Gemini Male / Cancer Female

Could this relationship work? Cancer's I feel need a little more stability then what a Gem can offer.

If she's clingy and whiny--no it won't work. Gems need freedom to breathe. If she doesn't smother him or is overly jealous then she may have a chance.

Posted by GemStar05
If she's clingy and whiny--no it won't work. Gems need freedom to breathe. If she doesn't smother him or is overly jealous then she may have a chance.

True. We DON'T offer stability. Plus, we want affection only when we want it, and we want you to get the hell off us when we don't. I'm sure it can be very hurtful to more sensitive folks.

Good to know! Thanks for sharing. Their are a few things I will need to do differently if I want to stay with him which will be hard for me as a Cancer but I will try 🙂

I spent 4 years with a cancer woman...

All I can say is, they are 4 years of my life I will NEVER get back and 4 years of my life I deeply regret. She was a liar, a cheat, manipulative, controlling, moody, insensitive to other people and how her behaviour effected them. She thought the entire world and everyone revolved around her (and in honesty, myself and my world DID revolve around her). 2 weeks before what would've been our 4th anniversary and the date I was going to give her an engagement ring she dropped the bomb on me that she was seeing someone on the side (which I had suspected because her VERY set routine had suddenly changed which I noticed straight away). For the next 12 months I tried to keep the friendship alive, I forgave and tried to move on but she continued to kick me over and over and over again while I was down until I finally gave in last December and told her she was totally dead to me and I never want to see her or speak to her again. She finally got the message and we haven't spoken since.

Unfortunately I cannot say anything nice about the sign of Cancer, I know other female Cancers who have pulled the same shit on friends of mine and I've come to regard them as well... totally undesirable people.

So to answer the thread's question: Could this relationship work?

No. Recipe for disaster. Avoid. Avoid. Avoid!!

Air and water is a difficult match. The only air sign that has a fighting chance with a Cancer women is an Aqua male.

Gemini males are waaaaay to unstable mentally and financially for a Cancer woman.
There will be many times where he tells you something and the next time you discuss it, it will be a different story. Hard to tell which face is giving you the right info.

If he can control his flighty ways, inconsistency and actually develop some protectiveness this might make it a few years.

Gemini males will not appreciate your passion and emotions. In fact he will try to talk you out of it.

However, if you are happy with this guy; buck all above. And proceed with caution.

Cancer? No thank you.

Both my sister and my BFF are Cancers but I will never date another Cancer male.
They are well bat shit number one and two they are just terrible for us Gemini's.
Cancer #1 I dated was still talking to his ex while we were dating.
Cancer #2 had a girlfriend besides me.

Posted by SapphireGem
I spent 4 years with a cancer woman...

All I can say is, they are 4 years of my life I will NEVER get back and 4 years of my life I deeply regret. She was a liar, a cheat, manipulative, controlling, moody, insensitive to other people and how her behaviour effected them. She thought the entire world and everyone revolved around her (and in honesty, myself and my world DID revolve around her). 2 weeks before what would've been our 4th anniversary and the date I was going to give her an engagement ring she dropped the bomb on me that she was seeing someone on the side (which I had suspected because her VERY set routine had suddenly changed which I noticed straight away). For the next 12 months I tried to keep the friendship alive, I forgave and tried to move on but she continued to kick me over and over and over again while I was down until I finally gave in last December and told her she was totally dead to me and I never want to see her or speak to her again. She finally got the message and we haven't spoken since.

Unfortunately I cannot say anything nice about the sign of Cancer, I know other female Cancers who have pulled the same shit on friends of mine and I've come to regard them as well... totally undesirable people.

So to answer the thread's question: Could this relationship work?

No. Recipe for disaster. Avoid. Avoid. Avoid!!

Really SORRY to hear that! I can only speak for myself as a Cancer women and that did not sound like me at all. Very sorry for your experience.

Posted by SapphireGem
I spent 4 years with a cancer woman...

All I can say is, they are 4 years of my life I will NEVER get back and 4 years of my life I deeply regret. She was a liar, a cheat, manipulative, controlling, moody, insensitive to other people and how her behaviour effected them. She thought the entire world and everyone revolved around her (and in honesty, myself and my world DID revolve around her). 2 weeks before what would've been our 4th anniversary and the date I was going to give her an engagement ring she dropped the bomb on me that she was seeing someone on the side (which I had suspected because her VERY set routine had suddenly changed which I noticed straight away). For the next 12 months I tried to keep the friendship alive, I forgave and tried to move on but she continued to kick me over and over and over again while I was down until I finally gave in last December and told her she was totally dead to me and I never want to see her or speak to her again. She finally got the message and we haven't spoken since.

Unfortunately I cannot say anything nice about the sign of Cancer, I know other female Cancers who have pulled the same shit on friends of mine and I've come to regard them as well... totally undesirable people.

So to answer the thread's question: Could this relationship work?

No. Recipe for disaster. Avoid. Avoid. Avoid!!

That is horrible 😱 so sorry
What were he placements, if you don't mind


What you went through, I went through the same thing with a gemini.
He was incredibly notoriously selfish. But oh we'll,
I don't blame all gems. Some people have this same behavior regardless
Of sun sign.

I apologize again. She had some major insecurities also.
The control and manipulation sounds similar to heavy pluto placements.

Thank you Gemini12121. I went a little too far today with my humor which I know he did not appreciate but I was coming from a place of insecurity/anger and I said the one thing that would make him feel insecure as well. Not good. REALLY have to get ahold of my emtions if I want to make this work and accept him for who he is. Thank you for your kind words!

Friends of mine...married, just had their first child. It's worked like a charm so far for them.

But quite honestly the moon sign compatibility matters more because the moon represents our inner emotions. Also take a look at Venus/Mars placements but primarily the moon.

Posted by Xin
Cancer? No thank you.

Both my sister and my BFF are Cancers but I will never date another Cancer male.
They are well bat shit number one and two they are just terrible for us Gemini's.
Cancer #1 I dated was still talking to his ex while we were dating.
Cancer #2 had a girlfriend besides me.

+1 Cancers period...ugh!

i seem to attract water signs like moths to a flame. i've had a few crabbie relationships, all of which were electric, but i would like to add that i'm and EXTREMELY watery gem with 4 planets in cancer and a cancer midheaven. are you watery? does she have any air in her chart?

I met a gemini while at work he does the hvac for us. I had heard about this guy but had never seen him. One of my coworkers had a crush on him. One day he passed the corporate office to say hello and when he popped his head in he did a double take and asked who I was. He asked for my number and he texted that night. Then I didn't hear from him for about a month and he text me late at night something he had remembered. We met up for coffee and then began seeing each other weekly. His work got very hectic and he didn't respond to me for a week. Then suddenly he did and acted like nothing happened. We began hanging out again. We even wet hot air ballooning. Then suddenly he says he isn't ready for commitment. I never asked him for it but I guess all of our hanging out was too much since he was beginning to be flakey. He is legitimately busy (he's a business owner) but would act like nothing happened. I have never dated a gemini so I wasn't sure if it was a gemini thing or what? Things seemed hot then suddenly cold. He would make plans and then act as if it never happened. We hung out a few times but nothing lately. He texts me a lot things like I just heard this song it reminds me of you. Or tell me he misses me. Always tells me he appreciates me. That he find me even more interesting. I asked him if he wanted to be done with me. He told me he's not done with me. It's confusing. I feel dumb. Maybe this isn't a cancer & gemini thing but just two humans learning about each other. I have tried not texting but then he will text me something like we will have such cute babies. Or with a proposition he has for us to make money together. I just thought I would throw this out into the world I found this forum and figured why not. Thanks for listening...or not.

Depends on yours and his placements. What are his moon and Venus, what are yours?

Posted by ufo
idgi did i luck out w/ this gemini that doesn't fit the mold of the complaints filed against them?

Yes, they are either good or evil 😆

Dude ignore the bitter ass peanut gallery and focus on getting to know him and if there is good chemistry between you.

I’m a Pisces with a Gemini. Doom and gloom with that pairing but we out here thriving 🔥🔥🔥