Confusing Gemini

I have feelings for a Gemini man, I’m a Sagittarius woman. I’ve know him for about a year now. He found out I liked him from a friend, and his response was a laugh and he said “really?”. Afterwards, him and I would lock eyes, laugh, look away. We had casual flirting, he acted interested. I found out a few weeks later he got a girlfriend (long distance). Three days after meeting, he asked her out and his reasoning was “she made me feel things I haven’t in awhile.” I wasn’t angry about being led on; I was because he didn’t tell me and he’s told me he likes to get to know the girl before dating them. “I’m not the type who believes in crushes.” Apparently, his bestfriend told me he felt bad about the whole situation and he only sees me as a friend. Now, he broke up with her and is now with another girl (long distance). He can’t even look me in the eyes anymore.

Just try to be friends with him for a while. He probably likes you but doesn't want to move things fast. But you have to reassure him. A little affection would work but not too much.

I am a Gemini rising, Gemini mars, Gemini Jupita, Pisces Venus, Pisces Mecury, Pisces Sun and Leo moon. I've had women with a crush on me but most times it didn't end well. Mostly, I would give them a chance and then I lose interest because I'm too independent and most of them wouldn't handle it. May be because of my Pisces-Aries cusp, Gemini mars and Gemini rising sun.

I would rather I approach them. But I expect women to behave nicely on me. Coming too agressive would turn me off. I have also seen this with bff whose a Gemini and Gemini friends.