@VerucaSalt
7 Years
Gem says we're on a break :( Please help me
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I'm so heart broken. We seemed like a perfect match, same goals, and political beliefs, same kinks. We were literally about to live together, but it was way too soon.
How do you go from about to live together to nothing?
my insides hurt it's dull and sharp simultaneously
He bought me a ring. It's the most beautiful ring I've ever owned. Not fancy, just costume jewelry but I adore it. I can't take it off.
I Know I should.
I know I should forget him and move on right?
idk
I joined these forums in October as well years and years ago when a guy ghosted. He was gone three months before he came back and we got into a relationship. I had less to go on then, the tarot was accurate though.
I kept the faith. The tarot never lied about him being a bad match that wouldn't work out either, I just knew it was an important part of the journey and it was, we remain friends.
This new guy though
This is different
this was compatibility, real super compatibility
he said I was one in a billion. to his dad and best friend!
I know exactly how I fucked up too, with all the overly available doormat low-value behavior.
It wasn't as bad as it has been in the past but it was bad enough and then allowing him to almost live with me so soon is crazy.
Spending every free moment together, alone playing video games or watching shows, it got to be tedious..
No wonder he is cold.
This breaks my heart but it is not abnormal.
The chances are good he will come back, based on all the little bits of information collected he probably really does just need a break (which is why he said break and not break up right?)
but there's never any promises. In the meantime, my heart aches. my anxiety gnaws. The depression is weighing down on me.
fuckkkk
I was pushy and acted very masculine in an unattractive chasing way. I should have stopped us from crazy plans to move in together so soon, that's my job as the female not to let us get ahead of ourselves with terrifyingly to soon commitments neither of us really wanted.
I lost sight of my role
I want to thank you for _______________, and ______too. I really couldn't have done it without you.
Posted by VerucaSaltI am a cancer leo cusp female
My Gem bf said we are on a break.
We were about to move in together, and right on the day of it happening he flipped out and we are on a break instead.
I was pissed how he did this so childishly, I said I'm not upset you need a break I'm upset HOW you did this and I blocked him.
It was all way to soon too fast I was bugging out too, this is a long distance thing, and we have only met irl three times, but we talked every day for hours a day for months.
He tried to get my attention first talking about me on fb then deleted it and emailed and texted apologizing profusely, saying he has done unspeakable things, he wants us to get couples counseling.
He says I'm in his thoughts
he sent a video of mexico where he wanted us to move together through a mutual friend on fb
We watched a show together online, and he had me pause it to tell me 'we should do the thing in the show' like talking about us like we are a 'we', planning our future out again the way he does.
I know theyre mostly fanciful pipe-dreams but it still means something when he includes me in them.
He has reached out to share with me that everything at work is scary and intense.
I did everything wrong. I was a fkn cancer through and through and pushed him away being overly available and pushy clingy.
I'm doing the lean back right now, just giving him space but its so hard for me being a cancer sucks
anyone here believe in tarot?
IM not sure if I do or not but my reading said he thinks of me as a business partner, a lover, a friend etc but fears its all an illusion, that hes stepping back to assess the situation before coming to a decision and my best option would be to play it cool.
idk if its real but I know its hard to let go with all these signs.
am I just crazy and deluding myself?
Yes. You’ve only met 3 times!!!
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by VerucaSaltI am a cancer leo cusp female
My Gem bf said we are on a break.
We were about to move in together, and right on the day of it happening he flipped out and we are on a break instead.
I was pissed how he did this so childishly, I said I'm not upset you need a break I'm upset HOW you did this and I blocked him.
It was all way to soon too fast I was bugging out too, this is a long distance thing, and we have only met irl three times, but we talked every day for hours a day for months.
He tried to get my attention first talking about me on fb then deleted it and emailed and texted apologizing profusely, saying he has done unspeakable things, he wants us to get couples counseling.
He says I'm in his thoughts
he sent a video of mexico where he wanted us to move together through a mutual friend on fb
We watched a show together online, and he had me pause it to tell me 'we should do the thing in the show' like talking about us like we are a 'we', planning our future out again the way he does.
I know theyre mostly fanciful pipe-dreams but it still means something when he includes me in them.
He has reached out to share with me that everything at work is scary and intense.
I did everything wrong. I was a fkn cancer through and through and pushed him away being overly available and pushy clingy.
I'm doing the lean back right now, just giving him space but its so hard for me being a cancer sucks
anyone here believe in tarot?
IM not sure if I do or not but my reading said he thinks of me as a business partner, a lover, a friend etc but fears its all an illusion, that hes stepping back to assess the situation before coming to a decision and my best option would be to play it cool.
idk if its real but I know its hard to let go with all these signs.
am I just crazy and deluding myself?
Yes. You’ve only met 3 times!!!
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Amazing to see the thirst here. WTF
Long distance rarely works...you don’t truly know the person and are infactuated with the idea of the person rather then the actual person. Just think about that... you have lost nothing other then an idea you have conjured up, a fantasy. Good news is you know what you want and hopefully next time it will be the real deal.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by VerucaSaltI am a cancer leo cusp female
My Gem bf said we are on a break.
We were about to move in together, and right on the day of it happening he flipped out and we are on a break instead.
I was pissed how he did this so childishly, I said I'm not upset you need a break I'm upset HOW you did this and I blocked him.
It was all way to soon too fast I was bugging out too, this is a long distance thing, and we have only met irl three times, but we talked every day for hours a day for months.
He tried to get my attention first talking about me on fb then deleted it and emailed and texted apologizing profusely, saying he has done unspeakable things, he wants us to get couples counseling.
He says I'm in his thoughts
he sent a video of mexico where he wanted us to move together through a mutual friend on fb
We watched a show together online, and he had me pause it to tell me 'we should do the thing in the show' like talking about us like we are a 'we', planning our future out again the way he does.
I know theyre mostly fanciful pipe-dreams but it still means something when he includes me in them.
He has reached out to share with me that everything at work is scary and intense.
I did everything wrong. I was a fkn cancer through and through and pushed him away being overly available and pushy clingy.
I'm doing the lean back right now, just giving him space but its so hard for me being a cancer sucks
anyone here believe in tarot?
IM not sure if I do or not but my reading said he thinks of me as a business partner, a lover, a friend etc but fears its all an illusion, that hes stepping back to assess the situation before coming to a decision and my best option would be to play it cool.
idk if its real but I know its hard to let go with all these signs.
am I just crazy and deluding myself?
Yes. You’ve only met 3 times!!!
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But talked online for hours every day and hung out a week each time we met...
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollWhen’s your next concert?
lol
He inboxed me today and said
"I just wanted you to know I've been thinking of you a lot. Yeah, I miss you.
K**** **** encouraged me not to give up. He seems like a good guy.
I'll probably write something in more detail this week."
Posted by LibraSupremePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by VerucaSaltI am a cancer leo cusp female
My Gem bf said we are on a break.
We were about to move in together, and right on the day of it happening he flipped out and we are on a break instead.
I was pissed how he did this so childishly, I said I'm not upset you need a break I'm upset HOW you did this and I blocked him.
It was all way to soon too fast I was bugging out too, this is a long distance thing, and we have only met irl three times, but we talked every day for hours a day for months.
He tried to get my attention first talking about me on fb then deleted it and emailed and texted apologizing profusely, saying he has done unspeakable things, he wants us to get couples counseling.
He says I'm in his thoughts
he sent a video of mexico where he wanted us to move together through a mutual friend on fb
We watched a show together online, and he had me pause it to tell me 'we should do the thing in the show' like talking about us like we are a 'we', planning our future out again the way he does.
I know theyre mostly fanciful pipe-dreams but it still means something when he includes me in them.
He has reached out to share with me that everything at work is scary and intense.
I did everything wrong. I was a fkn cancer through and through and pushed him away being overly available and pushy clingy.
I'm doing the lean back right now, just giving him space but its so hard for me being a cancer sucks
anyone here believe in tarot?
IM not sure if I do or not but my reading said he thinks of me as a business partner, a lover, a friend etc but fears its all an illusion, that hes stepping back to assess the situation before coming to a decision and my best option would be to play it cool.
idk if its real but I know its hard to let go with all these signs.
am I just crazy and deluding myself?
Yes. You’ve only met 3 times!!!
Amazing to see the thirst here. WTF
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Uh okay that's not very nice.
Posted by MoonbutterLong distance rarely works...you don’t truly know the person and are infactuated with the idea of the person rather then the actual person. Just think about that... you have lost nothing other then an idea you have conjured up, a fantasy. Good news is you know what you want and hopefully next time it will be the real deal.
I'd have to disagree with you. All of life is a fantasy we conjure in our minds and LD relationships are no different, Not to mention the three weeks irl we have spent together.
I've had several year long-term relationships start out online and everything was exactly the same online and off.
Posted by topes'Unspeakable things.... .... ....'
lol he likes to be dramatic, although honestly he knows he broke my heart and left me kinda screwed with the move, and then talked shit about me to get my attention *eye roll*
Im a bit of a masochist I don't mind evil, but is he coming back? lol
After the shit talking, I ignored him while other people told him he was a POS, he deleted it and emailed and txted apologizing profusely and saying he wants counseling and today he inboxed me with I just wanted you to know I've been thinking of you a lot. Yeah, I miss you.
K**** **** encouraged me not to give up. He seems like a good guy.
I'll probably write something in more detail this week.
Posted by topesPosted by VerucaSaltPosted by topes'Unspeakable things.... .... ....'
lol he likes to be dramatic, although honestly he knows he broke my heart and left me kinda screwed with the move, and then talked shit about me to get my attention *eye roll*Sounds like your average, evil ♊
Doesn't sound promising at all. Use your best judgment.
Do u know his family?
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I dont know his family personally no, but I know about them.
Posted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonbutterLong distance rarely works...you don’t truly know the person and are infactuated with the idea of the person rather then the actual person. Just think about that... you have lost nothing other then an idea you have conjured up, a fantasy. Good news is you know what you want and hopefully next time it will be the real deal.
I'd have to disagree with you. All of life is a fantasy we conjure in our minds and LD relationships are no different, Not to mention the three weeks irl we have spent together.
I've had several year long-term relationships start out online and everything was exactly the same online and off.
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Ok, this explains it you live in a fantasy world 🤦🏻♀️ You are in denial but it’s ok we all know how this ends.
Posted by 7sPosted by VerucaSaltI was pushy and acted very masculine in an unattractive chasing way. I should have stopped us from crazy plans to move in together so soon, that's my job as the female not to let us get ahead of ourselves with terrifyingly to soon commitments neither of us really wanted.
I lost sight of my role
I want to thank you for _______________, and ______too. I really couldn't have done it without you.
Pushy and acted masculine....sounds about Leo.
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ikr 😢
I use it to get what I want in life but it always backfires with men, they hate to feel pushed or chased by a woman.
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonbutterLong distance rarely works...you don’t truly know the person and are infactuated with the idea of the person rather then the actual person. Just think about that... you have lost nothing other then an idea you have conjured up, a fantasy. Good news is you know what you want and hopefully next time it will be the real deal.
I'd have to disagree with you. All of life is a fantasy we conjure in our minds and LD relationships are no different, Not to mention the three weeks irl we have spent together.
I've had several year long-term relationships start out online and everything was exactly the same online and off.
Ok, this explains it you live in a fantasy world 🤦🏻♀️ You are in denial but it’s ok we all know how this ends.
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Actually that's science. Everything we perceive is quickly turned into a memory of a memory of a memory and so quite literally we all do live in a fantasy of what we believe happened at any given point in time. You can live with someone for years and never truly know them, or connect and share with a person online every day and know them better than yourself. My bff and I were like that. Meeting irl never changed a thing.
Posted by topesGood luck with it. Sounds like a POS.
I just want him to be MY Piece of shit, again :/
Just move on and enjoy your life..
Posted by 7sPosted by VerucaSaltPosted by 7sPosted by VerucaSaltI was pushy and acted very masculine in an unattractive chasing way. I should have stopped us from crazy plans to move in together so soon, that's my job as the female not to let us get ahead of ourselves with terrifyingly to soon commitments neither of us really wanted.
I lost sight of my role
I want to thank you for _______________, and ______too. I really couldn't have done it without you.
Pushy and acted masculine....sounds about Leo.
ikr 😢
I use it to get what I want in life but it always backfires with men, they hate to feel pushed or chased by a woman.
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I'm a millennial
Posted by swampy1Just move on and enjoy your life..
Why would I move on from a guy I love who said he misses me, and stuff? I dont connect with people very often, and neither does he.
Posted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonbutterPosted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonbutterLong distance rarely works...you don’t truly know the person and are infactuated with the idea of the person rather then the actual person. Just think about that... you have lost nothing other then an idea you have conjured up, a fantasy. Good news is you know what you want and hopefully next time it will be the real deal.
I'd have to disagree with you. All of life is a fantasy we conjure in our minds and LD relationships are no different, Not to mention the three weeks irl we have spent together.
I've had several year long-term relationships start out online and everything was exactly the same online and off.
Ok, this explains it you live in a fantasy world 🤦🏻♀️ You are in denial but it’s ok we all know how this ends.
Actually that's science. Everything we perceive is quickly turned into a memory of a memory of a memory and so quite literally we all do live in a fantasy of what we believe happened at any given point in time. You can live with someone for years and never truly know them, or connect and share with a person online every day and know them better than yourself. My bff and I were like that. Meeting irl never changed a thing.
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Ok... so here’s the thing. Once you have a break in the relationship it’s never the same. I did the whole on/off cycles and it’s immature, unnecessary and counterproductive. You need to think practically and sensibly. What is it you want? You want drama and instability?
Posted by -Romz-Posted by VerucaSaltPosted by topesGood luck with it. Sounds like a POS.
I just want him to be MY Piece of shit, again :/
If you go back under those conditions you’ll never establish respect in the relationship.
What you’re feeling is insecurities from being rejected. If you react to that by trying harder and harder to get his attention you’ll only kick yourself years down the road when you cringe at the memory.
Advice: work on keeping yourself happy, don’t worry about his games, don’t take his calls and just enjoy doing your own thing....if or when he’s ready to speak to you.....use that moment to establish dominance and break his PlayStation into 50 pieces and piss on his cell phone
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Exactly, he’ll just use the OP and damage her self esteem further.
Posted by VerucaSaltPosted by swampy1Just move on and enjoy your life..
Why would I move on from a guy I love who said he misses me, and stuff? I dont connect with people very often, and neither does he.
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The guy is weird and his actions have shown you that.
Posted by -Romz-Posted by VerucaSaltPosted by topesGood luck with it. Sounds like a POS.
I just want him to be MY Piece of shit, again :/
If you go back under those conditions you’ll never establish respect in the relationship.
What you’re feeling is insecurities from being rejected. If you react to that by trying harder and harder to get his attention you’ll only kick yourself years down the road when you cringe at the memory.
Advice: work on keeping yourself happy, don’t worry about his games, don’t take his calls and just enjoy doing your own thing....if or when he’s ready to speak to you.....use that moment to establish dominance and break his PlayStation into 50 pieces and piss on his cell phone
✌🏽 🌈
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I'm not really sure where you get the idea im 'trying harder and harder' to get his attention. I literally said in the OP I just let him do his thing and i backed off and went and lived my life.
lol there will be no cell phone smashing. I did pour water on him :0
Posted by swampy1Posted by VerucaSaltPosted by swampy1Just move on and enjoy your life..
Why would I move on from a guy I love who said he misses me, and stuff? I dont connect with people very often, and neither does he.
The guy is weird and his actions have shown you that.
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Im super weird too, its part of his charm!
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonbutterPosted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonbutterLong distance rarely works...you don’t truly know the person and are infactuated with the idea of the person rather then the actual person. Just think about that... you have lost nothing other then an idea you have conjured up, a fantasy. Good news is you know what you want and hopefully next time it will be the real deal.
I'd have to disagree with you. All of life is a fantasy we conjure in our minds and LD relationships are no different, Not to mention the three weeks irl we have spent together.
I've had several year long-term relationships start out online and everything was exactly the same online and off.
Ok, this explains it you live in a fantasy world 🤦🏻♀️ You are in denial but it’s ok we all know how this ends.
Actually that's science. Everything we perceive is quickly turned into a memory of a memory of a memory and so quite literally we all do live in a fantasy of what we believe happened at any given point in time. You can live with someone for years and never truly know them, or connect and share with a person online every day and know them better than yourself. My bff and I were like that. Meeting irl never changed a thing.
Ok... so here’s the thing. Once you have a break in the relationship it’s never the same. I did the whole on/off cycles and it’s immature, unnecessary and counterproductive. You need to think practically and sensibly. What is it you want? You want drama and instability?
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I hope it's not the same. I made so many mistakes, trying to control and push and lead. I'm the woman! That's all backward! I've been reading dating advice non stop for days and it's apparently super common for guys to pull away when they get really close and feel pushed by a controlling clingy woman.
which I was 😢
We almost moved in together, lol thats nuts. Its pretty normal for a guy to pull away after that yah.
I wouldnt tolerate multiple 'breaks' but this seems permissible, yah.
Posted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonbutterPosted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonbutterPosted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonbutterLong distance rarely works...you don’t truly know the person and are infactuated with the idea of the person rather then the actual person. Just think about that... you have lost nothing other then an idea you have conjured up, a fantasy. Good news is you know what you want and hopefully next time it will be the real deal.
I'd have to disagree with you. All of life is a fantasy we conjure in our minds and LD relationships are no different, Not to mention the three weeks irl we have spent together.
I've had several year long-term relationships start out online and everything was exactly the same online and off.
Ok, this explains it you live in a fantasy world 🤦🏻♀️ You are in denial but it’s ok we all know how this ends.
Actually that's science. Everything we perceive is quickly turned into a memory of a memory of a memory and so quite literally we all do live in a fantasy of what we believe happened at any given point in time. You can live with someone for years and never truly know them, or connect and share with a person online every day and know them better than yourself. My bff and I were like that. Meeting irl never changed a thing.
Ok... so here’s the thing. Once you have a break in the relationship it’s never the same. I did the whole on/off cycles and it’s immature, unnecessary and counterproductive. You need to think practically and sensibly. What is it you want? You want drama and instability?
I hope it's not the same. I made so many mistakes, trying to control and push and lead. I'm the woman! That's all backward! I've been reading dating advice non stop for days and it's apparently super common for guys to pull away when they get really close and feel pushed by a controlling clingy woman.
which I was 😢
We almost moved in together, lol thats nuts. Its pretty normal for a guy to pull away after that yah.
I wouldnt tolerate multiple 'breaks' but this seems permissible, yah.
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Ok, maybe pull away, but not pull apart. It’s more like 1 step forward, 2 steps back. Then again, I’m referring to an actual relationship 😆
Posted by VerucaSaltPosted by swampy1Just move on and enjoy your life..
Why would I move on from a guy I love who said he misses me, and stuff? I dont connect with people very often, and neither does he.
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He said that after posting on social media talking shit about you. THATS how he really feels. Read the room.
Posted by tizianiyou barely know one another and already talking about couples' counselling. Sounds like a massive waste of life to me but I'm just going off your story.
I think its smart and shows investment to get professional advice
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by VerucaSaltPosted by swampy1Just move on and enjoy your life..
Why would I move on from a guy I love who said he misses me, and stuff? I dont connect with people very often, and neither does he.
He said that after posting on social media talking shit about you. THATS how he really feels. Read the room.
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Uhm no that was his reaction to calling him out in an email really brutally and also calling him a name undera photo before blocking him when he first took the break.
Posted by VerucaSaltPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by VerucaSaltPosted by swampy1Just move on and enjoy your life..
Why would I move on from a guy I love who said he misses me, and stuff? I dont connect with people very often, and neither does he.
He said that after posting on social media talking shit about you. THATS how he really feels. Read the room.
Uhm no that was his reaction to calling him out in an email really brutally and also calling him a name undera photo before blocking him when he first took the break.
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So he takes a private conversation public and lashes out at you in front of a social media audience. Sounds like respect!!
Are you a troll? Lol omg he doesn’t want you, find someone else. Been there done that, Gemini’s are crazy and very unstable, you don’t want that.
Posted by MoonshineLeoAre you a troll? Lol omg he doesn’t want you, find someone else. Been there done that, Gemini’s are crazy and very unstable, you don’t want that.
the novel length inbox msg he sent me this morning saying how he wants to be with me etc would beg to differ with your assessment
Posted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by topesPosted by VerucaSaltPosted by topes'Unspeakable things.... .... ....'
lol he likes to be dramatic, although honestly he knows he broke my heart and left me kinda screwed with the move, and then talked shit about me to get my attention *eye roll*Sounds like your average, evil ♊
Doesn't sound promising at all. Use your best judgment.
Do u know his family?
Yep sounds just like my ex talking about living in the countryside together and more bullshit and lies. Run girl.
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yah they like to come up with these weird dream lives that wont ever actually happen lol
he is a liar too, he faked this whole accent when we first started talking
Posted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonshineLeoAre you a troll? Lol omg he doesn’t want you, find someone else. Been there done that, Gemini’s are crazy and very unstable, you don’t want that.
the novel length inbox msg he sent me this morning saying how he wants to be with me etc would beg to differ with your assessment
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Maybe only 1 of the twin likes you then, and the other doesn’t 😝
Posted by VerucaSalthe is a liar too, he faked this whole accent when we first started talking
Soooo 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Posted by VenusRetrogadePosted by MoonshineLeoAre you a troll? Lol omg he doesn’t want you, find someone else. Been there done that, Gemini’s are crazy and very unstable, you don’t want that.
Youre the troll
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LOL ty! Some of the way too harsh replies in this thread, wow. smh
Posted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonshineLeoAre you a troll? Lol omg he doesn’t want you, find someone else. Been there done that, Gemini’s are crazy and very unstable, you don’t want that.
the novel length inbox msg he sent me this morning saying how he wants to be with me etc would beg to differ with your assessment
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Okay just because he “says” he wants you doesn’t mean anything. I have a Gemini who has a gf and he still messages me trying to hang out late at night. They’re shady. Why do you want that?
Posted by VenusRetrogadePosted by MoonshineLeoAre you a troll? Lol omg he doesn’t want you, find someone else. Been there done that, Gemini’s are crazy and very unstable, you don’t want that.
Youre the troll
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I bet you’re a Gemini 😂
Posted by CancerAquaSaggPosted by VerucaSalthe is a liar too, he faked this whole accent when we first started talking
What was the accent? That's damn creepy. Lmao Gemini men are the worst.
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haha omg I told him my dream was a relationship like Mickey and Mallory Noxx from natural Born Killers and he put on this accent like woody Harrelson from the film, hahaha I thought thats how he spoke at first. smh
he is nuts with two sides to him
But as a cancer/leo cusp me too tbh
and he is also a taurus cusp so that part of us gets along.
anyway I acted low value like a doormat clingy available. I think if I just stop all that this could work out nicely
The fact is I have to learn how to be that way anyway with anyone.
No guy will ever be attracted to a low value doormat woman even if shes a 10/10
Posted by VenusRetrogadePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by VenusRetrogadePosted by MoonshineLeoAre you a troll? Lol omg he doesn’t want you, find someone else. Been there done that, Gemini’s are crazy and very unstable, you don’t want that.
Youre the troll
I bet you’re a Gemini 😂
No need to bet girl. I never hide my sign. Point is you are a leo with aries moon. Fuck off. If u hate a sign why keep lurking on that sign's page? Youre so pathetic. Get a life. Get laid.
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😂 okay
Point proven. Lol psychos
Posted by VenusRetrogadePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonshineLeoAre you a troll? Lol omg he doesn’t want you, find someone else. Been there done that, Gemini’s are crazy and very unstable, you don’t want that.
the novel length inbox msg he sent me this morning saying how he wants to be with me etc would beg to differ with your assessment
Okay just because he “says” he wants you doesn’t mean anything. I have a Gemini who has a gf and he still messages me trying to hang out late at night. They’re shady. Why do you want that?
you get messaged like that coz ur categorized as easy fuck. Dont u get it? Lol EASY.click to expand
I had a boyfriend thank you very much. I’m not dumb enough to fall for a Gemini’s crap.
Posted by VenusRetrogadePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonshineLeoAre you a troll? Lol omg he doesn’t want you, find someone else. Been there done that, Gemini’s are crazy and very unstable, you don’t want that.
the novel length inbox msg he sent me this morning saying how he wants to be with me etc would beg to differ with your assessment
Okay just because he “says” he wants you doesn’t mean anything. I have a Gemini who has a gf and he still messages me trying to hang out late at night. They’re shady. Why do you want that?
you get messaged like that coz ur categorized as easy fuck. Dont u get it? Lol EASY.click to expand
uh I never had sex with him rofl
youre way off base
You seem bitter tbh
"There's too many episodes of countless shows we need to watch, too many scams to create, too many elections to run in, too many trips to Vegas, too many attempts to become great poker players only to badly fail, too many underground alien bases to investigate, too many cruises to take... to completely give up.
I want all that. I think we are compatible, in that sense, of just us living out our crazy lives together. I think there's a ton of potential for us. I do. I feel a strong emotional and mental connection to you, which is really hard to find. I feel that completely with you, it's great."
and on and on he goes then tries to explain why he freaked out, my health issues etc and says he wants to help me with them.
anywayyy
*paints nails*
Posted by VenusRetrogadePosted by VerucaSaltPosted by VenusRetrogadePosted by MoonshineLeoPosted by VerucaSaltPosted by MoonshineLeoAre you a troll? Lol omg he doesn’t want you, find someone else. Been there done that, Gemini’s are crazy and very unstable, you don’t want that.
the novel length inbox msg he sent me this morning saying how he wants to be with me etc would beg to differ with your assessment
Okay just because he “says” he wants you doesn’t mean anything. I have a Gemini who has a gf and he still messages me trying to hang out late at night. They’re shady. Why do you want that?
you get messaged like that coz ur categorized as easy fuck. Dont u get it? Lol EASY.
uh I never had sex with him rofl
youre way off base
You seem bitter tbh
moonshine thinks shes so amazing. And everybody isnt. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 cracks me up everytime she does this lolclick to expand
oh my bad sorry I misread who said what to what
yes she seems bitter and angry
i dont get her problem
so many words, so little time ...
anyway shes not wrong about heir tendency to lie and be shady he does lie and he is shady
wheres the lie?
:p
idk what to say, im attracted to him, we get along, and have so many of the same values goals, dreams and hopes and humour. hes a lot of fun to be around and I feel close and comfortable with him.
My low value behaviour sort of friendzoned myself tho
I have a bad habit of this not just with him or gems
all guys
all signs
doormat behaviour kills sexual attraction.
kills it dead
i gotta learn
that is all.
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I am a cancer leo cusp female
My Gem bf said we are on a break.
We were about to move in together, and right on the day of it happening he flipped out and we are on a break instead.
I was pissed how he did this so childishly, I said I'm not upset you need a break I'm upset HOW you did this and I blocked him.
It was all way to soon too fast I was bugging out too, this is a long distance thing, and we have only met irl three times, but we talked every day for hours a day for months.
He tried to get my attention first talking about me on fb then deleted it and emailed and texted apologizing profusely, saying he has done unspeakable things, he wants us to get couples counseling.
He says I'm in his thoughts
he sent a video of mexico where he wanted us to move together through a mutual friend on fb
We watched a show together online, and he had me pause it to tell me 'we should do the thing in the show' like talking about us like we are a 'we', planning our future out again the way he does.
I know theyre mostly fanciful pipe-dreams but it still means something when he includes me in them.
He has reached out to share with me that everything at work is scary and intense.
I did everything wrong. I was a fkn cancer through and through and pushed him away being overly available and pushy clingy.
I'm doing the lean back right now, just giving him space but its so hard for me being a cancer sucks
anyone here believe in tarot?
IM not sure if I do or not but my reading said he thinks of me as a business partner, a lover, a friend etc but fears its all an illusion, that hes stepping back to assess the situation before coming to a decision and my best option would be to play it cool.
idk if its real but I know its hard to let go with all these signs.
am I just crazy and deluding myself?