Cancer female interested in Gemini male

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by cancandance on Thursday, October 7, 2010 and has 5 replies.

Profile picture of cancandance
@cancandance
15 Years

I dont get why I find Gemini males so attractive and allow myself to be entranced by them.
Alot of them I know are big flirts and this one particular I met one the other day.
We made eye contact multiple times but I dont know what I was expecting him to do....come over and say hi to me or what.

How do I know they're interested physically in a person they just seen or met?
I read over and over they're really flighty and even when you're in a relationship they have a distance to them. Is that true for all (or most) gemini males?

Profile picture of GeminiMind
@GeminiMind
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

I tried dating a Cancer psychiatrist once. I did not work. I found her way to clingy and withdrawn. Two big no-no's with any Gemini. For one, we know that the only reason a person is clingy and withdrawn is because they are insecure, for whatever reason. The whole going in the room and shutting the door to internalize your emotions is a very dangerous thing. It will come out at some point. So, we will just bounce. Every Cancer I know comes off as mysterious to the untrained eye. But, don't be fooled you guys are not mysterious, at all. Just afraid, with a lot of skeletons. 😉 I like Cancer people as friends, for they do serve a purpose. But, not in a relationship unless they have a Gemini moon. Then, they tend to be able to keep up with the speed in which we process information. If not, there will always be misunderstandings because of the slower processing speed of the crab. Which is why I have to agree with the above statement, "Tread warily". For the Gem, not the Crab.

~GM

Profile picture of cancandance
@cancandance
15 Years

But what if I'm not like her?
I heard they like a lot of communication I'm not really the type to text a guy all day long and at the same time I read Gemini men dont like clingyness a crab could possibly bring...so what's the difference?
I'm not the type to be all over a guy but when I see them whenever I want there to be some type of passion or affection.

Profile picture of GeminiMind
@GeminiMind
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Everything you just said is why it's hard for Cancer females to get with us Gems. You must exercise those mental muscles that haven't used yet. C'mon!

~GM