dunno what to do. gemini/scorpio

so i um started to date this gemini (...this lol) over a month ago. it is kind of long distance cos she does live outside of london but she works in near me. well anyways the point of saying that was b/c i dont see her as much and its been an effort to see her, especially the situations we are both in. i love seeing her though. as teenagers do or anyone in fact- we speak on msn a lot.
two days a go i did a survey on myspace and i said no to having a boyfriend or girlfriend. we had a long talk about this and she felt so gutted and rejected. the fact is i didnt even know she felt that way about me to call me her girlfriend, and anyways, it takes me atleast two months to call someone my or theirs this or that if you know what i mean. she was upset and couldnt cope cause of her parents/issues she is having at the moment. thinking she is going to fuck up all the time, so she broke up with me. in the process of all of this i found out that she is falling for me, maybe in love, that she has never felt this way and all this other pretty emotional stuff. however, she is scared to get too close and has "detachment" issues. i dont know what to do. we dont know what to do. basically, she doesnt want to be in a relationship at the moment, but i cant wait. its really hard, the waiting, the pain, the weird feeling in your heart and the more waiting ,. the other reason i cant wait is because i do like someone else but not as much as gemini. the someone else is scorpio, a friend of mine and scorpio really likes me. she is friends with one of my best friends and talks about me all the time. sometimes i know that the scorpio would be way better for me and lately, i keep bumping into her. i know somethings there, that something could happen. ive been told that the scorpio isnt very clingy, doesnt say i love you straight away which does appeal to me, but im kind of addicted to the way gemini used to treat me. showed she liked me but at the same time kept it cool and confusing, even acting cold but not in a mean way. i dont know man...
my friend has a bet with the scorpions best friend that im going to ask scorpio out before monday...pressure!
ok ill add more, people keep eyeing what i write. jesus christ.

thank

btw i am scorpio too. 🙂

i think your problem is really that you have 2 girls your interested in. in my point of view, it should only be one.

the reason gemini felt slighted was cuz you were in a relationship with her and you lied about it, denied it. with our over analyzing nature she either thought that: a)you were ashamed of being with her, or b)that you didn't really wanna be with her, or c)the fact that there may be someone else, or d)all of the above. which in your case, C is true.

the reason she says that she doesn't want to be with anyone right now is cuz when you lied about your relationship status with her, she put you behind a wall that is labled, untrusting. once you break a gemini's trust, it is really hard to get that back, if ever.

if you are really serious about the gemini girl, then drop any thoughts you have about the scorpio girl. drop all contact you have with her. that will show the gemini girl that youre serious about her.

if you can't seem to get the scorpio girl out of your head, then go with her and drop all contact with the gemini girl. keeping in contact with the gemini will only hurt her more.

i wish you luck! 🙂