Cancer trying to figure out you Gemini women

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by shishno on Thursday, May 1, 2008 and has 5 replies.

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@shishno
18 Years

I cant tell if this Gemini women is into me or not? I really cant. One day she is into me and the next day she is not and she has other guys flirting with her. Though I notice her looking at me when she does this... Some day's she's interested and other days she blows me off. I am keeping my cool atm?But not sure how long I can contain myself and act normal. My sun in cancer is starting to leek out a bit and I hate it.. my Gemini ascendant wont allow it! So you can imagine an argument going on in my head while I'm observing. At the same time my Libra moon is scanning for a tactic and how to approach differently about it.. I need some advice. I cant tell if she's into me or just flirting. I'd like to know. Am I being tested? Is this your way trying to figure out if this guy really likes you by flirting with other guys and if she sense a bit of jealousy from you? And if you do show jealousy does that shows her that you do indeed interested in her as much as she's interested in you..

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@shishno
18 Years

I need some info some advice a new strategy. No I am not clingy I just hate to lose. Also I have some competition.. This ugly goofy looking guy is hitting on her and being blunt about it. While I'm going it a more casual approach. DO you Gemini women like a strait out approach? I would also like to know what not to do in front of her I don't wanna screw things up. IF I'm wrong and she is indeed just flirting I would definitely like to know that so I can stop wasting my time. Tho I do have a lot of girls trying to flirt with me all the time and she probably things I'm flirting as well and she's doing the same thing to me?

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@shishno
18 Years

I don't call her at all. Well I haven't showed that I'm "really" interested in her. atm I'm observing and figuring out a tactic. so far I have done all the above on what you had mentioned CombatingMyGeminiSister. Tho I had no idea but now I do and will work at it to balance this out. Damn I love it when my moon sign takes over! tho sun in cancer is so close to screwing it up with the emotion bs... Thanks for the advice. b^^ I'll keep yea up to date!

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@sweetgem
19 Years

it's constantly hot and cold for me until i am in an exclusive relationship with someone. Otherwise i also like to keep my options open.

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@twin1
18 Years

how can I tell if a cancer male is into me— im a gemini female.

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@Perfect Gem Angel
18 Years500+ Posts

I too keep all my options open until i am without a doubt into a "commitment" otherwise, all is fair in love and war......both twins play!

A communicated understood commitment......otherwise....dating is dating and it is what it is.