Gemini hate emotional stuff

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I just read it and it's true but here my question. Why are we so sensitive to the point of madness?

Is there cure?

I can't meditate because I can't concentrate.

Also can't relax even during sex!

What calms Gemini down?
Hmm... So gem can be a nervewreck ya..

Good massage then? Stroll in a park?

Some say I have a sleeping energy... 😢
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Sleeping energy? What's that?
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Valium.

But seriously, try making a list or something. If it's in the list, you know you won't magically forget it. You can even have a "may-do" list or a random thought list. Exercise tends to be important as well...burns off mental energy with exhaustion. Also you could try that trick where you have a designated worry time- like sit for 30 minutes everyday and worry as hard as you possibly can. No stopping. Then at the end of the 30 minutes, wrap up and set it down.

Over time, you'll find your worries seep less into the rest of your time, because your brain knows it will have "space to worry" daily.

The last tip is actually from a circadian rhythm book I read. Essentially there are four basic circadian rhythms. The typical schedule society runs on only really fits 50% of people. https://thepowerofwhenquiz.com/

If you are a Dolphin (weird name, I know), then you probably have higher cortisol than most. Any cortisol remedies will help you. Cortisol basically makes you extremely alert (hence more mental energy for your brain to go all over the place). They also suffer the most from insomnia.

Get free blue-blocking apps for your electronic devices. Blue lights ups cortisol and if you can't sleep at night, because your brain won't stop, that could be a contributing factor. No joke...even 30 minutes of exposure to blue light in screens can increase your cortisol to mid-day levels and then you're screwed.
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I just read it and it's true but here my question. Why are we so sensitive to the point of madness?

Is there cure?

I can't meditate because I can't concentrate.

Also can't relax even during sex!

What calms Gemini down?
Go to a gym and workout as hard as you can listening to your favorite kinds of music for an hour and a half. Do intense cardio, weights and core. Then end with stretches. Music is key for me. It is my emotional release. Not all people like to workout with music. For me, it's my catalyst.

I do this and my brain is freed of all the crap I'm trying to figure out. Going 100 mph on the elliptical pumping some free weights until you can't lift a dumbbell anymore is totally cathartic. It's as if you physically remove all the mental garbage from your brain and replace with pure O2/Endorphins.

When I get home, I'm more productive and get things done. By Bedtime, my body is shutting down and ready to recharge from burning so much energy a few hours earlier. Pop two Melatonin 5 minutes before sleep and it's sweet dreams....if I add Gaba, then it's sweet lucid dreams.

I get you. I wake up and my brain runs non stop. I can think about everything I have to get done/and or what I should have said regarding a friend/family members etc. in a 10 minutes shower, get dressed, drive to work and then all day long, my brain is thinking, thinking, thinking while I do my job. On my drive home in heavy traffic, even while I have music going, I'm doing more thinking....it's non stop. And often, it goes off in tangents, while other times, I can truly focus.

Some days, it just pisses me off that I don't have an "off switch" and just mentally shut down as most guys can do when they sit in front of a game and veg. and literally think of nothing....Unfortunately, women aren't wired to just shut down. This is why we can multi task and guys can't. Add to the equation being a gemini, and you are SOL!

The ONLY thing for me that breaks this cycle is working out. To clear the mental, you gotta do the physical. Plus some of my best thinking is done when i'm sweating bullets.

Give it a try.
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I just read it and it's true but here my question. Why are we so sensitive to the point of madness?

Is there cure?

I can't meditate because I can't concentrate.

Also can't relax even during sex!

What calms Gemini down?
Go to a gym and workout as hard as you can listening to your favorite kinds of music for an hour and a half. Do intense cardio, weights and core. Then end with stretches. Music is key for me. It is my emotional release. Not all people like to workout with music. For me, it's my catalyst.

I do this and my brain is freed of all the crap I'm trying to figure out. Going 100 mph on the elliptical pumping some free weights until you can't lift a dumbbell anymore is totally cathartic. It's as if you physically remove all the mental garbage from your brain and replace with pure O2/Endorphins.

When I get home, I'm more productive and get things done. By Bedtime, my body is shutting down and ready to recharge from burning so much energy a few hours earlier. Pop two Melatonin 5 minutes before sleep and it's sweet dreams....if I add Gaba, then it's sweet lucid dreams.

I get you. I wake up and my brain runs non stop. I can think about everything I have to get done/and or what I should have said regarding a friend/family members etc. in a 10 minutes shower, get dressed, drive to work and then all day long, my brain is thinking, thinking, thinking while I do my job. On my drive home in heavy traffic, even while I have music going, I'm doing more thinking....it's non stop. And often, it goes off in tangents, while other times, I can truly focus.

Some days, it just pisses me off that I don't have an "off switch" and just mentally shut down as most guys can do when they sit in front of a game and veg. and literally think of nothing....Unfortunately, women aren't wired to just shut down. This is why we can multi task and guys can't. Add to the equation being a gemini, and you are SOL!

The ONLY thing for me that breaks this cycle is working out. To clear the mental, you gotta do the physical. Plus some of my best thinking is done when i'm sweating bullets.

Give it a try.
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Why are we so sensitive to the point of madness?
This must be one of those things that only apply to you.

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Gemini rules the central nervous system, many Gems have nervous energy that they chanel through activity. ( That's why I love Gems, never a dull moment, always some new place, new restaurant, to go.) Others have nervous breakdowns. (The un-evolved ones). I have never personally met a "crazy" Gemini like the people on Youtube talk about. Most Gems I know are fun as HELL!!

Madness is more associated with Aquarius but then again so is genius. If Aqua doesn't chanel their genius then their advance brilliance will often turn on them. Gems just need physical activity; yoga, meditation, swimming, talking and they are usually cool.
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Why are we so sensitive to the point of madness?
This must be one of those things that only apply to you.



Gemini rules the central nervous system, many Gems have nervous energy that they chanel through activity. ( That's why I love Gems, never a dull moment, always some new place, new restaurant, to go.) Others have nervous breakdowns. (The un-evolved ones). I have never personally met a "crazy" Gemini like the people on Youtube talk about. Most Gems I know are fun as HELL!!

Madness is more associated with Aquarius but then again so is genius. If Aqua doesn't chanel their genius then their advance brilliance will often turn on them. Gems just need physical activity; yoga, meditation, swimming, talking and they are usually cool.

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I was fun up until 40. Then I went all negative and nuts due to a life events.

But I am still trying to be me when around people and only few knows my real issues.

I am just hoping it's a phase! Will it pass?

Hope so
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I'm nervous. I'm a little crazy. I'm introverted but extroverted at heart. I have a big heart but it's hard for me to show it. I don't know what calms me down. Negative thoughts go crazy in my mind constantly. I THINK I JUST NEED A HUG AND SUM POPCORNZ. lol!
I can give you a hug and popcorn but I wish I could be cured as simply as that!

We are complex mother fuckers. I hate being a Gemini. Especially with all the Water and Fire in my chart. I desperately need Earth to calm my crazy ass down and make me more stable.
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So let's do something about it! ?
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I'm nervous. I'm a little crazy. I'm introverted but extroverted at heart. I have a big heart but it's hard for me to show it. I don't know what calms me down. Negative thoughts go crazy in my mind constantly. I THINK I JUST NEED A HUG AND SUM POPCORNZ. lol!
I can give you a hug and popcorn but I wish I could be cured as simply as that!

We are complex mother fuckers. I hate being a Gemini. Especially with all the Water and Fire in my chart. I desperately need Earth to calm my crazy ass down and make me more stable.
So let's do something about it! ?

This is the only method that works for me right now... But it's only a temporary fix. ?

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I hear you. Morning - Xanax. Evening - alcohol! But forever—
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I'm nervous. I'm a little crazy. I'm introverted but extroverted at heart. I have a big heart but it's hard for me to show it. I don't know what calms me down. Negative thoughts go crazy in my mind constantly. I THINK I JUST NEED A HUG AND SUM POPCORNZ. lol!
I can give you a hug and popcorn but I wish I could be cured as simply as that!

We are complex mother fuckers. I hate being a Gemini. Especially with all the Water and Fire in my chart. I desperately need Earth to calm my crazy ass down and make me more stable.
So let's do something about it! ?

This is the only method that works for me right now... But it's only a temporary fix. ?

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I hear you. Morning - Xanax. Evening - alcohol! But forever—



Until a good transit hits and then we can be happy ?

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I know exactly what I need but it will take some time! Good partner in life is the key!

The one who fkd your brain so you forget to be depressed and crazy! ?
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I'm nervous. I'm a little crazy. I'm introverted but extroverted at heart. I have a big heart but it's hard for me to show it. I don't know what calms me down. Negative thoughts go crazy in my mind constantly. I THINK I JUST NEED A HUG AND SUM POPCORNZ. lol!
I can give you a hug and popcorn but I wish I could be cured as simply as that!

We are complex mother fuckers. I hate being a Gemini. Especially with all the Water and Fire in my chart. I desperately need Earth to calm my crazy ass down and make me more stable.
So let's do something about it! ?

This is the only method that works for me right now... But it's only a temporary fix. ?

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I hear you. Morning - Xanax. Evening - alcohol! But forever—



Until a good transit hits and then we can be happy ?

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Do we get good transit coming?

I read Pluto should give us peace.

But it's here now right? I don't feel any diff yet...do you?
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I'm nervous. I'm a little crazy. I'm introverted but extroverted at heart. I have a big heart but it's hard for me to show it. I don't know what calms me down. Negative thoughts go crazy in my mind constantly. I THINK I JUST NEED A HUG AND SUM POPCORNZ. lol!
I can give you a hug and popcorn but I wish I could be cured as simply as that!

We are complex mother fuckers. I hate being a Gemini. Especially with all the Water and Fire in my chart. I desperately need Earth to calm my crazy ass down and make me more stable.
So let's do something about it! ?

This is the only method that works for me right now... But it's only a temporary fix. ?

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I hear you. Morning - Xanax. Evening - alcohol! But forever—



Until a good transit hits and then we can be happy ?


Do we get good transit coming?

I read Pluto should give us peace.

But it's here now right? I don't feel any diff yet...do you?

No idea. I don't know shit about calculating transits. Wish I did. As for me, I'm just glad shit isn't AS bad as it was like 2 years ago. Life was unbearable!
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why do geminis do that? they get turned off my emotional stuff..i read somewhere that they are intimidated by it? they don't know how to react to it?

a little emotional is fine..because it shows your differences and give you that uniqueness to pique his interest. but too much and he's out the door



i cried so much in front of gem, but not intentionally and not to make a point. he is the best comfort provider ever even if he doesn't relate to it. i know secretly, he feels things too but is alot better at brushing it off.
What? Come again...
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why do geminis do that? they get turned off my emotional stuff..i read somewhere that they are intimidated by it? they don't know how to react to it?

a little emotional is fine..because it shows your differences and give you that uniqueness to pique his interest. but too much and he's out the door



i cried so much in front of gem, but not intentionally and not to make a point. he is the best comfort provider ever even if he doesn't relate to it. i know secretly, he feels things too but is alot better at brushing it off.
What? Come again...
dont they appreciate raw emotions but dislike emotional manipulation and being forced to do anything itself?
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No.
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why do geminis do that? they get turned off my emotional stuff..i read somewhere that they are intimidated by it? they don't know how to react to it?

a little emotional is fine..because it shows your differences and give you that uniqueness to pique his interest. but too much and he's out the door



i cried so much in front of gem, but not intentionally and not to make a point. he is the best comfort provider ever even if he doesn't relate to it. i know secretly, he feels things too but is alot better at brushing it off.
What? Come again...
dont they appreciate raw emotions but dislike emotional manipulation and being forced to do anything itself?
No.
k, so im wrong. ignore.

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I need you to express my emotions to.

I don't appreciate your emotions unless I am In love with you. Then bring it on.

Otherwise - naah!