Gemini guy with venus in cancer- HELP

Hello
I really need your help.. opinion about something, because seriously i am going crazy thinking about that. So there is this guy and he is from Germany and I am from Bulgaria. We met while he was in my country roadtripping and since then we havent't stopped chatting. We got to know each other and maybe.. maybe have some feelings for each other. He said that he would come back this summer to Bulgaria to see me and we even made some plans. And everything was great, he was so lovable and sweet althought we are not like together officially. So he got back in Germany like 2 weeks ago and now he is working as a carpenter the whole day and when he gets home he is usually really tired and the first days were okay, we managed to communicate well when we had time. But now he gets home more tired and he either wants some time for himself.. you know watching football or tv or he is asleep and when we talk he is sleepy and not in a mood o talk let's say. Firstly I thought that there was something wrong and I asked him and he said no, that he is just tired and doesnt have much free time. He keeps saying that he can't wait to come to me and he misses me but I need more than words. I might have said something about going out with someone and I asked me what should I say to that someone as an answer and he said that it's up to me to decide. And since then he is acting really weird, more distant.. and I miss him a lot. He says that he is tired and i've heard that many times but he can always find some time to text me and say something if he wanted to. So he is Gemini with venus in cancer and I know that Gemini with Venus in Gemini are more distant.. i want to know if venus in Cancer makes difference, is he more loyal, serious and dedicated. He is also with moon in Leo, mercury in cancer, mars in taurus.
Sorry for the long and probably confusing message I just can't stop thinking about that and my thoughts are a mess. I would really appreciate if someone answers. Thank you

He may just be actually tired... Carpenter work is a hard job with long hours. With venus in cancer and moon in leo... You might have just broke his heart talking about dating someone else. I could be wrong.

You are worrying too much about it. He is just tired.
Why did you mention going out with someone else?
He sure is the one confussed now. Strong mix signal for him if he was thinking on moving forward with you.

Thank you! I now see that i was overthinking it and worrying too much. It's just that this week was hard and i really needed him to have more time for me as he used to and when he didn't i just started making some conclusions on my own. stupid. Everything now is okay. thank u again 🙂