Cancer Man confused about Scorpio Woman

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by JoeyKRV on Thursday, July 31, 2014 and has 5 replies.

So I met this Scorpio girl in my college and the first time I saw her I was dumbfounded by her unreal, majestic and mysterious beauty. To my surprise, she took in the same bus route. I could see her every morning and evening. As the semester proceeded I observed that she was very reserved and somewhat cold (something that I expected by her usual expression in the bus). It took me a lot of courage to speak to her and I finally did. I asked basic questions, her name, where she is from and I asked her what was she most passionate about and her dreams. She answered with no hesitation, trusting (with exception being some more personal questions, then I stopped). After that conversation went south very fast, with "awkward silences". However, in those silences she hummed and then asked me stuff or said something, then silence again and hummed again. I did my best to avoid these silences yet we always ended with one.

This happened in each subsequent conversation, though I indeed knew her more and we had a lot in common, specially how we saw life and what made us passionate. What hurt me the most was that the time between each convo was huge (1 week-1 month) and her facial expression did not change at all through our talks.

Nonetheless, on valentines I wrote her a poem (delivered). The guy who delivered recorded her reaction: Her smile was so pure, genuine and innocent and nervous! She was truly happy and that made me really happy.

Now I dont know what to do. Our bus conversations end the same and I feel confused if she is either giving me the cold shoulder or she is as shy as me. Specially that "hummm" sounds she makes, I dont know if i maker her uncomfortable or is that she is trying her best to make a conversation!
I would be deeply thankful if someone could orientate me on this...Im lost...Tips...Life experiences...Anything will suffice.

@JoeyKRV

12 Years

Thank you for replying.

@Impulsv I totally forgot her "sting" with her words, though I think my determination at that moment simply ignored it. I also forgot to mention that whenever we met in the hallways we never really said hi or waved. Once she sat besides me in the bus and yet did not start a conversation!
I know maybe I over thought most of this or is just my plain insecurities

@j9 Scenario 3 hurts a bit. But, truth be told, there was a period (march-may) were the pressure as a student was too much and I sort of "gave up" to focus in my studying. I could not handle worrying about both.
However, in june, i was able to reunite with my friends (who where out of the country) and they cheered me up to ask her out.
Reaching her is hard. I do not know any of her friends and I changed of college (thought i can enter my past college at will). Thus I have yet to communicate with her and I do not have her in social media.

@JoeyKRV

12 Years

I really thank you for cheering 🙂

You guys make a weird combo but I like it!

(I meant hard to reach as in hard to keep in touch 😱 Or idk im lost )

Ill have to wait till mid august to see her 😄! Whatever the results ill post it here.

May you guys find beautiful songs in your life, and may the weather have its way with you guys 🙂