Gemini over the selfish Sag

As a gemini I know how to adapt to uncomfortable situations however I'm past the point of wanting to do it. I know through discomfort theres always the reward of strength when dealing with whatever. This time around my sag is beyond adjusting for. I'm so over the lack of consideration and her thoughtlessness. It hasn't been a whole year we been together and not 2 months of living together and i'm ready to end this bullshit. Luckily I have a cute lil Taurus that's been a blessing of a distraction. (I'm in an open relationship btw) Even when in an open relationship its still a relationship. I expected just the basics of a relationship but that seems impossible. anyone else went through this?

Posted by ASCoppVenus

Nope. But as a gem, I would advise you to take your time til you find someone worth settling for. Life is too short to waste with one person who can potentially be wrong. Plus you will know who is worth settling for anyway. So if you’re unsure, just keep moving forward.

I feel you, but considering the circumstances i'm in I can't just up and leave. I've given this woman chances and she still wants another to get this shit right. Its effortless for me to do for someone I love. She acts like shes losing herself in the process in doing for me.

Sounds like you are ready ( been ready ) for something more serious. Saggies aren't the best relationship sign when they aren't ready for commitments. Hopefully you find and out and things go better with the Taurus if that's what you seeing being best for you.

If you're in an open relationship, what is she not providing that you can't get from another woman? I thought that's what open relationships were for.

Time to go

Posted by nanobot

Sounds like you made the mistake of moving in with each other way too soon. What's the reason that you can't get yourself out of the situation?

Firstly I moved outta state. Not just for her but us. It was becoming too much on weekends that we would have to try to fit too much into our limited time together. So when opportunity came for us to actually live together because she was moving from her parents home I actually found the house and money to get us moved in. Now being that I moved in I'm on my friends couch tonight taking much needed space from her. I can't stand discomfort in a place I live and pay rent. I don't wanna break up I want her to get a clue on how she's treating me and not considering myself. I know just from all the Sagittarius I know personally that they are never sure. She claims she's sure of me and her. It definitely doesn't feel that way though.

Posted by Sag898

Sounds like you are ready ( been ready ) for something more serious. Saggies aren't the best relationship sign when they aren't ready for commitments. Hopefully you find and out and things go better with the Taurus if that's what you seeing being best for you.

I personally was against a full on relationship we just happen to fall in love. This is her first time ever falling and ever trying to put effort into a relationship. I'm understanding to a certain point. I know how to be in a relationship hell I even proposed the open relationship to give us both the freedom to choose for ourselves however for me it became much more natural to consider her feelings. It is now where I've had several disappointments and hurt caused by her selfishness. I'm praying she can actually really change that part of herself. It'll make it that much easier.

Posted by ETH85

Posted by Sag898

Sounds like you are ready ( been ready ) for something more serious. Saggies aren't the best relationship sign when they aren't ready for commitments. Hopefully you find and out and things go better with the Taurus if that's what you seeing being best for you.

I personally was against a full on relationship we just happen to fall in love. This is her first time ever falling and ever trying to put effort into a relationship. I'm understanding to a certain point. I know how to be in a relationship hell I even proposed the open relationship to give us both the freedom to choose for ourselves however for me it became much more natural to consider her feelings. It is now where I've had several disappointments and hurt caused by her selfishness. I'm praying she can actually really change that part of herself. It'll make it that much easier.

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Yeah...I don't know if I'd count on someone changing but good luck.