Gemini with Cancer placement??

Any Geminis out there with a cancer venus, moon, or mars? How do you act when you really like someone? Does that person have to make all the moves? What sign has been your best and worst relationship??did they have any Cancer placements?

The Gemini I have been involved with cancer in Venus so he won't turn loose of our relationship although I've tried to end it like 5 times. I have begged him to let me go but he says he loves having me in his life.

Just like all geminis, there is constant confusion about his behavior. Sometimes attentive, turns on a dime and completely aloof. I try to act like I don't care and that seems to keep him interested. I am Leo with ascending Gemini so that helps somewhat.

Oh yeah Augustleo thanks for your reply 🙂 I have gemini mars and Leo venus so I guess I kinda understand..it is such a paradox for gemini to have venus in cancer...I think vs I feel no wonder that's what we receive from them :/

I have a cancer Venus and I'm born on the gemini/cancer cusp. So pretty much when I like someone I basically do all the opposites of the typical things gemini's are characterized to do. When I truly like someone all I see and care about is them and I love hard and get hurt very easily but will hardly let it show. I like to spoil the person that I like and make sure that I'm there for them whenever they need me. Typically I do wait for the person I like to show me/prove they have a general interest and until that point I'm flirty and light hearted. That way I protect myself if it doesn't seem to work. 🙂 comes off as aloof to that person but it's just a little test 🙂

Ahh thanks GemWoman92! My guy friend is Gem with venus cancer and although he says/ acts like he wants me in the future he does kinda come off aloof like he's waiting for me to prove but I'm Cancer so I'm waiting as well...lol I mean, I have Leo venus so I have no problem devouring him haha but I still do the crab walk and go circles around the bush.

Oooo if you do pair up with this guy it will definitely be a deep and caring relationship I feel. If u wait gemini will eventually tell you how he feels..it might just take a little poking.

Yeah, it's weird I have this connection with him like no other and I feel at first he thought same thing but I think my Leo venus kinda trampled his venus cancer a bit so he stepped back like he's studying me..lol. Do you think he feels same connection with me? Hes always such a gentleman and never in 5 years ive known him disrespect me. We also have same sag moon 🙂

I do think he feels the same connection. Just remember Venus in cancer people are very sensitive lol. Don't let that leo in your Venus overpower him 🙂

Haha I think your right, but I always seem to hurt him(unintentionally of course) so he may be a bit weary of me..

Wow moongem, thanks for sharing🙂 He sounds confusing like he doesn't even know what he wants or how to navigate between head and heart...yeah I feel the guy I know is the ultimate "typical" Gemini but then he's so sensitive it really throws me...what is your venus in?

Oh haha yeah as an Aries venus you just rammed into him sometimes to get response and my Leo venus just stood there like "look at me" and then when ignored I would bat him around a bit lol...these poor Gems couldn't handle us

Aww thanks AirMan for your reply🙂 so do you feel a strong attraction/connection with Cancer women?

Yup, sounds like he's interested just need reassurance...give him a nice romantic kiss next time 😉

@Airman my guy friend said "he doesn't date anyone he could get feelings for" so I guess he's just really scared of getting hurt? How does a girl break through that shell?and what signs would show he is letting a girl in?

Oh I see..he has the same placements except gemini mars...but you don't regret your lady proposing, right? So I guess it worked well for you 🙂

Haha no probs ScorpioStarGazer! What kind of placements does he have?

Oh sorry I see that you posted already.. My ex was Gem with gem venus and he had out walls up...soo I think I understand. Just be sensitive and sweet 🙂

I know what you mean...I considered my ex Gemini a defected Gem because he was more home body, etc...but then my guy friend Gem with Cancer Venus is like a typical Gem except in love dept. they drive me crazy and I luv it lol

Like magnets I swear :p

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Aww thanks AirMan for your reply🙂 so do you feel a strong attraction/connection with Cancer women?

to be honest with you i don't feel nothing with nobody but my sagittarius woman.

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All the moves haha

I quoted the wrong message :p

Why not chase behind a woman? Do you not like the view? Lol

Lol I'm saying if you are behind the woman you get a good view of her...😉

And here I thought guys liked a bit of a challenge ...

Aww AirMan you sound like a sweet gentleman 🙂 remind me of the guy I like...when you say wait? You mean wait until a girl chases you down?

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I do think he feels the same connection. Just remember Venus in cancer people are very sensitive lol. Don't let that leo in your Venus overpower him 🙂

It's funny b/c you have to really be close to me to know how sensitive I am with my loved ones.

@AirMan if a woman gives you eye contact? Really that's all it takes? Wow. So does that mean the same then if you give a girl lots eye contact you are really interested?

Ahh that makes sense 🙂 so just to pick your brain(and heart) one step further...If a gemini guy with cancer venus said the following to a girl "I care for you" and "you are more then a friend" would you think that guy has strong feelings for the girl and is waiting for the girl to make a move?

I believe that WateryGem...maybe perhaps cuz I'm a sensitive soul my guy friend felt safe to open up to me in a short time? We both also have mercury in cancer btw 🙂

Thanks AirMan🙂 I know what it means to have Cancer venus and getting your perspective is very helpful (hugs) I can initiate...platonically, in your case of course.

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I believe that WateryGem...maybe perhaps cuz I'm a sensitive soul my guy friend felt safe to open up to me in a short time? We both also have mercury in cancer btw 🙂

I get along really well with Cancers.. So I get that connection, my chart is very watery.

Awwe you are the perfect example why I

Hi littlestar...are you Gemini with cancer venus?

Ahh interesting...how do you know when you have them?

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Any Geminis out there with a cancer venus, moon, or mars? How do you act when you really like someone? Does that person have to make all the moves? What sign has been your best and worst relationship??did they have any Cancer placements?

My ex gem has a cancer moon. He was clingy, sensitive and controlling. However, he could be really sweet and romantic when he wanted to be.

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Any Geminis out there with a cancer venus, moon, or mars? How do you act when you really like someone? Does that person have to make all the moves? What sign has been your best and worst relationship??did they have any Cancer placements?

My ex gem has a cancer moon. He was clingy, sensitive and controlling. However, he could be really sweet and romantic when he wanted to be.

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He was the type of guy that would leave a trail of rose petals for you to follow to a freshly drawn bubble bath.

Oh wow...quite romantic. I'm more the kind of girl who likes to be dry humped by her bf whilst preparing pasta lol.

Hehe ScorpioStarGazer 🙂 I also like to ravage unsuspecting victims

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Ahh interesting...how do you know when you have them?

Moonbutter ...wow those questions..

I'm a double Gem w/ Cancer rising and (May 22nd Taurus cusp). I am extremely direct and bold until I meet someone I really like. Where any fun flirting suddenly becomes me being bashful and giggling like a moron lol. I tend to attract water signs like crazy but find they drain me terribly. Better off as friends. The only guys I never feel shy with (if I'm REALLY into them) are another Gemini. It's like coming home 🙂 I'm new to these boards so I hope I stayed on topic (har har..not easy for me).

Edit on above post...gave my sisters birth chart! My sister, son and grand mother all Gemmies. Anyhow I'm a double Gem AERIES rising...with Cancer in Mars and Saturn. (I'm new to this whole thing).

Any Gems here with a Cancer mercury? What's that like?

Hi GemJenBaby, and welcome! Thanks for your input🙂 I'm gonna take a guess here the reason you attract water signs is due to your Mars placement...but since that's the only water it's not really a good match for you. I agree, gem for you or maybe sag?

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Any Geminis out there with a cancer venus, moon, or mars? How do you act when you really like someone? Does that person have to make all the moves? What sign has been your best and worst relationship??did they have any Cancer placements?

My ex gem has a cancer moon. He was clingy, sensitive and controlling. However, he could be really sweet and romantic when he wanted to be.

He was the type of guy that would leave a trail of rose petals for you to follow to a freshly drawn bubble bath.

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I don't know if it's my Sun, Moon or Venus but I can be quite the romantic. I think Venus in Cancer can be one of the sappiest Venus'.

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Hi GemJenBaby, and welcome! Thanks for your input🙂 I'm gonna take a guess here the reason you attract water signs is due to your Mars placement...but since that's the only water it's not really a good match for you. I agree, gem for you or maybe sag?

I love me some water men!! lol

My husband is a Gemini sun with cancer in venus. I will say in the beginning he had a difficult time making moves because he was so used to women chasing him. I was exactly his type though, and if he wanted me he had to come for me.

He chased me. All the way down the aisle. He can be very sensitive, very clingy, possessive. I've felt suffocated and tried to leave multiple multiple times. He won't let go. He says he chose me. I was everything he wanted and all he'd ever asked for and he plans to die with me.

He always says he doesn't know how he'd ever live without me. Says he could NEVER be with anyone else. I'm Venus in Scorpio so that's perfect for me. We love that level of commitment except for me it's a little much Sometimes.

Anyways He wears his heart on his sleeve. He was always very open with me. I never had to guess how he felt and he will tell the world. I meet strangers and they are like oh wow he really loves you he talks about you all the time.

He loves extremely hard, very emotional, sensitive, caring, spoils me to death it can be very overwhelming sometimes because he just piles it on no matter what. He's like a German Shepherd very loyal and protective. No matter how bad I treat him, it's like he just loves me sooo much more.

Get ready. If you're the one he will be yours for life and he will make it his lifes mission to prove it to you. Just dont get caught up in the whirlwind fairytale illusion-- make sure he's what you want not just the other way around. It should go both ways.

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My husband is a Gemini sun with cancer in venus. I will say in the beginning he had a difficult time making moves because he was so used to women chasing him. I was exactly his type though, and if he wanted me he had to come for me.

He chased me. All the way down the aisle. He can be very sensitive, very clingy, possessive. I've felt suffocated and tried to leave multiple multiple times. He won't let go. He says he chose me. I was everything he wanted and all he'd ever asked for and he plans to die with me.

He always says he doesn't know how he'd ever live without me. Says he could NEVER be with anyone else. I'm Venus in Scorpio so that's perfect for me. We love that level of commitment except for me it's a little much Sometimes.

Anyways He wears his heart on his sleeve. He was always very open with me. I never had to guess how he felt and he will tell the world. I meet strangers and they are like oh wow he really loves you he talks about you all the time.

He loves extremely hard, very emotional, sensitive, caring, spoils me to death it can be very overwhelming sometimes because he just piles it on no matter what. He's like a German Shepherd very loyal and protective. No matter how bad I treat him, it's like he just loves me sooo much more.

Get ready. If you're the one he will be yours for life and he will make it his lifes mission to prove it to you. Just dont get caught up in the whirlwind fairytale illusion-- make sure he's what you want not just the other way around. It should go both ways.

What's his moon sign? He sounds similar to me, except Im not smothering.

They are all show. They are very much into pretty pictures. That's why strangers are like awwwww he weally wuvs you. He is a good guy but he wants everyone to know it and pat him on the back for it. I can't stand that. Let your actions speak for you.

I have been with mines awhile so he was comfortable enough around me to tell me things like that.

If we got into a fight he'd call my friends telling them how much he loved me trying to manipulate them into buttering me up. I see through all that. When I screw up he wants everyone to know what I did and how he's good and I'm evil. No one knows the bad things about him because I don't blab to others about his shortcomings. so when he screws up no one is to know anything about it. Its all about total privacy then.


He'll cry if he's really hurting he has like emotional diarrhea you always know how he feels. this is my experience though. Results vary. Lol.

Gem sun
virgo rising
leo moon
gem mercury
cancer venus

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