Gemini MEN........................................ (Page 2)

i've been reading this thread and it was obvious from when you said "hes not taking me seriously.." his lack of correspondence shows disinterest. Or maybe he was interested and the constant texting and pushing to see if the date will work out was overboard to him. From his perspective, its coming across a bit desperate rather than going with the flow. which what he prefers. The more pressure you put on a gem man the more ..how he phrased it "off putting"

i personally wouldn't call him .he doesn't care and your making it come across desparate which woman you are by constantly texting him the same question. (not to sound mean) and wanting to work it out . men throw frisbees at woman to see how far they'll bend backwards for them. The past weeks you have. Its as if he knows if he bullshits you ..you'll still take it. Hence, the above (its not conscious its all subconscious) . Hes not being a ass on purpose ..i feel its all perspective. What does one expect another to respond when their texts are completely illogical like yours? 1) you text to seek clarity but then it goes out of the critical thinking section to complete illogical statements. What he said was "a matter of fact" you did assume deep down hes blowing smoke up your ass (so hes aware of that) maybe he was simply so caught up with other matters he didn't get to text you (possibility) and you incessant texting caused him to actually not want to go out. So its kinda self inflicted (also possible but needs validation) overall, hes extremely confused as to why something this simple has turned into a judgement of him. Which if i was him, wonder whats the point of going out with someone who already misunderstands. I feel the whole conversation..it was you that looked....bad. (dont need to apologize to him..but yourself) you expressed how you dont care blah blah and how you wouldn't want to hubalah hubalah with him..thats a low blow for someone to seek "clarity" which was the opposite of what you set out to do. So now this "truth" you spoke to him...revealed that your actually not someone he wants to spend time with. This is the highest possibility. self fulfilling prophecy. Hence his sarcasm to defend himself. Gemini men..communication at times isn't the content of his delivery but rather their intention. To defend , to ridicule, to persuade, to disguise, etc. He was protecting himself and by doing so with sarcasm, it also reveal his other intention ...to make you feel like a fool. Which now seems to b

be the case. whats next? nothing, after that type of conversation, dont go and say sorry stand your ground. No need to re clarify what you meant in that conversation. i feel its okay to be harsh when one speaks truth..the reason i think its just done is because the conversation..the way it went was so subjective. how does one solve a issue based on subjectivity? your opinions of him is subjective not FACT or TRUTH its personal feelings. I analyzed the situation with possiblities so you can perhaps understand yourself and the other party so it doesn't repeat with future guys etc.
Who gives a rats arse your pretty and young and fun! go out and enjoy yourself. Once you share that same passion you will attract someone similar to you! pursue life! not love! *thats what mc guyver would do*

the best ultimate fuck you to this gemini is just moving on and not caring. and if he ever texts you. Ignore your better than that. he seems too child-like

LOL! Love the Mcguvyer comment. YES fuck him! Plenty more fish in the sea. I'll meet someone one day who shares my dreams and passions!

Funny thing is the Gems brother (Taurus) messaged me yesterday asking me if I wanted to meet to catch up (no, not like that, I've always been 'friends' with him him) I told him that I had a date with his bro (the gem) but wasn't entirely sure if it would defo go ahead but regardless I could possibly meet him after. Anyway I ended up texting my friend (the gems brother) and telling him that the date wasn't happening so I could definitely meet up!

So next weekend I'm catching up with the Gems brother. I'm gonna go down their area to meet so it will be inevitable that I'll end up bumping into the Gem. I'm just gonna look really glammed up so he can see what he's missing. Quite looking forward to seeing he look on the Gems face when that does happen. Ah well, just can't wait to have a fun evening.

My sister (the Scorp) and I have always known the brothers from when we were teenagers and my sister used to see the Gems brother, so the gems brother has always kept me close in order to gain information of my Scorp sisters antics-HA! He is still pining after her all these years later! She secretly wants him too so I'm gonna try and be match maker next weekend 😄

Posted by trolltrain
Well fuck, my advice just fucked everything up.

I'm sorry.

YEAH it's all YOUR fault..

WEHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!


lol!! Jokeeee! Ah well shit happens!

Ah well, shit happens! Atleast I 'may' see him when I go hang with his bro! He'll know just what he's missing! HA

OHh gawd lol

Oooh no, I'm not going to take it out on his brother atal, his brother is a dear friend of mine and has been for years. I wouldn't dare use him to create drama. I will just insanely flirt with other men while the Gem watches, I am so done with him, I just want him to feel jealous.

So I called the Gems brother today to confirm our catch up at the weekend and he's like 'I was thinking that, you, myself and my bro (the Gem) should all go for drinks together' HA! I knew the Gem would try and stick his two cents worth in. He probably wants to see me without the pressure of a date, LOL! So predictable!

So it looks like I'll be going for a drink with the Gems brother and the Gem will make an appearance at some stage.

How do you think I should handle the Gem being there? I'm quite looking forward to this now, woo woo!!

Sag? I was with one for about a month and then on and off for two years. Couldn't stand how strong he came onto me because he saw all his friends talking to me and he's like be my girlfriend! So ok cool *Thumbs up* then it was all about sex, and that was it. He told me after two weeks "Id really like to start sleeping with other people too." Then he would try to invite his ass to my house at like 3AM while he was out drinking when I broke it off with him? He's like "I could die out here." And what? Go look up your bitches you wanted to have sex with instead of me and see if you can crash there in that black book you carry around. Shit, STEP!

Posted by Xin
He's like "I could die out here." And what? Go look up your bitches you wanted to have sex with instead of me and see if you can crash there in that black book you carry around. Shit, STEP!

HAHHAHHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by Xin
Sag? I was with one for about a month and then on and off for two years. Couldn't stand how strong he came onto me because he saw all his friends talking to me and he's like be my girlfriend! So ok cool *Thumbs up* then it was all about sex, and that was it. He told me after two weeks "Id really like to start sleeping with other people too." Then he would try to invite his ass to my house at like 3AM while he was out drinking when I broke it off with him? He's like "I could die out here." And what? Go look up your bitches you wanted to have sex with instead of me and see if you can crash there in that black book you carry around. Shit, STEP!

Thing is I don't want it all to be about sex atal. I'd really like to actually get to know this Gem. I think he would probably say I came on too strong but then so did he at one stage so idk? AND I don't wanna sleep with anyone else but him IF I end up seeing him. *daydreams*

Well just make sure you are sure. Honestly I am not speaking bad about you Sag types but most of them that I know have a hell of a time making a commitment. Or staying interested just like us Gemini's. I hope it doesn't turn out that way for you guys. But the one I dated wanted to sling his naughty bits all over the place. Not happening. I pointed to the door too. I don't play that.

Posted by Xin
Well just make sure you are sure. Honestly I am not speaking bad about you Sag types but most of them that I know have a hell of a time making a commitment. Or staying interested just like us Gemini's. I hope it doesn't turn out that way for you guys. But the one I dated wanted to sling his naughty bits all over the place. Not happening. I pointed to the door too. I don't play that.

Well believe it or not I'm a commitment whore so we'll see how this works out. I have liked this man for a very long time but we never quite formed a relationship due to the different circumstances at the time in both our lives. I have known him forever!

Posted by anearthygemini
Hi SagChick!

I wish you all the best!

🙂

yeah I'm just gonna see how things go and be cool.

Thanks for your advice guys, I shall update you on the latest after the weekend 🙂

this should be interesting!! *eats popcorn**

Posted by candi3bb
this should be interesting!! *eats popcorn**

😄

well, I read this whole thread and all I really, REALLY< REALLY want to say: I knew it was a bust from the get go.

you can't squish a Gem into a box and that is what you were trying to do. You had this one preconcieved idea of who he is and how he will fit into your life and there he goes - poof.
Dating game is a Gem's world and you played by very simple rules. You can't charge at a Gem like that. You can't charge at any man like that, for that matter.

Good luck next time. Lots of Gem's to go around. They are fun.

@ roamingfree, I suppose you're right! I guess looking in from the outside you can see it differently. Thanks for your comments 🙂

give him space. that's all he needs. Gems are creatures of habit as much as we hate to admit it. We thrive on attention. He will miss yours. Give him space, but do not totally dissapear, than he will circle back, once he is done chasing all that is on his plate and then you will have the upper hand. 😉

trust me. I know. 😄

we love Sags. We are so compatible - neither of the signs can resist the other. I have friends who are Sags for over 20 years.

good luck - it will be ok. just never corner any man - they hate it, regardless of sign.

I didn't end up seeing the Gem cause he has the mumps! Poor thing!

I text him on Sunday to let him know I was thinking of him and that I hoped he gets better soon.

'Give him space, but do not totally disappear'. So I'm giving him space but how not to totally disappear? Like I text him once so now what? Wait for him to get in touch or text him another sweet message towards the end of the week?>

Thanks dude!

Yeah he has told his brother that he really likes me, his brother just wants us to get together already, lol!

I will probably send him another message tomorrow just being cool and saying 'What's up, hope you're well' kinda thing (as a friend only)

Sun Gemini
Moon Leo
Mercury Gemini
Venus Aries
Mars Libra
Jupiter Scorpio
Saturn Libra
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Sagittarius
Asc node Cancer

So what are Venus in Aries people like in love or what do they look for rather?

i just get down with gemini men. too much duality.