Dating a gemini man (Page 2)

Posted by ilove2dream
Was married to one for 6 yrs. He was very romantic in courtship and made me believe I was his soul mate. Has big dreams and goals. He was and still is horrible with money. Never happy with his many different jobs. So he became self employed and is struggling with money more than ever. He talks about being financialy free and spending all kinds of time with his family. But now I realize that he is a restless soul and even when he reaches his goals, will never be able to just relax. Starting to think that he uncontiously self sabotages his goals, so that the chase will never end.

I will also add that this Gem has a great job that he LOVES and it is all he's ever done.

Posted by ilove2dream
@ SagGal70

My gemini was a perfect gentleman even after marriage. Opened doors, held my hand all the time, pulled out my chair in public, gave me countless cards and flowers. He gave me the most attention when I was pregnant. We also dated at a distance (11hr drive apart). He proposed after six months of dating. We didnt move in together untill we were married. Had sex before marriage (and he beat himself up about that in the begining). He always had a job, just was never happy with it. The problem is he dreams were always bigger than his budget and he would promise me the world but never delivered (I was ok with that, but it he felt he let me down). He is sarcastic and seemed to nag me about every little thing, from what i wore to what i cooked. I am to emotionally sensitive for that (Pisces) and eventually withdrew and his number one complaint was that I didn't affirm/verbally encourage him enough.

Sorry to hear that things didn't go well in the end L2D 😢 Interesting that you 2 dated living a distance from each other...kind of the same boat I am in although it's only 2 hours. It seems to be the perfect set-up for a Gem who doesn't like his freedom compromised...but have to say being a Sag, it works for me as well as I don't like people all up in my business and have really enjoyed my post divorce freedom for the last nearly 4 years.
I thank you so much for your insight...I've never dealt with Gems at this level before and I find him rather fascinating. I guess I shall see where this road leads or if it ends up hitting a dead end...either way, I shall enjoy the ride while it lasts.

I hope that you have healed from your Gem experience (not sure how much time has transpired since) and are finding your way through the world a-ok these days 😉

gemini's make lovely mates and ive been with one for 3 years now 🙂