GEMINI BOYS ? I NEED HELP

so my story is quite long , i have known this gemini buy for like 5-6 years now, we met in university through our mutual friend . i never thought of him more then a friend of friend. we met casually like once in a week or twice,i dont remember clearly but we started texting each other like causal stuff at that time i was dating someone so i remember i used to discuss with him about my BF and he used to give me advises and all , he never had a girlfriend ever in his life . yeah he is pretty weird . whenever we talked , we never discus that to our mutual friend, like we used once in a month maybe and its been happen that we didnt talk for like months , like we were not besties but yeah we had good understanding . so fast forward to last year, we talked whole december 2017 and we causlly with some of my other friend we met at this cafe and i saw him for like after a year maybe and he suddenly seems so hot to me !!!! and i instatly got a crush on him , me being a typical Pisces i was drooling over him . i came back home and he does most of the time text me after we met so he did that , and i was being all flirty , days passed and one night i told him that i got a crush on him etc. and he was like no its a bad idea , and its something he is not ready for. so i didnt force him obvio. but then he went to his trip and we stopped talking and then again he came back texted me , we talked and all , and i started getting all hitched to him so i told him to back off because i donot want to gett attached and get hurt myself . but we still talked for like days sometimes, just texting and its like we talk for days and then its like we dont talk for months, in april and may we again started to talk but he really got annoyed due to his work load and he asked me back off then again in june and july he was absent and then in aug and sept we again started to talk and we have been talking alottttt. we got really close too now the thing is idk if he is being serious with me ? he has even said sorry to me which is a big dealll. and like we almost had a phone sex, idk i am so confuse. like one time he is so nice and all and the next mins he is making fun of me or giving me a sarcastic comments. he said alot of mean things to me also but maybe its his nature . i just want to know what should i dooo ??

so my story is quite long , i have known this gemini buy for like 5-6 years now, we met in university through our mutual friend . i never thought of him more then a friend of friend. we met casually like once in a week or twice,i dont remember clearly but we started texting each other like causal stuff at that time i was dating someone so i remember i used to discuss with him about my BF and he used to give me advises and all , he never had a girlfriend ever in his life . yeah he is pretty weird . whenever we talked , we never discus that to our mutual friend, like we used once in a month maybe and its been happen that we didnt talk for like months , like we were not besties but yeah we had good understanding . so fast forward to last year, we talked whole december 2017 and we causlly with some of my other friend we met at this cafe and i saw him for like after a year maybe and he suddenly seems so hot to me !!!! and i instatly got a crush on him , me being a typical Pisces i was drooling over him . i came back home and he does most of the time text me after we met so he did that , and i was being all flirty , days passed and one night i told him that i got a crush on him etc. and he was like no its a bad idea , and its something he is not ready for. so i didnt force him obvio. but then he went to his trip and we stopped talking and then again he came back texted me , we talked and all , and i started getting all hitched to him so i told him to back off because i donot want to gett attached and get hurt myself . but we still talked for like days sometimes, just texting and its like we talk for days and then its like we dont talk for months, in april and may we again started to talk but he really got annoyed due to his work load and he asked me back off then again in june and july he was absent and then in aug and sept we again started to talk and we have been talking alottttt. we got really close too now the thing is idk if he is being serious with me ? he has even said sorry to me which is a big dealll. and like we almost had a phone sex, idk i am so confuse. like one time he is so nice and all and the next mins he is making fun of me or giving me a sarcastic comments. he said alot of mean things to me also but maybe its his nature . i just want to know what should i dooo ??

What kind of mean things did he say to you?

I respond because I’m dating a Gemini and have dealt with many 😜

Posted by Moonbutter

What kind of mean things did he say to you?

mean things as in sarcasam and all. i think its his nature to be honest . he is like this with everyone.

Posted by nanobot

I fail to see where your confusion lies.

He already told you very blatantly and truthfully: "No, it's a bad idea"

So why are you trying so hard to give meaning to something that isn't there, and act like he is the confusing one? Why can't you accept that he said no?

A gemini man who is interested in you, will no way ever let you go months without calling or texting and nor would he tell you to back off.

I know you like him so you have drunk goggles on, but this is very clear to me that you need to move on.

at this point i dont even know what i feel. but what i wrote there's some story missing as i cant write eveyrything. i know he maybe not like me back then but now maybe he did. these geminis are pretty weird . he sometimes send me his family pictures and discuss about his family and alot of time he apologizes for me for just general arguments. he is but different with me as compared to others. and back in january and alot of times i also backed him off. so this backing off thing is from both sides. these days we are continuously talking to each other. like almost everydayyy. like i just wanted to ask from a gemini guy what are the sign if you like someone?

Posted by p05girl

Posted by nanobot

I fail to see where your confusion lies.

He already told you very blatantly and truthfully: "No, it's a bad idea"

So why are you trying so hard to give meaning to something that isn't there, and act like he is the confusing one? Why can't you accept that he said no?

A gemini man who is interested in you, will no way ever let you go months without calling or texting and nor would he tell you to back off.

I know you like him so you have drunk goggles on, but this is very clear to me that you need to move on.

at this point i dont even know what i feel. but what i wrote there's some story missing as i cant write eveyrything. i know he maybe not like me back then but now maybe he did. these geminis are pretty weird . he sometimes send me his family pictures and discuss about his family and alot of time he apologizes for me for just general arguments. he is but different with me as compared to others. and back in january and alot of times i also backed him off. so this backing off thing is from both sides. these days we are continuously talking to each other. like almost everydayyy. like i just wanted to ask from a gemini guy what are the sign if you like someone?

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I understand, I was very similar confused situation you are in with a Gemini. His actions were saying interested, but he was saying “no” sending me pics w/o shirt, family pics, deep discussions but hardly wanted to meet up 🤷🏻‍♀️ At end of the day doesn’t matter because he said “no” and it wasn’t meant to be. I understand why now and he just knew he couldn’t give me what I want. I’m with a Gem now who there is no mixed messages... we live together. Just find another Gem 😝

Okay... the sarcasm is defo a Gemini flirting thing, but you do have to be careful as Gemini’s are very...different. I thought we were all rather similar in il I met male geminis, and then I realised I was wrong! Some are very obvious when they like you and others... seem like they hate you almost.

I have been told in the last that the guy didn’t realise I liked him, and he even thought I hated him as I moved away from etc, I was just nervous as heck.

I’d not invest to much into this guy, just speak to him honestly