Gemini Woman/Scorpio Man

Posted by humbleknight

Posted by warmbreeze526
Just wondering if any of you had any experiences with Scorpio men. I've had this secret crush on a Scorpio guy for a little while now. We would see each other in passing but neither of us said anything we just stole glances here and there. I'm out one day with a friend and I see him again and again I say nothing...but this time he speaks to me. I'm surprised but pleased so I speak to him and we say a few words and that's it. That was nearly 2 months ago. Every time he sees me he'll say hello and ask how I am which is nice but as soon as I respond and then try to start a legit conversation he shuts down and doesn't say anything. And its been this way each and every time. Have any of you ever experienced anything like this?

You say only a few words to him and yet you somehow know he is Scorpio? How is that?

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I am certain because we have quite a few mutual friends and I remember everyone wishing him a Happy Birthday on his day.

Posted by Gem87
I was dating with a Scorpio guy for a short time. Before we start dating, we were hanging out as friends for a couple of months.. As a friend, he was mostly observing/staring me than talking. He was a stalker not a talker lol 😄 I remember he was always asking things about me.. Being shy in general, I didn't give too much info about me.. This drove him crazy, he was always claiming how mysterious I am.. However, I didn't have feelings for him (actually I was not giving a sh*t about him) because I was dating a doctor at that time. Until one day, he gets informed from a common friend that I'm dating someone, he gets crazy, grabs my arm and said: Dump him right now! Come with me, I want you! *shock* After that time I've decided that he was my man..
Anyways, if a Scorpio likes you, he will mask his interest for you at first, observe you and pursue you further to see what it is that he does not know about you. He will check on you to see if you're the right one. If he confirms you are the right one then he'll initiate conversation etc etc.
If he shuts down and doesn't say anything it's maybe because he is shy or not interested. Give him more time to observe you, give him signals that you like him ( maybe he needs to feel sure that you like him before he makes the first step). Good luck xx

Thank you for your input! 🙂 I don't really know what to think as far as he's concerned. He will initiate a conversation then when I speak he shuts down and I've never experienced that before. I guess it's possible that he is shy or maybe not interested at all..but if that is indeed the case why bother saying anything at all? I guess only time will tell 🙂

I am a Scorpio woman who has dated a Gemini man. It was difficult and we only made it a month before I chased off the Gemini with my intensity.
Apparently it can be done, but it's a hard match.

In terms of interactions, I would do that if I knew someone was interested and I was keeping it brief to spare them. He may be shy or masking his intentions, but the Scorpio men I know are forward with people they are interested in.

Geminis and Scorpios are always attracted to each other. I can't count
the amount of Gemini-Scorpio couples that have existed between people I
know. Why? Because both are insatiably curious and neither can ever
quite figure the other out. There is intense sexual magnetism and they
are well suited as lovers.

Your chart is quite important in terms of the success of the relationship.
If you have Venus and Mars in Cancer you're likely to be able to give him
the devotion he needs. That's what Scorpios crave most. Scorpio rising
is also a plus in terms of being able to understand them. They have a
difficult time trusting Geminis because they are so flighty and flirty
by nature. Be prepared for intensity of emotion and extreme jealousy.
Scorpios will try to hide their jealousy and that scorpio
sting is more likely to be taken out on themselves rather than
anyone else. But be wary of it and never ever betray them.

In terms of snagging one, be confident. Scorpios usually give off an aloofness
which sometimes masks their insecurity. They like people who're not afraid of
being upfront about wanting them. They will be honest about whether or not they
want you. Spend some time with him first though as he'll probably want to spend
time observing you first to see if you're of interest to him

When you see that scorpio stare, stare back, meet their gaze. They love
strong and distinct people. Use your excellent Gemini flirting skills too.
They also love intelligent conversation and have a great interest unusual
topics and interesting facts. Talk to them about philosophy, religion,
physics, magic, art, social and political topics. etc. Or about something you
are well versed in. But be yourself, don't try to seem any way you're not
because a Scorpio will see right through that in an instant.

Make sure you know what you're getting yourself in for. Scorpios don't take love lightly.

humbleknight, same, it was a real confidence crusher. I just wrote it off as two people that were too different. Sex is fire, but that's about it. I can't handle having no sense of security with Gemini being hell mutable and indecisive.

Gem9, in my case, there was a thunder. It absolutely fell apart, he moved on quickly, and we don't speak. His new girl is an Aquarius, and I think that will suit him better. I forgive him and wish him well, but I'm not gonna stop and say hi if I ever run into him again (he graduated from my university last month).

indigogirl, can confirm. Our attraction to gems is mostly based on "WTF you're weird. Let's date." type thing. Or "WTF you act like you're not interested. This bothers my ego. I have to make you date me." type thing. Sex is great, but I disagree with being well-suited as lovers unless there's not heavy water influence in the rest of the Scorpio's chart. In my case, with my last Gem ex, his Venus was in Taurus and mine is in Scorpio so we didn't work at all but we were still very attracted to each other. Weird. Anyways. I don't trust gems for doodoo because of their mutability. Sure, I'll chill with you and sleep with you but I'm not about to be spilling my deepest and darkest secrets anytime soon. DO. NOT. BETRAY. Ohhhhh Lordy. Scorpios have a taste for revenge, and revenge is a dish best served cold. My friends refer to me as the queen of shade, not to be crossed. Do not screw over the Scorpio unless you like the idea of hell. I will fake like I don't care to see how hard you'll try or how obvious you'll make it that you're interested. If a man tells me right off he likes me, the security aspect of already knowing he's interested will make me want to be with him more. Yes, spend time with him first before confessing your feelings.