV
Every body is my friend until theyre not.

I get deeper with friends. More vulnearable.

what about someone you like as more than a friend but who is also a friend. do you give any signs, do you act differently?

good question I really don't even know how I define friendship anymore ...

Sometimes I say friend than I have to rethink it ..... Which is why I'm pretty much a loner lately. ... I'm having a redefining moment when it comes to certain meaning .. It's me and not the actual person that I'm questioning

*shrugs*

Actually I have one, really best friend. I have nothing hidden with, I can talk about everything with him and he's always there for me to listen and understand, sometimes giving good advice.

ok, i guess my post is not clear. what i mean is sags are surrounded with friends. they always are out and about with friends. so when they are interested in someone who is also one of their friends, how do sags show interest. in short how do you express your liking or feelings towards someone who is more than a friend to you.. what signs should that friend look for to know sag likes them and is interested in them?

Posted by puhleeze
ok, i guess my post is not clear. what i mean is sags are surrounded with friends. they always are out and about with friends. so when they are interested in someone who is also one of their friends, how do sags show interest. in short how do you express your liking or feelings towards someone who is more than a friend to you.. what signs should that friend look for to know sag likes them and is interested in them?

There are circles and then inner circles.
The more time they spend with you the more you know where you stand with them.

Once every six years.
Once a month.
Twice a week.
Everyday.

Posted by Weeds
There are circles and then inner circles.
The more time they spend with you the more you know where you stand with them.

Once every six years.
Once a month.
Twice a week.
Everyday.

just that a sag can have so many on the everyday circle, just difficult to understand. and how about some romantic signs?

Posted by puhleeze

Posted by Weeds
There are circles and then inner circles.
The more time they spend with you the more you know where you stand with them.

Once every six years.
Once a month.
Twice a week.
Everyday.

just that a sag can have so many on the everyday circle, just difficult to understand. and how about some romantic signs?

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Romance differs a bit on an individual level but time spent is the most obvious. Unless of course they flat out tell you they like you which is pretty common.
Straight forward and rarely are subtle when it comes to what they want. If they want you they will try their best to make you see and know that.

Posted by Weeds

Posted by puhleeze

Posted by Weeds
There are circles and then inner circles.
The more time they spend with you the more you know where you stand with them.

Once every six years.
Once a month.
Twice a week.
Everyday.

just that a sag can have so many on the everyday circle, just difficult to understand. and how about some romantic signs?

Romance differs a bit on an individual level but time spent is the most obvious. Unless of course they flat out tell you they like you which is pretty common.
Straight forward and rarely are subtle when it comes to what they want. If they want you they will try their best to make you see and know that.

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thanks for your input Weeds. you see sags are so all over the place at all times so difficult to tell

I actually utter the words "im interested in you and would like to get to know you"

Posted by DMV
I actually utter the words "im interested in you and would like to get to know you"

i can believe coz sags are supposed to be direct and bunt.. hmm in that case if there are no obvious signs/words other than regular contact guess waiting and seeing is the only option

Posted by Koniucha
Oh heaven's no!

what?

Posted by puhleeze
since you have many many friends. how can one tell who is your friend and who is more than a friend? what are the signs you give to each? tell tell..

I used to trust everyone until proven wrong. Not anymore. I'm way more discerning nowadays and take longer to get to know someone.

After being burned twice in the last 3 years, I'm a lot less trusting and more reserved. I have less expectations. Mind you, I'm referring to friends.

As for how do I know someone is more than a friend, it's about attraction. I know a lot of interesting people, but what makes the difference is raw attraction on top of who they are.